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Gabapentin Gel. or other topical creams
Thu May 10, 2018 9:43 am by Rosie21
Hi I have been suffering for some years with this abominable pain. I have tried most of the systemic drugs , I asked specialists and Doctors if I could at least try a topical treatment but because this requires a special prescription have been refused Has anybody had a chance of trying these? Thank you I will try to put a link on to some of the research into Gabapentin Gel. Thanks.
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Putnams 'bony parts' cushion or Putnams 'Dr Huff' cushion - which is best?
Sat Aug 01, 2015 4:17 pm by Fielder
Hi everyone,
I'm a newbie. I live in the UK.
I'm trying to work out the best cushion to get for my vulvodynia. I suspect that I could have pudendal nerve involvement (the aching and burning pain is from vagina to clitoris) and I have rectocele and some tailbone pain too.
I have seen some good reports on older threads regarding the Putnams pressure relief cushions....with some ladies …
I'm a newbie. I live in the UK.
I'm trying to work out the best cushion to get for my vulvodynia. I suspect that I could have pudendal nerve involvement (the aching and burning pain is from vagina to clitoris) and I have rectocele and some tailbone pain too.
I have seen some good reports on older threads regarding the Putnams pressure relief cushions....with some ladies …
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An absolute success story- please read!
Fri Mar 08, 2019 10:57 pm by Persevere1990
Dear All,
I posted on here back in March 2017 having just got a diagnosis of vulvodynia after a few months of relentless and acute pain. I was desperate, I was hurting, I was scared I would never know life without pain there again.
I tried creams, acupuncture, numbing gels, frozen pads, baths with various internet recommended concoctions- convinced myself I had lichen sclerosus, herpes, thrush- …
I posted on here back in March 2017 having just got a diagnosis of vulvodynia after a few months of relentless and acute pain. I was desperate, I was hurting, I was scared I would never know life without pain there again.
I tried creams, acupuncture, numbing gels, frozen pads, baths with various internet recommended concoctions- convinced myself I had lichen sclerosus, herpes, thrush- …
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I'm sorry im rambling
Thu Feb 21, 2019 5:49 am by Jet227
hey, im 19, ive been struggling with this almost a year. The first week I became itchy I went in to check about a yeast infection another week later. I have been to 10 different doctors a total of about 15 appointments for this problem for the past 11 months. I have been tested for everything including having a biopsy. I was first told basically to just go home and use hydrocortazone, then I went …
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New member need advice please
Thu Feb 28, 2019 11:33 pm by PANDORA123
Hello, I have just been diagnosed with unprovoked vulvodynia. Im really scared and worried. It burns a lot and it hurts to sit down. I have been prescribed amitriptyle 10mg. Can anyone give me some hope that I can get better from this condition. Feeling low and depressed.
Thanks
Thanks
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MonaLisa Touch
Fri Feb 08, 2019 7:35 pm by rl2091
Hi All,
I'm wondering if anyone has any experience with the MonaLisa Touch treatment for Vulvodynia? My pain started when I went on HRT(pill) for anxiety mainly and my pain abruntly stopped when I stopped HRT. However, when I started on the HRT patch (at my dr's suggestion), the pain returned and has never left. That was 7 years ago. I found MonaLisa Touch on the internet purely by accident …
I'm wondering if anyone has any experience with the MonaLisa Touch treatment for Vulvodynia? My pain started when I went on HRT(pill) for anxiety mainly and my pain abruntly stopped when I stopped HRT. However, when I started on the HRT patch (at my dr's suggestion), the pain returned and has never left. That was 7 years ago. I found MonaLisa Touch on the internet purely by accident …
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Diagnosed Recently
Tue Jan 08, 2019 3:55 pm by flissyg
Hi All,
I’m so glad I’ve found a place where there are others who understand how I feel!
So this is my story:-
I’m 36, and 4 months ago, whilst innocently sitting in bed reading I experienced a very sharp stabbing pain in my clitoris. It last only a few minutes and then subsided as quickly as it came on. It put it down to “one of those things”. The following morning I woke up …
I’m so glad I’ve found a place where there are others who understand how I feel!
So this is my story:-
I’m 36, and 4 months ago, whilst innocently sitting in bed reading I experienced a very sharp stabbing pain in my clitoris. It last only a few minutes and then subsided as quickly as it came on. It put it down to “one of those things”. The following morning I woke up …
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New and need advice and help
Wed Dec 05, 2018 3:26 pm by Cin124
Hi everyone,
About three months ago, I started having vaginal and vulval itching. Then, about two months ago, my vulva started to feel painful and look swollen, so I went to the doctor. I was tested for herpes, chlamydia, and gonorrhea which all came back negative. I also had to do a vaginal swab test and the only thing that came back positive was yeast infection. I was prescribed hydrozole …
About three months ago, I started having vaginal and vulval itching. Then, about two months ago, my vulva started to feel painful and look swollen, so I went to the doctor. I was tested for herpes, chlamydia, and gonorrhea which all came back negative. I also had to do a vaginal swab test and the only thing that came back positive was yeast infection. I was prescribed hydrozole …
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New here would very much appreciate advice at the end of my rope
Wed Jan 09, 2019 9:09 pm by Jma990o
This might be a little long but it's been such a long time I've even been able to talk about my problems openly thank you in advance for any helpful advice.
So ok I'm 24 I've been having this problem for over two years seen quite a few doctors and obgyns alike and nobody will take me seriously I have had a few utis and yeast infections and even bv once and this all started after one of the utis …
So ok I'm 24 I've been having this problem for over two years seen quite a few doctors and obgyns alike and nobody will take me seriously I have had a few utis and yeast infections and even bv once and this all started after one of the utis …
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Happy in my Skin, NZ - hello from New Zealand
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Joolibee
ria
jules
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Sassymel
Mouse
Mary
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Happy in my Skin, NZ - hello from New Zealand
Or should I say, "hello from Downunder"...which takes on a new meaning when making a post on a Vulvodynia Support site! I really like the image you have used for the Forum. I can identify strongly with it and often have to wear long straight skirts with no knickers still...I call these "Knickerless-Days"
I was diagnosed in 2005 after 25 years of undiagnosed vulval pain problems. I looked on the internet back then but did not find anything like what you are doing here and oh! how lonely I felt and needed to know that others were feeling what I was going through.
How I became Vulvodynia-aware is a story; but we all have stories... I can see that by the posts by other women who are on this Forum. I will be visiting this often to learn. I feel that having information is the best way to come to terms with the limitations and new possibilities that this condition has placed on my life.
Anyway, I wrote my story which was published last year and have started a blog to spread the word about this under-recognised condition experienced by women in New Zealand:
http://happyinmyskinnz.blogspot.com/2010/09/next-magazine-article-here.html
So my next post on that blog will be to "Sign Post" about you, tell about where you are and what you are doing here.
Wonderful, thank you.
Mary
www.happyinmyskinnz.blogspot.com
I was diagnosed in 2005 after 25 years of undiagnosed vulval pain problems. I looked on the internet back then but did not find anything like what you are doing here and oh! how lonely I felt and needed to know that others were feeling what I was going through.
How I became Vulvodynia-aware is a story; but we all have stories... I can see that by the posts by other women who are on this Forum. I will be visiting this often to learn. I feel that having information is the best way to come to terms with the limitations and new possibilities that this condition has placed on my life.
Anyway, I wrote my story which was published last year and have started a blog to spread the word about this under-recognised condition experienced by women in New Zealand:
http://happyinmyskinnz.blogspot.com/2010/09/next-magazine-article-here.html
So my next post on that blog will be to "Sign Post" about you, tell about where you are and what you are doing here.
Wonderful, thank you.
Mary
www.happyinmyskinnz.blogspot.com
Last edited by Mary on Fri Jul 01, 2011 9:53 pm; edited 1 time in total (Reason for editing : Always edit my writing...reads more clearly now!)
Re: Happy in my Skin, NZ - hello from New Zealand
Hi Mary,
I'm in NZ also. I found this forum last year and I'm part of the furniture here now. We're also on FB, it's a private group so a great place to chat. We have a truly amazing group of women from all over the world. I love them so much and they have helped me through some horrible times.
I saw you on 20/20. It was a great story, thank you for doing that. The link was posted on our FB group. Getting that horrid V name out there is the only way we will get some understanding. Hopefully more publicity will stop other women being treated like circus acts by Drs and so called specialists.
I have generalised unprovoked vulvodynia so constant pain all day every day. It seems V. takes no prisoners as some women on here have a combination of both.
Keep doing what you are doing. It does my heart good!
Take care
Vicki
I'm in NZ also. I found this forum last year and I'm part of the furniture here now. We're also on FB, it's a private group so a great place to chat. We have a truly amazing group of women from all over the world. I love them so much and they have helped me through some horrible times.
I saw you on 20/20. It was a great story, thank you for doing that. The link was posted on our FB group. Getting that horrid V name out there is the only way we will get some understanding. Hopefully more publicity will stop other women being treated like circus acts by Drs and so called specialists.
I have generalised unprovoked vulvodynia so constant pain all day every day. It seems V. takes no prisoners as some women on here have a combination of both.
Keep doing what you are doing. It does my heart good!
Take care
Vicki
Mouse- Posts : 303
Join date : 2010-09-09
Location : New Zealand
Re: Happy in my Skin, NZ - hello from New Zealand
Hi Mary,
I'm a fellow kiwi too. Great to hear about your blog, I've bookmarked it to my favourites! I also saw you on 20/20 and thought it was great to see some proper information about V in the NZ media. As Mouse mentioned we put this on our facebook group to share and it sounds like woman from all over the world were pleased to see it and planned to forward it on - great how the internet creates such opportunities for sharing information across borders!
This forum is excellent. I'm only new to it having joined a matter of months ago but already I feel it's made a difference to feel that I'm part of a community and not alone in my plight! My V is not generalised but specific to an area and I feel blessed that I don't suffer as badly as some of the women on here. However that doesn't stop me feeling pretty blue about it at times... having this group reminds me that I don't have to go through it alone and it's so good for sharing information and ideas - what has worked for people and what hasn't etc. Of course we're all individual, part of the problem with V and it's 'cures', but it's great to feel like there are always new avenues to try!
Great to have you on here!
I'm a fellow kiwi too. Great to hear about your blog, I've bookmarked it to my favourites! I also saw you on 20/20 and thought it was great to see some proper information about V in the NZ media. As Mouse mentioned we put this on our facebook group to share and it sounds like woman from all over the world were pleased to see it and planned to forward it on - great how the internet creates such opportunities for sharing information across borders!
This forum is excellent. I'm only new to it having joined a matter of months ago but already I feel it's made a difference to feel that I'm part of a community and not alone in my plight! My V is not generalised but specific to an area and I feel blessed that I don't suffer as badly as some of the women on here. However that doesn't stop me feeling pretty blue about it at times... having this group reminds me that I don't have to go through it alone and it's so good for sharing information and ideas - what has worked for people and what hasn't etc. Of course we're all individual, part of the problem with V and it's 'cures', but it's great to feel like there are always new avenues to try!
Great to have you on here!
Sassymel- Posts : 8
Join date : 2011-05-07
Age : 38
Location : New Zealand
Re: Happy in my Skin, NZ - hello from New Zealand
Hi Mary and welcome to the forum
Love your blog and could relate to so much of what you said in it! Especially the part about intercourse making you feel like you were being attacked! I thought for so long it was due to anxiety and that pyscologically there was something deeply wrong with me. It was only till I developed constant unprovoked pain and researched it that I found out about Vulvodynia.
After a consultation with Dr Glazer and one at a Vulval clinic I found out that I had had VVS (vulvar vestibulitis syndrome) all my life that eventually had turned into unprovoked constant pain. It was a relief to find out that it was not just due to anxiety around sex. Well of course I had anxiety around sex, it had always hurt!!! I couldnt even use tampons and gynae exams were so tramatic I took valium to get through my first smear test.
I do hope that eventually Vulvodynia etc does start to get the attention and focus it deserves both from the media and medical community.
I thank you also for your link in your blog to the forum if you are interested in our secret facebook group then please inbox me
Take Care
Re: Happy in my Skin, NZ - hello from New Zealand
Hi Mary, thanks for joining us. I'm not from NZ. I'm from the U.S. Thanks for getting the word out there so other women do not suffer alone. I visited your blog. It's very impressive. I made a goal that i am going to get the word out there. I'm not sure what ave. I will take to do that....but, i will be reaching out to women and educating the community. Hope you continue to join us.
jules- Posts : 225
Join date : 2010-03-17
Re: Happy in my skin,NZ-hello from new zealand
Hi a very warm welcome from Ria I live in the UK. Well done for spreading the word. A book would be good where we all write a chapter on our V journey. Every Lady on this forum has a different journey, yet we all experience it the same way. I try to use a holistic approach it works for me, we all do different things to keep the pain under control.
Wecome aboard
ria- Posts : 99
Join date : 2010-07-21
Happy in my Skin, NZ - hello from New Zealand
Hi Mary,
Good to hear from you. I like the 'down under' analogy Had a look at your blog and I'm very impressed. I'm from UK but temporarily living in France, having taken a year off work. Previously I was too busy to find out much about this condition and now can't believe the pain I put up with while doing a very stressful job. I suffered in isolation for a long time before I found these wonderful ladies here. Anyway, well done for your work in spreading the word about vulval pain.
Good to hear from you. I like the 'down under' analogy Had a look at your blog and I'm very impressed. I'm from UK but temporarily living in France, having taken a year off work. Previously I was too busy to find out much about this condition and now can't believe the pain I put up with while doing a very stressful job. I suffered in isolation for a long time before I found these wonderful ladies here. Anyway, well done for your work in spreading the word about vulval pain.
Joolibee- Posts : 36
Join date : 2011-03-09
Location : France / UK
another kiwi
Hi all.
I too, am a New Zealander. I am 20 years old and was diagnosed at the end of last year. I have had the symptoms for as long as I remember and just thought I must just be strange and not like sexual contact, or was asexual.
I was a victim of childhood sexual abuse, and believe that a percentage of my symptoms relate back to that. I am currently undergoing cognitive behavioural therapy, and am about to start physio (Im really excited, but also very nervous).
I would just like to say a massive thank you to Mary for the 20/20 special. I was terrified of the idea of physio and refused to let my specialist refer me, but after seeing you piece and seeing how strong and brave you were I decided it was time to give it a go.
I feel so much for everyone who has to deal with this, and so many of you have been through so much. I consider myself rather lucky, my GP had heard of the illness and had diagnosed someone before me, so when I finally got the courage to speak out about my symptoms, I was diagnosed pretty quickly. However, I was pretty confused as to what it was, as my GP had not dealt with the other ladys vuvlodynia, simply transfering her on, and was terrified when she said treatment could include surgery. So I went to the sexual health clinic in Hamilton and was presented with a ton of infomation and alot of support and guidance. I also have a fantastic boyfriend who has stood by me and held my hand through all the rough patches (and will hold it through alot more) and who encouraged me to talk about it to my doctor about it in the first place. It devastates me to know that so many people remain undiagnosed due to doctors simply not knowing about the illness.
anyways. I am happy I have stumbled across this wonderful site, and I wish everyone the best with the treatment and management of vuvlodynia.
I too, am a New Zealander. I am 20 years old and was diagnosed at the end of last year. I have had the symptoms for as long as I remember and just thought I must just be strange and not like sexual contact, or was asexual.
I was a victim of childhood sexual abuse, and believe that a percentage of my symptoms relate back to that. I am currently undergoing cognitive behavioural therapy, and am about to start physio (Im really excited, but also very nervous).
I would just like to say a massive thank you to Mary for the 20/20 special. I was terrified of the idea of physio and refused to let my specialist refer me, but after seeing you piece and seeing how strong and brave you were I decided it was time to give it a go.
I feel so much for everyone who has to deal with this, and so many of you have been through so much. I consider myself rather lucky, my GP had heard of the illness and had diagnosed someone before me, so when I finally got the courage to speak out about my symptoms, I was diagnosed pretty quickly. However, I was pretty confused as to what it was, as my GP had not dealt with the other ladys vuvlodynia, simply transfering her on, and was terrified when she said treatment could include surgery. So I went to the sexual health clinic in Hamilton and was presented with a ton of infomation and alot of support and guidance. I also have a fantastic boyfriend who has stood by me and held my hand through all the rough patches (and will hold it through alot more) and who encouraged me to talk about it to my doctor about it in the first place. It devastates me to know that so many people remain undiagnosed due to doctors simply not knowing about the illness.
anyways. I am happy I have stumbled across this wonderful site, and I wish everyone the best with the treatment and management of vuvlodynia.
cassyc5- Posts : 5
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Re: Happy in my skin,NZ-hello from new zealand
Welcome to the club Casey I live in UK. Its fantastic how we can all talk and help each other.
Take care xx
Ria
Take care xx
Ria
ria- Posts : 99
Join date : 2010-07-21
Re: Happy in my Skin, NZ - hello from New Zealand
Welcome Casey
What a great GP you have, I found that I had to ask Dr Google what was wrong with me lol I then had to inist on being refered to a Gynea.
So glad you are being given the support and info you need and that your boyfriend is so supportive
Its a difficult condition to live with and support makes all the difference
Wishing you luck with your treatment
Also a Kiwi girl
Hi all
22 yrs old from NZ too
I was diagnosed April 2010 after 5 months of symptoms and no answers. Since then I am lucky enough to have found a great sexual health dr and she has helped me come up with ways of managing the pain.
I still take it one day at a time and sometimes it is still overwhelming, luckily I have a very understanding partner
who has supported me throughout the whole thing from before being diagnosed.
I have only just stumbled across this blog and felt like I should try sharing too, it's easy to feel isolated with this condition
Is there a section on here where people post who have overcome there pain? Or so you guys know of any people who have become pain free?
It would be inspiring to read some 'success' stories if you know what I mean, but I guess people don't really post when all is going good so much...
22 yrs old from NZ too
I was diagnosed April 2010 after 5 months of symptoms and no answers. Since then I am lucky enough to have found a great sexual health dr and she has helped me come up with ways of managing the pain.
I still take it one day at a time and sometimes it is still overwhelming, luckily I have a very understanding partner
who has supported me throughout the whole thing from before being diagnosed.
I have only just stumbled across this blog and felt like I should try sharing too, it's easy to feel isolated with this condition
Is there a section on here where people post who have overcome there pain? Or so you guys know of any people who have become pain free?
It would be inspiring to read some 'success' stories if you know what I mean, but I guess people don't really post when all is going good so much...
red- Posts : 4
Join date : 2011-08-20
Re: Happy in my Skin, NZ - hello from New Zealand
good idea!
we all ned some positive vibes!!
im not sure on how to add a new section, will ask Sebby!
we all ned some positive vibes!!
im not sure on how to add a new section, will ask Sebby!
naomi- Moderator
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Location : Cheltenham
Re: Happy in my Skin, NZ - hello from New Zealand
Check the "How are we all doing? discussion.
Kia ora Red!
Kia ora Red!
Mouse- Posts : 303
Join date : 2010-09-09
Location : New Zealand
Re: Happy in my skin,NZ-hello from new zealand
Hi, yes it is good to get positive feedback. My problem is I sometimes feel I am doing ok then whoosh discomfort is nagging at me again. My V is unprovocked so I have constant background pain. For me Yoga helps and exercise, also meditation and Reiki /prayers. When I feel good I can do all the holistic therapies on myself, but crash bang outta the blue I am curled up like a cat feeling sorry for myself, racking my brain where the hell did it come from, and when the hell is it going to go away. Oh and yes I have seen all the professionals and no one really knows what it is causing it, so they try to numb the nerves with Gabapentin which sometimes works then other days doesnt.
I feel like a detective always piecing the information treatment together to find the cause of it all.
Read all the info and you have to do what you can to stay on top od the discomfort.
Take care Honey xxx Ria
I feel like a detective always piecing the information treatment together to find the cause of it all.
Read all the info and you have to do what you can to stay on top od the discomfort.
Take care Honey xxx Ria
ria- Posts : 99
Join date : 2010-07-21
Re: Happy in my Skin, NZ - hello from New Zealand
Thanks Ria and everyone
my V is unprovoked aswell and I totally know what you mean about the constant background pain that you never know if its going to get better or worse,
I find that the pain is less when my mind isn't focussed on it, if im at my part time job or out. I have just begun seeing a Psychologist who is going to help me with the anxiety surrounding the pain,
I really do think the pain is amplified by me constantly checking in on what my pain is doing, maybe making me even more sensitive to smaller irritations then I should be.
Part of what she has me doing is about trying to focus on being in the moment through breathing and focussing purely on the sensation of the breathe in and out, and as the thoughts intrude just acknowledge them and let them fade or move them aside. actually so hard!!
I also take 20mg nortriptyline, use lidocaine gel and use dialators when i can manage it.
I wonder if it is worth trying the calcium citrate tablets (has this worked for ppl?) its so easy to feel like your in limbo with this condition when you aren't trying something new...
All the best
my V is unprovoked aswell and I totally know what you mean about the constant background pain that you never know if its going to get better or worse,
I find that the pain is less when my mind isn't focussed on it, if im at my part time job or out. I have just begun seeing a Psychologist who is going to help me with the anxiety surrounding the pain,
I really do think the pain is amplified by me constantly checking in on what my pain is doing, maybe making me even more sensitive to smaller irritations then I should be.
Part of what she has me doing is about trying to focus on being in the moment through breathing and focussing purely on the sensation of the breathe in and out, and as the thoughts intrude just acknowledge them and let them fade or move them aside. actually so hard!!
I also take 20mg nortriptyline, use lidocaine gel and use dialators when i can manage it.
I wonder if it is worth trying the calcium citrate tablets (has this worked for ppl?) its so easy to feel like your in limbo with this condition when you aren't trying something new...
All the best
red- Posts : 4
Join date : 2011-08-20
fellow nzer!
Hi everyone, im also a New Zealander from chch, wondering if theres any other sort of fb groups or anything still happening as a feel a bit lost and confused as to where to go next! im only 20 and still finding it hard to get my head around
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