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Constant pain, I want to die.

Fri Jun 02, 2017 4:29 am by Meggiemay

I posted on here a few years ago but my symptoms went away with the inflammation. I didn't get so lucky this time.

For over three months, i've had terrible rawness, burning, soreness in the urethral/vestibule area and pressure/hypersensitivity in the clitoral area. I've also had some lower abdominal pressure and burning on my butt. I can barely walk! My gyno hasn't been much help. I'm on …

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Clitoris Issues

Tue Apr 28, 2015 8:17 pm by January

I am going crazyyy trying to figure out what's wrong. Please does anyone else have an issue similar to mine? I'm only 22. So, basically when my clit is lightly rubbed, there is no feeling. However, when rubbed vigorously and directly, the burning and tingling sensations shoot down my legs and feet as if coming to the end of an orgasm but with no good feeling leading up. It's so strange. What …

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New member

Sat Mar 18, 2017 7:37 pm by Lisa1627

Hi ladies. I am new to the forum. I have had what I think is vulvodynia caused from hsv 2. So not only do I have the burning vag but the constant feeling of being contagious. I can honestly say that I hate my life and myself right now. There are days when I think I would rather be dead. I tried the amitryptline and it helped but if it's only making my brain think I don't have pain then it's …

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Post Full Vestibulectomy - 5 Years Later - Please Read

Tue May 02, 2017 6:18 pm by jen007

Hi All,

It's been awhile since I've written a new topic on the forum. Wondering if any of the same ladies are still here. I've come back to update you all on my post vestibulectomy results. I can't remember if I've done an update on my current state, so forgive me if this is repeated information... I can't remember how to view my old posts! Anyway, let me get on with my update.

For 4 years post …

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Recovered from Vulvodynia

Thu May 04, 2017 9:42 pm by chancesunny

Hey everyone,

Im a new member on this forum and wanted to share my story so I can help anyone who is feeling helpless. Maybe what worked for me can work for you. I'll try to make this short so you can go get better!

I had vulvodynia for about 3-4 years. In the beginning, it started with pain that I thought was just a yeast infection and then I thought it was a urinary tract infection or …

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New here, my story and looking for advice

Wed Apr 26, 2017 9:02 am by rachiecakes

Hi All!

I was really hoping to get some feedback from everyone here - it's very hard dealing with an issue like this because no one really understands what I'm going through!

Im 28 years old I've had interstitial cystitis for 3 years - but never an vaginal issues. About 6 months ago I got a yeast infection following a course of antibiotics - similarly I developed IC after a bad UTI. The itching …

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New w/ Secondary Provoked Vestibuldynia

Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:46 pm by Birdy

Hi everyone,

I'm here because I'm pretty sure I have secondary provoked vestibuldynia, even though my gyno is still "optimistic" it is not.  My problem started six months ago when I got my second UTI in as many months (after going 25 years of life without one) and then ended up with a bad yeast infection (also my first one ever) thanks to the antibiotics.  Ever since the yeast …

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Male visitor

Wed Jan 18, 2017 11:19 pm by outsider

Hello!

I am a 25 year old guy who has erectile dysfunction following an injury a few years ago. I am here because I think that men and women with sexual dysfunction could benefit from dating each other. My experience has been that women have lost interest when they found out that penetrative sex was not possible with me.
So I am interested in learning more about female sexual disorders. Do young …

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New Here: Question/My Story

Mon Apr 03, 2017 2:00 am by overit14

Hi everyone. I came across this site by Googling "vulvar pain support". I feel like my case is different than most I read about so I was wondering if anyone else here experiences this in the way that I do.

This started in 2012 and has happened off and on since. I get really, really red and it's very painful, swollen and burns. Sometimes it may be a little itchy, but mostly it just …

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Post  riag on Sat Jan 12, 2013 11:44 pm

I am new to this board but i have been on it constantly since ive found it. There is so much information here to digest. I used to go the the vulvodynia website on the ic support website because i didnt know any other boards existed for this condition.

I am just so depressed and so tired of juggling all my illnesses. It seems everytime im feeling better for a while, i get knocked back down. im so tired of going from dr to dr looking for answers and help. I am definitely making an appt with dr goldstein as recommended by some other members on this site. this just adds to my depression as we are experiencing financial difficulties and he doesnt take insurance.

Back in oct, i became suicidal. the only thing that got me thru the night was going to a suicide prevention website. I know my children need me. especially my daughter she suffers from mental illness and i alwys need to be here for her. It just gets so hard. My marraige is on the rocks. I am so lonely its unbearable. then to have all this pain , i just sometimes dont want to go on living anymore.

Tomorrow i am calling a psychologist to make an appt i Know i need help. I just know its going to be the run around again. trying to find a good match. Hopefully the first one i see will. any way, thanks for listening. i just needed and outlet right now because i have no one talk to right now.

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Re: so depressed and need to vent

Post  carby148 on Mon Feb 25, 2013 6:28 am

I'm sorry you are struggling, and I'm sorry nobody has replied until now. You posted a while ago -- did you ever make an appointment with a psychologist? How are you feeling now?
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Re: so depressed and need to vent

Post  BpCookie on Mon Feb 25, 2013 10:37 pm

You poor hun. I hope your still on this board and you haven't given up on us. I havent been a member for very long and I didn't see this post until Carby replied to it. I understand how you feel about not wanting to go on living anymore. I have felt like that on many occasion. But Im so glad that Im still here. I have hope that there is a Dr. out there, some where, who can help me.

Hang in there honey and keep trying to find that one thing that will help you. Don't give up. hugs
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Re: so depressed and need to vent

Post  riag on Tue Feb 26, 2013 9:12 pm

thanks to both of you. iwas having a really bad day and really needed to vent. i have ibs, fibro, pelvic floor spasms, and vulvodynia. i found a therapist and have been seeing her for almost a month now. not sure if its helping, but im defiinitely not reaching for a bottle of pills and alcohol anymore. its still really hard. i appreciate the concern. sometimes i feel so alone with all my ailments. i hate juggling all my illnesses and having vulvodynia is the worst. not being able to function as a woman is so difficullt. i had made an appt with dr goldstein but had to cancel. i just cant afford it. so i went to see my old urologist whjo originally diagnosed me and he gave me some new creams, topicals and upped my nortriptlyine dose. just waiting for some results now. I havent been on the board since my original vent. i have just been too depressed. thanks for your support!

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Re: so depressed and need to vent

Post  Alana3 on Tue Feb 26, 2013 9:38 pm

where are you located?

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Re: so depressed and need to vent

Post  riag on Tue Mar 05, 2013 1:37 am

sorry it took so long to reply I had difficulty getting back on the website. The link was not working. Any way , I live in Long Island NY

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Re: so depressed and need to vent

Post  Alana3 on Mon Mar 11, 2013 11:47 am

Hope you're feeling better! I live in Florida was gonna offer My doc but I guess you're too far Sad

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