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» New w/ Secondary Provoked Vestibuldynia
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» Newly diagnosed
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» Recent "Poke" Pain - So Confused/Losing My Mind
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» What is Vulvodynia?
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» CURED FROM VULVODYNIA - PAIN FREE FOR 2 YEARS
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New w/ Secondary Provoked Vestibuldynia

Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:46 pm by Birdy

Hi everyone,

I'm here because I'm pretty sure I have secondary provoked vestibuldynia, even though my gyno is still "optimistic" it is not.  My problem started six months ago when I got my second UTI in as many months (after going 25 years of life without one) and then ended up with a bad yeast infection (also my first one ever) thanks to the antibiotics.  Ever since the yeast …

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Newly diagnosed

Tue Oct 10, 2017 8:37 pm by Brevispink

Hello everyone. I have recently been diagnosed with unprovoked vulvodynia and would really appreciate some advice and support. I have had a chronic urine infection for 16 months and was on antibiotics for 9 of those months. I have been very uncomfortable for the entire time, but now I have absolutely unbearable stinging and burning all day with itching too. The infection has just about gone, …

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Recent "Poke" Pain - So Confused/Losing My Mind

Thu Oct 12, 2017 9:26 am by kelseybeth23

Long Story, but I am losing my mind and getting really depressed, so if I tell the full story maybe someone can help me.

Back in August I started to get an itch down there. Normally, in the past, when this would happen, I would change the way I wore my clothes, take more baths instead of showers, and use Monistat. This time, after about two weeks of no relief, I started to get concerned. I was …

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Does anyone else experience this?

Sat Oct 14, 2017 5:21 pm by Angelmegs

Hi— im new here. Im incredibly desperate so if anyone has any suggestions i would greatly appreciate it. Im a 20 year old female with vulvodynia and vaginismus. I was on the birth control pill (junel fe lo estrin) from age 13-18 because of severe menstrual pain. I used the xulane patch for a few months when i was 18 but eventually stopped BC altogether because it interferes with my med for …

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Post Full Vestibulectomy - 5 Years Later - Please Read

Tue May 02, 2017 6:18 pm by jen007

Hi All,

It's been awhile since I've written a new topic on the forum. Wondering if any of the same ladies are still here. I've come back to update you all on my post vestibulectomy results. I can't remember if I've done an update on my current state, so forgive me if this is repeated information... I can't remember how to view my old posts! Anyway, let me get on with my update.

For 4 years post …

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Do you ever worry that you're making it up?

Fri May 27, 2016 6:50 am by Lucci

Hello,

I was diagnosed with Vaginismus and Vulvar Vestibulitis 10 years ago. I was 18 and scared and moving across the country for college, but luckily was able to find a doctor who specialized in 'Women's Health' who immediately put me into physical therapy. Long story short, I've been in and out of the system ever since.

A few years into treatment, I had the diagnosis of PTSD added on for …

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Clitoris Issues

Tue Apr 28, 2015 8:17 pm by January

I am going crazyyy trying to figure out what's wrong. Please does anyone else have an issue similar to mine? I'm only 22. So, basically when my clit is lightly rubbed, there is no feeling. However, when rubbed vigorously and directly, the burning and tingling sensations shoot down my legs and feet as if coming to the end of an orgasm but with no good feeling leading up. It's so strange. What …

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Cured of Vulvodynia

Wed Aug 17, 2016 1:39 am by angelique2016

I used to post on this forum a long time ago and told everyone of how I was cured of my vulvodynia by a (Melbourne Australia) female dermatologist, she put me on very low doses of Nortriptyline (Allergron) for pain management about 10mgs I believe it was, and she also had me use Advantan Fatty Ointment (not the cream) (although I saw the cream for sale on ebay from germany) so it might help, as …

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Vulvodynia and IVF? Anyone done this? What does it do to the vulvadynia?

Sun Jul 30, 2017 1:03 am by Carolyn4

Hi everyone,

I have had vulvodynia since age 27--I am now 43 and it has been in pretty good remission.  I control it with acupuncture and herbs, and some cranial sacral therapy.  I have a 5 year old, had a pretty uneventful pregnancy which ended in a c-section.  My VV worsened after that, and I have worked hard to get it back under control (it took over a year to get it back into pretty good …

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Trying to be intimate with my boyfriend!!

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Trying to be intimate with my boyfriend!!

Post  sassy26 on Fri Apr 05, 2013 8:32 pm

Hey ladies! sorry if this is inaproriate or tmi, I just dont know who else to talk to about this. Since I can't have vaginal sex anymore cause it's to painful, I want to try anal sex. I never tried this before but im desperate to be intimate with my boyfriend. I guess my question is; does any one have any tips or concerns about anal sex? Will this mess with my vulvodynia? Again sorry if this is tmi.....

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Post  lavrose on Fri Apr 05, 2013 8:51 pm

Yea, anal sex feels great, and can be just as satisfying as vaginal. Up until my late 20's, I was completely and utterly against it, thinking, its dirty, and causes cancer, and other health problems, and I could not understand how anyone could derive SEXUAL pleasure from that area, as there are no sexual organs around there, it will feel just like taking a dump!! How sexy is that??
anyway, my boyfriend(who does not have an overly large member) and I tried it, and the first time, it was kind of traumatic, but surprisingly not that painful(I didnt even bleed), and we did it a few more times after that, and I gradually started to really like it, and if you stimulate your clit during and orgasm, its the best ever!! The orgasms are stronger, and it can feel amazing, there are so many nerves around there, and its all connected, and actually it seems to stimulate your other sexual organs aswell, it still feels very sexual, and I was surprised, I never imagined that,, its like a whole new world.
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Post  lavrose on Fri Apr 05, 2013 8:58 pm

My current Husband rite now, is very well endowed, and actually doesnt like anal, at all (thank God, sort of), and I even miss it, (lol!) he prefers vaginal sex, and so ofcourse, its been really painful and difficult these days, since I have so many issues with my vag, and cant satisfy him, its really frustrating, but some guys LOVE ANAL, and prefer it, hopefully your man will be one of those guys..lol!
But yea, anal is wonderful, really,, its like a dark secret. Just dont do it too much, maybe once or twice a week, or once every few weeks, It can be painful, a ripping tearing pain, he has to ease it in, and you guys have to go slow at first, but after awhile, you can go crazy rough and it feels great Smile)
Another interesting thing about anal is, your body literally gets used to it, so the first few dozen times or so you do it, it takes about a day to recover, the next day, and you may have gas and Leakage, (sorry for the TMI but just being real), and may have to visit the bathroom several times all the next day,and the night of, but after awhile, you dont do that at all, your recovery time is hardly at all after a "session".
Also, be clean. Never under any circumstance, go anywhere near the vag after it has been in your butt, you can get a very bad infection. Be clean, take a shower after EVERYTIME.
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Post  lavrose on Fri Apr 05, 2013 9:07 pm

another tip:: Missionary anal feels the best, I dont know why this is, but it just feels so sexual and awesome, there are more nerves there or something..plus its hot looking into the eyes of your partner, etc, but you have to ease into it. Do dpggy first than missionary
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Re: Trying to be intimate with my boyfriend!!

Post  sassy26 on Sun Apr 07, 2013 2:09 am

Thanks Lavrose, I will definetly try out those tips. Laughing

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