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From a concerned husband

Thu Jul 12, 2018 10:45 pm by ConcernedYorkieHubby

Hello everyone,

This is probably a little unconventional, but I’m a man who is here because his wife has been diagnosed with vulvodynia. The poor girl has been suffering with vulva pain for around 10 years now, and I’ve been by her side through the pain and tears and doctors misunderstandings the whole way, and we’re both exhausted and terrified by the whole experience.

I’m sure a lot …

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I'M NEW - Do I listen to my gyno who I feel has it wrong?

Fri Mar 09, 2018 6:17 pm by Tunes25

Hello!

I am a 25 year old woman and wanted to share my story here as I feel frustrated by the suggestions of my gyno and am hoping for some advice.

To give the context for this: in September 2016 I moved in with my long term boyfriend after living abroad a year and (nearly) abstaining from sex. Within a few weeks I had got a yeast infection which I treated myself successfully, but then 2 weeks …

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Hi girls! New in this forum

Fri Jul 13, 2018 2:31 pm by Gaby

Hi everyone!

Also joining the V club, Here my story:

It all started last year in september with a very bad throat infection for which i had to take antibiotics for about a month. This cause several yeast infections (candidia albicans).... one after the other!. I had them every month from october 2017 till march 2018. During this period i use an incredible amount of anti-fungal creams and …

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Newbie and feeling helpless

Wed Jul 11, 2018 1:52 pm by Taylor1

Hi, I found out a few weeks ago that I have this condition, started off at the end of April as a uti took strong antibiotics then got a thrush infection and now this.. My doctor has tried me on amitriptyline and gabipentin and both made me so poorly I couldn't take it plus I have seen what long use of these drugs has done to my mom for pain and its not good. I am using coconut oil which does …

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I'm new to this forum and would love some advice! :)

Tue Jun 05, 2018 4:13 am by anikita

Hi lovely gals!

I'm honestly hoping to get any bit of advice anyone might have to offer. I go from bouts of sobbing hysterically in my boyfriend's arms to feeling confident that I can beat this.

I haven't been actually diagnosed with vulvodynia but EVERYTHING under the sun has come back negative. I started having sex 4 years ago after starting Lo Loestrin, with my first and current boyfriend …

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Gabapentin Gel. or other topical creams

Thu May 10, 2018 9:43 am by Rosie21

Hi I have been suffering for some years with this abominable pain. I have tried most of the systemic drugs , I asked specialists and Doctors if I could at least try a topical treatment but because this requires a special prescription have been refused Has anybody had a chance of trying these? Thank you I will try to put a link on to some of the research into Gabapentin Gel. Thanks.

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What has been helping ME (much less pain over time!!)

Wed May 16, 2018 3:43 am by leoscc

Hello everyone! I vanished for quite some time as my life became consumed by not only this but other daily responsibilities as well. Shortly after my diagnosis, my boyfriend f 3 years left me as he did not want to deal with this. It left me broken for a while but also gave me time to figure out what the heck was going on. So, I will write out a quick list of my symptoms and what helped me.

1. I …

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I cured myself 100% of vulvodynia twenty years ago--I hope this helps someone

Mon Mar 12, 2018 4:33 pm by totallycured

Hi,

Every so often I'm reminded of the constant, persistent, horrible pain I was in two decades ago, and I reach out to try to help others who are suffering. If someone had offered me a solution during that terrible time, I'd have jumped at it. I hope this helps someone.

Yes, I did have terrible vulvodynia. It felt like someone poured acid all over my vulva. My doctor confirmed it and was …

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Condoms Less Painful?

Mon May 07, 2018 3:35 am by stillinpain

I'm just curious, has anyone found using condoms to be less abrasive to the skin than without? I just got off birth control and haven't stretched myself out enough post surgery to try sex yet, but when I do I am wondering how trying it with condoms with affect the sensation. I feel like for me the skin to skin sensation creates pain, not just at my entrance but internally, too, since I also have …

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Trying to be intimate with my boyfriend!!

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Trying to be intimate with my boyfriend!!

Post  sassy26 on Fri Apr 05, 2013 8:32 pm

Hey ladies! sorry if this is inaproriate or tmi, I just dont know who else to talk to about this. Since I can't have vaginal sex anymore cause it's to painful, I want to try anal sex. I never tried this before but im desperate to be intimate with my boyfriend. I guess my question is; does any one have any tips or concerns about anal sex? Will this mess with my vulvodynia? Again sorry if this is tmi.....

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Post  lavrose on Fri Apr 05, 2013 8:51 pm

Yea, anal sex feels great, and can be just as satisfying as vaginal. Up until my late 20's, I was completely and utterly against it, thinking, its dirty, and causes cancer, and other health problems, and I could not understand how anyone could derive SEXUAL pleasure from that area, as there are no sexual organs around there, it will feel just like taking a dump!! How sexy is that??
anyway, my boyfriend(who does not have an overly large member) and I tried it, and the first time, it was kind of traumatic, but surprisingly not that painful(I didnt even bleed), and we did it a few more times after that, and I gradually started to really like it, and if you stimulate your clit during and orgasm, its the best ever!! The orgasms are stronger, and it can feel amazing, there are so many nerves around there, and its all connected, and actually it seems to stimulate your other sexual organs aswell, it still feels very sexual, and I was surprised, I never imagined that,, its like a whole new world.
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Post  lavrose on Fri Apr 05, 2013 8:58 pm

My current Husband rite now, is very well endowed, and actually doesnt like anal, at all (thank God, sort of), and I even miss it, (lol!) he prefers vaginal sex, and so ofcourse, its been really painful and difficult these days, since I have so many issues with my vag, and cant satisfy him, its really frustrating, but some guys LOVE ANAL, and prefer it, hopefully your man will be one of those guys..lol!
But yea, anal is wonderful, really,, its like a dark secret. Just dont do it too much, maybe once or twice a week, or once every few weeks, It can be painful, a ripping tearing pain, he has to ease it in, and you guys have to go slow at first, but after awhile, you can go crazy rough and it feels great Smile)
Another interesting thing about anal is, your body literally gets used to it, so the first few dozen times or so you do it, it takes about a day to recover, the next day, and you may have gas and Leakage, (sorry for the TMI but just being real), and may have to visit the bathroom several times all the next day,and the night of, but after awhile, you dont do that at all, your recovery time is hardly at all after a "session".
Also, be clean. Never under any circumstance, go anywhere near the vag after it has been in your butt, you can get a very bad infection. Be clean, take a shower after EVERYTIME.
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Post  lavrose on Fri Apr 05, 2013 9:07 pm

another tip:: Missionary anal feels the best, I dont know why this is, but it just feels so sexual and awesome, there are more nerves there or something..plus its hot looking into the eyes of your partner, etc, but you have to ease into it. Do dpggy first than missionary
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Post  sassy26 on Sun Apr 07, 2013 2:09 am

Thanks Lavrose, I will definetly try out those tips. Laughing

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