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» Partial Vestibulectomy
Sun Aug 13, 2017 1:38 am by infinitelywondering

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» Post Vestibulectomy Pain !!!
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Post Vestibulectomy

Thu Aug 03, 2017 6:15 pm by infinitelywondering

Heya,

I had my vestibulectomy (full) about a day and a half ago. I was very sick and poorly just after the op and experienced intense pain down there Sad

However, today I came home and have done the following things:

-washed with warm water
-applied manuka honey to the area
-ensured I wash at least 3 times a day and dab the area dry gently
-use frozen peas to stop the swelling

As of now I am …

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Partial Vestibulectomy

Mon Jul 31, 2017 6:44 pm by JGD13

Hi all i am new here.
I had a partial vestibulectomy 21/7 for my provoked vulvodynia.
After a painful few days and feeling quite uncomfortable it seemed to get better. 1 week after i noticed some white stuff and gloopy discharge, it wasnt smelly or itchy but i got a check up at the gp surgery and the doctor said the stitches looked fine and i could just have a touch of thrush. He said this is …

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New w/ Secondary Provoked Vestibuldynia

Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:46 pm by Birdy

Hi everyone,

I'm here because I'm pretty sure I have secondary provoked vestibuldynia, even though my gyno is still "optimistic" it is not.  My problem started six months ago when I got my second UTI in as many months (after going 25 years of life without one) and then ended up with a bad yeast infection (also my first one ever) thanks to the antibiotics.  Ever since the yeast …

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Anyone from the PNW?

Sat Aug 05, 2017 7:54 am by jungleclover

I'm located near Portland and I would be really cool to actually meet someone with this issue. I think my roommate in college technically had this problem. She had an overgrown hymen removed and can't deal with penetration as a result. But she is gay so it seems like it hasn't been a huge problem for her (although we didn't talk about it much so there was possibly more to it than she let on). …

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Constant pain, I want to die.

Fri Jun 02, 2017 4:29 am by Meggiemay

I posted on here a few years ago but my symptoms went away with the inflammation. I didn't get so lucky this time.

For over three months, i've had terrible rawness, burning, soreness in the urethral/vestibule area and pressure/hypersensitivity in the clitoral area. I've also had some lower abdominal pressure and burning on my butt. I can barely walk! My gyno hasn't been much help. I'm on …

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Newbie to the site

Sun Jul 30, 2017 12:16 am by Ksa

Hello. Thank you for this wonderful site. I'm currently under the care of a dr in Phoenix that specializes in vaginal disorders. I will probably be on a suppository of estridol the rest of my life and I am currently on medications for a rare form of vaginitis that's pretty unheard of for my age. My vagina literally hates me. I've struggled with vulvadynia for 20 years, the duration of my …

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New to the site and just had a vestibulectomy

Fri Aug 04, 2017 12:19 am by Hopeitworks

Hello Everyone,

I have been suffering from vulvodynia for years! So I decided to go ahead and have vestibulectomy on July 28, 2017. I really wished I would of found this site before I went through with the surgery. Maybe I would have been more prepared to deal with recovering. I just need someone to talk and I dont mind hearing your story.

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can anyone recommend a good dermatologist in LA?

Thu Jul 27, 2017 4:17 pm by saffron

Hi, I am wondering if anyone knows a vulvar dermatologist in Los Angeles? My problems seem to be external, but I'm having trouble finding a knowledgable doctor. My current dermatologist is pretty cosmetic based and I'm afraid all the products he prescribed actually made my situation so much worse!

I know there a few drs in Orange County/San Diego, but was hoping to stay local as even …

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Vulvodynia and IVF? Anyone done this? What does it do to the vulvadynia?

Sun Jul 30, 2017 1:03 am by Carolyn4

Hi everyone,

I have had vulvodynia since age 27--I am now 43 and it has been in pretty good remission.  I control it with acupuncture and herbs, and some cranial sacral therapy.  I have a 5 year old, had a pretty uneventful pregnancy which ended in a c-section.  My VV worsened after that, and I have worked hard to get it back under control (it took over a year to get it back into pretty good …

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Trying to be intimate with my boyfriend!!

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Trying to be intimate with my boyfriend!!

Post  sassy26 on Fri Apr 05, 2013 8:32 pm

Hey ladies! sorry if this is inaproriate or tmi, I just dont know who else to talk to about this. Since I can't have vaginal sex anymore cause it's to painful, I want to try anal sex. I never tried this before but im desperate to be intimate with my boyfriend. I guess my question is; does any one have any tips or concerns about anal sex? Will this mess with my vulvodynia? Again sorry if this is tmi.....

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Post  lavrose on Fri Apr 05, 2013 8:51 pm

Yea, anal sex feels great, and can be just as satisfying as vaginal. Up until my late 20's, I was completely and utterly against it, thinking, its dirty, and causes cancer, and other health problems, and I could not understand how anyone could derive SEXUAL pleasure from that area, as there are no sexual organs around there, it will feel just like taking a dump!! How sexy is that??
anyway, my boyfriend(who does not have an overly large member) and I tried it, and the first time, it was kind of traumatic, but surprisingly not that painful(I didnt even bleed), and we did it a few more times after that, and I gradually started to really like it, and if you stimulate your clit during and orgasm, its the best ever!! The orgasms are stronger, and it can feel amazing, there are so many nerves around there, and its all connected, and actually it seems to stimulate your other sexual organs aswell, it still feels very sexual, and I was surprised, I never imagined that,, its like a whole new world.
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Post  lavrose on Fri Apr 05, 2013 8:58 pm

My current Husband rite now, is very well endowed, and actually doesnt like anal, at all (thank God, sort of), and I even miss it, (lol!) he prefers vaginal sex, and so ofcourse, its been really painful and difficult these days, since I have so many issues with my vag, and cant satisfy him, its really frustrating, but some guys LOVE ANAL, and prefer it, hopefully your man will be one of those guys..lol!
But yea, anal is wonderful, really,, its like a dark secret. Just dont do it too much, maybe once or twice a week, or once every few weeks, It can be painful, a ripping tearing pain, he has to ease it in, and you guys have to go slow at first, but after awhile, you can go crazy rough and it feels great Smile)
Another interesting thing about anal is, your body literally gets used to it, so the first few dozen times or so you do it, it takes about a day to recover, the next day, and you may have gas and Leakage, (sorry for the TMI but just being real), and may have to visit the bathroom several times all the next day,and the night of, but after awhile, you dont do that at all, your recovery time is hardly at all after a "session".
Also, be clean. Never under any circumstance, go anywhere near the vag after it has been in your butt, you can get a very bad infection. Be clean, take a shower after EVERYTIME.
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Post  lavrose on Fri Apr 05, 2013 9:07 pm

another tip:: Missionary anal feels the best, I dont know why this is, but it just feels so sexual and awesome, there are more nerves there or something..plus its hot looking into the eyes of your partner, etc, but you have to ease into it. Do dpggy first than missionary
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Re: Trying to be intimate with my boyfriend!!

Post  sassy26 on Sun Apr 07, 2013 2:09 am

Thanks Lavrose, I will definetly try out those tips. Laughing

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