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Mon Jun 04, 2018 11:13 pm by anikita

Hi lovely gals!

I'm honestly hoping to get any bit of advice anyone might have to offer. I go from bouts of sobbing hysterically in my boyfriend's arms to feeling confident that I can beat this.

I haven't been actually diagnosed with vulvodynia but EVERYTHING under the sun has come back negative. I started having sex 4 years ago after starting Lo Loestrin, with my first and current boyfriend …

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I'M NEW - Do I listen to my gyno who I feel has it wrong?

Fri Mar 09, 2018 12:17 pm by Tunes25

Hello!

I am a 25 year old woman and wanted to share my story here as I feel frustrated by the suggestions of my gyno and am hoping for some advice.

To give the context for this: in September 2016 I moved in with my long term boyfriend after living abroad a year and (nearly) abstaining from sex. Within a few weeks I had got a yeast infection which I treated myself successfully, but then 2 weeks …

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Gabapentin Gel. or other topical creams

Thu May 10, 2018 4:43 am by Rosie21

Hi I have been suffering for some years with this abominable pain. I have tried most of the systemic drugs , I asked specialists and Doctors if I could at least try a topical treatment but because this requires a special prescription have been refused Has anybody had a chance of trying these? Thank you I will try to put a link on to some of the research into Gabapentin Gel. Thanks.

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What has been helping ME (much less pain over time!!)

Tue May 15, 2018 10:43 pm by leoscc

Hello everyone! I vanished for quite some time as my life became consumed by not only this but other daily responsibilities as well. Shortly after my diagnosis, my boyfriend f 3 years left me as he did not want to deal with this. It left me broken for a while but also gave me time to figure out what the heck was going on. So, I will write out a quick list of my symptoms and what helped me.

1. I …

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I cured myself 100% of vulvodynia twenty years ago--I hope this helps someone

Mon Mar 12, 2018 11:33 am by totallycured

Hi,

Every so often I'm reminded of the constant, persistent, horrible pain I was in two decades ago, and I reach out to try to help others who are suffering. If someone had offered me a solution during that terrible time, I'd have jumped at it. I hope this helps someone.

Yes, I did have terrible vulvodynia. It felt like someone poured acid all over my vulva. My doctor confirmed it and was …

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Condoms Less Painful?

Sun May 06, 2018 10:35 pm by stillinpain

I'm just curious, has anyone found using condoms to be less abrasive to the skin than without? I just got off birth control and haven't stretched myself out enough post surgery to try sex yet, but when I do I am wondering how trying it with condoms with affect the sensation. I feel like for me the skin to skin sensation creates pain, not just at my entrance but internally, too, since I also have …

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Will there be an end?

Thu Apr 26, 2018 7:06 pm by Krista2828

I go in and out of being okay and not being okay with this condition. I question often why me? I am a problem solver by nature and I feel so defeated that after tons of research and trial and error and doctors and tears that there still is no answer.

I am in my 20's.. it shouldn't be this way.

Id love to know what all has worked! I am willing to try anything to get my life back. I am curious …

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you can be healed so easy and quite fast.

Thu Apr 26, 2018 6:46 pm by pussycat

Hello everyone,
i am new to this forum. I wanted to share my personal "journey" with V with you and to give you a real hope you can be totally healed/recovered from V. Many years ago i was struck with V, it was painful and got worst and worst, eventually i could not sit, could not stand, could not walk, could not swim in a swimming pool anymore. I was becoming bedridden, it frightened …

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Hi Im from Australia :)

Fri Jan 07, 2011 7:08 pm by emma

Hi girls... I live in Australia.
I am currently undergoing a new treatment for vulvodynia. Just wondering if anyone else here has tried it. It's Endep in the form of cream to apply directly on the area. I dont know if anyone else has tried this but so far evidently it has had a 50% success rate.
Anyway i feel at a loss. This new treatment is exciting but at the same time i just dont feel like …

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Post  BpCookie on Thu Jun 20, 2013 2:33 pm

Usually sex means pain. Its like my vagina knows when my husbands annoconda is drawing near. She then puts up a fight and doesn't want to let him in. Well, the other night we tricked her. I got ready for bed as usual, brushed my teeth, took my sleeping pill, turned out the light and got into bed. Mrs. Crabby Britches thought we were gonna go to sleep. My husband silently snuck up on her and pounced. She had no idea what just happened. In triumph my husband yells, "Thats right byatch, who's your daddy!"
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Post  Alana3 on Thu Jun 20, 2013 4:06 pm

Probably because the sleeping pill relaxed you ask for valium you can put up there and relax the muscles...congrats tho

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Post  Alana3 on Wed Aug 14, 2013 8:18 pm

Lmao I just reread this and my bf is sitting next to me I almost snorted-attractive this was the funniest thing ever thank you glut the humor hope everything is better today I know you are having some problems and I hold they resolved some Smile

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Post  BpCookie on Thu Aug 15, 2013 2:26 pm

Hello hun, Im glad that I could make you laugh. Sometimes you have to have a good sense of humor just to get through each day.

Im still having terrible pain. My Dr. is gonna do a procedure next week. Dont know what its called. At this point I could care less what he does with my useless vagina. He could stick his hand up there and use it as a puppet, I could care less.

Take care hun

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Post  Alana3 on Thu Aug 15, 2013 2:35 pm

Lmao a puppet lovely thought. What's going on now what did he do and what is he planning on doing?

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Post  Sebby (Admin) on Fri Aug 16, 2013 5:10 am

Lol really made me laugh and got some good advice! Gonna so drug myself before sex now!! ;D
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Post  Alana3 on Fri Aug 16, 2013 7:45 am

I had sex this morning for the first time in 2 years it felt awesome I almost cried it hurt a little but omg

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Post  Sebby (Admin) on Fri Aug 16, 2013 8:23 am

Good for you! Smile
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Post  Alana3 on Fri Aug 16, 2013 8:35 am

Thanks was terrified.lol

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Post  BpCookie on Mon Aug 19, 2013 3:50 pm

Alana, The surgery that my Dr. did (lasering th himenial tabs and cutting what ever else he wanted to) totally failed. Tomorrow He is going to give me an injection of something (shrug) into my episiotomy scar. Dont think it will work since nothing has worked in 2 and a half years.

Congrats on having sex. Im very happy for you. Its amazing how something like sex could be such a huge thing to us. You should throw a party.

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Post  BpCookie on Mon Aug 19, 2013 3:53 pm

Sebby, glad I made you laugh. Just becareful what drugs you take because I had sex one night and didnt remember anything. lol

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Post  Alana3 on Mon Aug 19, 2013 3:56 pm

Good luck maybe this will work!

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