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Wed Dec 05, 2018 3:26 pm by Cin124

Hi everyone,

About three months ago, I started having vaginal and vulval itching. Then, about two months ago, my vulva started to feel painful and look swollen, so I went to the doctor. I was tested for herpes, chlamydia, and gonorrhea which all came back negative. I also had to do a vaginal swab test and the only thing that came back positive was yeast infection. I was prescribed hydrozole …

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I'm new to this forum and would love some advice! :)

Tue Jun 05, 2018 4:13 am by anikita

Hi lovely gals!

I'm honestly hoping to get any bit of advice anyone might have to offer. I go from bouts of sobbing hysterically in my boyfriend's arms to feeling confident that I can beat this.

I haven't been actually diagnosed with vulvodynia but EVERYTHING under the sun has come back negative. I started having sex 4 years ago after starting Lo Loestrin, with my first and current boyfriend …

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Hello. Happy to have found this group.

Fri Dec 07, 2018 9:01 pm by foxysugarpants

I am new here and hope to gain some insight into my vulva pain. I suffered for a long time not realizing that there are ways to feel better. I saw the Dr. yesterday and I am starting P/T pelvic and valium suppositories. queen

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Had this for 5 years, looking for people who understand

Sat Oct 06, 2018 9:46 pm by blackberrie

Hey all. I'm really struggling to find anyone in real life who can really understand what I'm going through. I've had vestibulodynia for 5 years now and I'm single. Obviously it has completely affected how I approach dating and sex and the fact that I can't really talk to people irl about it has made me feel very lonely. I've found that a lot of the women who have this problem are married and …

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Anyone have pain with urination?

Tue Oct 16, 2018 2:35 pm by mertzwl

Hi everyone - I can't believe I've been dealing with this for almost 10 years and an appointment scheduler at a urogyn office is the one to suggest I look into vulvodynia. Honestly, I don't care, I just thankful I might have an answer.

I have pain in one specific spot right around the urethral opening so it always coincides with urinating (it's not a uti). Does anyone else deal with pain …

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Diagnosed recently, looking for advice

Sun Sep 02, 2018 12:51 am by Cloudberry

Hi everyone,

I'm so glad I found this forum! I was diagnosed with vulvodynia/vulvar vestibulitis (still not sure about the difference between all the different terms) a couple of months ago and I could do with some advice. This is probably going to be a lot of text because I just want to get everything off my chest, so please bear with me.

I’m a woman in my late 20s. Before getting diagnosed …

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From a concerned husband

Thu Jul 12, 2018 10:45 pm by ConcernedYorkieHubby

Hello everyone,

This is probably a little unconventional, but I’m a man who is here because his wife has been diagnosed with vulvodynia. The poor girl has been suffering with vulva pain for around 10 years now, and I’ve been by her side through the pain and tears and doctors misunderstandings the whole way, and we’re both exhausted and terrified by the whole experience.

I’m sure a lot …

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6 year sufferer but I’ve found some hope

Wed Oct 10, 2018 1:33 am by Npage14

Hey, ladies! I’m new to this support group, I’ve thought about doing something like this for a while so I wanted to try this out! I’ve had vulvodynia for 6 years now, I am self diagnosed. I’m 20 now and the pain started when I had my first encounter with sexual contact when I was 14(I still remained a virgin though it was fingering). For a couple years the pain was so bad I could hardly …

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Hurting, Burning, Itching, and Worn Out

Thu Aug 09, 2018 10:55 pm by donnambr

This vulvodynia that I'm currently suffering with is so cruel. I hurt, I burn, I itch. When I first got this several years ago, before the internet, I though I was the only one with this awful disorder. Doctors couldn't figure it out. I felt so alone and devastated. Somehow it disappeared for a few years and now I'm suffering again. This dreaded V misery is back and I feel like I will be with …

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Post  BpCookie on Thu Jun 20, 2013 7:33 pm

Usually sex means pain. Its like my vagina knows when my husbands annoconda is drawing near. She then puts up a fight and doesn't want to let him in. Well, the other night we tricked her. I got ready for bed as usual, brushed my teeth, took my sleeping pill, turned out the light and got into bed. Mrs. Crabby Britches thought we were gonna go to sleep. My husband silently snuck up on her and pounced. She had no idea what just happened. In triumph my husband yells, "Thats right byatch, who's your daddy!"
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Post  Alana3 on Thu Jun 20, 2013 9:06 pm

Probably because the sleeping pill relaxed you ask for valium you can put up there and relax the muscles...congrats tho

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Post  Alana3 on Thu Aug 15, 2013 1:18 am

Lmao I just reread this and my bf is sitting next to me I almost snorted-attractive this was the funniest thing ever thank you glut the humor hope everything is better today I know you are having some problems and I hold they resolved some Smile

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Post  BpCookie on Thu Aug 15, 2013 7:26 pm

Hello hun, Im glad that I could make you laugh. Sometimes you have to have a good sense of humor just to get through each day.

Im still having terrible pain. My Dr. is gonna do a procedure next week. Dont know what its called. At this point I could care less what he does with my useless vagina. He could stick his hand up there and use it as a puppet, I could care less.

Take care hun

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Post  Alana3 on Thu Aug 15, 2013 7:35 pm

Lmao a puppet lovely thought. What's going on now what did he do and what is he planning on doing?

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Post  Sebby (Admin) on Fri Aug 16, 2013 10:10 am

Lol really made me laugh and got some good advice! Gonna so drug myself before sex now!! ;D
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Post  Alana3 on Fri Aug 16, 2013 12:45 pm

I had sex this morning for the first time in 2 years it felt awesome I almost cried it hurt a little but omg

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Post  Sebby (Admin) on Fri Aug 16, 2013 1:23 pm

Good for you! Smile
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Post  Alana3 on Fri Aug 16, 2013 1:35 pm

Thanks was terrified.lol

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Post  BpCookie on Mon Aug 19, 2013 8:50 pm

Alana, The surgery that my Dr. did (lasering th himenial tabs and cutting what ever else he wanted to) totally failed. Tomorrow He is going to give me an injection of something (shrug) into my episiotomy scar. Dont think it will work since nothing has worked in 2 and a half years.

Congrats on having sex. Im very happy for you. Its amazing how something like sex could be such a huge thing to us. You should throw a party.

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Post  BpCookie on Mon Aug 19, 2013 8:53 pm

Sebby, glad I made you laugh. Just becareful what drugs you take because I had sex one night and didnt remember anything. lol

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Post  Alana3 on Mon Aug 19, 2013 8:56 pm

Good luck maybe this will work!

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