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Gabapentin Gel. or other topical creams
Thu May 10, 2018 9:43 am by Rosie21
Hi I have been suffering for some years with this abominable pain. I have tried most of the systemic drugs , I asked specialists and Doctors if I could at least try a topical treatment but because this requires a special prescription have been refused Has anybody had a chance of trying these? Thank you I will try to put a link on to some of the research into Gabapentin Gel. Thanks.
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Putnams 'bony parts' cushion or Putnams 'Dr Huff' cushion - which is best?
Sat Aug 01, 2015 4:17 pm by Fielder
Hi everyone,
I'm a newbie. I live in the UK.
I'm trying to work out the best cushion to get for my vulvodynia. I suspect that I could have pudendal nerve involvement (the aching and burning pain is from vagina to clitoris) and I have rectocele and some tailbone pain too.
I have seen some good reports on older threads regarding the Putnams pressure relief cushions....with some ladies …
I'm a newbie. I live in the UK.
I'm trying to work out the best cushion to get for my vulvodynia. I suspect that I could have pudendal nerve involvement (the aching and burning pain is from vagina to clitoris) and I have rectocele and some tailbone pain too.
I have seen some good reports on older threads regarding the Putnams pressure relief cushions....with some ladies …
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An absolute success story- please read!
Fri Mar 08, 2019 10:57 pm by Persevere1990
Dear All,
I posted on here back in March 2017 having just got a diagnosis of vulvodynia after a few months of relentless and acute pain. I was desperate, I was hurting, I was scared I would never know life without pain there again.
I tried creams, acupuncture, numbing gels, frozen pads, baths with various internet recommended concoctions- convinced myself I had lichen sclerosus, herpes, thrush- …
I posted on here back in March 2017 having just got a diagnosis of vulvodynia after a few months of relentless and acute pain. I was desperate, I was hurting, I was scared I would never know life without pain there again.
I tried creams, acupuncture, numbing gels, frozen pads, baths with various internet recommended concoctions- convinced myself I had lichen sclerosus, herpes, thrush- …
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I'm sorry im rambling
Thu Feb 21, 2019 5:49 am by Jet227
hey, im 19, ive been struggling with this almost a year. The first week I became itchy I went in to check about a yeast infection another week later. I have been to 10 different doctors a total of about 15 appointments for this problem for the past 11 months. I have been tested for everything including having a biopsy. I was first told basically to just go home and use hydrocortazone, then I went …
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New member need advice please
Thu Feb 28, 2019 11:33 pm by PANDORA123
Hello, I have just been diagnosed with unprovoked vulvodynia. Im really scared and worried. It burns a lot and it hurts to sit down. I have been prescribed amitriptyle 10mg. Can anyone give me some hope that I can get better from this condition. Feeling low and depressed.
Thanks
Thanks
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MonaLisa Touch
Fri Feb 08, 2019 7:35 pm by rl2091
Hi All,
I'm wondering if anyone has any experience with the MonaLisa Touch treatment for Vulvodynia? My pain started when I went on HRT(pill) for anxiety mainly and my pain abruntly stopped when I stopped HRT. However, when I started on the HRT patch (at my dr's suggestion), the pain returned and has never left. That was 7 years ago. I found MonaLisa Touch on the internet purely by accident …
I'm wondering if anyone has any experience with the MonaLisa Touch treatment for Vulvodynia? My pain started when I went on HRT(pill) for anxiety mainly and my pain abruntly stopped when I stopped HRT. However, when I started on the HRT patch (at my dr's suggestion), the pain returned and has never left. That was 7 years ago. I found MonaLisa Touch on the internet purely by accident …
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Diagnosed Recently
Tue Jan 08, 2019 3:55 pm by flissyg
Hi All,
I’m so glad I’ve found a place where there are others who understand how I feel!
So this is my story:-
I’m 36, and 4 months ago, whilst innocently sitting in bed reading I experienced a very sharp stabbing pain in my clitoris. It last only a few minutes and then subsided as quickly as it came on. It put it down to “one of those things”. The following morning I woke up …
I’m so glad I’ve found a place where there are others who understand how I feel!
So this is my story:-
I’m 36, and 4 months ago, whilst innocently sitting in bed reading I experienced a very sharp stabbing pain in my clitoris. It last only a few minutes and then subsided as quickly as it came on. It put it down to “one of those things”. The following morning I woke up …
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New and need advice and help
Wed Dec 05, 2018 3:26 pm by Cin124
Hi everyone,
About three months ago, I started having vaginal and vulval itching. Then, about two months ago, my vulva started to feel painful and look swollen, so I went to the doctor. I was tested for herpes, chlamydia, and gonorrhea which all came back negative. I also had to do a vaginal swab test and the only thing that came back positive was yeast infection. I was prescribed hydrozole …
About three months ago, I started having vaginal and vulval itching. Then, about two months ago, my vulva started to feel painful and look swollen, so I went to the doctor. I was tested for herpes, chlamydia, and gonorrhea which all came back negative. I also had to do a vaginal swab test and the only thing that came back positive was yeast infection. I was prescribed hydrozole …
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New here would very much appreciate advice at the end of my rope
Wed Jan 09, 2019 9:09 pm by Jma990o
This might be a little long but it's been such a long time I've even been able to talk about my problems openly thank you in advance for any helpful advice.
So ok I'm 24 I've been having this problem for over two years seen quite a few doctors and obgyns alike and nobody will take me seriously I have had a few utis and yeast infections and even bv once and this all started after one of the utis …
So ok I'm 24 I've been having this problem for over two years seen quite a few doctors and obgyns alike and nobody will take me seriously I have had a few utis and yeast infections and even bv once and this all started after one of the utis …
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My story - scared 21 year old
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My story - scared 21 year old
Hello!
I am 21 and have been diagnosed with vulvodynia/Vestibulodynia. Quite frankly it has ruined my life! I only have this pain when it is provoked, i.e through wearing tampons or through having sex. Needless to say the relationship with my long term boyfriend has greatly suffered!!
I've been suffering from this for over a year and a half and I can't tell you the frustration I've felt seeing numerous doctors/gyneacologists who tell me it is in my head when it very clearly isn't as I am sure a lot of you will relate to.
I got so fed up with everything (test after test and numerous thrush cures) that although we couldn't afford it in the slightest I went to see a private gynecologist - one of the best in London and he gave me Botox injections. (£500+) but at this stage I was willing to pay anything and do anything to get rid of this problem. I had 7 injections, 5 on the outside and 2 on the inside. It did cure the pain on the outside but the inside pain remains. I did not go for another treatment as quite honestly I personally found the treatment quite horrific.
I decided to go to a different gynecologist and she told me to use the dreaded dilators for 6 months... which I did religiously but with no difference in the slightest.
I now am seeing a new doctor who has prescribed me Nortriptyline but apparently if that doesnt work there are other ones to try. Has anyone tried using these treatments??
I'm not giving up hope! although some days it is very hard!!
I have a fantastic relationship with an amazing man who understands but I feel there is only so much time he will put up with it for - regardless of what he says. Each day is taken up constantly thinking about it and wondering if each new treatment will work and when it doesn't I worry about how to break the news to my other half.
This thing is taking over my life!! I'm so unbelievably scared that it won't ever go away. has anyone else had a similar experience??
Rx
I am 21 and have been diagnosed with vulvodynia/Vestibulodynia. Quite frankly it has ruined my life! I only have this pain when it is provoked, i.e through wearing tampons or through having sex. Needless to say the relationship with my long term boyfriend has greatly suffered!!
I've been suffering from this for over a year and a half and I can't tell you the frustration I've felt seeing numerous doctors/gyneacologists who tell me it is in my head when it very clearly isn't as I am sure a lot of you will relate to.
I got so fed up with everything (test after test and numerous thrush cures) that although we couldn't afford it in the slightest I went to see a private gynecologist - one of the best in London and he gave me Botox injections. (£500+) but at this stage I was willing to pay anything and do anything to get rid of this problem. I had 7 injections, 5 on the outside and 2 on the inside. It did cure the pain on the outside but the inside pain remains. I did not go for another treatment as quite honestly I personally found the treatment quite horrific.
I decided to go to a different gynecologist and she told me to use the dreaded dilators for 6 months... which I did religiously but with no difference in the slightest.
I now am seeing a new doctor who has prescribed me Nortriptyline but apparently if that doesnt work there are other ones to try. Has anyone tried using these treatments??
I'm not giving up hope! although some days it is very hard!!
I have a fantastic relationship with an amazing man who understands but I feel there is only so much time he will put up with it for - regardless of what he says. Each day is taken up constantly thinking about it and wondering if each new treatment will work and when it doesn't I worry about how to break the news to my other half.
This thing is taking over my life!! I'm so unbelievably scared that it won't ever go away. has anyone else had a similar experience??
Rx
rosina- Posts : 1
Join date : 2012-12-07
Age : 33
Location : UK
Re: My story - scared 21 year old
Hi Rosina
Yes I have been told that it was all in my head....by idiots who call themselves doctors, from reading this forum most if not all of us have been told that at some point. However I now have seen doctors and health professionals who don't believe it is all in my head.
Did you start doing dialators as soon as you got the botox injections?? botox alone won't help the problem at all, it is just a temporary paralyzing of the muscles for about 6 months giving you time to stretch out the muscles before the botox wears off. I had the botox injections but have had very strict Physio since 5 days post the injections. The physio I have seen has done randomized control trials on the botox injections with Physio post the injections so is very experienced. I am only 3 months in, so I have another 3 months of botox, so it remains to be seen if the physio will work to stretch the muscles out and stop the spasms.
Maybe potentially starting with a physio who specialises in pelvic floor conditions and pain may help. I have also just started seeing a psychologist (one who specialises in sex and pain) and I am finding that very helpful. I am not in a relationship and have been petrified for years to start one up again but the psychologist is helping me to not place so much emphasis on the vagina - there is lots of other great things that you can do all with the same outcome as vaginal sex! Even though I already knew that fact, I don't think I really absorbed the implications until now...and how by eliminating the pressure for vaginal sex, the pressure I feel, the insecurity I feel, the depression diminishes also = a healthy potential for a relationship - I know it isn't the greatest plan but is a plan nonetheless and is one way to not let your vagina take over your life. Additionally I am doing quite a lot of therapy to decrease the actual pain.
It is a very scary experience, but an experience I think that gives you a very interesting outlook on relationships and human behaviour. It is a very maturing experience not just a scary one
Yes I have been told that it was all in my head....by idiots who call themselves doctors, from reading this forum most if not all of us have been told that at some point. However I now have seen doctors and health professionals who don't believe it is all in my head.
Did you start doing dialators as soon as you got the botox injections?? botox alone won't help the problem at all, it is just a temporary paralyzing of the muscles for about 6 months giving you time to stretch out the muscles before the botox wears off. I had the botox injections but have had very strict Physio since 5 days post the injections. The physio I have seen has done randomized control trials on the botox injections with Physio post the injections so is very experienced. I am only 3 months in, so I have another 3 months of botox, so it remains to be seen if the physio will work to stretch the muscles out and stop the spasms.
Maybe potentially starting with a physio who specialises in pelvic floor conditions and pain may help. I have also just started seeing a psychologist (one who specialises in sex and pain) and I am finding that very helpful. I am not in a relationship and have been petrified for years to start one up again but the psychologist is helping me to not place so much emphasis on the vagina - there is lots of other great things that you can do all with the same outcome as vaginal sex! Even though I already knew that fact, I don't think I really absorbed the implications until now...and how by eliminating the pressure for vaginal sex, the pressure I feel, the insecurity I feel, the depression diminishes also = a healthy potential for a relationship - I know it isn't the greatest plan but is a plan nonetheless and is one way to not let your vagina take over your life. Additionally I am doing quite a lot of therapy to decrease the actual pain.
It is a very scary experience, but an experience I think that gives you a very interesting outlook on relationships and human behaviour. It is a very maturing experience not just a scary one
cba321- Posts : 69
Join date : 2012-07-14
Re: My story - scared 21 year old
rosina
I've also had shitty doctors/people who have made me feel like a total freak and haven't respected that what i am going through is serious. i have never had botox injections, that sounds somewhat traumatising, i have tried the most natural approach possible being physio therapy, pelvic floor work including dilators (which honestly sucks so bad sometimes but i think does help - try making it a sexual process, not a clinical one) and seeing a psychologist who helps me get perspective and not making my vulvodynia the centre of my entire universe.
I've found that there are good people out there and men are more understanding than you might expect. i think if they aren't understanding, why would you want them around anyway? love goes far beyond sexual acts. i think the most important factor of this whole awful illness is your emotional reaction to it. my vulvodynia is so so responsive to my stress and anxiety, you have to be good to yourself and then your body will follow.
it terms of other medical treatments - i was on endep 50mg for 3 years but loathed the drowsy side effects so now i am not on any medication which is scary but better than putting chemicals into your body. i have heard they are clinically trialling endep as a topical ointment, not as a pill, so your body is not effected and you can use a much higher dose just on the localised area. this is very exciting, keep your eyes peeled.
i think there is hope - in my 3 1/2 years of suffering, about half that time i have been progressively experiencing low pain/pain free sex. i am in a bad period now but i have to be strong.
good luck xx
I've also had shitty doctors/people who have made me feel like a total freak and haven't respected that what i am going through is serious. i have never had botox injections, that sounds somewhat traumatising, i have tried the most natural approach possible being physio therapy, pelvic floor work including dilators (which honestly sucks so bad sometimes but i think does help - try making it a sexual process, not a clinical one) and seeing a psychologist who helps me get perspective and not making my vulvodynia the centre of my entire universe.
I've found that there are good people out there and men are more understanding than you might expect. i think if they aren't understanding, why would you want them around anyway? love goes far beyond sexual acts. i think the most important factor of this whole awful illness is your emotional reaction to it. my vulvodynia is so so responsive to my stress and anxiety, you have to be good to yourself and then your body will follow.
it terms of other medical treatments - i was on endep 50mg for 3 years but loathed the drowsy side effects so now i am not on any medication which is scary but better than putting chemicals into your body. i have heard they are clinically trialling endep as a topical ointment, not as a pill, so your body is not effected and you can use a much higher dose just on the localised area. this is very exciting, keep your eyes peeled.
i think there is hope - in my 3 1/2 years of suffering, about half that time i have been progressively experiencing low pain/pain free sex. i am in a bad period now but i have to be strong.
good luck xx
lauramw- Posts : 2
Join date : 2012-12-08
Re: My story - scared 21 year old
I am in the same shoes as you, intimacy has become so depressing for me,every time my boyfriend wants to get a little intimate with me I start to get very stressed out and all I can think is how bad is the pain gonna be this time, there are times where I just let him do it because I feel bad but I cry silently from the pain.... It's awful and I have no one to talk to because none of my friends even know what this is, and I can't afford any doctors as I am a poor student, and don't have health insurance, I would talk to my mother but she doesn't know Im sexually active and I don't have that closeness with her to tell her :/ I'm miserable, so you are not alone I always feel that my boyfriend will eventually get sick of it and leave me as well :,( let's just hope this illness will go away or that the cure will come out in our lifetime!
Karen818- Posts : 7
Join date : 2012-12-09
Age : 34
Location : Los Angeles, CA
Re: My story - scared 21 year old
Can you update us on your progress?
I'm in London as well, just got a referral to a specialist at the vulval disease clinic.
all the best
I'm in London as well, just got a referral to a specialist at the vulval disease clinic.
all the best
mary jane- Posts : 345
Join date : 2013-10-05
Location : UK
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