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Tue Apr 28, 2015 8:17 pm by January

I am going crazyyy trying to figure out what's wrong. Please does anyone else have an issue similar to mine? I'm only 22. So, basically when my clit is lightly rubbed, there is no feeling. However, when rubbed vigorously and directly, the burning and tingling sensations shoot down my legs and feet as if coming to the end of an orgasm but with no good feeling leading up. It's so strange. What …

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Cured of Vulvodynia

Wed Aug 17, 2016 1:39 am by angelique2016

I used to post on this forum a long time ago and told everyone of how I was cured of my vulvodynia by a (Melbourne Australia) female dermatologist, she put me on very low doses of Nortriptyline (Allergron) for pain management about 10mgs I believe it was, and she also had me use Advantan Fatty Ointment (not the cream) (although I saw the cream for sale on ebay from germany) so it might help, as …

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Vulvodynia and IVF? Anyone done this? What does it do to the vulvadynia?

Sun Jul 30, 2017 1:03 am by Carolyn4

Hi everyone,

I have had vulvodynia since age 27--I am now 43 and it has been in pretty good remission.  I control it with acupuncture and herbs, and some cranial sacral therapy.  I have a 5 year old, had a pretty uneventful pregnancy which ended in a c-section.  My VV worsened after that, and I have worked hard to get it back under control (it took over a year to get it back into pretty good …

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Partial Vestibulectomy

Mon Jul 31, 2017 6:44 pm by JGD13

Hi all i am new here.
I had a partial vestibulectomy 21/7 for my provoked vulvodynia.
After a painful few days and feeling quite uncomfortable it seemed to get better. 1 week after i noticed some white stuff and gloopy discharge, it wasnt smelly or itchy but i got a check up at the gp surgery and the doctor said the stitches looked fine and i could just have a touch of thrush. He said this is …

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Post Vestibulectomy

Thu Aug 03, 2017 6:15 pm by infinitelywondering

Heya,

I had my vestibulectomy (full) about a day and a half ago. I was very sick and poorly just after the op and experienced intense pain down there Sad

However, today I came home and have done the following things:

-washed with warm water
-applied manuka honey to the area
-ensured I wash at least 3 times a day and dab the area dry gently
-use frozen peas to stop the swelling

As of now I am …

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New w/ Secondary Provoked Vestibuldynia

Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:46 pm by Birdy

Hi everyone,

I'm here because I'm pretty sure I have secondary provoked vestibuldynia, even though my gyno is still "optimistic" it is not.  My problem started six months ago when I got my second UTI in as many months (after going 25 years of life without one) and then ended up with a bad yeast infection (also my first one ever) thanks to the antibiotics.  Ever since the yeast …

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Anyone from the PNW?

Sat Aug 05, 2017 7:54 am by jungleclover

I'm located near Portland and I would be really cool to actually meet someone with this issue. I think my roommate in college technically had this problem. She had an overgrown hymen removed and can't deal with penetration as a result. But she is gay so it seems like it hasn't been a huge problem for her (although we didn't talk about it much so there was possibly more to it than she let on). …

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Constant pain, I want to die.

Fri Jun 02, 2017 4:29 am by Meggiemay

I posted on here a few years ago but my symptoms went away with the inflammation. I didn't get so lucky this time.

For over three months, i've had terrible rawness, burning, soreness in the urethral/vestibule area and pressure/hypersensitivity in the clitoral area. I've also had some lower abdominal pressure and burning on my butt. I can barely walk! My gyno hasn't been much help. I'm on …

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Newbie to the site

Sun Jul 30, 2017 12:16 am by Ksa

Hello. Thank you for this wonderful site. I'm currently under the care of a dr in Phoenix that specializes in vaginal disorders. I will probably be on a suppository of estridol the rest of my life and I am currently on medications for a rare form of vaginitis that's pretty unheard of for my age. My vagina literally hates me. I've struggled with vulvadynia for 20 years, the duration of my …

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Feeling nosey :-)

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Feeling nosey :-)

Post  Neevi on Thu Nov 07, 2013 10:17 am

Are you in a relationship? And if so how are yous coping with the weight of this? Do you make up for the sexual side by doing other stuff to keep that close connection?

How do you maintain your lady garden? I know i cant use any soaps etc down there because they irritate the crap out of me so im letting it grow out but feel so horrible, really wish i could tidy her up a bit :-P

And have you told all your close friends or any family members about this condition. It can be very hard keeping this to yourself. How open about it are you?

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Post  Alana3 on Thu Nov 07, 2013 2:36 pm

I'm in a relationship, its going well, my boyfriend is very understanding, but he has medical problems himself. HOWEVER, I did have surgery before we started having sex so my story is probably different. But I will say I was still nervous when we first started to have sex. But I just told him what was wrong and we worked on what was good for us together. But it's not painful anymore. You could try trimming it. My entire family and most of my friends know what I've been thru. But I also battle endometriosis, so my pain levels some days are thru the roof. It's no one's business though so the world doesn't need to know. You could maybe try a baking soda bath (which helps with odor as well as soothing the area too and apparently balances the pH of your vagina). Hope I helped!

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Post  Sarah001 on Thu Nov 07, 2013 9:51 pm

I was in a relationship but not for the last 3 years, I use a bikini trimmer to tidy up and as not using soap didn't help one bit I thought what the hell and started using it again. Hasn't made me worse either so I use bubble bath too. I find lavender oil mixed with vaseline very good for vestibule pain.
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Post  tinkerbelle2 on Thu Nov 14, 2013 4:27 pm

Hi Neevi, I am in a relationship have been with him nearly 2 years and had this the whole duration of our relationship! Grrr. Back then it was still bothersome and made me feel kind of hopeless and generally miserable and unsexy ugly even. But I kind of learnt to live with it and kept it to myself. The past year it seems to have got a lot worse and it has been both him and my mum that have supported and cared for me and encouraged me to go to the doctor! My boyfriend has been amazing. He has also had his own genital pain issues while we've been together plus we were long distance for 8 months so we both went without sex for months at a time. Now he lives with me and my parents which is lovely. Atm we only do it occasionally when we both aren't feeling too ouchy down there! But even if he hadn't had a similar thing I think he would've been understanding.

At the moment I have just been leaving things to grow down there! But I usually shave the bikini line. Epilating and waxing is too scary! Sometimes I shave it all! My boyfriend likes that but he is 24 and probably seen a lot of porn. It is kinda strange that some men love it isn't it?! But it grows back so quickly and gets spiky and itchy, not so attractive! Lol. And I have stopped using bubble baths really. I wash with aqueous cream or sensitive soap but don't put anything inside and then rinse with warm water. I have a handheld shower thingy which helps.

I have started to talk to my friends about it. They've all been kind and say it sounds horrible. None have it or have heard of it although a couple have had urine issues with no infection showing up. My mum told me years ago she once had a burning tingling down below which wouldn't budge but she said she thinks it went away on its own
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Post  Kathy100 on Fri Nov 15, 2013 12:29 pm

I was in a long term relationship but not anymore. I trim now rather than shave. I stopped using bubble bath years ago as one of the doctors I saw said it could be triggering cystitis & I have showers rather than baths.
Once mine changed to unprovoked I told my family and some friends; most were have been really sympathetic & have helped me through it. (although one of my friends finds it hard to understand why I don't want to go out as much...). With people I don't know so well - I just limit it to saying I've lower back pain.

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Re: Feeling nosey :-)

Post  Mark on Fri Nov 15, 2013 11:25 pm

I'm a man, but am married to a woman who has vulvodynia. Luckily her condition means she sometimes has an itch and only sometimes severe pain. When she's itching she still has a normal sex drive, obviously vaginal sex is out as it would bring on the pain. Yes we do 'other things' when she's just itching, I give her massages or handjobs or go down on her, which I obviously enjoy. When she's in pain I don't have a sex drive either TBH, I'm more concerned about her suffering.

Her condition affects just her vagina and the entrance to it and having anything brush against that area can trigger the pain so she keeps herself hair-free, by epilating about once a week. Being a typical guy as you'd expect I prefer it that way, it looks and feels a lot nicer and is a lot better for oral.

Her family know about it and also her manager, HR and a few close friends at work. The pain episodes last several days at a time, affect her mood and can stop her from working, driving any distance etc or making social plans, so it isn't really an option for her not to tell people.

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