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Tue Jun 05, 2018 4:13 am by anikita

Hi lovely gals!

I'm honestly hoping to get any bit of advice anyone might have to offer. I go from bouts of sobbing hysterically in my boyfriend's arms to feeling confident that I can beat this.

I haven't been actually diagnosed with vulvodynia but EVERYTHING under the sun has come back negative. I started having sex 4 years ago after starting Lo Loestrin, with my first and current boyfriend …

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Hello. Happy to have found this group.

Fri Dec 07, 2018 9:01 pm by foxysugarpants

I am new here and hope to gain some insight into my vulva pain. I suffered for a long time not realizing that there are ways to feel better. I saw the Dr. yesterday and I am starting P/T pelvic and valium suppositories. queen

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New and need advice and help

Wed Dec 05, 2018 3:26 pm by Cin124

Hi everyone,

About three months ago, I started having vaginal and vulval itching. Then, about two months ago, my vulva started to feel painful and look swollen, so I went to the doctor. I was tested for herpes, chlamydia, and gonorrhea which all came back negative. I also had to do a vaginal swab test and the only thing that came back positive was yeast infection. I was prescribed hydrozole …

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Had this for 5 years, looking for people who understand

Sat Oct 06, 2018 9:46 pm by blackberrie

Hey all. I'm really struggling to find anyone in real life who can really understand what I'm going through. I've had vestibulodynia for 5 years now and I'm single. Obviously it has completely affected how I approach dating and sex and the fact that I can't really talk to people irl about it has made me feel very lonely. I've found that a lot of the women who have this problem are married and …

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Anyone have pain with urination?

Tue Oct 16, 2018 2:35 pm by mertzwl

Hi everyone - I can't believe I've been dealing with this for almost 10 years and an appointment scheduler at a urogyn office is the one to suggest I look into vulvodynia. Honestly, I don't care, I just thankful I might have an answer.

I have pain in one specific spot right around the urethral opening so it always coincides with urinating (it's not a uti). Does anyone else deal with pain …

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Diagnosed recently, looking for advice

Sun Sep 02, 2018 12:51 am by Cloudberry

Hi everyone,

I'm so glad I found this forum! I was diagnosed with vulvodynia/vulvar vestibulitis (still not sure about the difference between all the different terms) a couple of months ago and I could do with some advice. This is probably going to be a lot of text because I just want to get everything off my chest, so please bear with me.

I’m a woman in my late 20s. Before getting diagnosed …

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From a concerned husband

Thu Jul 12, 2018 10:45 pm by ConcernedYorkieHubby

Hello everyone,

This is probably a little unconventional, but I’m a man who is here because his wife has been diagnosed with vulvodynia. The poor girl has been suffering with vulva pain for around 10 years now, and I’ve been by her side through the pain and tears and doctors misunderstandings the whole way, and we’re both exhausted and terrified by the whole experience.

I’m sure a lot …

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6 year sufferer but I’ve found some hope

Wed Oct 10, 2018 1:33 am by Npage14

Hey, ladies! I’m new to this support group, I’ve thought about doing something like this for a while so I wanted to try this out! I’ve had vulvodynia for 6 years now, I am self diagnosed. I’m 20 now and the pain started when I had my first encounter with sexual contact when I was 14(I still remained a virgin though it was fingering). For a couple years the pain was so bad I could hardly …

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Hurting, Burning, Itching, and Worn Out

Thu Aug 09, 2018 10:55 pm by donnambr

This vulvodynia that I'm currently suffering with is so cruel. I hurt, I burn, I itch. When I first got this several years ago, before the internet, I though I was the only one with this awful disorder. Doctors couldn't figure it out. I felt so alone and devastated. Somehow it disappeared for a few years and now I'm suffering again. This dreaded V misery is back and I feel like I will be with …

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Post  mary jane on Mon Nov 18, 2013 7:34 pm

I am very pissed with doctors in London. I must of had at least 10 different people stare up my private parts. All I got is a lot of lousy medication when in fact I have clear NERVE PAIN. MY privates feel like an electric fence and I am so scared it's PUDENDAL NEURALGIA. I'd rather have vulvodynia and vestibulitis combined, not PN!
I spent a small fortune to see some gyn via BMI healthcare, but he does not deal with vulvodynia, just vulval cancers. UGH!
MY only relief is 30 mg of Amitriptyline, but I still have pain with touch, I swear it's my previously operated bartholin gland that gives me this pain and just radiates it across the other side.
I have vibrations all over my vulva after touch occurs, I can barely wash the area, I also have stabbing and pins and needles, it is clearly NOT a skin problem, doctors can't see this, I need botox and trigger point injections, not biopsies!
I have vibrations in my right buttock and random knee and lower back pain.

I walk down the street and envy EVERYONE, I bet their privates don't hurt!!!

In other order of things, I have just ordered some enzyme which claims to help inflammation, nerve pain and autoimmune illnesses, it;'s called SERRAPEPTASE. I will report if it actually does something or not.
I am still taking the optibac for my yeast infection, because it is not helping my nerve pain.
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Post  Kathy100 on Tue Nov 19, 2013 10:44 am

Mary Jane, I know what you mean - I got to the point early this year where I was sick & tired of being prodded about by various drs & them saying inane things like "oh you're rather sore down there". er yes that's why I'm here. I've spent a small fortune on private health care too. But they have to run all the other tests to rule out certain things.
Have you seen a physio who is a pelvic floor specialist yet? Reason I'm asking is that you said your pain is radiating out into your buttock & lower back. I had this too & physio is helping me a lot. Sometimes the nerve pain can be caused because your pelvic floor muscles get really tight & spasm & this then spreads out into the other muscles such as you back. The pain specialist I saw said I could have PN but if I responded well to physio then it was more likely to be muscular & to try physio first before going down the nerve block route etc.

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Post  mary jane on Tue Nov 19, 2013 11:08 am

@ Kathy you're right about the tight muscles, funny thing is I already had pretty severe vaginismus before this started, so now it's probably even worse!
I'd love to go to a physio, but my GP seems reluctant to do anything until a gyn gives some "orders".
I'm also really pissed they don't want to prescribe an extra drug like Lyrica for my pain
I am hoping to get an MRI soon though, that would be the first test I need Sad
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Post  Alana3 on Tue Nov 19, 2013 12:28 pm

To make you feel better even in thr states some doctors dont know about this and have had a million docs look until finally I found someone. I have no idea the health.care over there but I say still be your own advocate until you find the right doctor. Sad sorry this is happening.to you tho

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Post  mary jane on Tue Nov 19, 2013 12:35 pm

@ alana I've been reading a blog called http://madpeach.blogspot.co.uk/ and it sums up pretty well what docs in the Us know about this condition Sad but then again, I bet most countries have issues with specialists for this Sad
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maybe in the near future they will be opneing more vulval disease clinics, there are a lot of things that can go wrong down there !!
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Post  Kathy100 on Tue Nov 19, 2013 12:44 pm

My GP was the same - once she put on ami & it was helping - she thought job done. When the pain spread she just said to double my meds (which didn't help at all). So I went to physio privately - the first one although I was told she was a pelvic pain specialist didn't help much. The one I'm seeing now though is really good. It's a long haul & you have to go through several drs, specialists etc before you find the right one.

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Post  Alana3 on Tue Nov 19, 2013 12:47 pm

Oh yeah we do have specialists I go to one but not knowing what I was dealing with at first I thought any doctor would know how to cure me. Not true. So when I finally had a doctor tell me you have vulvodynia I googled a search for doctors who specialize but it took 7 years because I had docs say I can cure.you and.of course never did... its sad Sad but I did manage to find a good doc just took a ton of time but.hopefully it won't be that long for you. Just saying it happens here too I know its annoying Sad

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