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Partial Vestibulectomy

Mon Jul 31, 2017 6:44 pm by JGD13

Hi all i am new here.
I had a partial vestibulectomy 21/7 for my provoked vulvodynia.
After a painful few days and feeling quite uncomfortable it seemed to get better. 1 week after i noticed some white stuff and gloopy discharge, it wasnt smelly or itchy but i got a check up at the gp surgery and the doctor said the stitches looked fine and i could just have a touch of thrush. He said this is …

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New w/ Secondary Provoked Vestibuldynia

Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:46 pm by Birdy

Hi everyone,

I'm here because I'm pretty sure I have secondary provoked vestibuldynia, even though my gyno is still "optimistic" it is not.  My problem started six months ago when I got my second UTI in as many months (after going 25 years of life without one) and then ended up with a bad yeast infection (also my first one ever) thanks to the antibiotics.  Ever since the yeast …

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Anyone from the PNW?

Sat Aug 05, 2017 7:54 am by jungleclover

I'm located near Portland and I would be really cool to actually meet someone with this issue. I think my roommate in college technically had this problem. She had an overgrown hymen removed and can't deal with penetration as a result. But she is gay so it seems like it hasn't been a huge problem for her (although we didn't talk about it much so there was possibly more to it than she let on). …

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Constant pain, I want to die.

Fri Jun 02, 2017 4:29 am by Meggiemay

I posted on here a few years ago but my symptoms went away with the inflammation. I didn't get so lucky this time.

For over three months, i've had terrible rawness, burning, soreness in the urethral/vestibule area and pressure/hypersensitivity in the clitoral area. I've also had some lower abdominal pressure and burning on my butt. I can barely walk! My gyno hasn't been much help. I'm on …

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Newbie to the site

Sun Jul 30, 2017 12:16 am by Ksa

Hello. Thank you for this wonderful site. I'm currently under the care of a dr in Phoenix that specializes in vaginal disorders. I will probably be on a suppository of estridol the rest of my life and I am currently on medications for a rare form of vaginitis that's pretty unheard of for my age. My vagina literally hates me. I've struggled with vulvadynia for 20 years, the duration of my …

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New to the site and just had a vestibulectomy

Fri Aug 04, 2017 12:19 am by Hopeitworks

Hello Everyone,

I have been suffering from vulvodynia for years! So I decided to go ahead and have vestibulectomy on July 28, 2017. I really wished I would of found this site before I went through with the surgery. Maybe I would have been more prepared to deal with recovering. I just need someone to talk and I dont mind hearing your story.

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Post Vestibulectomy

Thu Aug 03, 2017 6:15 pm by infinitelywondering

Heya,

I had my vestibulectomy (full) about a day and a half ago. I was very sick and poorly just after the op and experienced intense pain down there Sad

However, today I came home and have done the following things:

-washed with warm water
-applied manuka honey to the area
-ensured I wash at least 3 times a day and dab the area dry gently
-use frozen peas to stop the swelling

As of now I am …

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can anyone recommend a good dermatologist in LA?

Thu Jul 27, 2017 4:17 pm by saffron

Hi, I am wondering if anyone knows a vulvar dermatologist in Los Angeles? My problems seem to be external, but I'm having trouble finding a knowledgable doctor. My current dermatologist is pretty cosmetic based and I'm afraid all the products he prescribed actually made my situation so much worse!

I know there a few drs in Orange County/San Diego, but was hoping to stay local as even …

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Vulvodynia and IVF? Anyone done this? What does it do to the vulvadynia?

Sun Jul 30, 2017 1:03 am by Carolyn4

Hi everyone,

I have had vulvodynia since age 27--I am now 43 and it has been in pretty good remission.  I control it with acupuncture and herbs, and some cranial sacral therapy.  I have a 5 year old, had a pretty uneventful pregnancy which ended in a c-section.  My VV worsened after that, and I have worked hard to get it back under control (it took over a year to get it back into pretty good …

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Time frame questions

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Time frame questions

Post  rejected.803 on Thu May 15, 2014 8:18 pm

My wife was diagnosed with (provoked) Neuroproliferative Vestibulodynia in January this year. We've been married 19+ years and intercourse has been a problem (pain for her) since we got got married. I think she was probably born with it because of her description of her first OB/GYN appointment when she was about 13. I digress.

I find that hope is often tied to perspective,  and it's been miserable from my POV for 18 years. So I was wondering if some would be willing to share some information on the time line of events related to V in their/spouse life.  I'll start.

Time since diagnosis:  5 months
Time spent suffering before first Doctor took you/spouse complaint serious:  17 years
Time spent bouncing bewteen doctors with various diagnosis:  4 months
Time spent forcing yourself through painful sex before seeking medical help:  19 years
Time spent in counseling trying save relationship:  13+ years
Time spent in counseling trying to recover from failed relationship:  0
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For those that have been "cured" by whatever means (e.g., surgery, physical therapy, chemical/topical, etc.), please address these as well.

Time since "cure":  
Time between diagnosis and decision to be treated:  
Time for emotional/mental recovery following "cure"/treatment:  
Time from "cure"/treatment till sexually active again:

If you think of other important time frame questions, please let me know.

Thank you.

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Re: Time frame questions

Post  Alana3 on Thu May 15, 2014 8:36 pm

Hate to break it to you there is no cure but here goes

Time since "cure":  8 years
Time between diagnosis and decision to be treated: diagnosis was a year decision to treat right away 
Time for emotional/mental recovery following "cure"/treatment: I'm dealing with that everyday just because you're fixed doesn't mean you don't think it will stop hurting
Time from "cure"/treatment till sexually active again: about 9 months

I don't see how this is going to help you when your wife doesn't want the surgery.  But yes, I had the surgery, yes, it worked.  But NO that does NOT mean that it will work for her.  And it's something she wants to have some people have had enough.  I sure as hell have.

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