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Tue Jun 05, 2018 4:13 am by anikita

Hi lovely gals!

I'm honestly hoping to get any bit of advice anyone might have to offer. I go from bouts of sobbing hysterically in my boyfriend's arms to feeling confident that I can beat this.

I haven't been actually diagnosed with vulvodynia but EVERYTHING under the sun has come back negative. I started having sex 4 years ago after starting Lo Loestrin, with my first and current boyfriend …

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I'M NEW - Do I listen to my gyno who I feel has it wrong?

Fri Mar 09, 2018 6:17 pm by Tunes25

Hello!

I am a 25 year old woman and wanted to share my story here as I feel frustrated by the suggestions of my gyno and am hoping for some advice.

To give the context for this: in September 2016 I moved in with my long term boyfriend after living abroad a year and (nearly) abstaining from sex. Within a few weeks I had got a yeast infection which I treated myself successfully, but then 2 weeks …

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Gabapentin Gel. or other topical creams

Thu May 10, 2018 9:43 am by Rosie21

Hi I have been suffering for some years with this abominable pain. I have tried most of the systemic drugs , I asked specialists and Doctors if I could at least try a topical treatment but because this requires a special prescription have been refused Has anybody had a chance of trying these? Thank you I will try to put a link on to some of the research into Gabapentin Gel. Thanks.

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What has been helping ME (much less pain over time!!)

Wed May 16, 2018 3:43 am by leoscc

Hello everyone! I vanished for quite some time as my life became consumed by not only this but other daily responsibilities as well. Shortly after my diagnosis, my boyfriend f 3 years left me as he did not want to deal with this. It left me broken for a while but also gave me time to figure out what the heck was going on. So, I will write out a quick list of my symptoms and what helped me.

1. I …

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I cured myself 100% of vulvodynia twenty years ago--I hope this helps someone

Mon Mar 12, 2018 4:33 pm by totallycured

Hi,

Every so often I'm reminded of the constant, persistent, horrible pain I was in two decades ago, and I reach out to try to help others who are suffering. If someone had offered me a solution during that terrible time, I'd have jumped at it. I hope this helps someone.

Yes, I did have terrible vulvodynia. It felt like someone poured acid all over my vulva. My doctor confirmed it and was …

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Condoms Less Painful?

Mon May 07, 2018 3:35 am by stillinpain

I'm just curious, has anyone found using condoms to be less abrasive to the skin than without? I just got off birth control and haven't stretched myself out enough post surgery to try sex yet, but when I do I am wondering how trying it with condoms with affect the sensation. I feel like for me the skin to skin sensation creates pain, not just at my entrance but internally, too, since I also have …

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Will there be an end?

Fri Apr 27, 2018 12:06 am by Krista2828

I go in and out of being okay and not being okay with this condition. I question often why me? I am a problem solver by nature and I feel so defeated that after tons of research and trial and error and doctors and tears that there still is no answer.

I am in my 20's.. it shouldn't be this way.

Id love to know what all has worked! I am willing to try anything to get my life back. I am curious …

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you can be healed so easy and quite fast.

Thu Apr 26, 2018 11:46 pm by pussycat

Hello everyone,
i am new to this forum. I wanted to share my personal "journey" with V with you and to give you a real hope you can be totally healed/recovered from V. Many years ago i was struck with V, it was painful and got worst and worst, eventually i could not sit, could not stand, could not walk, could not swim in a swimming pool anymore. I was becoming bedridden, it frightened …

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Hi Im from Australia :)

Sat Jan 08, 2011 1:08 am by emma

Hi girls... I live in Australia.
I am currently undergoing a new treatment for vulvodynia. Just wondering if anyone else here has tried it. It's Endep in the form of cream to apply directly on the area. I dont know if anyone else has tried this but so far evidently it has had a 50% success rate.
Anyway i feel at a loss. This new treatment is exciting but at the same time i just dont feel like …

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Post  noelle2530 on Wed Jul 09, 2014 7:01 pm

Hello ladies I have yet to be diagnosed I have been to many doctors plan on going back in a couple weeks I have been tracking my symptoms daily I was hoping someone could tell me if it sounds like what they have experienced. I would appreciate any help I could get I am desperate for answers...

05/12: felt fine
05/13: burning
05/14: Some slite burning kinda irritated feeling,
05/15 burning lasted the and some pains burning stopped mid afternoon
05/16 burning in the morning after pee, not as bad as yesterday… lastnight slite burning around 11.40 after pee.. … felt fine rest of the day….
05/17: felt fine
05/18: felt fine had some cream colored discharge
05/19: slight burning in the morning,,,, felt a bit irritated late morning/afternoon
05/20: felt fine seem to have thick white discharge (not much)
05/21: felt fine no burning….
05/22: No burning felt fine had some crawling feelings last night… Feel a little burning mid after noon…. Had some thick cream colored discharge burning is gone this is 4pm
05/23: feel okay kinda achy in the anal area??…
05/24: Felt okay
05/25: burning irritated valva
05/26: same feelings a little worse
05/27: felt some burning in the morning went away …. Feel a little achy
05/28: felt no burning
05/29: some burning after morning pee… 05/30: fell fine
05/31: felt fine
06/01: had mild burning in the evening
06/02: felt fine had some achiness in my clit
06/03: no burning still a bit achy…
06/04: felt fine kinda burned a little after mid-morning pee
06/05: felt fine
06/06: felt some burning late
06/07: felt fine
06/08: felt fine
06/09: felt a bit warm… kinda irritated … burned a little after oral and sex
06/10: felt a little warm and mild irritation.. some swelling felt irritated While at the gym (swelling of my vaginal wall/entrances to vagina
06/11: felt some irritation swelling seems to be going down, feel a little burning around noon… everything looks normal the area near my clit is kinda tender started feeling better around 2… felt fine in the evening
06/12: felt okay had some mild irritation after sex this morning no burning… feeling a bit irritated 1040am .. feel kinda achy
06/13: had some burning with morning pee feel a little irritated… nothing looks red or anything felt fine later in the day
06/14: felt fine
06/15: felt fine
06/16: felt a little irritated felt fine
06/17: feel a bit achy kinda swollen white pasty discharge swelling and irritation went away later in the day
06/18: feel fine
06/19 felt fine
06/20 feel fine a bit irritated/achy
06/21: felt fine most of the day had a little burring in the evening
06/22; felt fine
06/23: feel okay a little irritated/achy feeling felt fine in the evening
06/24: feel fine in the morning feel kinda achy white discharge /swelling burning feelings around 330pm felt fine in the evening
06/25: feeling a little irritated white discharge …… felt fine rest of the day
06/26: I feel okay kinda achy ..buring around 230 …felt fine later
06/27: felt fine when I got up then started feeling achy around 930 felt fine rest of the day
06/28: felt some burning
06/29: felt some burning red vulva
06/30: felt irritated, got my period, felt fine most of the day then started feeling achy around 440pm
07/01: felt some pain last night at the entrance of vagina… today feel some burning vulva looks a little red
07/02: no burning feel a little irritated
07/03: feel fine a little red
07/04: felt irritated
07/05: felt fine
07/06: felt mostly fine
07/07: burning after morning pee then felt fine
07/08: burning this morning felt fine rest of the day some leg pain and pain in the arms right leg right arm some in left foot
07/09: feel fine some pains in the leg and arm

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Post  sailor_moon on Thu Jul 10, 2014 9:40 am

Have you had any tests done? Swabs, blood tests, biopsies?
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Post  noelle2530 on Thu Jul 10, 2014 7:07 pm

I have been tested for all stds, and had blood test done for herpes thats all... everything is negative.

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Post  Alana3 on Thu Jul 10, 2014 7:26 pm

Go to a specialist! If they're only looking for STDs you need to find someone who can think outside the box.  And I would try and not wait a couple of weeks.  Go now, it's probably not going to get better by itself.  Did they test for ureaplasma, strep, BV? Yeast?  Did they tell you your skin was miscolored?  Anything other then "oh you're negative for stds".  I'll tell you my specialist didn't even hint at testing me for that stuff because he saw right away what the problem was.  A run of the mill gyno is not something you'd want for actual problems.  I had one put my acyclovir for herpes WHEN I DIDNT HAVE HERPES!  I finally said ENOUGH and paid a little more for better care. STD's were never mentioned.  I honestly feel that the only reason they test for those is because they don't know why else and at least they did something.

Don't play Dr. Google. It's a waste of everyone's time and you're going to freak yourself out worse.

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Post  noelle2530 on Thu Jul 10, 2014 9:08 pm

I have been tested for bv and yeast... I had a uti a while ago they treated that. I thought it was herpes too but all my blood tests are neg and I don't get sores or anything. Also I would not have almost daily symptoms for months. I know I need to go to a better dr I just can't afford it right now. The drs just keep telling me it sounds like a skin irritation and to use dove soap and things like that.

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Post  Alana3 on Thu Jul 10, 2014 11:00 pm

Is there a cleveland clinic nearby? They were good. I went thru the herpes/wart scare too. Trust me you do not have them. Its probably along the lines of vulvodynia but you really need a.diagnosis.

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Post  sailor_moon on Thu Jul 10, 2014 11:07 pm

Why the hell are they telling you to use Dove soap? It's full of irritants!!!

Until you can get a diagnosis, try and wash with only water as you may have an allergy to a chemical and make it worse.

Alana3 may I ask what "type" of specialist was the one to finally diagnose your condition correctly? A vulva specialist, Gyno, dermatologist?
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Post  bvnh13 on Thu Jul 10, 2014 11:28 pm

My Obgyn actually said dont use soap down there...your vagina is self cleaning...you can take aveeno oatmeal baths a couple of times a week that might help

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Post  Alana3 on Fri Jul 11, 2014 2:02 pm

Vulva specialist. Yeah steer clear of dove.

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Post  Alana3 on Fri Jul 11, 2014 3:40 pm

And what's up with the types in quotations?

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