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Gabapentin Gel. or other topical creams

Thu May 10, 2018 9:43 am by Rosie21

Hi I have been suffering for some years with this abominable pain. I have tried most of the systemic drugs , I asked specialists and Doctors if I could at least try a topical treatment but because this requires a special prescription have been refused Has anybody had a chance of trying these? Thank you I will try to put a link on to some of the research into Gabapentin Gel. Thanks.

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What has been helping ME (much less pain over time!!)

Wed May 16, 2018 3:43 am by leoscc

Hello everyone! I vanished for quite some time as my life became consumed by not only this but other daily responsibilities as well. Shortly after my diagnosis, my boyfriend f 3 years left me as he did not want to deal with this. It left me broken for a while but also gave me time to figure out what the heck was going on. So, I will write out a quick list of my symptoms and what helped me.

1. I …

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I cured myself 100% of vulvodynia twenty years ago--I hope this helps someone

Mon Mar 12, 2018 4:33 pm by totallycured

Hi,

Every so often I'm reminded of the constant, persistent, horrible pain I was in two decades ago, and I reach out to try to help others who are suffering. If someone had offered me a solution during that terrible time, I'd have jumped at it. I hope this helps someone.

Yes, I did have terrible vulvodynia. It felt like someone poured acid all over my vulva. My doctor confirmed it and was …

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I'M NEW - Do I listen to my gyno who I feel has it wrong?

Fri Mar 09, 2018 6:17 pm by Tunes25

Hello!

I am a 25 year old woman and wanted to share my story here as I feel frustrated by the suggestions of my gyno and am hoping for some advice.

To give the context for this: in September 2016 I moved in with my long term boyfriend after living abroad a year and (nearly) abstaining from sex. Within a few weeks I had got a yeast infection which I treated myself successfully, but then 2 weeks …

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Condoms Less Painful?

Mon May 07, 2018 3:35 am by stillinpain

I'm just curious, has anyone found using condoms to be less abrasive to the skin than without? I just got off birth control and haven't stretched myself out enough post surgery to try sex yet, but when I do I am wondering how trying it with condoms with affect the sensation. I feel like for me the skin to skin sensation creates pain, not just at my entrance but internally, too, since I also have …

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Will there be an end?

Fri Apr 27, 2018 12:06 am by Krista2828

I go in and out of being okay and not being okay with this condition. I question often why me? I am a problem solver by nature and I feel so defeated that after tons of research and trial and error and doctors and tears that there still is no answer.

I am in my 20's.. it shouldn't be this way.

Id love to know what all has worked! I am willing to try anything to get my life back. I am curious …

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you can be healed so easy and quite fast.

Thu Apr 26, 2018 11:46 pm by pussycat

Hello everyone,
i am new to this forum. I wanted to share my personal "journey" with V with you and to give you a real hope you can be totally healed/recovered from V. Many years ago i was struck with V, it was painful and got worst and worst, eventually i could not sit, could not stand, could not walk, could not swim in a swimming pool anymore. I was becoming bedridden, it frightened …

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Hi Im from Australia :)

Sat Jan 08, 2011 1:08 am by emma

Hi girls... I live in Australia.
I am currently undergoing a new treatment for vulvodynia. Just wondering if anyone else here has tried it. It's Endep in the form of cream to apply directly on the area. I dont know if anyone else has tried this but so far evidently it has had a 50% success rate.
Anyway i feel at a loss. This new treatment is exciting but at the same time i just dont feel like …

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Somebody please help me...

Fri Nov 24, 2017 8:05 am by Andlag

Hey everyone,

since I started being sexually active i often experienced burning in my vagina which was often worse during sex /around the time of my period or when using lubricants. I was never able to use tampons because the one time i tried putting them in it felt like acid was poured on my skin. Fast forward to 2 months ago when I got a UTI and an allergic reaction in my vagina. I thought it …

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Talking to Employers

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Talking to Employers

Post  KatieMay on Wed Oct 29, 2014 1:03 pm

I am wondering if anyone has had a conversation with their employer(s) regarding V?

I imagine a lot of you are unable to work either permanently or from time time with flair ups, and you have to have frequent trips to doctors...how have your employers reacted to this?

Have any of you been brave enough to be upfront with your employers and told them the truth about whats going on or have you done the usual, migranes, stomach upsets etc?

My boss wants to know why I have been off so much lately...I dont know how to brach the topic at all, in truth it is mostly the stress of the condition thats caused me to have time off (as well as lots of doctors appointments) rather than the symptoms themselves, but I dont know how to explain this to him...any suggestions?

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Re: Talking to Employers

Post  Sparkle on Thu Oct 30, 2014 1:33 pm

I told my boss I was diagnosed with a condition that relates to a women's issues and I was embarwased to say what it was. I told him it causes me pain sontimes and that stress bring on flare ups. He's been quite good with doctors appointments as long as I make up the time told me if I have a high pain day to let him know and we can sort out goog home early or for a break... this was following me walking out of work one day and lots of mistakes beinf made on my part where I couldn't concentrate.

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Re: Talking to Employers

Post  Sparkle on Thu Oct 30, 2014 1:35 pm

You should also mention that is a condition that has no cure so u have to find ways to manage it. And that somtines it can cause u to have down days where u feel exremely sresses out

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Re: Talking to Employers

Post  sailor_moon on Sat Nov 01, 2014 12:35 am

You don't need to say the specifics. Just say that you have a serious gynecological condition that causes you great pain ect and that the doctors don't know how to cure it and that you are still in the midst of getting proper treatment.
ust make sure each time you are off you get a medical certificate.
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