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Constant pain, I want to die.

Fri Jun 02, 2017 4:29 am by Meggiemay

I posted on here a few years ago but my symptoms went away with the inflammation. I didn't get so lucky this time.

For over three months, i've had terrible rawness, burning, soreness in the urethral/vestibule area and pressure/hypersensitivity in the clitoral area. I've also had some lower abdominal pressure and burning on my butt. I can barely walk! My gyno hasn't been much help. I'm on …

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Clitoris Issues

Tue Apr 28, 2015 8:17 pm by January

I am going crazyyy trying to figure out what's wrong. Please does anyone else have an issue similar to mine? I'm only 22. So, basically when my clit is lightly rubbed, there is no feeling. However, when rubbed vigorously and directly, the burning and tingling sensations shoot down my legs and feet as if coming to the end of an orgasm but with no good feeling leading up. It's so strange. What …

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New member

Sat Mar 18, 2017 7:37 pm by Lisa1627

Hi ladies. I am new to the forum. I have had what I think is vulvodynia caused from hsv 2. So not only do I have the burning vag but the constant feeling of being contagious. I can honestly say that I hate my life and myself right now. There are days when I think I would rather be dead. I tried the amitryptline and it helped but if it's only making my brain think I don't have pain then it's …

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Post Full Vestibulectomy - 5 Years Later - Please Read

Tue May 02, 2017 6:18 pm by jen007

Hi All,

It's been awhile since I've written a new topic on the forum. Wondering if any of the same ladies are still here. I've come back to update you all on my post vestibulectomy results. I can't remember if I've done an update on my current state, so forgive me if this is repeated information... I can't remember how to view my old posts! Anyway, let me get on with my update.

For 4 years post …

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Recovered from Vulvodynia

Thu May 04, 2017 9:42 pm by chancesunny

Hey everyone,

Im a new member on this forum and wanted to share my story so I can help anyone who is feeling helpless. Maybe what worked for me can work for you. I'll try to make this short so you can go get better!

I had vulvodynia for about 3-4 years. In the beginning, it started with pain that I thought was just a yeast infection and then I thought it was a urinary tract infection or …

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New here, my story and looking for advice

Wed Apr 26, 2017 9:02 am by rachiecakes

Hi All!

I was really hoping to get some feedback from everyone here - it's very hard dealing with an issue like this because no one really understands what I'm going through!

Im 28 years old I've had interstitial cystitis for 3 years - but never an vaginal issues. About 6 months ago I got a yeast infection following a course of antibiotics - similarly I developed IC after a bad UTI. The itching …

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New w/ Secondary Provoked Vestibuldynia

Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:46 pm by Birdy

Hi everyone,

I'm here because I'm pretty sure I have secondary provoked vestibuldynia, even though my gyno is still "optimistic" it is not.  My problem started six months ago when I got my second UTI in as many months (after going 25 years of life without one) and then ended up with a bad yeast infection (also my first one ever) thanks to the antibiotics.  Ever since the yeast …

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Male visitor

Wed Jan 18, 2017 11:19 pm by outsider

Hello!

I am a 25 year old guy who has erectile dysfunction following an injury a few years ago. I am here because I think that men and women with sexual dysfunction could benefit from dating each other. My experience has been that women have lost interest when they found out that penetrative sex was not possible with me.
So I am interested in learning more about female sexual disorders. Do young …

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New Here: Question/My Story

Mon Apr 03, 2017 2:00 am by overit14

Hi everyone. I came across this site by Googling "vulvar pain support". I feel like my case is different than most I read about so I was wondering if anyone else here experiences this in the way that I do.

This started in 2012 and has happened off and on since. I get really, really red and it's very painful, swollen and burns. Sometimes it may be a little itchy, but mostly it just …

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New diagnosis and feeling defeated

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New diagnosis and feeling defeated

Post  JstMrried on Sun Jan 25, 2015 8:00 am

Curse (Age 25)
I want to leave my body, this broken equipment. And maybe that's selfish considering what so so many others go through. My Aunt with cancer and my sister with heartache. I just can't help but wonder why I would find my perfect match just to punish him like this, me like this. (just married in may) If we hadn't met and I was single, I wouldn't even care about sex, I wouldn't even think about sex. I'd go about my own day, not knowing what I'm missing. But when I see him everyday is like looking outside a window on a gorgeous sunny day and you're working. And you can't get out, no break, no tan, no sunshine, no happiness, and just a tease. And you stay in business mode ; for the first few hours (meaning the first few months) your hopeful that you can maintain order with fluency. But then as the whole day goes by (over half a year) you have a thought thinking "I'm going to get stuck in this persona," bitter and work oriented because it's the only way you can succeed and not fail (be broken). You get turned on by simply watching him grab a drink from the fridge, cold shower. You get wet watching a romantic kiss in a chick flick, cold shower. The thing is, without the cold shower you open yourself up to being touched...to have inflicted, unintentional pain. Sex now associated with that explosion of pain like a deep knife at the most sensitive spot. And when you wait long enough, it doesn't matter...you want something...you take the pain. You want him and anything that comes with it is worth it, until the pain is so unbearable that he notices you crying while he's taking you, instantly killing the mood and any feelings of closeness, wholeness are gone along with his boner. That's how I know he loves me, and that's how I know I should be telling myself I'm lucky. But instead I just feel so broken and slowly losing myself.
After the crying after he's cum, I pull into myself. I feel so selfish for thinking about this pain when he's been in abstinence so long because of me, so I feel like I shouldn't tell him the repercussions. I just bury these feelings in tears and big gulps, and I hide. And I feel more alone because of myself, because I don't tell him how deeply rooted I'm damaged. That part is my fault, but talking about it won't fix my faulty womanhood, and it makes him feel worse.

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Post  JstMrried on Sun Jan 25, 2015 7:34 pm

I know there's no question to this passage, but can anyone offer insight to a newlywed?

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Re: New diagnosis and feeling defeated

Post  rmb on Wed May 10, 2017 2:55 am

That's awful. I know what you mean about feeling selfish I was just thinking today how selfish I am for dating. I love my boyfriend so so much but I feel like he deserves someone normal. I have finally opened up to my sister and I think I'm going to try pain meds I made a doc appt. have you tired anything like that?

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