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Constant pain, I want to die.

Fri Jun 02, 2017 4:29 am by Meggiemay

I posted on here a few years ago but my symptoms went away with the inflammation. I didn't get so lucky this time.

For over three months, i've had terrible rawness, burning, soreness in the urethral/vestibule area and pressure/hypersensitivity in the clitoral area. I've also had some lower abdominal pressure and burning on my butt. I can barely walk! My gyno hasn't been much help. I'm on …

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Clitoris Issues

Tue Apr 28, 2015 8:17 pm by January

I am going crazyyy trying to figure out what's wrong. Please does anyone else have an issue similar to mine? I'm only 22. So, basically when my clit is lightly rubbed, there is no feeling. However, when rubbed vigorously and directly, the burning and tingling sensations shoot down my legs and feet as if coming to the end of an orgasm but with no good feeling leading up. It's so strange. What …

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New member

Sat Mar 18, 2017 7:37 pm by Lisa1627

Hi ladies. I am new to the forum. I have had what I think is vulvodynia caused from hsv 2. So not only do I have the burning vag but the constant feeling of being contagious. I can honestly say that I hate my life and myself right now. There are days when I think I would rather be dead. I tried the amitryptline and it helped but if it's only making my brain think I don't have pain then it's …

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Post Full Vestibulectomy - 5 Years Later - Please Read

Tue May 02, 2017 6:18 pm by jen007

Hi All,

It's been awhile since I've written a new topic on the forum. Wondering if any of the same ladies are still here. I've come back to update you all on my post vestibulectomy results. I can't remember if I've done an update on my current state, so forgive me if this is repeated information... I can't remember how to view my old posts! Anyway, let me get on with my update.

For 4 years post …

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Recovered from Vulvodynia

Thu May 04, 2017 9:42 pm by chancesunny

Hey everyone,

Im a new member on this forum and wanted to share my story so I can help anyone who is feeling helpless. Maybe what worked for me can work for you. I'll try to make this short so you can go get better!

I had vulvodynia for about 3-4 years. In the beginning, it started with pain that I thought was just a yeast infection and then I thought it was a urinary tract infection or …

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New here, my story and looking for advice

Wed Apr 26, 2017 9:02 am by rachiecakes

Hi All!

I was really hoping to get some feedback from everyone here - it's very hard dealing with an issue like this because no one really understands what I'm going through!

Im 28 years old I've had interstitial cystitis for 3 years - but never an vaginal issues. About 6 months ago I got a yeast infection following a course of antibiotics - similarly I developed IC after a bad UTI. The itching …

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New w/ Secondary Provoked Vestibuldynia

Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:46 pm by Birdy

Hi everyone,

I'm here because I'm pretty sure I have secondary provoked vestibuldynia, even though my gyno is still "optimistic" it is not.  My problem started six months ago when I got my second UTI in as many months (after going 25 years of life without one) and then ended up with a bad yeast infection (also my first one ever) thanks to the antibiotics.  Ever since the yeast …

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Male visitor

Wed Jan 18, 2017 11:19 pm by outsider

Hello!

I am a 25 year old guy who has erectile dysfunction following an injury a few years ago. I am here because I think that men and women with sexual dysfunction could benefit from dating each other. My experience has been that women have lost interest when they found out that penetrative sex was not possible with me.
So I am interested in learning more about female sexual disorders. Do young …

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New Here: Question/My Story

Mon Apr 03, 2017 2:00 am by overit14

Hi everyone. I came across this site by Googling "vulvar pain support". I feel like my case is different than most I read about so I was wondering if anyone else here experiences this in the way that I do.

This started in 2012 and has happened off and on since. I get really, really red and it's very painful, swollen and burns. Sometimes it may be a little itchy, but mostly it just …

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Alternatives to intercourse?

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Alternatives to intercourse?

Post  geog272 on Wed Apr 22, 2015 1:15 am

I have DIV, vaginismus, and mild vulvodynia. Intercourse is always painful to some degree. Sometimes it is tolerable, sometimes not, occasionally it is actually pleasurable but overall I dread sex and hate it. Can anyone give me some ideas for other things that you are able to do with your DH to keep him happy? I have given so many BJs in the past five years that I am starting to find them repulsive. I am also the sleep deprived mother of a one year old who still doesn't sleep through the night and I am just so tired. I am feeling like sex and anything close to it requires an emotional energy reserve I no longer have. I wish that sex didn't exist! No

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Re: Alternatives to intercourse?

Post  toosore on Thu May 07, 2015 8:37 pm

I totally understand your situation!  I too am so sick of BJs!  I didn't mind doing them before, as part of foreplay, briefly for fun, but when it's the whole meal deal, yuck!  Anyhow, the only other option I know of is a really good hand job.  I found this tip on the tv show Sex Tips of Girls.  You need lots of lube to make it work, and you use both hands.  You probably need to be sitting up, facing him.  So, grasp his member with both hands, one hand above the other, and twist your hands in opposite directions (kind of like wringing out a cloth - except more gently (or not!)).  While twisting, move your hands up and down.  Again, lots of lube.  My hubby loves this!  He actually asks for it, and enjoys the change from BJ, too.  Keep a towel handy, as it gets messy. I hope you can follow this explanation, as it's kind of hard to describe without pictures!  Best of luck!

PS:  I was unable to have intercourse for five years.  Sometimes my hubby will handle himself while I kiss his neck and cuddle with him.

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Re: Alternatives to intercourse?

Post  mrs.optimistic on Sat May 16, 2015 8:47 am

^^ that's what me and my husband do! I too can't stand blow jobs. Just not my thing, never has been my favorite and now that my V is temporarily out of order - I too dread it! LOL

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Re: Alternatives to intercourse?

Post  Hwhitt03 on Mon May 18, 2015 8:33 am

Hey there! ive been treated for vulvodynia for the past two years sex was so unbearable and I got given all the creams and nothing worked. It seemed to hurt inside not necessarily on the vulva. I also had bleeding after intercourse so a couple weeks ago I had a surgery to fix that. Before the surgery I asked the doctor to have a look at my vulvodynia while she was doing it to see if it could be anything else. Anyway it turns out it was! I had long hymen tags/remnants that didn't break properly so that's why it was so painful during sex. I had a simple hymenectony and can't have sex for 6 weeks but am so hopeful it'll be pain free and will update. You should get another opinion you could be surprised. It made a lot of sense and matched all my symptoms that imitated vulvodynia and vaginismus (I was given all the trainers and was told for so long it was in my head). Thought it'll be worth sharing the word just in case know how awful it is Smile

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