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Clitoris Issues

Tue Apr 28, 2015 8:17 pm by January

I am going crazyyy trying to figure out what's wrong. Please does anyone else have an issue similar to mine? I'm only 22. So, basically when my clit is lightly rubbed, there is no feeling. However, when rubbed vigorously and directly, the burning and tingling sensations shoot down my legs and feet as if coming to the end of an orgasm but with no good feeling leading up. It's so strange. What …

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Cured of Vulvodynia

Wed Aug 17, 2016 1:39 am by angelique2016

I used to post on this forum a long time ago and told everyone of how I was cured of my vulvodynia by a (Melbourne Australia) female dermatologist, she put me on very low doses of Nortriptyline (Allergron) for pain management about 10mgs I believe it was, and she also had me use Advantan Fatty Ointment (not the cream) (although I saw the cream for sale on ebay from germany) so it might help, as …

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Vulvodynia and IVF? Anyone done this? What does it do to the vulvadynia?

Sun Jul 30, 2017 1:03 am by Carolyn4

Hi everyone,

I have had vulvodynia since age 27--I am now 43 and it has been in pretty good remission.  I control it with acupuncture and herbs, and some cranial sacral therapy.  I have a 5 year old, had a pretty uneventful pregnancy which ended in a c-section.  My VV worsened after that, and I have worked hard to get it back under control (it took over a year to get it back into pretty good …

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Partial Vestibulectomy

Mon Jul 31, 2017 6:44 pm by JGD13

Hi all i am new here.
I had a partial vestibulectomy 21/7 for my provoked vulvodynia.
After a painful few days and feeling quite uncomfortable it seemed to get better. 1 week after i noticed some white stuff and gloopy discharge, it wasnt smelly or itchy but i got a check up at the gp surgery and the doctor said the stitches looked fine and i could just have a touch of thrush. He said this is …

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Post Vestibulectomy

Thu Aug 03, 2017 6:15 pm by infinitelywondering

Heya,

I had my vestibulectomy (full) about a day and a half ago. I was very sick and poorly just after the op and experienced intense pain down there Sad

However, today I came home and have done the following things:

-washed with warm water
-applied manuka honey to the area
-ensured I wash at least 3 times a day and dab the area dry gently
-use frozen peas to stop the swelling

As of now I am …

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New w/ Secondary Provoked Vestibuldynia

Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:46 pm by Birdy

Hi everyone,

I'm here because I'm pretty sure I have secondary provoked vestibuldynia, even though my gyno is still "optimistic" it is not.  My problem started six months ago when I got my second UTI in as many months (after going 25 years of life without one) and then ended up with a bad yeast infection (also my first one ever) thanks to the antibiotics.  Ever since the yeast …

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Anyone from the PNW?

Sat Aug 05, 2017 7:54 am by jungleclover

I'm located near Portland and I would be really cool to actually meet someone with this issue. I think my roommate in college technically had this problem. She had an overgrown hymen removed and can't deal with penetration as a result. But she is gay so it seems like it hasn't been a huge problem for her (although we didn't talk about it much so there was possibly more to it than she let on). …

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Constant pain, I want to die.

Fri Jun 02, 2017 4:29 am by Meggiemay

I posted on here a few years ago but my symptoms went away with the inflammation. I didn't get so lucky this time.

For over three months, i've had terrible rawness, burning, soreness in the urethral/vestibule area and pressure/hypersensitivity in the clitoral area. I've also had some lower abdominal pressure and burning on my butt. I can barely walk! My gyno hasn't been much help. I'm on …

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Newbie to the site

Sun Jul 30, 2017 12:16 am by Ksa

Hello. Thank you for this wonderful site. I'm currently under the care of a dr in Phoenix that specializes in vaginal disorders. I will probably be on a suppository of estridol the rest of my life and I am currently on medications for a rare form of vaginitis that's pretty unheard of for my age. My vagina literally hates me. I've struggled with vulvadynia for 20 years, the duration of my …

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Alternatives to intercourse?

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Alternatives to intercourse?

Post  geog272 on Wed Apr 22, 2015 1:15 am

I have DIV, vaginismus, and mild vulvodynia. Intercourse is always painful to some degree. Sometimes it is tolerable, sometimes not, occasionally it is actually pleasurable but overall I dread sex and hate it. Can anyone give me some ideas for other things that you are able to do with your DH to keep him happy? I have given so many BJs in the past five years that I am starting to find them repulsive. I am also the sleep deprived mother of a one year old who still doesn't sleep through the night and I am just so tired. I am feeling like sex and anything close to it requires an emotional energy reserve I no longer have. I wish that sex didn't exist! No

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Re: Alternatives to intercourse?

Post  toosore on Thu May 07, 2015 8:37 pm

I totally understand your situation!  I too am so sick of BJs!  I didn't mind doing them before, as part of foreplay, briefly for fun, but when it's the whole meal deal, yuck!  Anyhow, the only other option I know of is a really good hand job.  I found this tip on the tv show Sex Tips of Girls.  You need lots of lube to make it work, and you use both hands.  You probably need to be sitting up, facing him.  So, grasp his member with both hands, one hand above the other, and twist your hands in opposite directions (kind of like wringing out a cloth - except more gently (or not!)).  While twisting, move your hands up and down.  Again, lots of lube.  My hubby loves this!  He actually asks for it, and enjoys the change from BJ, too.  Keep a towel handy, as it gets messy. I hope you can follow this explanation, as it's kind of hard to describe without pictures!  Best of luck!

PS:  I was unable to have intercourse for five years.  Sometimes my hubby will handle himself while I kiss his neck and cuddle with him.

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Re: Alternatives to intercourse?

Post  mrs.optimistic on Sat May 16, 2015 8:47 am

^^ that's what me and my husband do! I too can't stand blow jobs. Just not my thing, never has been my favorite and now that my V is temporarily out of order - I too dread it! LOL

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Re: Alternatives to intercourse?

Post  Hwhitt03 on Mon May 18, 2015 8:33 am

Hey there! ive been treated for vulvodynia for the past two years sex was so unbearable and I got given all the creams and nothing worked. It seemed to hurt inside not necessarily on the vulva. I also had bleeding after intercourse so a couple weeks ago I had a surgery to fix that. Before the surgery I asked the doctor to have a look at my vulvodynia while she was doing it to see if it could be anything else. Anyway it turns out it was! I had long hymen tags/remnants that didn't break properly so that's why it was so painful during sex. I had a simple hymenectony and can't have sex for 6 weeks but am so hopeful it'll be pain free and will update. You should get another opinion you could be surprised. It made a lot of sense and matched all my symptoms that imitated vulvodynia and vaginismus (I was given all the trainers and was told for so long it was in my head). Thought it'll be worth sharing the word just in case know how awful it is Smile

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