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Sun Sep 02, 2018 12:51 am by Cloudberry

Hi everyone,

I'm so glad I found this forum! I was diagnosed with vulvodynia/vulvar vestibulitis (still not sure about the difference between all the different terms) a couple of months ago and I could do with some advice. This is probably going to be a lot of text because I just want to get everything off my chest, so please bear with me.

I’m a woman in my late 20s. Before getting diagnosed …

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Hurting, Burning, Itching, and Worn Out

Thu Aug 09, 2018 10:55 pm by donnambr

This vulvodynia that I'm currently suffering with is so cruel. I hurt, I burn, I itch. When I first got this several years ago, before the internet, I though I was the only one with this awful disorder. Doctors couldn't figure it out. I felt so alone and devastated. Somehow it disappeared for a few years and now I'm suffering again. This dreaded V misery is back and I feel like I will be with …

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Hi girls! New in this forum

Fri Jul 13, 2018 2:31 pm by Gaby

Hi everyone!

Also joining the V club, Here my story:

It all started last year in september with a very bad throat infection for which i had to take antibiotics for about a month. This cause several yeast infections (candidia albicans).... one after the other!. I had them every month from october 2017 till march 2018. During this period i use an incredible amount of anti-fungal creams and …

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Newbie and feeling helpless

Wed Jul 11, 2018 1:52 pm by Taylor1

Hi, I found out a few weeks ago that I have this condition, started off at the end of April as a uti took strong antibiotics then got a thrush infection and now this.. My doctor has tried me on amitriptyline and gabipentin and both made me so poorly I couldn't take it plus I have seen what long use of these drugs has done to my mom for pain and its not good. I am using coconut oil which does …

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I'm new to this forum and would love some advice! :)

Tue Jun 05, 2018 4:13 am by anikita

Hi lovely gals!

I'm honestly hoping to get any bit of advice anyone might have to offer. I go from bouts of sobbing hysterically in my boyfriend's arms to feeling confident that I can beat this.

I haven't been actually diagnosed with vulvodynia but EVERYTHING under the sun has come back negative. I started having sex 4 years ago after starting Lo Loestrin, with my first and current boyfriend …

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From a concerned husband

Thu Jul 12, 2018 10:45 pm by ConcernedYorkieHubby

Hello everyone,

This is probably a little unconventional, but I’m a man who is here because his wife has been diagnosed with vulvodynia. The poor girl has been suffering with vulva pain for around 10 years now, and I’ve been by her side through the pain and tears and doctors misunderstandings the whole way, and we’re both exhausted and terrified by the whole experience.

I’m sure a lot …

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I'M NEW - Do I listen to my gyno who I feel has it wrong?

Fri Mar 09, 2018 6:17 pm by Tunes25

Hello!

I am a 25 year old woman and wanted to share my story here as I feel frustrated by the suggestions of my gyno and am hoping for some advice.

To give the context for this: in September 2016 I moved in with my long term boyfriend after living abroad a year and (nearly) abstaining from sex. Within a few weeks I had got a yeast infection which I treated myself successfully, but then 2 weeks …

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Gabapentin Gel. or other topical creams

Thu May 10, 2018 9:43 am by Rosie21

Hi I have been suffering for some years with this abominable pain. I have tried most of the systemic drugs , I asked specialists and Doctors if I could at least try a topical treatment but because this requires a special prescription have been refused Has anybody had a chance of trying these? Thank you I will try to put a link on to some of the research into Gabapentin Gel. Thanks.

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What has been helping ME (much less pain over time!!)

Wed May 16, 2018 3:43 am by leoscc

Hello everyone! I vanished for quite some time as my life became consumed by not only this but other daily responsibilities as well. Shortly after my diagnosis, my boyfriend f 3 years left me as he did not want to deal with this. It left me broken for a while but also gave me time to figure out what the heck was going on. So, I will write out a quick list of my symptoms and what helped me.

1. I …

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Obsessive Compulsive Disorder - OCD - and Vulvodynia

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Obsessive Compulsive Disorder - OCD - and Vulvodynia

Post  Sapphire21 on Sat Aug 15, 2015 9:45 am

Hi all,

I have been free from painful sex for nearly two years now, and wanted to share my experience in case I can help anyone.

I had pain during sex for around 4 years (18-22). I was very lucky as I had an extremely supportive boyfriend, but the condition still absolutely devastated me.

I went to such a variety of doctors and specialists, did a huge amount of my own research (which, can be good, can be bad - it's so hard to know which studies are good and which studies aren't when you don't have a medical background. I also found listening to other's theories could be helpful, but again there was a danger there, as fellow sufferers weren't medical experts). I eventually became convinced that my pain was linked to a hormonal imbalance.

However, I actually found out that my Vulvodynia was, if not caused, at least exasperated by my OCD. My OCD may even have caused it. My OCD makes me obsess about things, and sometimes it can make me obsess about things without me even realising it. When I spoke to a psycho-sexual counsellor, she taught me ways to overcome my problem, purely by using my mind. I am now one hundred per cent able to have fully pain free and enjoyable sex so I know that, for me, this was the answer.

I know that there are a lot of women out there who this will not help, but there may be some who could benefit from this post, which is why I have decided to share.


In my personal experience, being convinced that the problem was related to one thing or another didn't actually help me cure it in the end - but I do appreciate that some people make a correct diagnosis of themselves. I think it is really important to talk to your doctor about your theories, and make them test you for everything you think of and everything they think of. And really push for these tests and for help with various specialists if you can.

But, for me, listening to their insistence to speak to a psycho-sexual counsellor really helped me. I do think a lot of their insistence on this was because I had nothing physical to see, just a pain that I felt. Again, I appreciate that this may not be the case for a lot of you.

Good luck to anyone reading this, and I send you all my love and support.

Sapphire21

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