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MAY HAVE FOUND A CURE- PLEASE READ

Thu Feb 15, 2018 10:04 pm by infinitelywondering

Dear all,

Today has been the day I've been waiting for. The day something FINALLY makes sense.
I've been told countless times that I've got nerve damage or a muscular condition, yet none of the specific treatments have helped me. My GP suggested attacking this from a different angle so referred me to a dermatologist specialist


after having a vestibulectomy with no success, I decided to visit …

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NO PAIN DURING SEX

Sat Feb 10, 2018 12:18 am by rockylife

I HAVE NO PAIN DURING SEX, BUT I FEEL THIS BURNING SENSATION ALL DAY JUST BESIDE THE VAGINAL OPENING. DO I REALLY HAVE A VULVODYNIA? I'M CONFUSED.

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Newby not sure where to turn

Thu Feb 01, 2018 3:32 pm by Cerjo87

Hi this is all very new to me , well the talking about it bit is , the pain while having sex and also the uncomfortable feelings after and feeling like I have  sistitus most of the time I’m very used to , I’ve suffered for 7 years now I’m only 30 . Finally after all this time the doctors or should I say my gp has said I have Vulvodynia and have givin me gabapentin to try .i told her I’d …

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Looking for a friend..... and new problems

Sat Jan 06, 2018 11:38 pm by infinitelywondering

Hi everyone,

I hope you're doing well.

I hate to say this, but I feel beaten down and terribly alone. I had a vestibulectomy surgery about 6 months ago and I was absolutely praying it would work. It didn't.

6 months later and here I am, sitting on my bedroom floor crying my eyes out because I know I'll never be able to have painfree sex. I don't know what to do and just need a friend Sad



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Newbie to the site

Sun Jul 30, 2017 12:16 am by Ksa

Hello. Thank you for this wonderful site. I'm currently under the care of a dr in Phoenix that specializes in vaginal disorders. I will probably be on a suppository of estridol the rest of my life and I am currently on medications for a rare form of vaginitis that's pretty unheard of for my age. My vagina literally hates me. I've struggled with vulvadynia for 20 years, the duration of my …

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Vulvodynia from #metoo media coverage

Thu Jan 25, 2018 9:01 pm by dooleyhornberg

I am wondering if anyone else in this forum has experience an increase or flare up in their vulvodynia as a result of the coverage of the sexual abuse scandals in Hollywood, DC, and the recent gymnastics scandal. I have definitely had a flare up.

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So frustrating!!

Thu Jan 04, 2018 1:15 am by Hannah77

Well I'm back in pain after 7 years of pain free days.
I was diagnosed with vulvodynia when I was 17. I suffered for three years with horrible burning all day, painful sex with my boyfriend and just pure misery Sad I went into a spontaneous remission when I was 20. I'm still not sure how the pain stopped but all the sudden I could go an entire day without thinking of my vagina, sex started to …

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Looking for suggestions or encouragement

Sat Jan 13, 2018 12:10 am by ryn207

Hi there. I'm 25 and have been dealing with this for over a year and a half and I'm really starting to lose hope this will ever stop.

In July of 2016 I had a yeast infection. When Monistat didn't work I went to my gynecologist who prescribed Diflucan. When the itching didn't stop she retested me and found that my yeast infection was gone, but I now had a bacterial infection. After taking the …

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Amitriptyline given for vulvodyina pain

Tue Oct 24, 2017 2:46 pm by katycrawford

Hi there,

After years of being misdiagnosed etc as most women have on this forum I have finally been diagnosed with vulvodynia (yay) and have been given the lowest dose of an antidepressant called Amitriptyline. Has anyone been on this before and has any positive (or negative) news to give me? Im feeling down already and I've only been taking it for a few days, I don't have much hope of it …

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V and W ...for Work

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V and W ...for Work

Post  Antaea on Thu May 12, 2016 8:07 am

Vulvodynia and Work... just curious:
How do you manage to work with V? How did your colleagues react? Were you open about your condition? How did your employer react?
Just now I find it very exhausting to work as a teacher. I am open to my colleages and of course my headmaster, even towards my students - I work as a music teacher at our local School for Culture. I "classify" my information, but all know that I suffer from uncurable nerve-pain " downstairs". If I react somewhat "weird" it may have its reason in my pain just now.
The reaction so far from all colleages and parents of my students has been positive without exception.
But I have to motivate me every second to work. And when I have closed the door to my room at 8.30 pm I could cry of pain and exhaustion.
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Re: V and W ...for Work

Post  emalita on Thu May 12, 2016 2:02 pm

Hi again! I'm sure you're sick of hearing from me on your posts Wink

I am lucky enough to work from home; so I don't have to explain to anyone (other than my fiancé) why I'm sitting very unladylike or taking a long time in the bathroom.

Personally, I don't feel that it is anyone's business what I'm going through unless I want to tell them, which I don't, or unless it impacts my job. However, due to seeing many different specialists that are often several hours away from me, I did send my boss a confidential email briefly indicating that I have a medical condition that requires care from doctors several hours away from me, and I reassured her that it would not impact my job other than the occasional last minute time off request. The only reason I told her anything was so she knew that there may be a need for me to take last minute time off. I am extremely lucky to work for a great company in a very flexible position where I get to pretty much call the shots on my schedule. As I know this isn't the case for most people, I can certainly understand the need to be more open about the nature of the condition.

I cannot imagine how difficult it must be to be in front of students all day while being in pain. That takes great strength to not only withstand the physical pain but the emotional pain as well.

Stay positive. Although my pain isn't gone, I've come a long way from where I was several months ago. Just keep trying new things, and it will get better with time.

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