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Amtriptyline, baclofen, gabapentin cream for provoked vestibuldynia

Mon Nov 20, 2017 8:15 pm by WVR00

Hello,
Has anyone had success with this cream in helping their vulvodynia? How long has it taken to help? I’ve had some success with it, but not completely better. I’ve been on it for a month. I️ was hoping to hear from some ladies who have had major success with this cream. I’m hoping for some encouragement here. This condition is so frustrating. I’m lucky enough to have access to two …

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Amitriptyline given for vulvodyina pain

Tue Oct 24, 2017 2:46 pm by katycrawford

Hi there,

After years of being misdiagnosed etc as most women have on this forum I have finally been diagnosed with vulvodynia (yay) and have been given the lowest dose of an antidepressant called Amitriptyline. Has anyone been on this before and has any positive (or negative) news to give me? Im feeling down already and I've only been taking it for a few days, I don't have much hope of it …

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New diagnosis, any advice whilst I wait for a specialist

Wed Oct 25, 2017 1:47 pm by Julesyjules

Hi,

I'm new here and wanted to ask for some advice whilst I wait to see a specialist nurse.

After urinary problems which lasted 7 weeks, I finally saw a urologist, who on examination discovered significant inflammation and called in a gynaecologist, who diagnosed vestibulitis. They referred me to a nurse who specialises in vulvar skin issues. That was 5 weeks ago, and I'm still waiting for the …

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Vulvodynia help

Tue Nov 14, 2017 4:27 pm by Katiej

Hi guys new here and newly diagnosed. So I had bv and then after alot of antibiotics and home remedies I still continued to have weird symptoms despite swabs being negative. Two seperate gynes have told me I have vulvodynia as a result of the area being overwhelmed. So first gave me lidocaine which xidnt do much. No I am on amitriptyline for the past 5 days. Seems to be kicking in a little (im a …

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New w/ Secondary Provoked Vestibuldynia

Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:46 pm by Birdy

Hi everyone,

I'm here because I'm pretty sure I have secondary provoked vestibuldynia, even though my gyno is still "optimistic" it is not.  My problem started six months ago when I got my second UTI in as many months (after going 25 years of life without one) and then ended up with a bad yeast infection (also my first one ever) thanks to the antibiotics.  Ever since the yeast …

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Newly diagnosed

Tue Oct 10, 2017 8:37 pm by Brevispink

Hello everyone. I have recently been diagnosed with unprovoked vulvodynia and would really appreciate some advice and support. I have had a chronic urine infection for 16 months and was on antibiotics for 9 of those months. I have been very uncomfortable for the entire time, but now I have absolutely unbearable stinging and burning all day with itching too. The infection has just about gone, …

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Recent "Poke" Pain - So Confused/Losing My Mind

Thu Oct 12, 2017 9:26 am by kelseybeth23

Long Story, but I am losing my mind and getting really depressed, so if I tell the full story maybe someone can help me.

Back in August I started to get an itch down there. Normally, in the past, when this would happen, I would change the way I wore my clothes, take more baths instead of showers, and use Monistat. This time, after about two weeks of no relief, I started to get concerned. I was …

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Does anyone else experience this?

Sat Oct 14, 2017 5:21 pm by Angelmegs

Hi— im new here. Im incredibly desperate so if anyone has any suggestions i would greatly appreciate it. Im a 20 year old female with vulvodynia and vaginismus. I was on the birth control pill (junel fe lo estrin) from age 13-18 because of severe menstrual pain. I used the xulane patch for a few months when i was 18 but eventually stopped BC altogether because it interferes with my med for …

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Post Full Vestibulectomy - 5 Years Later - Please Read

Tue May 02, 2017 6:18 pm by jen007

Hi All,

It's been awhile since I've written a new topic on the forum. Wondering if any of the same ladies are still here. I've come back to update you all on my post vestibulectomy results. I can't remember if I've done an update on my current state, so forgive me if this is repeated information... I can't remember how to view my old posts! Anyway, let me get on with my update.

For 4 years post …

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What on earth is wrong with my hoo-hah?

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What on earth is wrong with my hoo-hah?

Post  tensetensetense on Tue May 24, 2016 12:16 am

Hi all
Will try to be brief. 40s female, 15 years married, childless by choice.  Sorry if TMI!

My entire life sex has been tight. Painful. I can't relax. Same with pelvic exams.  Tampons? Hell no.  No sexual trauma in my past and I am sex-positive, comfortable with my body.

My husband is normal size. Very patient.  The reason it has taken a back seat is that we have an otherwise nice intimate life - we enjoy ALL forums of sensuality and there's plenty to do and we are both able to achieve orgasm in other ways. But he prefers sex.  We have tried positions, tons of lubes, kegels.  I cannot relax. It makes it worse.  Usually I just enjoy all the foreplay and feel very ready, we add lube and hell no.  I suffer through it usually hoping it ends quickly.

If I have an orgasm manually with him, it has to be AFTER penetration because after orgasm I am even tighter and there's just no way - and very sensitive.

I have had the same gyno for 10+ years. She's good, but short.  Quick. But a ball buster and I appreciate that because when it comes to labs and referrals, no one beats her.  She knows I am tight. I just suffered through it. I am kicking myself for not dealing with this 10 years ago!!    I asked her about it last time and even had my husband come in.  She just said I need to learn to relax.  Uh, as if I have not been trying that.  And I think she questions if am lubricated.  We add a ton of lube on top of my natural lube, and I do produce enough.

She prescribe Estradiol (sp) thinking my tissues were having trouble. I had a hysterectomy (including ovaries and cervix) two years ago since I was not having kids, they could do it laporascopically, and I had adenomyosis.  I do not regret the hysterectomy at all. I also take .0375 of estradiol 2x week as hormone replacement but my menopause symptoms are almost nil.

About a year prior to that I started to get UTIs. Never had one until then.  Azo and antibiotics worked but they kept coming back. I saw a urologist. She put me on oxybutynin, scoped my bladder and found no problems. The medication helped, but the blurred vision is KILLING ME.  She was not receptive so I got a second opinion.  By then I was having increased OAB TOO!!  Talk about nightmare.

Not OAB from stress -- like sneezing or laughing - mine is urge.  I am on a great bladder diet, no citrus, no soda, no booze, enough water, proper shape, eat well.  Lots of visits to urologist when I am having bladder pain. They cannot figure it out.  Tried all the classes of drugs: vesicare, mybetriq (sp), and now back to oxybutyin and I am just dealing with the vision.  I tried cutting the pills i half and my OAB came back. Sometimes I have to cancel business meetings (I work from home so I am safe here).  Sex? Uh, no.  Barely ever.  My poor husband.  We have intimacy in other ways but I know it's killing him.  He is a saint.

Now I am starting to have minor cognitive issues. I can't write (apologies if I repeat words in sentences) and I write for a living.  This is a dagger. I have to get off this drug.

Here is where I am --

I was referred to a pelvic floor phys. therapist (are they MDS or no?) and see her in a week. Fingers crossed.  Three appointments already booked after.  To be honest I tried insertables to see if I could "fix"myself and it was horrible. I want to be prepared for these visits.  The THIRD opinion uro I saw (a gyno urologist) told me the OAB and pelvic pain are NOT related. Although PT can help OAB.  All my urologists told me that if medication is out, I have to consider botox in the bladder or the nerve interstim thing (both freak me out). The idea that 20% of people that do the botox have to self-cath for up to ONE MONTH after is a deal breaker, I can't do it....I highly doubt at least. I travel, I go to meetings, I am out a lot, and I also am not good at that kind of thing and do NOT want to make my husband do it - talk about ruining the mystery and sensuality of my body!

And I asked her - can you add some botox to whatever muscles are related to my pelvic floor so I can have pain free sex and she no, totally not in the same area, not even an option. So it only solves ONE problem any way.

I am so depressed. I am also trying cognitive therapy.  Since I work from home I make sure I urinate ALL the time.

I have never had pain-free sex. Again, I am very down on myself because I never told anyone and always thought it would be better in time and since we did other things for intimacy it wasn't a big deal, but not my husband is starting to be like...wtf.  When we DO have full intercourse, I feel like I have to pee, on top of the pain, even if I went right before, and I cannot relax and it hurts like HELL.  But I pretend it does not.  Talk about shame. I just want him to be happy - it is so unfair to him.

Has anyone had a similar situation?  Any advice what I tell my urologist and/or PT?

Thank you!

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Re: What on earth is wrong with my hoo-hah?

Post  emalita on Tue May 24, 2016 12:39 am

Hi,

Nothing is TMI for this forum Wink

I can certainly relate. My fiancé and I have been together for 12 years, but we haven't been able to have sex for over a year now. I feel like such a horrible partner.

I personally have not tried PT because my pain is not currently related to pelvic floor dysfunction, but I will be using at home dialators once my pain is at a good permanent level. I have heard that PT can be a life saver, and from what I understand, the therapists have a lot more tests/treatments than what you can do at home...they can test your tightness and pinpoint the worst areas. So I think you are absolutely doing the right thing by seeing a physical therapist. I've also heard most women find that the therapists are very kind and gentle because all they do is deal with this type of pain.

As far as your UTIs go, have you tried the supplement D-Mannose?

I'm not sure why your doctor would be so dismissive of your conditions being related to each other. I know my pain has caused urinary frequency and urgency in the past when it had nothing to do with a UTI. Everything is very closely linked down there; so don't give up hope that finding relief for one will lead to improvement in the other.

I hope you find relief soon! Keep us posted on how your appointments go sunny

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Re: What on earth is wrong with my hoo-hah?

Post  kell on Tue May 24, 2016 2:11 am

I appreciate your post and I feel so much for you - I just never thought these type of issues even existed and I feel like I (and we) are all cheated somehow. I hope you are able to get some help with PT and hope also you will report back as to your experiences. I understand SO MUCH when you say you feel bad for your husband and its so unfair. I pretty much have had infrequent sex with him for a few years now and just endure the pain because I know a man needs that, but I miss having goddamn orgasms like I used to! Why does this have to happen.

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Re: What on earth is wrong with my hoo-hah?

Post  PainBlogger on Tue May 24, 2016 11:05 am

I hope you find the pelvic PT helpful. It's definitely helped me get my overreactive and tense PF muscles back under control. (I won't repeat here what I've posted elsewhere, but you can read about my problems and progress here if you like: http://vulvodyniasupport.forumotion.net/t2291-four-months-of-significant-improvement ) In my case I hadn't always had painful sex - it was fine before I got the UTI and thrush that started my issues - though interestingly I've never found tampons that easy to use.

Is duloxetine an option in the country where you live (I'm guessing the US) for OAB? I'm not on it for OAB (though I did have a lot of OAB symptoms when my problems started) but as it also can help pain it might do two jobs for you. I've had no side effects on it other than good ones. Acupuncture is another treatment with virtually no side-effects that could be worth a try if you have access to it.

In terms of your first PT appointment, the best advice I can give is for you to go in with some written notes and any questions you want to ask. Maybe keeping a pain diary/bladder emptying frequency diary would be helpful. Good luck.


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