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Thu Feb 21, 2019 5:49 am by Jet227

hey, im 19, ive been struggling with this almost a year. The first week I became itchy I went in to check about a yeast infection another week later. I have been to 10 different doctors a total of about 15 appointments for this problem for the past 11 months. I have been tested for everything including having a biopsy. I was first told basically to just go home and use hydrocortazone, then I went …

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Tue Jan 08, 2019 3:55 pm by flissyg

Hi All,

I’m so glad I’ve found a place where there are others who understand how I feel!

So this is my story:-

I’m 36,  and 4 months ago, whilst innocently sitting in bed reading I experienced a very sharp stabbing pain in my clitoris. It last only a few minutes and then subsided as quickly as it came on. It put it down to “one of those things”.  The following morning I woke up …

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New and need advice and help

Wed Dec 05, 2018 3:26 pm by Cin124

Hi everyone,

About three months ago, I started having vaginal and vulval itching. Then, about two months ago, my vulva started to feel painful and look swollen, so I went to the doctor. I was tested for herpes, chlamydia, and gonorrhea which all came back negative. I also had to do a vaginal swab test and the only thing that came back positive was yeast infection. I was prescribed hydrozole …

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New here would very much appreciate advice at the end of my rope

Wed Jan 09, 2019 9:09 pm by Jma990o

This might be a little long but it's been such a long time I've even been able to talk about my problems openly thank you in advance for any helpful advice.
So ok I'm 24 I've been having this problem for over two years seen quite a few doctors and obgyns alike and nobody will take me seriously I have had a few utis and yeast infections and even bv once and this all started after one of the utis …

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MonaLisa Touch

Fri Feb 08, 2019 7:35 pm by rl2091

Hi All,

I'm wondering if anyone has any experience with the MonaLisa Touch treatment for Vulvodynia? My pain started when I went on HRT(pill) for anxiety mainly and my pain abruntly stopped when I stopped HRT. However, when I started on the HRT patch (at my dr's suggestion), the pain returned and has never left. That was 7 years ago. I found MonaLisa Touch on the internet purely by accident …

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New member desperate need of other vulvadynia sufferers

Fri Feb 08, 2019 6:55 pm by Tfc13

Hi there hope some1 reading this is going through the same shit as me!, I'm new to this so don't really know where to start , I'm Teresa , I've just been diagnosed with vestibular vulvadynia , after countless appointments with GPS being misdiagnosed, tested for god knows everything , eventually under my gynochologist ,who done all her necessary tests, I now have been given a diagnosis I'm in …

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Looking for suggestions or encouragement

Sat Jan 13, 2018 12:10 am by ryn207

Hi there. I'm 25 and have been dealing with this for over a year and a half and I'm really starting to lose hope this will ever stop.

In July of 2016 I had a yeast infection. When Monistat didn't work I went to my gynecologist who prescribed Diflucan. When the itching didn't stop she retested me and found that my yeast infection was gone, but I now had a bacterial infection. After taking the …

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I'm new to this forum and would love some advice! :)

Tue Jun 05, 2018 4:13 am by anikita

Hi lovely gals!

I'm honestly hoping to get any bit of advice anyone might have to offer. I go from bouts of sobbing hysterically in my boyfriend's arms to feeling confident that I can beat this.

I haven't been actually diagnosed with vulvodynia but EVERYTHING under the sun has come back negative. I started having sex 4 years ago after starting Lo Loestrin, with my first and current boyfriend …

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Hello. Happy to have found this group.

Fri Dec 07, 2018 9:01 pm by foxysugarpants

I am new here and hope to gain some insight into my vulva pain. I suffered for a long time not realizing that there are ways to feel better. I saw the Dr. yesterday and I am starting P/T pelvic and valium suppositories. queen

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Helping My Partner Cope

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Helping My Partner Cope

Post  Huffmanl795 on Mon Aug 22, 2016 11:20 am

I have had vuvlodynia for five years and went into remission with it for two. Unfortunately three months in to dating a guy I fell in love with, my symptoms came back and I now have pudendal neuralgia. Is there any tips or advice on helping him cope through this? He is always there for me and supports me but it is taking a toll on him. I can't go out and do things like I use to, our love life suffers, and he feels guilty for feeling disappointed. How can I help him cope and not feel guilty, at fault, or alone. He has tried to find ways to cope but to no avail. I tell him all the time that it's ok to feel upset about it and sad. That I don't hold me against it. It affects him just as much as me. I just want to help him so our relationship can thrive. Any ideas?
Thanks!!

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Re: Helping My Partner Cope

Post  PainBlogger on Mon Aug 22, 2016 2:55 pm

Good communication is really important. If you can both be 100% open with each other and talk through worries, frustrations etc then that's a form of intimacy in itself. Not the most fun kind, obviously, but it does help to strengthen a relationship.

Finding things that you can still do together - if you don't feel well enough to go out then think of some things you can do to spend quality time together at home. Or is there a way you can make going out and about more manageable - like getting a good cushion if sitting is an issue or making other adaptations.

If you're researching possible treatment options that you've not yet tried then include him, show him articles you read etc.

When it comes to physical intimacy, it can be easy to cut it out completely so as not to raise expectations, but I think it's important to continue to share physical affection by any means that does not cause pain. By making sure he knows exactly what you can and can't do right now before getting into that situation you can remove any pressure to 'go that bit further' when caught up in the moment.

This condition, by its very nature, does take more of a toll on romantic partners than some other chronic conditions. Which is not to say that, for example, severe back pain or a heart condition cannot cause equal disruption to one's love life and socialising opportunities, but at least other conditions are easier to talk about with friends and family.

Good luck Smile

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