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Constant pain, I want to die.

Fri Jun 02, 2017 4:29 am by Meggiemay

I posted on here a few years ago but my symptoms went away with the inflammation. I didn't get so lucky this time.

For over three months, i've had terrible rawness, burning, soreness in the urethral/vestibule area and pressure/hypersensitivity in the clitoral area. I've also had some lower abdominal pressure and burning on my butt. I can barely walk! My gyno hasn't been much help. I'm on …

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Clitoris Issues

Tue Apr 28, 2015 8:17 pm by January

I am going crazyyy trying to figure out what's wrong. Please does anyone else have an issue similar to mine? I'm only 22. So, basically when my clit is lightly rubbed, there is no feeling. However, when rubbed vigorously and directly, the burning and tingling sensations shoot down my legs and feet as if coming to the end of an orgasm but with no good feeling leading up. It's so strange. What …

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New member

Sat Mar 18, 2017 7:37 pm by Lisa1627

Hi ladies. I am new to the forum. I have had what I think is vulvodynia caused from hsv 2. So not only do I have the burning vag but the constant feeling of being contagious. I can honestly say that I hate my life and myself right now. There are days when I think I would rather be dead. I tried the amitryptline and it helped but if it's only making my brain think I don't have pain then it's …

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Post Full Vestibulectomy - 5 Years Later - Please Read

Tue May 02, 2017 6:18 pm by jen007

Hi All,

It's been awhile since I've written a new topic on the forum. Wondering if any of the same ladies are still here. I've come back to update you all on my post vestibulectomy results. I can't remember if I've done an update on my current state, so forgive me if this is repeated information... I can't remember how to view my old posts! Anyway, let me get on with my update.

For 4 years post …

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Recovered from Vulvodynia

Thu May 04, 2017 9:42 pm by chancesunny

Hey everyone,

Im a new member on this forum and wanted to share my story so I can help anyone who is feeling helpless. Maybe what worked for me can work for you. I'll try to make this short so you can go get better!

I had vulvodynia for about 3-4 years. In the beginning, it started with pain that I thought was just a yeast infection and then I thought it was a urinary tract infection or …

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New here, my story and looking for advice

Wed Apr 26, 2017 9:02 am by rachiecakes

Hi All!

I was really hoping to get some feedback from everyone here - it's very hard dealing with an issue like this because no one really understands what I'm going through!

Im 28 years old I've had interstitial cystitis for 3 years - but never an vaginal issues. About 6 months ago I got a yeast infection following a course of antibiotics - similarly I developed IC after a bad UTI. The itching …

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New w/ Secondary Provoked Vestibuldynia

Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:46 pm by Birdy

Hi everyone,

I'm here because I'm pretty sure I have secondary provoked vestibuldynia, even though my gyno is still "optimistic" it is not.  My problem started six months ago when I got my second UTI in as many months (after going 25 years of life without one) and then ended up with a bad yeast infection (also my first one ever) thanks to the antibiotics.  Ever since the yeast …

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Male visitor

Wed Jan 18, 2017 11:19 pm by outsider

Hello!

I am a 25 year old guy who has erectile dysfunction following an injury a few years ago. I am here because I think that men and women with sexual dysfunction could benefit from dating each other. My experience has been that women have lost interest when they found out that penetrative sex was not possible with me.
So I am interested in learning more about female sexual disorders. Do young …

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New Here: Question/My Story

Mon Apr 03, 2017 2:00 am by overit14

Hi everyone. I came across this site by Googling "vulvar pain support". I feel like my case is different than most I read about so I was wondering if anyone else here experiences this in the way that I do.

This started in 2012 and has happened off and on since. I get really, really red and it's very painful, swollen and burns. Sometimes it may be a little itchy, but mostly it just …

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Just want a solution for a good quality of life

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Post  mariah2558 on Thu Dec 08, 2016 9:49 am

Hi all,
My name is Mariah, I am 19 years old and I was diagnosed with vulvodynia in November of last year 2015. They finally diagnosed me after I've been dealing with this condition for over 12 years. I can remember as far back to being 5 years old complaining to my parents that my pee pee hurt and it just got worse and worse as I grew older. I wasn't in nearly the pain I am now though. I can remember my later childhood years always being uncomfortable when I was wear tight clothing always getting into a warm bath and having these sharpe, burning and uncomfortable pains down in my vagina. When I would go see my doctors they almost kind of blew it off. Said it was a yeast infection and as the problem progressed as I got older they told me it was just bacterial vagininosis. Just prescribed me with Dyflucan gave me topical ointments, some antibiotics when it was "bacterial vaginiosis" told me to use Monistat creams if it came back down the road and sent me on my way. Sometimes those things worked but only for a couple hours and then I was back in pain but after a day or so it would go away and my vaginal area would just be irritated but it always was so it was nothing new for me. Now then I'm entering into my adult years, I'm in my second year of nursing school, I have 2 jobs, and I work for the hospital here in town I can't bare living like this anymore. Some days I'm okay just my normal irritation but these past 3 months have been so extremely awful for me. I've probably been to the ER 20 times because the pain is so excruciating I can't handle it anymore and need something. At some points I've been in so much pain I didn't sleep for 28 hours because I was up pacing myself back and forth, in and out of the bath tub, bawling because the pain is just so awful. The worst part about everything, even worse than the pain, no one understands what you're going through. No one understands how much pain you're in and how badly it affects you and hurts. They thing you just need to tough it out or get a higher pain tolerance. My gynecologist that diagnosed me but me on the nerve blocking medication called amitriptyline we started at 25mg just once a day until my body got used to it and then stayed on 50mg for a month with little problems then every time I got a flare up she would just up my medication i got up to 200mg of amitriptyline before she switched me over to gabapentin 300mg 3x a day. Then she explained to me how she had only seen a couple patients with this diagnosis and wanted to me to get some relief. So she sent me to see a specialist in Omaha. I feel like this doctor doesn't listen to a thing I'm saying. Everytime I call saying I'm in pain her nurse tells me oh take deep breathes it'll go away use cold compressions or get in the bath. She acts like I hadn't already done that. Like I said been dealing with this problem for 12+ years when I start to get my awful flare ups I almost immediately jump in the bath tub. After weeks of hownding them I was in pain they finally did something beside medication. They gave me lidocaine/steroid injections. That ended up making me feel even worse. I currently go to physical therapy to work on not clinching my nerves so much and loosening up my pelvic floor muscles. My specialist has me on gabapentin 300mg 6x times a day and lidocaine 5% topical ointment to put inside my vagina and on the outside of the vulva and vulvlar opening. I have an appointment to see a urogynecologist and an appointment at the Mayo Clinic in Minnesota. I just need some advice on what to do? Did anything work better for anyone? I have heard about the Botox injections and the surgery did any of those significantly help anyone? I'm desperate for advice and need some help. I can't even work or go to school without having a flare up at least twice a week? I just want to live a normal life of a young adult because right now I don't do anything for myself. I don't do anything for fun because the thought of putting anything on besides very big and baggy sweatpants makes me cringes. I'm desperate for answers. Anything helps, thank you and god bless.

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Re: Just want a solution for a good quality of life

Post  fairlight10 on Thu Dec 08, 2016 11:04 am

I am so sorry you have suffered with this for so long. We all know on this forum what you are going through. Start reading the posts on this forum. They are full of information that may bring you the relief you are searching for. You sound as if you have primary vulvodynia. As you had it when you were so young. Have you any female relation who have suffered similar problems? I am on nortriptyline 20 mgs now. This type of medication is known as antidepressants but in low doses and I emphasis low can give some of us on this forum relief from the symptoms you refer to. Also, you have noticed that urinating causes you problems. Look at the low oxalate diet. Also, some other medications can cause irritation in that area. Omeprazole is one of them.

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Re: Just want a solution for a good quality of life

Post  PainBlogger on Thu Dec 08, 2016 2:50 pm

A quick summary of what has helped me: duloxetine, acupuncture, physiotherapy/PT (including dilators at home), and mindfulness.

http://vulvodyniasupport.forumotion.net/t2291-four-months-of-significant-improvement#14400 for the fuller version with some lifestyle changes you might want to try if you haven't already. And, as fairlight says, have a good read through this forum. It may well be that a combination of different treatments/lifestyle changes will help. Finding that combination can take a while but is worth the effort of trying things.

It's a horrible condition, but people do get better. I really hope the specialists you're waiting to see can offer new insights.

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