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Constant pain, I want to die.

Fri Jun 02, 2017 4:29 am by Meggiemay

I posted on here a few years ago but my symptoms went away with the inflammation. I didn't get so lucky this time.

For over three months, i've had terrible rawness, burning, soreness in the urethral/vestibule area and pressure/hypersensitivity in the clitoral area. I've also had some lower abdominal pressure and burning on my butt. I can barely walk! My gyno hasn't been much help. I'm on …

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Clitoris Issues

Tue Apr 28, 2015 8:17 pm by January

I am going crazyyy trying to figure out what's wrong. Please does anyone else have an issue similar to mine? I'm only 22. So, basically when my clit is lightly rubbed, there is no feeling. However, when rubbed vigorously and directly, the burning and tingling sensations shoot down my legs and feet as if coming to the end of an orgasm but with no good feeling leading up. It's so strange. What …

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New member

Sat Mar 18, 2017 7:37 pm by Lisa1627

Hi ladies. I am new to the forum. I have had what I think is vulvodynia caused from hsv 2. So not only do I have the burning vag but the constant feeling of being contagious. I can honestly say that I hate my life and myself right now. There are days when I think I would rather be dead. I tried the amitryptline and it helped but if it's only making my brain think I don't have pain then it's …

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Post Full Vestibulectomy - 5 Years Later - Please Read

Tue May 02, 2017 6:18 pm by jen007

Hi All,

It's been awhile since I've written a new topic on the forum. Wondering if any of the same ladies are still here. I've come back to update you all on my post vestibulectomy results. I can't remember if I've done an update on my current state, so forgive me if this is repeated information... I can't remember how to view my old posts! Anyway, let me get on with my update.

For 4 years post …

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Recovered from Vulvodynia

Thu May 04, 2017 9:42 pm by chancesunny

Hey everyone,

Im a new member on this forum and wanted to share my story so I can help anyone who is feeling helpless. Maybe what worked for me can work for you. I'll try to make this short so you can go get better!

I had vulvodynia for about 3-4 years. In the beginning, it started with pain that I thought was just a yeast infection and then I thought it was a urinary tract infection or …

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New here, my story and looking for advice

Wed Apr 26, 2017 9:02 am by rachiecakes

Hi All!

I was really hoping to get some feedback from everyone here - it's very hard dealing with an issue like this because no one really understands what I'm going through!

Im 28 years old I've had interstitial cystitis for 3 years - but never an vaginal issues. About 6 months ago I got a yeast infection following a course of antibiotics - similarly I developed IC after a bad UTI. The itching …

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New w/ Secondary Provoked Vestibuldynia

Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:46 pm by Birdy

Hi everyone,

I'm here because I'm pretty sure I have secondary provoked vestibuldynia, even though my gyno is still "optimistic" it is not.  My problem started six months ago when I got my second UTI in as many months (after going 25 years of life without one) and then ended up with a bad yeast infection (also my first one ever) thanks to the antibiotics.  Ever since the yeast …

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Male visitor

Wed Jan 18, 2017 11:19 pm by outsider

Hello!

I am a 25 year old guy who has erectile dysfunction following an injury a few years ago. I am here because I think that men and women with sexual dysfunction could benefit from dating each other. My experience has been that women have lost interest when they found out that penetrative sex was not possible with me.
So I am interested in learning more about female sexual disorders. Do young …

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New Here: Question/My Story

Mon Apr 03, 2017 2:00 am by overit14

Hi everyone. I came across this site by Googling "vulvar pain support". I feel like my case is different than most I read about so I was wondering if anyone else here experiences this in the way that I do.

This started in 2012 and has happened off and on since. I get really, really red and it's very painful, swollen and burns. Sometimes it may be a little itchy, but mostly it just …

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Post-vestibulectomy (partial) recovery- going back to work?

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Post-vestibulectomy (partial) recovery- going back to work?

Post  Gill on Wed Jan 18, 2017 7:25 pm

Hi,

I have a partial vestibulectomy and hymenectomy scheduled for Monday. My doctor has said that I will need about a week to recover, but I haven't seen anything less than two weeks on Internet forums, and I've seen one comment that said you shouldn't go back to work before six weeks!

I know that some of the comments have been for full vestibulectomies; if you've had a partial, how long was it before you went back to work? I've seen people say that doing too much too soon can make the surgery less likely to work, so don't want to get it wrong, but have to try to convince my Dr, so wanted to know what people's experiences are of recovery from partial...?

Thank you!

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Re: Post-vestibulectomy (partial) recovery- going back to work?

Post  sarahjane1332343 on Sat May 06, 2017 5:50 pm

Hi! I don't really have much to add in terms of your questions but I have suffered from Vulvodynia from the age of 15 and I'm now 21. I'm looking into getting surgery and I was wondering which is the doc / hospital you are hoping to get the surgery from?

Thanks, Sarah

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Post  Gill on Sat May 06, 2017 6:18 pm

Hi Sarah, I saw Dr Hutchon at Solihull Hospital. As far as I understood I was her first vestibulodynia vestibulectomy. Surgery and recovery were fine, and the area she operated on massively improved.

My pain was all primary provoked. I still have a lot of pain in other surrounding areas of the vestibule that weren't removed.

I would also recommend the Face book group 'vestibulectomy surgery and vestibulodynia support group'. If you look through the historical posts ppl also recommend Dr Gabrielle Downey in bham.

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Re: Post-vestibulectomy (partial) recovery- going back to work?

Post  sarahjane1332343 on Sat May 06, 2017 7:14 pm

Hi Gill,

Thank you for your very speedy response. I have found the one in Birmingham you suggested, she seems to be very experienced. Was your surgery on the NHS? How did your surgery go as I know you had it in January? I have unprovoked vulvodynia as it just burns constantly, do you think she would be likely to operate on me?

Thanks

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Re: Post-vestibulectomy (partial) recovery- going back to work?

Post  Gill on Sat May 06, 2017 9:05 pm

Hi, I haven't seen her, and as mine is provoked I don't know whether surgery is a viable option for unprovoked, sorry. I just know that provoked is ideal.

My surgery was on the NHS. It was partial, 3pm to 9pm on the clock face. Surgery was smooth. Done in the morning, over by mid morning, went home the next morning (some ppl go home the same day), recovery for 2 weeks at home. The pain was never as bad as it was from vv! It just got itchy when the skin started to knit together between days 4-11ish. There's a lot of advice about how to deal w surgery on the Fb page I mentioned.

Spoke to dr recently and she said I'll need to wait a few more months before we know completely how well it's worked, but I have had massive improvement in the area that was removed. The tissue on either side (1-3pm and 9-10pm) is still a serious problem but not as bad as the tissue that was removed, and the surgeon said this can happen in the short-medium term with vaginal tissue. She said there may be further improvements over the next few months.

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Re: Post-vestibulectomy (partial) recovery- going back to work?

Post  sarahjane1332343 on Sat May 06, 2017 9:43 pm

I truly hope you make a full recovery x

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Post  Gill on Sat May 06, 2017 10:14 pm

Thank you. Same to you! Smile

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Surgery

Post  infinitelywondering on Sun May 07, 2017 9:26 am

Hi there,

I am having surgery in about 2 months by Dr Gabrielle Downey. I originally saw her privately but my operation will be on the NHS (You don't have to initially see her privately, I was just tired of waiting). I haven't had the surgery yet but she is brilliant and very knowledgeable. She assured me that she has an 80% success rate of being totally cured; the worst she said would be that my pain would just remain the same.

I'm hoping it all goes well! And I would definitely recommend her!

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Re: Post-vestibulectomy (partial) recovery- going back to work?

Post  sarahjane1332343 on Mon May 08, 2017 8:53 am

Hiya! I have requested an appointment with her! How long did it take for your first appointment to now? Also do you have provoked or unprovoked vulvodynia if you don't mind me asking? I hope your surgery goes well and that you get the results you want.

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Re: Post-vestibulectomy (partial) recovery- going back to work?

Post  Kezz on Sat May 13, 2017 1:27 am

Hi girls! Such promising news of an experienced surgeon in England. Infinitelywondering, how much was the private appointment? I think I want to go down this route too. I've literally been waiting years and im sick of it now. After your private appointment did she suggest that you then go public for the operation? Also are you girls from Birmingham? My gp told me she couldn't refer me to anyone outside London on the nhs (i live in London) but I feel like she's wrong. I want the surgery so bad, i have provoked pain during sex.

Thanks gals xxx

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Re: Post-vestibulectomy (partial) recovery- going back to work?

Post  sarahjane1332343 on Tue May 16, 2017 4:04 pm

Hiya Kezz. I rung up the BMI hospital yesterday where the expert consultant is supposed to be at. It costs £180 for an initial consultation and I've had to wait around 2 and a half weeks (so still not that fab). It is a load of bollocks that your GP can't refer you to anybody outside of London. Demand it. Not sure how long you will be waiting for though - perhaps ask for an urgent referral or if you can afford it see her privately. I'm from Manchester and will be travelling down specially to see her. I will probably be going on the NHS for any procedures after that as it will cost thousands -- again each to their own though and depends what treatment she offers you. If you need any more info or help or advice PM me and I'll be happy to help Smile xx She will definitely be able to help you for your provoked pain.

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