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Tue Oct 10, 2017 8:37 pm by Brevispink

Hello everyone. I have recently been diagnosed with unprovoked vulvodynia and would really appreciate some advice and support. I have had a chronic urine infection for 16 months and was on antibiotics for 9 of those months. I have been very uncomfortable for the entire time, but now I have absolutely unbearable stinging and burning all day with itching too. The infection has just about gone, …

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Recent "Poke" Pain - So Confused/Losing My Mind

Thu Oct 12, 2017 9:26 am by kelseybeth23

Long Story, but I am losing my mind and getting really depressed, so if I tell the full story maybe someone can help me.

Back in August I started to get an itch down there. Normally, in the past, when this would happen, I would change the way I wore my clothes, take more baths instead of showers, and use Monistat. This time, after about two weeks of no relief, I started to get concerned. I was …

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Does anyone else experience this?

Sat Oct 14, 2017 5:21 pm by Angelmegs

Hi— im new here. Im incredibly desperate so if anyone has any suggestions i would greatly appreciate it. Im a 20 year old female with vulvodynia and vaginismus. I was on the birth control pill (junel fe lo estrin) from age 13-18 because of severe menstrual pain. I used the xulane patch for a few months when i was 18 but eventually stopped BC altogether because it interferes with my med for …

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Post Full Vestibulectomy - 5 Years Later - Please Read

Tue May 02, 2017 6:18 pm by jen007

Hi All,

It's been awhile since I've written a new topic on the forum. Wondering if any of the same ladies are still here. I've come back to update you all on my post vestibulectomy results. I can't remember if I've done an update on my current state, so forgive me if this is repeated information... I can't remember how to view my old posts! Anyway, let me get on with my update.

For 4 years post …

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Do you ever worry that you're making it up?

Fri May 27, 2016 6:50 am by Lucci

Hello,

I was diagnosed with Vaginismus and Vulvar Vestibulitis 10 years ago. I was 18 and scared and moving across the country for college, but luckily was able to find a doctor who specialized in 'Women's Health' who immediately put me into physical therapy. Long story short, I've been in and out of the system ever since.

A few years into treatment, I had the diagnosis of PTSD added on for …

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Clitoris Issues

Tue Apr 28, 2015 8:17 pm by January

I am going crazyyy trying to figure out what's wrong. Please does anyone else have an issue similar to mine? I'm only 22. So, basically when my clit is lightly rubbed, there is no feeling. However, when rubbed vigorously and directly, the burning and tingling sensations shoot down my legs and feet as if coming to the end of an orgasm but with no good feeling leading up. It's so strange. What …

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Cured of Vulvodynia

Wed Aug 17, 2016 1:39 am by angelique2016

I used to post on this forum a long time ago and told everyone of how I was cured of my vulvodynia by a (Melbourne Australia) female dermatologist, she put me on very low doses of Nortriptyline (Allergron) for pain management about 10mgs I believe it was, and she also had me use Advantan Fatty Ointment (not the cream) (although I saw the cream for sale on ebay from germany) so it might help, as …

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Vulvodynia and IVF? Anyone done this? What does it do to the vulvadynia?

Sun Jul 30, 2017 1:03 am by Carolyn4

Hi everyone,

I have had vulvodynia since age 27--I am now 43 and it has been in pretty good remission.  I control it with acupuncture and herbs, and some cranial sacral therapy.  I have a 5 year old, had a pretty uneventful pregnancy which ended in a c-section.  My VV worsened after that, and I have worked hard to get it back under control (it took over a year to get it back into pretty good …

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Partial Vestibulectomy

Mon Jul 31, 2017 6:44 pm by JGD13

Hi all i am new here.
I had a partial vestibulectomy 21/7 for my provoked vulvodynia.
After a painful few days and feeling quite uncomfortable it seemed to get better. 1 week after i noticed some white stuff and gloopy discharge, it wasnt smelly or itchy but i got a check up at the gp surgery and the doctor said the stitches looked fine and i could just have a touch of thrush. He said this is …

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How do you live with this?

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Post  Persevere1990 on Wed Feb 22, 2017 12:15 am

Hi everyone,

It's great to see there is a support network here... I was diagnosed a few weeks ago and have started nightly treatment with lidocaine cream one week ago. Not noticing any difference yet.

I notice I get flare ups throughout the day, typically after peeing, showering, walking and when I'm stressed. I'm pretty sure my vulvodynia was caused by nerve damage due to a bad case of thrush over Christmas.

I am really struggling to cope with this condition so far and get very anxious when I'm at work or out the house about it. I'm panicking that I'm never going to have a day without pain ever again.

Does anyone have any similar experience or advice to share?

Thank you
Xxx

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hang in there

Post  amf329 on Wed Mar 08, 2017 10:36 pm

Hi there,

I just wanted to reach out to say that I'm sending you hope and healing vibes.

I've been dealing with this issue - though I've chosen not to label it V because I know it's not just that, and claiming that it is just labels me as 'sick' - for over a year and a half now BUT I am SO much better than I was when it first started. And that was pretty horrific so I have a lot of empathy for where you are right now. Just take it one day at a time, ok?

While I'm not 100% healed, I'm very close - and I have tried a lot of things to get well... and am still figuring out this last piece of the puzzle... But I have had weeks of no pain at all so I know I can get there. And I know you can too.

My first suggestion is to decide you will get well. The second is to use what you need to by way of prescriptions/medications/etc. to get through this part. While I'm not a huge proponent of drugs because they don't heal but they CAN help when the pain is bad. And my third is to search this forum for success stories and stories of healing and hope, as that will help ease your mind.

We're all different and we'll all healing on some level though it may be by different methods so stay open to what may work for you...

hugs,
A

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Thank you!

Post  Persevere1990 on Thu Mar 09, 2017 8:43 pm

Thank you for the reply A, it makes such a difference being able to talk to someone who really understands.

Over the last two weeks I have started taking 30mg Nortryptiline every night and it dramatically decreased my pain levels. Over the last 5 days I have been mostly pain free with just a few hours of pain on one or two days. I am hoping the pain can be reduced further by staying on the medicine. I have been to have accupuncture too, twice now and hope this is also contributing to the results.

Can I ask what has worked well for you in terms of treating the pain?

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Things to try

Post  ellenb on Tue Mar 28, 2017 1:30 am

I know this may sound silly but it has helped me some. Get a squirt bottle and rinse after you pee. This helps if residue from your urine is causing the pain. I've been taking gabapentin, seeing a physical therapist. Steriod cremes and lidocaine have not helped me but everyone is different. I feel your pain!! Good luck

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Re: How do you live with this?

Post  Madsmum on Wed Mar 29, 2017 5:27 pm

Hello
My 12 year old daughter has vulvodynia and has had it for about 4 months. It was awful not knowing what was wrong with her but knowing has made it a bit easier to try to deal with after lots of misdiagnosis that made her pain worse. She has missed nearly the whole term of school but has managed 10 days since half term and she has caught up with her work. She is seeing a vulva specialist who prescribed instillagel which is a lighter form of lidocaine. Lidocaine ust stung her but the gel doesn't hurt and can be used as often as every 30 mins. The specialists says to use it at least 4 times a day or when you need to and it can be used with other creams like emuaid. We tried emuaid but we are not sure it worked. I got her a bony parts cushion which she says helps in the car and on soft furniture but not on hard seats so I have ordered a Bonmedico orthopaedic surgical ring donut pillow for her to use at school as the hard seats take their tole the next day and it takes the pressure of according to people with piles and some vulvodynia sufferers use memory foam donuts so I thought I would try something more orthopedic.Vagikool was recommended by the specialist it's a gel ice pack that you freeze put in a sleeve and put it in your underwear and this is the only thing that really seems to help my daughter straight away. So I bought 4 of them

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