Wed Jan 18, 2017 11:19 pm by outsider
I am a 25 year old guy who has erectile dysfunction following an injury a few years ago. I am here because I think that men and women with sexual dysfunction could benefit from dating each other. My experience has been that women have lost interest when they found out that penetrative sex was not possible with me.
So I am interested in learning more about female sexual disorders. Do young …
Sat Mar 18, 2017 7:37 pm by Lisa1627
Mon Apr 03, 2017 2:00 am by overit14
This started in 2012 and has happened off and on since. I get really, really red and it's very painful, swollen and burns. Sometimes it may be a little itchy, but mostly it just …
Fri Mar 17, 2017 9:52 pm by canuck girl
I found the site tonight, and am so pleased I did, I hadn't realised it was such a problem, and I for one am grateful that the group exists. I recently had a really awful , well the worst one I had ever had UTI, after 4 days of antibiotics it should have cleared though. i now had this awful feeling, and sensations, very sore, burning, some strange sensations I have that are hard …
Wed Feb 22, 2017 12:15 am by Persevere1990
It's great to see there is a support network here... I was diagnosed a few weeks ago and have started nightly treatment with lidocaine cream one week ago. Not noticing any difference yet.
I notice I get flare ups throughout the day, typically after peeing, showering, walking and when I'm stressed. I'm pretty sure my vulvodynia was caused by nerve damage due to a bad case of thrush …
Wed Aug 17, 2016 1:39 am by angelique2016
Wed Nov 30, 2016 8:54 pm by Roselilyflower
Mon Feb 20, 2017 8:35 am by surprisemom44
I just found this site tonight. I am on my fourth round of antibiotics in a row since Nov. But honestly, have been having the pain, itching, burning for years. I had never heard of this condition until tonight and have not been diagnosed but I feel it has to be what I have. I had my first encounter with burning, itching, pain when I was 12! My mom tried to get me to douche! I had …
Sat Feb 11, 2017 11:22 pm by crackleberry
My main issue now is one that is causing us alot of problems, I have developed a fear of traveling. My husband loves to travel and I used to also before I got vulvadynia. Now every trip is marred with much anxiety and I end up cancelling at the last minute sometimes, like today.
I still think back to how I was years ago when I was feeling my worst and we traveled, I would end up in extreme pain, not able to even sit for one hr for dinner and would end up lying in bed with an icepack on my painful vagina just trying to sleep and wishing I was at home. Now a days when I can get myself to travel, (usually this involves alot of talking into by my husband) I am usually ok, a bit sore due to sitting but nothing like before, I am usually happy that I went but it's just so hard to talk myself into going, I have that fear in the back of my head what if it does get bad again...
This is an irrational fear but is causing alot of problems in my marriage, at the time I just think, I just don't want to deal with having a sore vagina, it's not worth it, but when I look a my husbands sad face when he leaves I know I have to change this somehow.
I am going to try counseling maybe bahavioural or some anxiety reducing techniques...my life is almost back to normal, I don't want this terrible condition to run my life anymore. How do you guys cope with traveling issues? have any of you tried going to therapy to deal with issues related to your vulvodynia?
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