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Fri Nov 24, 2017 8:05 am by Andlag

Hey everyone,

since I started being sexually active i often experienced burning in my vagina which was often worse during sex /around the time of my period or when using lubricants. I was never able to use tampons because the one time i tried putting them in it felt like acid was poured on my skin. Fast forward to 2 months ago when I got a UTI and an allergic reaction in my vagina. I thought it …

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7 years later and life looks bleak :(

Wed Dec 06, 2017 2:50 am by RainyShay77

So 7 years ago I had a case of BV...the antibiotic caused a horrible yeast infection which took 5 months to 'get rid of'. During this time I had allergic reactions to 2 of the yeast infection creams which magnified the pain. Over the past 7 years I've tried multiple rounds of physical therapy (they only slightly helped), chiropractic, nerve blocks, medications to target nerve pain (amitriptyline, …

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Amtriptyline, baclofen, gabapentin cream for provoked vestibuldynia

Mon Nov 20, 2017 8:15 pm by WVR00

Hello,
Has anyone had success with this cream in helping their vulvodynia? How long has it taken to help? I’ve had some success with it, but not completely better. I’ve been on it for a month. I️ was hoping to hear from some ladies who have had major success with this cream. I’m hoping for some encouragement here. This condition is so frustrating. I’m lucky enough to have access to two …

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Amitriptyline given for vulvodyina pain

Tue Oct 24, 2017 2:46 pm by katycrawford

Hi there,

After years of being misdiagnosed etc as most women have on this forum I have finally been diagnosed with vulvodynia (yay) and have been given the lowest dose of an antidepressant called Amitriptyline. Has anyone been on this before and has any positive (or negative) news to give me? Im feeling down already and I've only been taking it for a few days, I don't have much hope of it …

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New diagnosis, any advice whilst I wait for a specialist

Wed Oct 25, 2017 1:47 pm by Julesyjules

Hi,

I'm new here and wanted to ask for some advice whilst I wait to see a specialist nurse.

After urinary problems which lasted 7 weeks, I finally saw a urologist, who on examination discovered significant inflammation and called in a gynaecologist, who diagnosed vestibulitis. They referred me to a nurse who specialises in vulvar skin issues. That was 5 weeks ago, and I'm still waiting for the …

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Vulvodynia help

Tue Nov 14, 2017 4:27 pm by Katiej

Hi guys new here and newly diagnosed. So I had bv and then after alot of antibiotics and home remedies I still continued to have weird symptoms despite swabs being negative. Two seperate gynes have told me I have vulvodynia as a result of the area being overwhelmed. So first gave me lidocaine which xidnt do much. No I am on amitriptyline for the past 5 days. Seems to be kicking in a little (im a …

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New w/ Secondary Provoked Vestibuldynia

Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:46 pm by Birdy

Hi everyone,

I'm here because I'm pretty sure I have secondary provoked vestibuldynia, even though my gyno is still "optimistic" it is not.  My problem started six months ago when I got my second UTI in as many months (after going 25 years of life without one) and then ended up with a bad yeast infection (also my first one ever) thanks to the antibiotics.  Ever since the yeast …

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Newly diagnosed

Tue Oct 10, 2017 8:37 pm by Brevispink

Hello everyone. I have recently been diagnosed with unprovoked vulvodynia and would really appreciate some advice and support. I have had a chronic urine infection for 16 months and was on antibiotics for 9 of those months. I have been very uncomfortable for the entire time, but now I have absolutely unbearable stinging and burning all day with itching too. The infection has just about gone, …

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Recent "Poke" Pain - So Confused/Losing My Mind

Thu Oct 12, 2017 9:26 am by kelseybeth23

Long Story, but I am losing my mind and getting really depressed, so if I tell the full story maybe someone can help me.

Back in August I started to get an itch down there. Normally, in the past, when this would happen, I would change the way I wore my clothes, take more baths instead of showers, and use Monistat. This time, after about two weeks of no relief, I started to get concerned. I was …

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Can anyone else not have sex AT ALL?

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Can anyone else not have sex AT ALL?

Post  searchingforacure_ on Sat Apr 29, 2017 7:04 pm

Hello,

I have struggled since I was 15/16 with vulvodynia and it was always annoying, but it never prevented me from having sex until about a year ago when I had a serious flare up. Since then, I haven't been able to have any sexual activity at all....if anyone else has gone through this, how did you cope? Were you able to find a partner still? I feel so hopeless...

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Re: Can anyone else not have sex AT ALL?

Post  Dora The Explorer on Sun Apr 30, 2017 6:00 am

I don't wish to dishearten you, but I am no longer able to have sex. Maybe someone else has found a way around the pain and can offer some useful advice.
I had to have a cervical smear earlier this year and I was crying out in agony.
I was given these things to try, they are like plastic penis' in varying widths, the first being about the size of a finger, progressively getting bigger, until "normal" penis width. You're supposed to lubricate them and gently insert them into yourself when you are relaxed and comfortable, so that you break away from that initial "freeze"\frightened of the pain response.
The theory sounds good, but I'm to afraid to try.

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Post  Dora The Explorer on Sun Apr 30, 2017 6:45 am

My story likely starts from birth. As a baby apparently my mum couldn't get rid of my nappy rash, the only thing that would help was metanium, sudocream didn't touch it. As a teenager, I believed I had a lot of thrush, so used canestan like it was going out of fashion, especially as I got older and started having sex, after sex I would itch horrendously.
Once I started living with my husband, and having sex more regularly I really regularly would use canestan. Then it turned from itching to pain, to the point it was like I was being raped. Then I sought help. I was diagnosed with vestibulitis, but I think all the creams I was prescribed also irritated my skin. My skin is sensitive at the best of times, so I seem to have eczema and vestibulitis. I itch constantly and haven't tried sex for 3 1/2 years.
I don't have the constant daily pain that others describe, I itch constantly, and scratch the itch so tear myself apart and have pain that way. And if anything touches one of the 4 glands that surround my vagina, it's like I've been touched with a red hot poker. Last time I had sex the pain was horrendous, and my last smear confirmed that it still would be.

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Re: Can anyone else not have sex AT ALL?

Post  chancesunny on Thu May 04, 2017 9:18 pm

Physical therapy is key!!! I had pain during sex for 3 years and I also felt hopeless. After literally years of research and trying every kind of medication, I found a physical therapist who specialized in relaxing muscles by applying pressure with her fingers to my pelvis area. She also trained me on how to release my pelvic muscles which was exactly what helped me with my vaginal pain. The sad thing is that a lot of women don't like to have anyone touch them in the way that they need to get better. It is extremely painful in the beginning but it is so eye opening. I completely recommend physical therapy to anyone having painful sex. I used to not even be able to put a tampon in and now I'm having painless and wonderful sex. I do still have some pain time to time but I know what to do to release those muscles and calm myself down. I hold all of my stress in my gut so that's why the pain came on - I was going through a very stressful time at work. Good luck!

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I can't

Post  Gill on Sat May 06, 2017 7:56 pm

I can't have sex.

There are two main things I do to tackle it:

- My husband and I went to a great psychosexual counsellor who talked about 'other things' we could do in the bedroom, and that helped a lot. We've been together for 3 years since finding out.

- I keep on researching and going to Drs and reading forums etc. I had some improvement from PT, enough to be able to put in a tampon. Had partial vestibulectomy a few months ago (mine is provoked and localised, so am an excellent candidate), and had further improvement, but still not enough for sex. I'm not giving up hope yet; dr says it might get better with more healing. Otherwise hope to push for more surgery.

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Big fat nope to sex

Post  KaseyT85 on Wed Jun 07, 2017 1:52 pm

I used to be able to have sex, but now it is just too painful.
I am about to commence using the dilators for physical therapy to try and retrain the muscles.
Also, I have been diagnosed with a dermatitis in addition to the vulvodynia so I am using steroids, soap free aqueous cream in the shower and barrier cream.
I am hoping to see results over the next couple of months.

I would suggest trying to obtain a referral to a vulval clinic for them to review what might work for you.

It is a terrible condition, I wouldn't wish it on anyone. Not only physically, but mentally as well.

Best of luck Smile

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Re: Can anyone else not have sex AT ALL?

Post  mary jane on Wed Jun 07, 2017 2:31 pm

Dora The Explorer wrote:My story likely starts from birth. As a baby apparently my mum couldn't get rid of my nappy rash, the only thing that would help was metanium, sudocream didn't touch it. As a teenager, I believed I had a lot of thrush, so used canestan like it was going out of fashion, especially as I got older and started having sex, after sex I would itch horrendously.
Once I started living with my husband, and having sex more regularly I really regularly would use canestan. Then it turned from itching to pain, to the point it was like I was being raped. Then I sought help. I was diagnosed with vestibulitis, but I think all the creams I was prescribed also irritated my skin. My skin is sensitive at the best of times, so I seem to have eczema and vestibulitis. I itch constantly and haven't tried sex for 3 1/2 years.
I don't have the constant daily pain that others describe, I itch constantly, and scratch the itch so tear myself apart and have pain that way. And if anything touches one of the 4 glands that surround my vagina, it's like I've been touched with a red hot poker. Last time I had sex the pain was horrendous, and my last smear confirmed that it still would be.

the ithcing sounds like neuropathic itch. Have you ever taken medication for this? They used to treat this condition with alchohol nerve killing injections

here is the link:

http://www.atlasofpelvicsurgery.com/1VulvaandIntroitus/9alcoholinjection/chap1sec9.html

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