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» New and need some help
Fri Feb 23, 2018 1:12 pm by fairlight10

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Thu Feb 22, 2018 10:47 pm by LindafromNJ

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New and need some help

Wed Feb 21, 2018 4:30 pm by LindafromNJ

New to this site ad trying to figure out how it works.  I am trying to post as a new member so I am hoping this goes thru.  I am a senior adult and have just been diagnosed by the Drexil Vaginitis Center to have vulvodynia along with Vestibulitis (not sure if spelled correctly).  My symptoms are vaginal burning, itching, soreness around the vaginal opening with one spot in particular.  Some …

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Anyone from New Jersey

Thu Feb 22, 2018 10:47 pm by LindafromNJ

Looking to maybe talk to someone from NJ to see if there are any support groups in this state.

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vaginal cream

Thu Feb 22, 2018 10:46 pm by LindafromNJ

I have been given ABC cream to start using for my condition. This is gabapentin, amitriptyline and baclofen cream. Has anyone tried this. Also has anyone used lidocaine. My doctor told me not to use it. It is so sore at the vaginal opening. Has anyone used it there. Please respond!!

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MAY HAVE FOUND A CURE- PLEASE READ

Thu Feb 15, 2018 10:04 pm by infinitelywondering

Dear all,

Today has been the day I've been waiting for. The day something FINALLY makes sense.
I've been told countless times that I've got nerve damage or a muscular condition, yet none of the specific treatments have helped me. My GP suggested attacking this from a different angle so referred me to a dermatologist specialist


after having a vestibulectomy with no success, I decided to visit …

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NO PAIN DURING SEX

Sat Feb 10, 2018 12:18 am by rockylife

I HAVE NO PAIN DURING SEX, BUT I FEEL THIS BURNING SENSATION ALL DAY JUST BESIDE THE VAGINAL OPENING. DO I REALLY HAVE A VULVODYNIA? I'M CONFUSED.

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Newby not sure where to turn

Thu Feb 01, 2018 3:32 pm by Cerjo87

Hi this is all very new to me , well the talking about it bit is , the pain while having sex and also the uncomfortable feelings after and feeling like I have  sistitus most of the time I’m very used to , I’ve suffered for 7 years now I’m only 30 . Finally after all this time the doctors or should I say my gp has said I have Vulvodynia and have givin me gabapentin to try .i told her I’d …

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Looking for a friend..... and new problems

Sat Jan 06, 2018 11:38 pm by infinitelywondering

Hi everyone,

I hope you're doing well.

I hate to say this, but I feel beaten down and terribly alone. I had a vestibulectomy surgery about 6 months ago and I was absolutely praying it would work. It didn't.

6 months later and here I am, sitting on my bedroom floor crying my eyes out because I know I'll never be able to have painfree sex. I don't know what to do and just need a friend Sad



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Newbie to the site

Sun Jul 30, 2017 12:16 am by Ksa

Hello. Thank you for this wonderful site. I'm currently under the care of a dr in Phoenix that specializes in vaginal disorders. I will probably be on a suppository of estridol the rest of my life and I am currently on medications for a rare form of vaginitis that's pretty unheard of for my age. My vagina literally hates me. I've struggled with vulvadynia for 20 years, the duration of my …

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Vulvodynia from #metoo media coverage

Thu Jan 25, 2018 9:01 pm by dooleyhornberg

I am wondering if anyone else in this forum has experience an increase or flare up in their vulvodynia as a result of the coverage of the sexual abuse scandals in Hollywood, DC, and the recent gymnastics scandal. I have definitely had a flare up.

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Vestibulectory removes 85% of pain, Birth removes 15%

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Vestibulectory removes 85% of pain, Birth removes 15%

Post  pangea on Sat May 27, 2017 8:27 pm

I was diagnosed in 1999, at 21 years old, right when my sexual life was starting.  I'm pretty sure it started after a reaction to spermicide on a condom, which I thought was a yeast infection, so I treated with a lot of creams. It was too much for my skin. It is strange to write these words now, at 40, and revisit what was a very depressing, painful part of my life.  To get to the point, after years of trying everything under the sun and the redness and papercuts getting progressively worse, I decided to get a vestibulectomy after 10 years of VV.  The surgery removed 85% of the pain, which is a great success.  I could have sex, and for the first time enjoy it without needing a lot of alcohol to numb the pain.  After a year of good sex, it was time to make babies, I've made two!  Because of the lack of skin to stretch, I tore significantly, but that was like booster surgeries each time when getting stitched back up.  These free 'booster' surgeriges 'reorganized the skin again, and actually removed the remaining 15% of pain, and now I actually have trouble NOT orgasming.  It all seems so normal now, that I forget to terrible 10 years of my 20's.  So that's the short version, here's additional information.

Though I live in Phoenix where a vuvlar specialist lives, I opted to fly to Portland and get the surgery done by a very experienced female doctor at the teaching university there.  She has been doing these surgeries longer than most any other gyn, and I liked that she probed me gently as I feel a good surgeon should, and was a female. I kindof like that, emotionally.  Even after flight and hotel it was cheaper than doing it locally.  I stayed at a hotel there one week with my mom as I recovered

Equally important in my recovery is the associated intolerance of wheat, milk, and eggs, which if I eat for two weeks continuously will make me go down in a ball of pain on the floor after urinating and for the next 5 hours, even if I'm at a mall, I discovered.  Just like the scene with Tom Hanks in the move The Green Mile.

Well, my babies are home so I have to run! But isn't that nice to read!? My babies that I made by having sex without pain and whose birth led to an even better sex life are home!  

It took me a long time, but it gets better. Keep at it, keep researching, and it'll happen for you, too!

Be strong and stay away from negativity.

Love,

S.R.

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Re: Vestibulectory removes 85% of pain, Birth removes 15%

Post  sj17 on Tue Jul 04, 2017 10:55 pm

Hi Pangea,

Did you have a full vestiulectomy or partial? Also is your pain generalised or provoked?

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Re: Vestibulectory removes 85% of pain, Birth removes 15%

Post  Tired89 on Wed Jul 05, 2017 10:28 pm

Wonderful story! I'm so happy that this terrible journey is over and that you can have a normal life...something all of us ladies with this condition dream about. I also have the same questions as Sarah too though. I have vestibulodynia with provoked pain. It seems I've always had it. I'm curious about the outcome of surgery when the condition is like mine.
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