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» I'M NEW - Do I listen to my gyno who I feel has it wrong?
Fri Jul 13, 2018 2:58 pm by Gaby

From a concerned husband

Thu Jul 12, 2018 10:45 pm by ConcernedYorkieHubby

Hello everyone,

This is probably a little unconventional, but I’m a man who is here because his wife has been diagnosed with vulvodynia. The poor girl has been suffering with vulva pain for around 10 years now, and I’ve been by her side through the pain and tears and doctors misunderstandings the whole way, and we’re both exhausted and terrified by the whole experience.

I’m sure a lot …

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I'M NEW - Do I listen to my gyno who I feel has it wrong?

Fri Mar 09, 2018 6:17 pm by Tunes25

Hello!

I am a 25 year old woman and wanted to share my story here as I feel frustrated by the suggestions of my gyno and am hoping for some advice.

To give the context for this: in September 2016 I moved in with my long term boyfriend after living abroad a year and (nearly) abstaining from sex. Within a few weeks I had got a yeast infection which I treated myself successfully, but then 2 weeks …

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Hi girls! New in this forum

Fri Jul 13, 2018 2:31 pm by Gaby

Hi everyone!

Also joining the V club, Here my story:

It all started last year in september with a very bad throat infection for which i had to take antibiotics for about a month. This cause several yeast infections (candidia albicans).... one after the other!. I had them every month from october 2017 till march 2018. During this period i use an incredible amount of anti-fungal creams and …

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Newbie and feeling helpless

Wed Jul 11, 2018 1:52 pm by Taylor1

Hi, I found out a few weeks ago that I have this condition, started off at the end of April as a uti took strong antibiotics then got a thrush infection and now this.. My doctor has tried me on amitriptyline and gabipentin and both made me so poorly I couldn't take it plus I have seen what long use of these drugs has done to my mom for pain and its not good. I am using coconut oil which does …

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I'm new to this forum and would love some advice! :)

Tue Jun 05, 2018 4:13 am by anikita

Hi lovely gals!

I'm honestly hoping to get any bit of advice anyone might have to offer. I go from bouts of sobbing hysterically in my boyfriend's arms to feeling confident that I can beat this.

I haven't been actually diagnosed with vulvodynia but EVERYTHING under the sun has come back negative. I started having sex 4 years ago after starting Lo Loestrin, with my first and current boyfriend …

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Gabapentin Gel. or other topical creams

Thu May 10, 2018 9:43 am by Rosie21

Hi I have been suffering for some years with this abominable pain. I have tried most of the systemic drugs , I asked specialists and Doctors if I could at least try a topical treatment but because this requires a special prescription have been refused Has anybody had a chance of trying these? Thank you I will try to put a link on to some of the research into Gabapentin Gel. Thanks.

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What has been helping ME (much less pain over time!!)

Wed May 16, 2018 3:43 am by leoscc

Hello everyone! I vanished for quite some time as my life became consumed by not only this but other daily responsibilities as well. Shortly after my diagnosis, my boyfriend f 3 years left me as he did not want to deal with this. It left me broken for a while but also gave me time to figure out what the heck was going on. So, I will write out a quick list of my symptoms and what helped me.

1. I …

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I cured myself 100% of vulvodynia twenty years ago--I hope this helps someone

Mon Mar 12, 2018 4:33 pm by totallycured

Hi,

Every so often I'm reminded of the constant, persistent, horrible pain I was in two decades ago, and I reach out to try to help others who are suffering. If someone had offered me a solution during that terrible time, I'd have jumped at it. I hope this helps someone.

Yes, I did have terrible vulvodynia. It felt like someone poured acid all over my vulva. My doctor confirmed it and was …

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Condoms Less Painful?

Mon May 07, 2018 3:35 am by stillinpain

I'm just curious, has anyone found using condoms to be less abrasive to the skin than without? I just got off birth control and haven't stretched myself out enough post surgery to try sex yet, but when I do I am wondering how trying it with condoms with affect the sensation. I feel like for me the skin to skin sensation creates pain, not just at my entrance but internally, too, since I also have …

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Found something that helps!

Post  Garudapants on Tue Jul 11, 2017 5:48 pm

I'm new to this forum but have been suffering from Vulvodynia for almost five years. I have tried absolutely everything, nothing has really helped all that much, decreased the pain somewhat, but I have worried that I will never have a good and pleasurable sex life again. I recently went to see a cranio-sacral practicioner and she said that my nervous system was so hyperactive that she could barely touch me without causing pain. She said that she thought that some of my pain may be caused by stuff being stuck and blocked in my pelvis. She gave me a mini treatement and said to try to calm down my nervous system and then come see her again.

Since then I have started taking ashwaganda regularly with some body salts spray (Cali Forse) to help calm my nervous system, and that has helped my overall stress and pain level a lot, but sex was still unsaticefying, unwanted, and uncomfortable.

My friend has just started making a product that combines essential oils and crystals. I bought one of her little roller bottles, just to help her out, and chose one called Women's Hormone Balance. I started using it and immediately felt something shift. I started to feel frisky for the first time in years. After 24 hours of rolling this oil onto my temples, wrists, and the bottom of my feet, I have had pleasurable and orgasmic sex with my fiance three times!! It is really blowing my mind. I almost am afraid to believe that this could be happening.

I immediately looked for a place to share this information, because I have struggled for so long alone, and have tried all of the creams and meds and everything just to have things get worse and hopeless. I don't know how or why this is helping, and the idea of essential oils and crystals, CRYSTALS for goodness sake! Being the thing that helps, is challenging me in many ways. But I wanted to share this in case anyone else has gotten to this point, where it is so bad you are willing to try anything. This weird gemoil thing has really changed my world and given me three orgasms already. Plus it smells nice.

I hope that this continues to work, and I hope that everyone, all of us, can find some cure.

In case you want to try out this remedy. Her etsy shop is brand new, but I'm pretty excited about this weird magic stuff she's figured out. I never ever thought that I would be advocating for something like this, but I guess it is what I got when I asked for a miracle.

It is called Sea Berry Gem Oils, from Tatamagouche Nova Scotia, and the remedy that worked for me was Horomone Balance.



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Re: Found something that helps!

Post  mary jane on Sun Jul 16, 2017 12:14 pm

I don't think I've ever read a more boring SPAM post in my entire life.. why not give the link to her "etsy" page too, huh?
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