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From a concerned husband

Thu Jul 12, 2018 10:45 pm by ConcernedYorkieHubby

Hello everyone,

This is probably a little unconventional, but I’m a man who is here because his wife has been diagnosed with vulvodynia. The poor girl has been suffering with vulva pain for around 10 years now, and I’ve been by her side through the pain and tears and doctors misunderstandings the whole way, and we’re both exhausted and terrified by the whole experience.

I’m sure a lot …

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I'M NEW - Do I listen to my gyno who I feel has it wrong?

Fri Mar 09, 2018 6:17 pm by Tunes25

Hello!

I am a 25 year old woman and wanted to share my story here as I feel frustrated by the suggestions of my gyno and am hoping for some advice.

To give the context for this: in September 2016 I moved in with my long term boyfriend after living abroad a year and (nearly) abstaining from sex. Within a few weeks I had got a yeast infection which I treated myself successfully, but then 2 weeks …

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Hi girls! New in this forum

Fri Jul 13, 2018 2:31 pm by Gaby

Hi everyone!

Also joining the V club, Here my story:

It all started last year in september with a very bad throat infection for which i had to take antibiotics for about a month. This cause several yeast infections (candidia albicans).... one after the other!. I had them every month from october 2017 till march 2018. During this period i use an incredible amount of anti-fungal creams and …

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Newbie and feeling helpless

Wed Jul 11, 2018 1:52 pm by Taylor1

Hi, I found out a few weeks ago that I have this condition, started off at the end of April as a uti took strong antibiotics then got a thrush infection and now this.. My doctor has tried me on amitriptyline and gabipentin and both made me so poorly I couldn't take it plus I have seen what long use of these drugs has done to my mom for pain and its not good. I am using coconut oil which does …

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I'm new to this forum and would love some advice! :)

Tue Jun 05, 2018 4:13 am by anikita

Hi lovely gals!

I'm honestly hoping to get any bit of advice anyone might have to offer. I go from bouts of sobbing hysterically in my boyfriend's arms to feeling confident that I can beat this.

I haven't been actually diagnosed with vulvodynia but EVERYTHING under the sun has come back negative. I started having sex 4 years ago after starting Lo Loestrin, with my first and current boyfriend …

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Gabapentin Gel. or other topical creams

Thu May 10, 2018 9:43 am by Rosie21

Hi I have been suffering for some years with this abominable pain. I have tried most of the systemic drugs , I asked specialists and Doctors if I could at least try a topical treatment but because this requires a special prescription have been refused Has anybody had a chance of trying these? Thank you I will try to put a link on to some of the research into Gabapentin Gel. Thanks.

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What has been helping ME (much less pain over time!!)

Wed May 16, 2018 3:43 am by leoscc

Hello everyone! I vanished for quite some time as my life became consumed by not only this but other daily responsibilities as well. Shortly after my diagnosis, my boyfriend f 3 years left me as he did not want to deal with this. It left me broken for a while but also gave me time to figure out what the heck was going on. So, I will write out a quick list of my symptoms and what helped me.

1. I …

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I cured myself 100% of vulvodynia twenty years ago--I hope this helps someone

Mon Mar 12, 2018 4:33 pm by totallycured

Hi,

Every so often I'm reminded of the constant, persistent, horrible pain I was in two decades ago, and I reach out to try to help others who are suffering. If someone had offered me a solution during that terrible time, I'd have jumped at it. I hope this helps someone.

Yes, I did have terrible vulvodynia. It felt like someone poured acid all over my vulva. My doctor confirmed it and was …

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Condoms Less Painful?

Mon May 07, 2018 3:35 am by stillinpain

I'm just curious, has anyone found using condoms to be less abrasive to the skin than without? I just got off birth control and haven't stretched myself out enough post surgery to try sex yet, but when I do I am wondering how trying it with condoms with affect the sensation. I feel like for me the skin to skin sensation creates pain, not just at my entrance but internally, too, since I also have …

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Post  Sebby (Admin) on Sat Mar 19, 2011 9:22 pm


Well due to the fact that I was to become sexual again most of you know what my new hobby has been! 3 x a week was the advice but its only been once this week as my bloody clit/uretha area was stinging!

I have a vibrator but to be honest I think its crap so I ordered the Magic Wand. This is a massager that suddenly become known as vibrator after many women got a bit bored of using it on their necks!

Well I have to say its Massive! well I guess it would be as its a massager but bloody hell I could probably hammer someone to death with it so no problems if I get broken into in the middle of the night. Or I could stand in the middle of my street holding it up and pretend to be the statue of liberty?

I switched it on to the low setting and bloody hell again..I wont have a clit left after this! I'll be doing it through several layers of clothing!

Im too scared to use it lol even though it came with lube with the caption 'super slippy slidy fun' on it

I might give it a go this evening but if I am clit-less by the morning i'll sue the ass off Haitichi!


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Post  Sarah001 on Sat Mar 19, 2011 9:25 pm

Sounds lethal! I'm the same as you and vibrators leave me sore, I get why Dr Glazer thinks we should do this but on inflamed skin it's not really ideal is it? Perhaps you should mention this to him in one of your emails. And go steady with that massive vibe!!
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Post  Mouse on Sun Mar 20, 2011 12:19 am

Oh how funny!

Ok Dr Betty gets her ladies to use a cloth initially. Have you seen that. Almost like a folded face cloth. Give that a go!

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Post  Sebby (Admin) on Sun Mar 20, 2011 8:36 am


Cloth with the Magic Wand or any vibrator? I think I will need a cloth!

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Post  Mouse on Sun Mar 20, 2011 8:40 am

With the beast! You couldn't pack that thing for a holiday =)

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Post  Aussie on Wed May 25, 2011 2:51 am

I find a vibrator really helps me. Its tiny though and I cant use it on the days my clit hurts. I can put it inside though, it seems to relax the muscles. It also helps because I get scared when my hubby touches me before sex because I tighten up and expect pain, I know where hurts and where doesnt so I use it to get turned on before sex. Explaining to him where he can and cant touch on differnt days would be horrible for him.

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Post  Sebby (Admin) on Thu May 26, 2011 8:21 pm


I now just use a small one I had before..that bloody Magic Wand is far to intense for me! lol

I am so gonna have a browse in Ann Summers for a new one

I do think they are great for relaxing and find pleasure again, great idea too to use it before sex..

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Post  Mouse on Fri May 27, 2011 8:01 am

Sweetheart look at the Lelo vibrators. That little baby I bought recently is fabulous! It does an amazing job! I can't control if there is pain afterwards and sometimes I get stuck in the arousal phase for a few days BUT multiple orgasms are almost worth it?

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Post  Sarah001 on Sun May 29, 2011 1:28 pm

I've been trying out the vibrator advice but my tablets seem to have stolen my ability to orgasm! At first I didn't know what the problem was but after talking to a few people on another site and then a pharmacist (online of course, I didn't go into a chemist and start ranting about orgasms! Embarassed Laughing ) she told me it's likely the Ami doing it and it has that effect on alot of people. Seems my vibrator days are over. Evil or Very Mad
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Post  noni on Sun May 29, 2011 2:43 pm

I have read that Ami causes low libido and "sexual dysfunction"...

... how are you ladies able to use vibrators? I would think it would just bring on more pain...maybe not initially but soreness for days afterwards ??
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Post  Sarah001 on Sun May 29, 2011 6:59 pm

Sexual Dysfunction, that's a laugh isn't it?! Yes, it is the Ami I'm sure, I was ok on a low dose but the higher the dose got the harder it became to orgasm until it's impossible. Never mind, I'm not currently in a relationship and my vibes can go in the back of the drawer for now. Low libido certainly makes it easier to have orgasms stolen!! Laughing
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Post  Sebby (Admin) on Mon May 30, 2011 6:17 pm


Fanx mouse will soooo look them vibrators up! Multiple orgasms you say! Very Happy

I dont experience much soreness or pain at all as long as the vibrations are not too intense...I have had it when my cilt area has got sore but that was when I first started using them again...I think it got used to it now Embarassed




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Post  Mouse on Tue May 31, 2011 7:06 am

Hahhaaa apparently that's the silver lining that comes with age. I'm just having a shite time with random symptoms atm. Kind of like when this kicked off. Weird creeping, pulling pain and fairly intense these days. More stress, more coffee, no meditation + the odd bit of sugar = more pain. GGGrrrrrrr Big pain day today.

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