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Wed Feb 21, 2018 4:30 pm by LindafromNJ

New to this site ad trying to figure out how it works.  I am trying to post as a new member so I am hoping this goes thru.  I am a senior adult and have just been diagnosed by the Drexil Vaginitis Center to have vulvodynia along with Vestibulitis (not sure if spelled correctly).  My symptoms are vaginal burning, itching, soreness around the vaginal opening with one spot in particular.  Some …

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MAY HAVE FOUND A CURE- PLEASE READ

Thu Feb 15, 2018 10:04 pm by infinitelywondering

Dear all,

Today has been the day I've been waiting for. The day something FINALLY makes sense.
I've been told countless times that I've got nerve damage or a muscular condition, yet none of the specific treatments have helped me. My GP suggested attacking this from a different angle so referred me to a dermatologist specialist


after having a vestibulectomy with no success, I decided to visit …

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NO PAIN DURING SEX

Sat Feb 10, 2018 12:18 am by rockylife

I HAVE NO PAIN DURING SEX, BUT I FEEL THIS BURNING SENSATION ALL DAY JUST BESIDE THE VAGINAL OPENING. DO I REALLY HAVE A VULVODYNIA? I'M CONFUSED.

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Newby not sure where to turn

Thu Feb 01, 2018 3:32 pm by Cerjo87

Hi this is all very new to me , well the talking about it bit is , the pain while having sex and also the uncomfortable feelings after and feeling like I have  sistitus most of the time I’m very used to , I’ve suffered for 7 years now I’m only 30 . Finally after all this time the doctors or should I say my gp has said I have Vulvodynia and have givin me gabapentin to try .i told her I’d …

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Looking for a friend..... and new problems

Sat Jan 06, 2018 11:38 pm by infinitelywondering

Hi everyone,

I hope you're doing well.

I hate to say this, but I feel beaten down and terribly alone. I had a vestibulectomy surgery about 6 months ago and I was absolutely praying it would work. It didn't.

6 months later and here I am, sitting on my bedroom floor crying my eyes out because I know I'll never be able to have painfree sex. I don't know what to do and just need a friend Sad



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Sun Jul 30, 2017 12:16 am by Ksa

Hello. Thank you for this wonderful site. I'm currently under the care of a dr in Phoenix that specializes in vaginal disorders. I will probably be on a suppository of estridol the rest of my life and I am currently on medications for a rare form of vaginitis that's pretty unheard of for my age. My vagina literally hates me. I've struggled with vulvadynia for 20 years, the duration of my …

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Vulvodynia from #metoo media coverage

Thu Jan 25, 2018 9:01 pm by dooleyhornberg

I am wondering if anyone else in this forum has experience an increase or flare up in their vulvodynia as a result of the coverage of the sexual abuse scandals in Hollywood, DC, and the recent gymnastics scandal. I have definitely had a flare up.

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So frustrating!!

Thu Jan 04, 2018 1:15 am by Hannah77

Well I'm back in pain after 7 years of pain free days.
I was diagnosed with vulvodynia when I was 17. I suffered for three years with horrible burning all day, painful sex with my boyfriend and just pure misery Sad I went into a spontaneous remission when I was 20. I'm still not sure how the pain stopped but all the sudden I could go an entire day without thinking of my vagina, sex started to …

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Looking for suggestions or encouragement

Sat Jan 13, 2018 12:10 am by ryn207

Hi there. I'm 25 and have been dealing with this for over a year and a half and I'm really starting to lose hope this will ever stop.

In July of 2016 I had a yeast infection. When Monistat didn't work I went to my gynecologist who prescribed Diflucan. When the itching didn't stop she retested me and found that my yeast infection was gone, but I now had a bacterial infection. After taking the …

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Post  kt031 on Mon Apr 04, 2011 2:41 am

Hi I'm a 22 year old living in Australia.
I have suffered Vulvodynia for years now..Feeling like nothing helps and it's hard to think that things will get better,because I feel like I'm not making any progress!
But have to try be positive I think !I'm finding that epsom salt baths,are the only thing that relieves my pain!
I see a physio for my vulvodynia and I can't really say it's helping,but it's better to try than not try at all! Smile

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Post  noni on Mon Apr 04, 2011 2:55 am

Hey and welcome!!

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Post  Aussie on Tue Apr 05, 2011 5:34 am

Hey,

I live in Australia and also 22 Smile I have been suffering for 9/10 months though.

How long have you been seeing a physio for? It has taken me 6 months to see any kind of result. Have you been taught to breathe through your tummy not your chest, relaxes your body all over so good for pelvic floor tension. What kind of v do you have and how did it start?

If I can help in any way let me know.

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Post  Mouse on Tue Apr 05, 2011 5:36 am

Owww Clare I want to learn tummy breathing!

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Post  Sarah001 on Tue Apr 05, 2011 10:22 am

Hi kt031 and welcome to the forum. Have a read through some of our posts, some of them make sense honest!

Claire I'm really glad you mentioned breathing, I've been droning on about it for some time now but as I was the only one it didn't get much interest! I'm an upper chest breather unless I think about it and it really does help to stop doing that and direct the air to your abdomen or at least the sides and back of the ribcage. I'm so glad someone else is doing the breathing training!
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Post  Sebby (Admin) on Tue Apr 05, 2011 5:52 pm


Hi there and welcome to the forum

I might try those bath salts!

Im doing pelvic floor biofeedback but will be months before I see any result. Am on Pregabalin 300mg and find that my flare ups are shorter which im pleased about Smile

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Post  Aussie on Wed Apr 06, 2011 3:57 am

Sarah,

Well if you can relax your body it gives your pelvic floor a better shot at doing the same. I just find it better all round. I do it before I get in my car, open a door, go to the toilet, get into bed etc etc...just little triggers to remind me during the day. I was getting a lot of anxiety at the start of all this so breathing this way alone has completely eliminated that. I recommend it to everyone with pelvic floor problems.

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Post  lisa98 on Wed Apr 06, 2011 9:21 am

Im also in Australia (Sydney) and have had this for years. What part of aus are you from?

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Post  Sarah001 on Wed Apr 06, 2011 4:12 pm

I remind myself to breathe properly every time I catch myself upper chest breathing, which is alot! Exactly the same as relaxing the pelvic floor every time I find myself clenching, which is also alot! Rolling Eyes It does help decrease the pain though if I do it enough, just wish I could get my silly brain to understand it's supposed to do it all the time.

I tried using Epsom salts in the bath but it didn't help me and made my skin alot drier so it's something to watch out for Sebby if you do try them. Wink
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Post  ADHESIONSTOO on Thu Apr 07, 2011 6:19 am

I too thought that after trying epsom salt baths that I sensed more irritation. I did it with a sitz bath and also wonder whether it was a good idea to have both my back and front parts sharing such a small amount of water unless you had just taken a shower!

I did the sitz bath to avoid having to fill a big tub- especially since I prefer to shower. However, I did just recently do a full tub soak and I felt that although it didn't begin to reverse the issue, overall I felt better when I was done. The sitz bath idea sounded good at first but at least in my case I think I need the full deal to get even any minor sense of relief.

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Post  kt031 on Thu Apr 07, 2011 7:16 am

Hey thank you for the welcomes Smile.
I'm from Melbourne lisa98 how about you?
And Claire I've been seeing my physio for over a year now and I haven't seen much results..it took ages for me just to get in to see the physio and now that I've been seeing one,it hasn't made much of a difference..I have to use a dilator and I find it hard even doing pelvic floor exercises because I end up in more pain afterwards...And I have been told to breath from my stomach but I still can't do it,I have anxiety so I find it extremely hard to breath from my stomach,I'm so used to breathing from my chest lol.
ADHESIONSTOO I'm suprised that you got irritation from the epsom salts, everyone is different of course!The epsom salts sometimes help me,not always!It's strange how some days my pain is worse than other days and sometimes the epsom salts work and sometimes it doesn't...I wish there was an answer!So frustrating!!!

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Post  Zazu on Thu Apr 07, 2011 12:31 pm

Hi there,
Has anyone else tried colloidal oatmeal baths? That's what I've found works better than anything else when I'm having a flare up. I usually buy the generic version at the drug store but Aveeno is the most common brand. It smells like you're taking a bath in your breakfast bowl of oatmeal, but feels really good and is moisturizing too - nice for the cold months Very Happy I also found that Epsom salts were really irritating.

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Post  Sebby (Admin) on Thu Apr 07, 2011 6:42 pm


I have read about the colloidal oatmeal baths. Should you just use them for flare ups? I like that Aveeno do a brand, Im a big fan of their body cream Smile

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Post  Zazu on Fri Apr 08, 2011 6:17 pm

I really like Aveeno too. You can use the oatmeal bath packets multiple times a day every day- I think it is usually used for skin irritations like heat rash or other. It's really gentle and is 100% oatmeal so nothing bad. It works so well for me- if I'm having any irritation it clears it up for me.

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Thanks Zazu...I know whats on my shopping list tomorrow!! Smile

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Post  Aussie on Tue Apr 12, 2011 6:22 am

I Put aveeno fragrence free in the bath when I want one, still makes bubbles so I feel nice and doesn't irritate.

Perhaps your physio is taking the rong approach. I have just found that I have been doing the wrong thing for my pelvic floor for months. I saw one person who's focus was purely on stretching and relaxing the muscles. By coincidence I dislocated my knee and didnt have time to do the stretches. It was only then I realised that the burning had stopped. (the burning usually sets in after I do my stretches in the morning, sets in for the day) I thought this was part of healing.

I have since seen another physio who told me she thought the stretches were irritating my vulva so to stop completely but use tens. When she tested my trigger points sure enough they were way better than the prevous week where I had done stretches. She said my pelvic floor isnt so tight, just full of trigger pionts from when it was tight (they have built up) but it is also weak (hence the bladder urgancy/frequency) so I am now doing 5secconds very gentle contraction and 10 secconds relax + let go. Things seem to be improving even more.

So it may be worth getting checked by a number of physios for opinions becauase this thing really isnt a one size fits all situation. Vulvodynia can't be treated with one thing. That was my problem, the person I went to first treated all patients the same way, when in actual fact stretching more than I needed to has resulted in pelvic floor weakness, so it's still spazming but it doesn't need to be stretched or relaxed too much anymore, we now need to strengthen the muscles so they can stop smazming.

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Post  Sarah001 on Tue Apr 12, 2011 12:24 pm

I'm going to start calling you my "V twin" Claire! I have the same issue with stretching the pelvic floor, can make things alot worse and I also find my SI joints completely destabilise if I do it too much. My physio gave me a small amount of kegels to do each day right from the start and I went astray a bit by doing the Glazer method which was a big mistake for me as I can't release the pelvic floor in between contractions so I made matters alot worse. I'm now back to my few contract relaxes the physio thought were the right amount and have learnt my lesson about doing too much stretching or contracting! Embarassed
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Post  Mouse on Wed Apr 13, 2011 9:46 am

Claire, interesting you say that the burning stopped when your knee hurt. I found when my sciatic nerve was bad the V took a back seat. It seems somewhere else is getting the attention? My sciatic nerve is behaving and I have weird sensations creeping back in. But then I've started working again so it could be stress.... and coffee??? Who knows!

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Post  Sarah001 on Wed Apr 13, 2011 11:28 am

It's the body's way of prioritising pain etc. Chronic pain gets a back seat when something acute crops up so the body sends the cells there instead rather than at the site of chronic pain. It's the same if you come down with say a chest infection and feel dreadful, the V being chronic takes a back seat until the acute threat is dealt with then the pain returns full force. If my SI joints lock it's excrutiating so my V is very mild until I get them moving again.
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Post  Zazu on Wed Apr 13, 2011 1:55 pm

That's so interesting Sarah! Recently my back has been doing a lot better (except for today, grrrrr) and just the last three or four days the generalized irritation has gotten a lot worse. I did just get put on gabapentin last week (but is it even possible that this could make the irritation worse??) and changed laundry detergent (but from one free of dyes/perfumes/etc. to another one that claims the same) so this explanation might make the most amount of sense.

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Post  Louise on Wed Apr 13, 2011 6:52 pm

Hi,

I'm from oz too, just to let you know I've recently been to the physio who is teaching me to 'relax' and breathe properly she also told me to pay special attention to your posture, bad posture causes you to slouch and in effect pushes down on your pelvic floor (I thought that was interesting). I'm starting yoga next week which will assist in the whole relaxation/breathing side of things. I've also being trying to cut out sugar which has helped a lot however I stilll can't give up coffee! I was prescribed ami but am trying to take the 'natural' approach..

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Post  Sarah001 on Thu Apr 14, 2011 1:13 pm

Funny you should say that Zazu, when I first started on the Lyrica (anti-convulsant like Gaba) I thought it was making my V worse too, I seemed to have a real increase in symptoms for a few weeks then it died down again. I googled it at the time and found a few people saying the same thing and the advice being give it more time which is what I did. I don't know why it does it, maybe because it's altering the pain signals and it takes time for the body to adjust? Anyway, it's not making things worse now.
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Post  Zazu on Thu Apr 14, 2011 6:23 pm

Thanks Sarah, that's really reassuring to hear - I've been debating whether I should stay on it or not, but I really don't want to go off of it just yet. It just feels like there hasn't really been enough time to see whether it will work for me or not. Did you find that it made your back pain any worse? I also have SI joint pain and starting yesterday have had a flare up after three weeks of (finally) being good. Maybe it'll be like the V and just die down after awhile.

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Post  Sarah001 on Thu Apr 14, 2011 6:59 pm

My SI joints are bad all the time because I don't have proper ligament strength around them but I have noticed they are often worse since I started settling into the Lyrica and I think it's because I don't pay as much attention to how I move etc so stress them worse than I did previously. When my V started I'd just been doing core stability exercises with a physio who was pushing me too fast and giving exercises way beyond my capabilities which according to my women's health physio is something she hears alot from women with V and pelvic floor dysfunction, did that happen with you at all? There's a therapist called Leon Chaitow who has published articles about SI joint dysfunction, pelvic floor problems and vulvar problems and he believes they are all caused by the same thing which is faulty breathing patterns and failed load transfer through the SI joints which is spot on for me!
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