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Tue Jun 05, 2018 4:13 am by anikita

Hi lovely gals!

I'm honestly hoping to get any bit of advice anyone might have to offer. I go from bouts of sobbing hysterically in my boyfriend's arms to feeling confident that I can beat this.

I haven't been actually diagnosed with vulvodynia but EVERYTHING under the sun has come back negative. I started having sex 4 years ago after starting Lo Loestrin, with my first and current boyfriend …

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I'M NEW - Do I listen to my gyno who I feel has it wrong?

Fri Mar 09, 2018 6:17 pm by Tunes25

Hello!

I am a 25 year old woman and wanted to share my story here as I feel frustrated by the suggestions of my gyno and am hoping for some advice.

To give the context for this: in September 2016 I moved in with my long term boyfriend after living abroad a year and (nearly) abstaining from sex. Within a few weeks I had got a yeast infection which I treated myself successfully, but then 2 weeks …

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Gabapentin Gel. or other topical creams

Thu May 10, 2018 9:43 am by Rosie21

Hi I have been suffering for some years with this abominable pain. I have tried most of the systemic drugs , I asked specialists and Doctors if I could at least try a topical treatment but because this requires a special prescription have been refused Has anybody had a chance of trying these? Thank you I will try to put a link on to some of the research into Gabapentin Gel. Thanks.

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What has been helping ME (much less pain over time!!)

Wed May 16, 2018 3:43 am by leoscc

Hello everyone! I vanished for quite some time as my life became consumed by not only this but other daily responsibilities as well. Shortly after my diagnosis, my boyfriend f 3 years left me as he did not want to deal with this. It left me broken for a while but also gave me time to figure out what the heck was going on. So, I will write out a quick list of my symptoms and what helped me.

1. I …

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I cured myself 100% of vulvodynia twenty years ago--I hope this helps someone

Mon Mar 12, 2018 4:33 pm by totallycured

Hi,

Every so often I'm reminded of the constant, persistent, horrible pain I was in two decades ago, and I reach out to try to help others who are suffering. If someone had offered me a solution during that terrible time, I'd have jumped at it. I hope this helps someone.

Yes, I did have terrible vulvodynia. It felt like someone poured acid all over my vulva. My doctor confirmed it and was …

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Condoms Less Painful?

Mon May 07, 2018 3:35 am by stillinpain

I'm just curious, has anyone found using condoms to be less abrasive to the skin than without? I just got off birth control and haven't stretched myself out enough post surgery to try sex yet, but when I do I am wondering how trying it with condoms with affect the sensation. I feel like for me the skin to skin sensation creates pain, not just at my entrance but internally, too, since I also have …

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Will there be an end?

Fri Apr 27, 2018 12:06 am by Krista2828

I go in and out of being okay and not being okay with this condition. I question often why me? I am a problem solver by nature and I feel so defeated that after tons of research and trial and error and doctors and tears that there still is no answer.

I am in my 20's.. it shouldn't be this way.

Id love to know what all has worked! I am willing to try anything to get my life back. I am curious …

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you can be healed so easy and quite fast.

Thu Apr 26, 2018 11:46 pm by pussycat

Hello everyone,
i am new to this forum. I wanted to share my personal "journey" with V with you and to give you a real hope you can be totally healed/recovered from V. Many years ago i was struck with V, it was painful and got worst and worst, eventually i could not sit, could not stand, could not walk, could not swim in a swimming pool anymore. I was becoming bedridden, it frightened …

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Hi Im from Australia :)

Sat Jan 08, 2011 1:08 am by emma

Hi girls... I live in Australia.
I am currently undergoing a new treatment for vulvodynia. Just wondering if anyone else here has tried it. It's Endep in the form of cream to apply directly on the area. I dont know if anyone else has tried this but so far evidently it has had a 50% success rate.
Anyway i feel at a loss. This new treatment is exciting but at the same time i just dont feel like …

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Am learning to drive

Post  Sebby (Admin) on Sun Jun 26, 2011 7:01 pm


Hey all

I recently took up driving lessons again and am hoping I dont give up again this time!

Im such a nervous driver Shocked

I'm also quite hard on myself and should realise I am bound to make mistakes and its all part of learning

I do think I have found the right instructer, he is firm with me as well as understanding. He has a good sense of humor too which with me in the car he really needs! Laughing

Any advice welcome Smile

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Post  Sarah001 on Mon Jun 27, 2011 11:32 am

When I learnt to drive back in 1994 I found it useful if the instructor told me why I was doing things, like I had to know why I was pressing the clutch at certain times so I knew in my head when I needed to do it, what can I say I'm a little bit odd! I also found it helpful when he pointed out that people who have already learnt to drive do silly things like stall etc and once you've passed your test you don't feel so self conscious about it and he's right, once I'd passed if I stalled I wasn't bothered!

I failed my first test because I let the nasty examiner get to me so stay as calm as you can is my advice, everyone's nervos to start with but it gets less daunting as you go along. Good luck!
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Post  ria on Mon Jun 27, 2011 8:52 pm



Hey Sebby,

If you like the instructor it helps. I failed first time and my instructor was a right old git, but the second instructor was strict but had a sense of humour and I passed. My friend had a really dishy instructor and all she could think about was how attractive he was, she failed her test as she spent most of her time wondering what to wear for the lessons and not the highway code. Laughing Laughing

Keep at it and your confidence will grow. Its great driving with the right music on, takes all the worries away, helps me relax.

Good Luck,

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Post  Joolibee on Tue Jun 28, 2011 6:21 pm

Having the right instructor is so important. I didn't start learning to drive until I was in my late 20s. I was so nervous I used to get the runs before every lesson. I failed my test twice and, dopey as I am, it was only after my second failure that I realised the instructor was more interested in tryingng to get off with me. He actually said that if I passed the next time he would let me give him a kiss. That's how obvious he had to be before I got the message. All his double-entendres about the gear stick completely went over my head. I can't believe I tolerated this, but I was so nervous and he was the one in control. Anyway, I found another instructor who was brilliant and really helped build up my confidence. Unfortunately, I got the infamous dragon of an examiner and bottled my third test, but 4th time round, with the same horrible examiner, I sailed through it. Passing my test was such a liberating experience. Can't say I'm a keen driver, but it freed me up to do so many other things. Good luck Smile

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Post  Sebby (Admin) on Wed Jun 29, 2011 6:05 pm


Wow! learning to drive certainly sounds eventful! Laughing

I dont have a dishy instructor lol so thank God he aint trying to get off with me! I think my boyfriend would have something to say about that!

I am trying to take one lesson at a time without worrying about the next one! im such a worrier!

I am also trying to actually revise the theory without getting bored!


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Post  Joolibee on Wed Jun 29, 2011 6:30 pm

The instructor who was trying to get off with me was anything but dishy - he just thought he was. I was married at the time and when I told my husband about what this guy had been saying, he couldn't believe my naivete. He just thought it was funny - perhaps he thought I was too dopey to be attracted to anyone else. Maybe I was at the time Wink Wink

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