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Looking for a friend IRL; LA/OC

Tue Jul 18, 2017 2:51 am by crypticcalico

Hello!

I am hoping to find a friend in the LA/OC area that I can meet up with in person. I live in Long Beach, California and I am willing to drive a bit to meet. The only person that I've told about this is my doctor(s) and someone who couldn't wrap their brain around it. It would be nice to be able to talk to someone else who understands.

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Constant pain, I want to die.

Fri Jun 02, 2017 4:29 am by Meggiemay

I posted on here a few years ago but my symptoms went away with the inflammation. I didn't get so lucky this time.

For over three months, i've had terrible rawness, burning, soreness in the urethral/vestibule area and pressure/hypersensitivity in the clitoral area. I've also had some lower abdominal pressure and burning on my butt. I can barely walk! My gyno hasn't been much help. I'm on …

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Owner of vulvodyniSuppoet.com

Wed Jul 19, 2017 10:28 pm by LaurenVV

Hi, I started vulvodyniasupport.com at the age of 28.
I was a leader when there was no help, no forums etc.

As I went on my path, I found acupuncture, herbs and time helped me recover.
Most never do.

I met a wonderful woman named Hanna. She was a patient and became a support leader. She lived in FLoroda.

I have moved on from the support world and found a career that allowed
Me to bring my …

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anyone from southern california in here?

Tue Jul 12, 2011 6:43 pm by Melissa777

Hi Im just wondering if anyone here is from so cal- USA
I am in san diego- but from LA!!!

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Anyone else try Cold Laser therapy/ Low Level Laser Therapy for their vestibulodynia?

Tue Jul 04, 2017 9:01 am by Tired89

Hello everyone. It's been quite a long time since I've posted. I've been extremely depressed and bottling it all up. I've been seeing a pelvic floor therapist (it's only been 4 visits) for my provoked vestibulodynia and the only reason she can get inside of me to do myofascial release and to use the dilators is because I use BLT (benzocaine, lidocaine, tetracaine) ointment on my vestibule prior …

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Clitoris Issues

Tue Apr 28, 2015 8:17 pm by January

I am going crazyyy trying to figure out what's wrong. Please does anyone else have an issue similar to mine? I'm only 22. So, basically when my clit is lightly rubbed, there is no feeling. However, when rubbed vigorously and directly, the burning and tingling sensations shoot down my legs and feet as if coming to the end of an orgasm but with no good feeling leading up. It's so strange. What …

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New member

Sat Mar 18, 2017 7:37 pm by Lisa1627

Hi ladies. I am new to the forum. I have had what I think is vulvodynia caused from hsv 2. So not only do I have the burning vag but the constant feeling of being contagious. I can honestly say that I hate my life and myself right now. There are days when I think I would rather be dead. I tried the amitryptline and it helped but if it's only making my brain think I don't have pain then it's …

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Post Full Vestibulectomy - 5 Years Later - Please Read

Tue May 02, 2017 6:18 pm by jen007

Hi All,

It's been awhile since I've written a new topic on the forum. Wondering if any of the same ladies are still here. I've come back to update you all on my post vestibulectomy results. I can't remember if I've done an update on my current state, so forgive me if this is repeated information... I can't remember how to view my old posts! Anyway, let me get on with my update.

For 4 years post …

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Recovered from Vulvodynia

Thu May 04, 2017 9:42 pm by chancesunny

Hey everyone,

Im a new member on this forum and wanted to share my story so I can help anyone who is feeling helpless. Maybe what worked for me can work for you. I'll try to make this short so you can go get better!

I had vulvodynia for about 3-4 years. In the beginning, it started with pain that I thought was just a yeast infection and then I thought it was a urinary tract infection or …

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Post  lisadoc on Wed Aug 03, 2011 8:55 am

hi i am a new member and so glad i found this website as it has given me hope, this is my story.
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About three years ago i had thrush or so i thought, after using every threatment possible and going to the gum clinic and having all the tests done, everything was clear but i still had this burning stinging pain. I think my gp didn't know what to do with me so they referred me to a dermatoligist. they diagnosed possible ezcema as i have psoriasis elsewhere on body but no matter how many times i told them i felt the pain internally ( where i don't think u can get ezcema!!) they just prescribed one steriod cream after another, eventually i just stopped using them as they weren't helping anyway. anyway at this time i was so distressed as i had just go engaged and this was hardly a great start. I abstained from sex for a while but then felt so guilty about my partner i just carried on having sex even though most of the time it was so so painful. and to be honest i was pretty sore all the time even when there was no sex. one year later and we got married, the pain is still there and eventually i can't stand the pain anylonger. after sex sometimes i could hardly stand up and the pain would just lasts for up to three days. evenutually got seen by gyne only to be told there was nothing to see and would test me for thush, again i tried to tell them it was not thrush, ( swab clear!) but to no avail,. i came out of that app in tears and so frustrated, why would no one listen and why did no one seem to know anything about this. next thing i am pregnant thankfully, a great excuse for no sex, but during the pregancy the pain was so bad at times, i wondered how i would ever have this baby if i couldn't let anyone touch me, as it turned out i had to have section as my cervix wouldnt open, i often wonder if this was a physological thing to do with the pain?? now my baby is 4mths and i went private to see gyne( money talks in the uk!!!) i have been prescribed gabapentin, as yet i don't see great results but am currently upping the dose so here's hoping. if this doesn't work i don't know what else to do. i am still in pain most of the time, intercourse is still at times excruiciating and afterwards the same. this has taken over my life and worry so much like the rest of you about my relationship, my husband is great but he shouldn't have to live this this either. sometimes i just sit and cry and then i worry about my mental health, sometimes it's hard to stay strong, sorry if i have just rambled on, so good to write this all down as i don't really have anyone to talk to, i look forward to hearing from some of u
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Re: suffering for three years.

Post  Sarah001 on Wed Aug 03, 2011 7:40 pm

Hi and welcome. I don't know if it's possible for the pelvic floor to prevent the cervix dilating but if it is I'd definitely say go and get your pelvic floor tested for tightness. You need a womens health physio and a biofeedback machine for this so check they have the machine before you go as it's the only sure way to know what's going on. Please don't have painful sex either, your husband obviously loves you as he married you so it's not necessary to put yourself through hell just for penetrative sex, there are other ways to satisfy him. It also keeps the muscles tight if ou keep doing it when it hurts so take a break while you sort out what your cause is. Have you got any other health problems or musculoskeletal pain?
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Post  lisadoc on Wed Aug 03, 2011 8:50 pm

hi no, no other complaints at all, perfectly healthly in every way thankfully, this just all started out of the blue

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Re: suffering for three years.

Post  Joolibee on Wed Aug 03, 2011 10:28 pm

Hi Lisa. Welcome to the forum. Many of us have stories similar to yours and we understand how frustrating and distressing it can be. I don't know how much research you have done, but there are several books worth looking at, e.g. When Sex Hurts, by Andrew Goldstein et al; Healing Pelvic Pain, by Amy Stein; The V Book (can't remember the author); Ending Female Pain, by Isa Hererra and The Vulvodynia Survival Guide, by Howard Glazer. They all give various suggestions re treatment and self help, particularly with regard to the pelvic floor muscles, which tend to tighten when we are in pain. I would not recommend having intercourse when it is so painful; it could make the pain worse and is likely to lead to psychological problems. Have you told your husband how much intercourse hurts you? I'm sure he would not want to be causing you pain. If you don't feel comfortable about sex without intercourse, it might be worth you seeing a sex therapist. Some of us have found that relaxation exercises such as yoga or meditation can help to manage the pain and negative emotions. With regard to medication, it can take quite a while to find out what works best. It isn't easy, but there is hope. Good luck.

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Re: suffering for three years.

Post  lisadoc on Thu Aug 04, 2011 8:36 am

hi
thanks for your reply. have ordered the, when sex hurts book to see if it helps in any way and thinking of going to a physio to see about my pelvic floor. so glad to have found this website. i had no idea so many people suffered from this as it's never talked about. my husband is great and he always says to stop if it hurts but it's usually me who says keep going as feel guilty if dont, but had a talk with him last night about all the advice i have found on here so we will lay off intercourse for a while, and no i don't mind other ways of keeping him happy, he maybe prefers that anyway lol. just hope i find some relief as really want to try for another baby next year, will be a bit hard if we can't have intercourse but i suppose time enough worrying about that then. thanks again
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Post  Joolibee on Thu Aug 04, 2011 9:30 pm

So glad you spoke with your husband Lisa. I'm sure he appreciates your honesty. I made the mistake of continuing to have intercourse and didn't tell my partner properly, because I didn't want him to blame himself for my pain and I thought I could deal with it. It was a big mistake. In the end it became so painful that intercourse was impossible for quite a long time. This led to us both avoiding any contact that could be interpreted as a prelude to sex. Fortunately, we were able to talk about it and our relationship is as strong as ever. Just recently I have been able to have pain free intercourse a couple of times, but he is terrified of hurting me, so I have promised him that I will speak up immediately if I feel any pain at all. I hope you are able to find a way of managing this horrible condition and hopefully you will be able to have your second baby as planned. Smile Smile

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