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So frustrating!!

Thu Jan 04, 2018 1:15 am by Hannah77

Well I'm back in pain after 7 years of pain free days.
I was diagnosed with vulvodynia when I was 17. I suffered for three years with horrible burning all day, painful sex with my boyfriend and just pure misery Sad I went into a spontaneous remission when I was 20. I'm still not sure how the pain stopped but all the sudden I could go an entire day without thinking of my vagina, sex started to …

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Looking for suggestions or encouragement

Sat Jan 13, 2018 12:10 am by ryn207

Hi there. I'm 25 and have been dealing with this for over a year and a half and I'm really starting to lose hope this will ever stop.

In July of 2016 I had a yeast infection. When Monistat didn't work I went to my gynecologist who prescribed Diflucan. When the itching didn't stop she retested me and found that my yeast infection was gone, but I now had a bacterial infection. After taking the …

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Looking for a friend..... and new problems

Sat Jan 06, 2018 11:38 pm by infinitelywondering

Hi everyone,

I hope you're doing well.

I hate to say this, but I feel beaten down and terribly alone. I had a vestibulectomy surgery about 6 months ago and I was absolutely praying it would work. It didn't.

6 months later and here I am, sitting on my bedroom floor crying my eyes out because I know I'll never be able to have painfree sex. I don't know what to do and just need a friend Sad



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Amitriptyline given for vulvodyina pain

Tue Oct 24, 2017 2:46 pm by katycrawford

Hi there,

After years of being misdiagnosed etc as most women have on this forum I have finally been diagnosed with vulvodynia (yay) and have been given the lowest dose of an antidepressant called Amitriptyline. Has anyone been on this before and has any positive (or negative) news to give me? Im feeling down already and I've only been taking it for a few days, I don't have much hope of it …

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7 years later and life looks bleak :(

Wed Dec 06, 2017 2:50 am by RainyShay77

So 7 years ago I had a case of BV...the antibiotic caused a horrible yeast infection which took 5 months to 'get rid of'. During this time I had allergic reactions to 2 of the yeast infection creams which magnified the pain. Over the past 7 years I've tried multiple rounds of physical therapy (they only slightly helped), chiropractic, nerve blocks, medications to target nerve pain (amitriptyline, …

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Newly diagnosed - and prescribed amitriptyline cream/physio/psychology

Sun Jan 07, 2018 9:38 am by sophiarp

Hi everyone,

I'm so happy to have stumbled across this forum. I have just been diagnosed and am really struggling emotionally. It's nice to find this forum and feel a little less alone.

I've been prescribed amitriptyline cream. Has anyone had success with this? I was happy to have avoided the amitriptyline tablets. I'm also participating in physio and have been told I need to see a psychologist …

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Somebody please help me...

Fri Nov 24, 2017 8:05 am by Andlag

Hey everyone,

since I started being sexually active i often experienced burning in my vagina which was often worse during sex /around the time of my period or when using lubricants. I was never able to use tampons because the one time i tried putting them in it felt like acid was poured on my skin. Fast forward to 2 months ago when I got a UTI and an allergic reaction in my vagina. I thought it …

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Amtriptyline, baclofen, gabapentin cream for provoked vestibuldynia

Mon Nov 20, 2017 8:15 pm by WVR00

Hello,
Has anyone had success with this cream in helping their vulvodynia? How long has it taken to help? I’ve had some success with it, but not completely better. I’ve been on it for a month. I️ was hoping to hear from some ladies who have had major success with this cream. I’m hoping for some encouragement here. This condition is so frustrating. I’m lucky enough to have access to two …

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New diagnosis, any advice whilst I wait for a specialist

Wed Oct 25, 2017 1:47 pm by Julesyjules

Hi,

I'm new here and wanted to ask for some advice whilst I wait to see a specialist nurse.

After urinary problems which lasted 7 weeks, I finally saw a urologist, who on examination discovered significant inflammation and called in a gynaecologist, who diagnosed vestibulitis. They referred me to a nurse who specialises in vulvar skin issues. That was 5 weeks ago, and I'm still waiting for the …

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i wonder what pain free sex feels like.

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i wonder what pain free sex feels like.

Post  rayster on Mon Oct 03, 2011 4:43 pm

Hey
I thought I'd share my story here. I've just joined this website after a little while of feeling down in the dumps about my shitty vagina for the past little while.

A little bit about me: I'm 22 years old, and was diagnosed with vulvodynia (provoked vestibulodynia, vulvar vestibulitis... the darn thing keeps changing names) at age 17, shortly after I first started having sex (and wondering why it was so painful). I literally woke up one day with a nasty yeast infection which I got treated right away (and it went away pretty soon thereafter) however the pain associated with it decided to set up camp and stay long term. I was devastated at first cause my mind immediately jumped to thoughts of things like 'im never going to get married and have kids'. Treatment wise I tried a few things.... I took pregabalin for a while but I hated it and didn't notice any significant improvements, so I stopped that and have been pretty happy not taking it. My GP originally prescribed me a ketamine+amitriptyline mixture in an aqueous base which I used to put on but that didn't take much of the edge off the pain either. Eventually I discovered lidocaine, and it was amazing because it meant I could have sex with the least pain I've ever felt (all be it the lame part of getting into the swing of things and then saying to the boy 'um.... hooooold on I'll brb!' a bit of a mood killer, but I am most definitely not complaining.

Things psychologically only started getting better for me once I had just accepted that this was me, and I would just have to cope with the pain instead of wishing it away and feeling sorry for myself. I've gotten by pretty well with this mentality, and I've met a wonderful boy who is extremely supportive. After my first boyfriend experience I was convinced that every guy I ever met would want sex twice daily from me and If I couldn't put out then that was my own fault - pretty crappy feeling. I have now since been reassured that not every member of the male gender is this way. Smile I've always thought that being a lesbian or becoming a nun would be a pretty good solution to my problems... but alas, not for me. I feel very lucky to have met such a supportive boy, so I don't have to join a convent just yet... hehe.

I know that for me, my pain is related to yeast, after all that's what started the ball rolling in the first place. I feel as if I am constantly riddled with itchy red irritation etc - probably once a month or so. I hate the cannesten cream, cause it burns and makes things worse. Its the most frustrating thing in the world. My pain also flares up and down with my stress levels, fun times.

Recently (and why I'm feeling so down in the dumps and scared out of my mind after being relatively okay for so long) I saw a gyne dr who said that I had a subclinical HPV infection (my heart sank when he told me this - I've only ever had sex with 2 guys, and I don't even like sex for that matter, so why do I deserve this?!), and that this could be a cause for my pain. He offered for me to have the area lasered off. I had a long think about it, and the doctor and I had a discussion about it and we eventually came to the agreement that neither of us were convinced that the hpv was fully to blame for my pain, but why not give it a shot at removing it.

I went through with this, and its been a month since I had the procedure. I am now scared out of my mind - I feel like I am 17 again and I don't know what my future holds. I've been coping so well and now all of a sudden my pain has skyrocketed to a point that I just can't handle, and I don't see an end in sight (the same thoughts I had when I was first diagnosed). I feel really frustrated and scared.

I had a theory in the back of my head that the laser could potentially piss of my nerve endings and anger them... and I think that's what's happened, I just don't know when (or IF for that matter...!) the pain will settle down. I hate not knowing, and I hate feeling like a shitty excuse for a woman because I can't have sex. The pain is so bad right now I nearly passed out putting in a tampon, so... sex is on hold indefinitely. What do I do?!? At least before I could have sex.


I found this website with the hopes that maybe venting a little bit to other women who understand what I'm talking about might make me feel a bit better and lift up my mood a bit. Smile Would be so nice if this was the kinda thing that wasn't so taboo to talk about, seeing as at least recently, its been occupying my thoughts more than its fair share.

I feel silly sometimes going to talk to my GP about not being able to have sex, because sometimes I feel as if its such a comparatively trivial problem - there are far worse things in the world, and some people are riddled with far worse health problems (cancer, neurodegenerative diseases, nasty things like that). I wonder if I'll be taken seriously. I'm also worried whenever I speak to a new doctor that they won't know or heard of what I'm talking about. A couple times in the past my GP appointment has been taken up with me educating them on the topic of vulvodynia and then me leaving being told 'theres no magic cure you know!' (yes thanks, I realise this). Sigh. I don't know what point I'm trying to make here.

Anyways... that's my story! rant over...
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Post  Sarah001 on Mon Oct 03, 2011 6:50 pm

Hi Rayster and welcome. It's such a shame you had the laser treatment before joining us here as I'd have done alot of trying to persuade you not to, in recent research it's been found to be unhelpful at best, worsening the symptoms at worse but don't think that means you're stuck with the problem. Frst piece of advice is stop using thrush creams! If you get thrush take the oral tablet as the creams irritate things further. Second piece of advice get yourself off to a women's health physio and get them to check your pelvic floor for tightness, I'm willing to bet there's a PF problem after having to have painful sex twice a day when you didn't really want to! Third piece of advice stay calm and practice breathing into your abdomen rather than chest breathing, it helps the pelvic floor. Fourth piece of advice try applying the lidocaine at night before you go to sleep if you don't already, some women improve drastically doing this and at the moment it should help calm down your extra pain. Keep us posted and please get your PF checked!
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Re: i wonder what pain free sex feels like.

Post  rayster on Tue Oct 04, 2011 3:15 pm

Thank you very much for your suggestions - much appreciated!! I will definitely try putting the lidocaine on daily at night, as this isn't something I've been doing. I'm encouraged to hear that it has helped some women improve drastically... Also, i'm curious - what kind of symptoms does PF tightness cause?

I'm just very discouraged (and massively upset) about this extra pain. I feel like there's some scar tissue there and now the skin around the vulva is less stretchy, so now when it is being stretched it hurts a lot more. I kinda knew in the back of my head that the laser would be a (very) bad idea, but I took the risk... arggggg.

It's only been 5 weeks since the procedure, so maybe I just need to be extra patient with healing time. I hope it gets better, and if it does, then sooner rather than later would be nice! I'm not a huge fan of sex, never really have been so it makes it extra difficult for me and my boyfriend cause I don't really like doing any of the other stuff Embarassed , have never really felt all that comfortable with it.

Anyways, thanks again for your suggestions. I'm really glad I found this forum. Very Happy
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Post  Sarah001 on Tue Oct 04, 2011 6:39 pm

PF spasm can cause urinary urgency and frequency, back pain, constipation, piles and fissures, inflamed skin in the vulva, feeling like you have a UTI when you test negative for it, hip pain, a feeling of heaviness and fatigue, painful penetration during sex, a tight vaginal opening... the list just goes on. After your laser surgery if you feel tight it might be an idea to try dilators and gradually work up to the larger one, I really do think there's going to be some PF spasm though.
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Re: i wonder what pain free sex feels like.

Post  SimplyBelle on Sat Nov 05, 2011 4:31 am

... but what about the anxiety?

Even, if I think about pain-free sex, or if my body was in that position to have pain-free sex, the months of painful sex, painful paps, painful examinations, etcetra, heightens my anxiety about doing anything down there...

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Post  Sarah001 on Sat Nov 05, 2011 12:42 pm

Yes anxiety about pain can also affect the PF muscles and make them tense up more in anticipation of pain which is why doctors recommend avoiding sex if it hurts.
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Post  Aussie on Mon Nov 07, 2011 6:42 am

I thought my issue was yeast also. I was always red raw and irritated after my inital outbreak after my honeymoon. I tried yeast meds oral for 6 months and no change. I tried ami and lyrica each for months, countless creams lotions and potions and I am now happy to say I am feeling much better thanks to herbs and physio. Please read my post on herbs. It may just do the trick. Lidocane burned me too. Oh and stay away from yeast creams. If you must use the oral. A lady that treated me with physio acutally suffered v for 7 years. Hers was related to PF tension and a constant yeast infection. She treated the yeast with long term anti fungals for 6 months - thus I tried the same approach. It worked forh er, not for me. Just goes to show doesnt it how differnt we all are and so many issues within the body can produce the same symptoms.

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