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Fri Nov 24, 2017 8:05 am by Andlag

Hey everyone,

since I started being sexually active i often experienced burning in my vagina which was often worse during sex /around the time of my period or when using lubricants. I was never able to use tampons because the one time i tried putting them in it felt like acid was poured on my skin. Fast forward to 2 months ago when I got a UTI and an allergic reaction in my vagina. I thought it …

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7 years later and life looks bleak :(

Wed Dec 06, 2017 2:50 am by RainyShay77

So 7 years ago I had a case of BV...the antibiotic caused a horrible yeast infection which took 5 months to 'get rid of'. During this time I had allergic reactions to 2 of the yeast infection creams which magnified the pain. Over the past 7 years I've tried multiple rounds of physical therapy (they only slightly helped), chiropractic, nerve blocks, medications to target nerve pain (amitriptyline, …

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Amtriptyline, baclofen, gabapentin cream for provoked vestibuldynia

Mon Nov 20, 2017 8:15 pm by WVR00

Hello,
Has anyone had success with this cream in helping their vulvodynia? How long has it taken to help? I’ve had some success with it, but not completely better. I’ve been on it for a month. I️ was hoping to hear from some ladies who have had major success with this cream. I’m hoping for some encouragement here. This condition is so frustrating. I’m lucky enough to have access to two …

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Amitriptyline given for vulvodyina pain

Tue Oct 24, 2017 2:46 pm by katycrawford

Hi there,

After years of being misdiagnosed etc as most women have on this forum I have finally been diagnosed with vulvodynia (yay) and have been given the lowest dose of an antidepressant called Amitriptyline. Has anyone been on this before and has any positive (or negative) news to give me? Im feeling down already and I've only been taking it for a few days, I don't have much hope of it …

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New diagnosis, any advice whilst I wait for a specialist

Wed Oct 25, 2017 1:47 pm by Julesyjules

Hi,

I'm new here and wanted to ask for some advice whilst I wait to see a specialist nurse.

After urinary problems which lasted 7 weeks, I finally saw a urologist, who on examination discovered significant inflammation and called in a gynaecologist, who diagnosed vestibulitis. They referred me to a nurse who specialises in vulvar skin issues. That was 5 weeks ago, and I'm still waiting for the …

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Vulvodynia help

Tue Nov 14, 2017 4:27 pm by Katiej

Hi guys new here and newly diagnosed. So I had bv and then after alot of antibiotics and home remedies I still continued to have weird symptoms despite swabs being negative. Two seperate gynes have told me I have vulvodynia as a result of the area being overwhelmed. So first gave me lidocaine which xidnt do much. No I am on amitriptyline for the past 5 days. Seems to be kicking in a little (im a …

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New w/ Secondary Provoked Vestibuldynia

Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:46 pm by Birdy

Hi everyone,

I'm here because I'm pretty sure I have secondary provoked vestibuldynia, even though my gyno is still "optimistic" it is not.  My problem started six months ago when I got my second UTI in as many months (after going 25 years of life without one) and then ended up with a bad yeast infection (also my first one ever) thanks to the antibiotics.  Ever since the yeast …

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Newly diagnosed

Tue Oct 10, 2017 8:37 pm by Brevispink

Hello everyone. I have recently been diagnosed with unprovoked vulvodynia and would really appreciate some advice and support. I have had a chronic urine infection for 16 months and was on antibiotics for 9 of those months. I have been very uncomfortable for the entire time, but now I have absolutely unbearable stinging and burning all day with itching too. The infection has just about gone, …

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Recent "Poke" Pain - So Confused/Losing My Mind

Thu Oct 12, 2017 9:26 am by kelseybeth23

Long Story, but I am losing my mind and getting really depressed, so if I tell the full story maybe someone can help me.

Back in August I started to get an itch down there. Normally, in the past, when this would happen, I would change the way I wore my clothes, take more baths instead of showers, and use Monistat. This time, after about two weeks of no relief, I started to get concerned. I was …

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SEX!! For the first time in 13 months!

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SEX!! For the first time in 13 months!

Post  JemimaSurrender on Mon Jan 30, 2012 11:35 am

My, oh my! After 13 months of celebacy, my boyfriend and I finally managed to have sex over the weekend!

I am SO excited!! We've always done everything else we can (in the bedroom) so have always got by, but nothing beats the real thing, does it?

I've no idea how it was possible either. Sex has been completely off limits (mostly inforced by him!) until I was better, but it just kind of happened this time round.

Usually even with oral sex it can sometimes burn a bit, but never too much, and certainly not to the point where it's unbearable, nowhere near infact, so sex was completely out of the question as it's nothing short of agony. Sometimes I'm near to tears it hurts so much and it's just not worth it.

But amazingly it just seemed to be okay, even without me using the Instillagel which I don't understand at all. I'm sure the symptoms are no better, and I've no doubt it was still hurting somewhat, but I think the adrenaline took over and I didn't feel it. It was utterly fantastic and I'm still on such a high from it!

I am sooooooo happy. I'm a bit nervous that it was just a one off, and that now the excitement of being able to do it will wear thin and that next time I'll just be thinking the whole time "Oo is it going to hurt this time" and thus it will hurt as a result of me thinking and worrying. But even if it was a one off, one in 13 months is nothing to scoff at!

Absolute elation!

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Post  BpCookie on Mon Jan 30, 2012 5:11 pm

That is wonderful news, it truly is. I know how you feel cause I was just able to have sex again also. I had this amazing high afterwards. I was so happy. It kinda happened like yours did, just out of the blue. I used a boat load of lube and I was the one in control. I figured if it started to hurt then we could stop. It did burn a little but not much and there was a very slight slicing pain but nothing major. I was brave enough to try it again this weekend and once again I was able to do it. Its like a miracle huh?

Try not to worry about it hurting the next time. You be the one in control, go slow and explain to your b/f that if it hurts then you will have to stop. You may want to get a syringe/plunger type thingy, the kind you use when your inserting YI cream and put KY in that and insert a bunch of it inside, that may help also.

Im very happy for you and I know that its a big deal. *Cookie jumps up and down, cheers, shoots off fire works*. Good luck next time. Very Happy hugs
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Post  JemimaSurrender on Tue Jan 31, 2012 1:31 am

Ahhh, it's all so exciting! Even if it's a one off (which will be annoying) I'm still so pleased to have had one shot at it. You forget how much of it you've missed!

I'll keep my fingers crossed for the both of us, and all you others who are missing it at the minute too!

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Re: SEX!! For the first time in 13 months!

Post  BpCookie on Tue Jan 31, 2012 3:48 pm

Hey, I just noticed that your in the UK. My husband is from Coventry England, do you know it? We met on line in a chat room when he was living in England and I was living in the states.
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Post  JemimaSurrender on Tue Jan 31, 2012 4:15 pm

Yeah it's not far from me! It's about a 40 minute drive actually. Did he move over to the States for you? Fairy tale!

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Post  BpCookie on Wed Feb 01, 2012 4:27 pm

yup, he moved over here for me. We fell in love over the internet before we had even seen each other. When he flew over to see me for the first time, we went on a little vacation and he asked me to marry him three days later. Unfortunately he had to fly back to England and stay there for quite a long time. But eventually he was able to move here and we married and have been married now for 12 yrs. Very fairy tale story-ish Very Happy
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Post  JemimaSurrender on Wed Feb 01, 2012 7:08 pm

Aww, that's lovely! It's so rare to find too, you're so lucky.

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