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Looking for a friend IRL; LA/OC

Tue Jul 18, 2017 2:51 am by crypticcalico


I am hoping to find a friend in the LA/OC area that I can meet up with in person. I live in Long Beach, California and I am willing to drive a bit to meet. The only person that I've told about this is my doctor(s) and someone who couldn't wrap their brain around it. It would be nice to be able to talk to someone else who understands.

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Constant pain, I want to die.

Fri Jun 02, 2017 4:29 am by Meggiemay

I posted on here a few years ago but my symptoms went away with the inflammation. I didn't get so lucky this time.

For over three months, i've had terrible rawness, burning, soreness in the urethral/vestibule area and pressure/hypersensitivity in the clitoral area. I've also had some lower abdominal pressure and burning on my butt. I can barely walk! My gyno hasn't been much help. I'm on …

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Owner of vulvodyniSuppoet.com

Wed Jul 19, 2017 10:28 pm by LaurenVV

Hi, I started vulvodyniasupport.com at the age of 28.
I was a leader when there was no help, no forums etc.

As I went on my path, I found acupuncture, herbs and time helped me recover.
Most never do.

I met a wonderful woman named Hanna. She was a patient and became a support leader. She lived in FLoroda.

I have moved on from the support world and found a career that allowed
Me to bring my …

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anyone from southern california in here?

Tue Jul 12, 2011 6:43 pm by Melissa777

Hi Im just wondering if anyone here is from so cal- USA
I am in san diego- but from LA!!!

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Anyone else try Cold Laser therapy/ Low Level Laser Therapy for their vestibulodynia?

Tue Jul 04, 2017 9:01 am by Tired89

Hello everyone. It's been quite a long time since I've posted. I've been extremely depressed and bottling it all up. I've been seeing a pelvic floor therapist (it's only been 4 visits) for my provoked vestibulodynia and the only reason she can get inside of me to do myofascial release and to use the dilators is because I use BLT (benzocaine, lidocaine, tetracaine) ointment on my vestibule prior …

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Clitoris Issues

Tue Apr 28, 2015 8:17 pm by January

I am going crazyyy trying to figure out what's wrong. Please does anyone else have an issue similar to mine? I'm only 22. So, basically when my clit is lightly rubbed, there is no feeling. However, when rubbed vigorously and directly, the burning and tingling sensations shoot down my legs and feet as if coming to the end of an orgasm but with no good feeling leading up. It's so strange. What …

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New member

Sat Mar 18, 2017 7:37 pm by Lisa1627

Hi ladies. I am new to the forum. I have had what I think is vulvodynia caused from hsv 2. So not only do I have the burning vag but the constant feeling of being contagious. I can honestly say that I hate my life and myself right now. There are days when I think I would rather be dead. I tried the amitryptline and it helped but if it's only making my brain think I don't have pain then it's …

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Post Full Vestibulectomy - 5 Years Later - Please Read

Tue May 02, 2017 6:18 pm by jen007

Hi All,

It's been awhile since I've written a new topic on the forum. Wondering if any of the same ladies are still here. I've come back to update you all on my post vestibulectomy results. I can't remember if I've done an update on my current state, so forgive me if this is repeated information... I can't remember how to view my old posts! Anyway, let me get on with my update.

For 4 years post …

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Recovered from Vulvodynia

Thu May 04, 2017 9:42 pm by chancesunny

Hey everyone,

Im a new member on this forum and wanted to share my story so I can help anyone who is feeling helpless. Maybe what worked for me can work for you. I'll try to make this short so you can go get better!

I had vulvodynia for about 3-4 years. In the beginning, it started with pain that I thought was just a yeast infection and then I thought it was a urinary tract infection or …

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Newly diagnosed and shell shocked

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Newly diagnosed and shell shocked

Post  Lindilou on Tue Feb 14, 2012 4:20 pm

Hello, I'm Lindilou, got diagnosed with Vulvodynia yesterday, can't take it all in yet, printed off info, and I'm scheduled for a biopsy next month which I believe rules out underlying skin conditions. Scared rigid I'll scream the walls down when the doctor injects local anaesthetic and that I'll be in agony for weeks afterwards.
How can it not be agonising when it hurts to be prodded with a cotton bud?!
Feel ridiculous, deformed, stupid, and I hate my vagina and wish I could just have it removed. No sex unless I want burning and stabbing pain in clitoris, seams on pants irritate me, sanitary towels irritate me, right now just existing seems to irritate. I hate the fact that the clinic is in the sexual health building so I keep thinking anyone who sees me walk in will assume I've got an STI.
My skin 'splits' at the base entrance of my vagina but apparently I'm deep set so the skin there is a bit web like, can't see how anything can be done to change my anatomy.
I feel angry wretched and stupid stupid stupid.


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Re: Newly diagnosed and shell shocked

Post  ButterflyLiz on Tue Feb 14, 2012 6:35 pm

Hi Lindilou, welcome to the forum. Sorry to hear you are suffering. I remember how it feels to be so overwhelmed with information. Looking on the bright side at least you have managed to receive a diagnosis so you can start to work with your doctors into looking at treatments, and you have found this forum for support. It really is a wealth of info from people who understand what you’re going through.

Again, though, it can be a lot to take in and everyone’s case is different so have a read through at your own pace and see if anything strikes a chord.

We’re always here if you want to ask questions or have a rant. There’s also a “secret” facebook group set up if you’re on there, Naomi on here can add you if you PM her.

You are not alone and there are many things to try which might help you. Sending good wishes your way.

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Re: Newly diagnosed and shell shocked

Post  Lindilou on Tue Feb 14, 2012 7:05 pm

Thank you ButterflyLiz, I'm not on FB, I'm a bit older, I'm ancient lol in my 40's so the technological revolution passed me by, it's amazing I can email..I would very much like to hear from anyone who has had this biopsy under local anaesthetic. What was it like, is it survivable? Did it help?


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Re: Newly diagnosed and shell shocked

Post  Aussie on Wed Feb 15, 2012 4:57 am

Biopsy won't help the situation. If you have vv it will irritate it!

It sounds like you have it to me. If there is no visible change in the skin I doubt a biopsy is required. Doctors just like to test things so they look like they are doing a decent job.

This forum is the best place for info. I would suggest a less invasive test - get your serum (blood) hormone levels tested - ALL of them. See what comes up.

Get proactive about your condition - if you look at it in the right way it can empower you. There are so many things to try and if you don't keep posititive and focused you can really get down in the dumps.

Here if you want to talk (search the celebrating the positive forum) Smile


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Re: Newly diagnosed and shell shocked

Post  Lindilou on Wed Feb 15, 2012 11:04 am

Thanks Aussie this is my increasing feeling


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