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Just Diagnosed with Vulvadynia

Tue Aug 02, 2016 9:11 pm by CherryTree23

Well, I was just diagnosed today, yay...my symptoms are just burning pain in vaginal opening. This all came about after taking Bactrim, Monistat, Clindomycin and Diflucan. This doctor was extremely confident I have Vulvadynia. Also told me my vaginal skin isn't red. Yes, it is, mine isn't typically electric red. He prescribed Ampytripline (sp) said, I have a very mild case, and worse case …

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Vulvadynia

Fri Jul 21, 2017 11:53 pm by Linda Williams

I am 68 years old and a year ago was diagnosed with vestibulitis, then vulvadynia. I have a history of chinchilla bladder infections, have had major bladder repair, hysterectomy, mid 30's, an auto immune disease. I take a daily antibiotic to keep UTI's at bay. My doctor has done the Quip test which was uncomfortable but did not test anything. I use Premarin vaginal cream 2 times a week. These …

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Constant pain, I want to die.

Fri Jun 02, 2017 4:29 am by Meggiemay

I posted on here a few years ago but my symptoms went away with the inflammation. I didn't get so lucky this time.

For over three months, i've had terrible rawness, burning, soreness in the urethral/vestibule area and pressure/hypersensitivity in the clitoral area. I've also had some lower abdominal pressure and burning on my butt. I can barely walk! My gyno hasn't been much help. I'm on …

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Looking for a friend IRL; LA/OC

Tue Jul 18, 2017 2:51 am by crypticcalico

Hello!

I am hoping to find a friend in the LA/OC area that I can meet up with in person. I live in Long Beach, California and I am willing to drive a bit to meet. The only person that I've told about this is my doctor(s) and someone who couldn't wrap their brain around it. It would be nice to be able to talk to someone else who understands.

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Owner of vulvodyniSuppoet.com

Wed Jul 19, 2017 10:28 pm by LaurenVV

Hi, I started vulvodyniasupport.com at the age of 28.
I was a leader when there was no help, no forums etc.

As I went on my path, I found acupuncture, herbs and time helped me recover.
Most never do.

I met a wonderful woman named Hanna. She was a patient and became a support leader. She lived in FLoroda.

I have moved on from the support world and found a career that allowed
Me to bring my …

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anyone from southern california in here?

Tue Jul 12, 2011 6:43 pm by Melissa777

Hi Im just wondering if anyone here is from so cal- USA
I am in san diego- but from LA!!!

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Anyone else try Cold Laser therapy/ Low Level Laser Therapy for their vestibulodynia?

Tue Jul 04, 2017 9:01 am by Tired89

Hello everyone. It's been quite a long time since I've posted. I've been extremely depressed and bottling it all up. I've been seeing a pelvic floor therapist (it's only been 4 visits) for my provoked vestibulodynia and the only reason she can get inside of me to do myofascial release and to use the dilators is because I use BLT (benzocaine, lidocaine, tetracaine) ointment on my vestibule prior …

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Clitoris Issues

Tue Apr 28, 2015 8:17 pm by January

I am going crazyyy trying to figure out what's wrong. Please does anyone else have an issue similar to mine? I'm only 22. So, basically when my clit is lightly rubbed, there is no feeling. However, when rubbed vigorously and directly, the burning and tingling sensations shoot down my legs and feet as if coming to the end of an orgasm but with no good feeling leading up. It's so strange. What …

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New member

Sat Mar 18, 2017 7:37 pm by Lisa1627

Hi ladies. I am new to the forum. I have had what I think is vulvodynia caused from hsv 2. So not only do I have the burning vag but the constant feeling of being contagious. I can honestly say that I hate my life and myself right now. There are days when I think I would rather be dead. I tried the amitryptline and it helped but if it's only making my brain think I don't have pain then it's …

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In need of some advice..

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In need of some advice..

Post  everclear on Sun Feb 26, 2012 6:29 am

Firstly, I'm just so glad I found this forum. I honestly thought I was suffering alone - I can finally get advice and support from others who have actually experienced this.

I'm definitely in need of some advice, so I guess I'd better start with my own story. I'm 21, trying to finish my first degree and do my Honours as well as holding down a demanding job at a design studio. I have to sit down a lot of the time (studying, sitting down for hours at the office, PLUS I have to travel 2 hours on the bus to get to work and 2 hours to get back each day) which has just been really difficult with the way I'm feeling.

Around this time last year, I managed to contract a particularly vicious UTI which a round of antibiotics seemed to deal with. But a week or so after I finished the antibiotics, the intense pain came back with a vengeance. So off to the doctor I went again. And I was given another round of antibiotics. It seemed to go away again for a while, but then it came back again. This went on for some time, during which I had three urine tests done on three separate occasions (only one came back positive, but the antibiotics I subsequently got prescribed did nothing!). I also had a pelvic ultrasound which revealed nothing.

And so on, so forth. All the doctors seemed to do was to prescribe a different kind of antibiotics, so eventually I just gave up and tried to live with it, which was difficult because I felt like I was completely alone. I couldn't feel the infection inside me anymore, but the feeling of pain/burning remained (and another major symptom/side effect suddenly appeared which I'll describe later on).

But one day I happened to pick up an issue of Cosmopolitan (Issue 463) which had an article in it about someone who botoxed their vagina. I thought the title was pretty silly until I actually read it - it was about this girl who suffered for five years until she got diagnosed with vulvodynia. I literally cried after I finished reading because a lot of it sounded like me. So I did some research on vulvodynia and here I am.

So to get to the advice part... I'm not entirely sure I even have vulvodynia, because only some of the symptoms seem to match up with mine. I have no exterior symptoms (ie my vulva doesn't seem red or sensitive, no tears or sores or anything). It's all internal. I experience this intense pain/burning all the way up inside me, but it's most painful just inside my opening. I can't wear pants or tight underwear or stockings. I can have sex, but I usually regret it afterwards (sometimes right afterwards, sometimes the next day) because it causes the pain to flare up. I'm scared of using the bathroom (!) because it sometimes causes a flare up too.

It's not only the pain, but I feel like I can't control my muscles as well as I used to. Sometimes I get really, painfully tense down there, which makes me hurt even more, and I can't relax it at all, I just have to put up with it. The most embarrassing thing of all is, I actually wet the bed the other night (while I was sleeping with my boyfriend!). I couldn't sleep because I was so tense, and then I started to relax and it just... happened. 21 and wetting the bed. It was extremely humiliating. I apologised about a million times...

The worst thing is, I think because the pain/burning/tension is so intense, the major symptom/side effect I'm having is that I'm really horny. All the time. I can't control it at all. It's like the burning sensation/tense muscles are constantly pressuring me to feel turned on. It really upsets me that it's not me doing it - it's something that's happened to me that's causing it. And it has just wrecked my life. Not only is it really difficult to focus on work or study because of the pain/tension, but I can't focus because I'm too horny.

It sounds ridiculous, but I'm starting to really hate myself for the way I feel. Even though I know it will hurt afterwards, I have sex with my boyfriend because I'm just so out of my mind with being turned on. And sure enough afterwards I get punished for it because I'm in so much pain. And I never feel satisfied anymore - even if I do have lots of sex, I never feel like it's enough because the tension never goes away. Sex even feels different than it used to, which I don't like either. I guess I should be thankful that I can have sex at all. But to have my body react against my will so I want it really badly, then punish me for trying to alleviate it, is just so depressing.

It does seem cyclical - the symptoms lessen so sometimes I feel okay, but just as I'm coming off my period, it flares back up. I really dread that time of the month now. But even on a "good day", I still don't feel normal. Thankfully I have a really understanding boyfriend of 6 and a half years who is totally okay when I turn down sex because I don't feel right (I compensate in other ways, which he is happy with). If it wasn't for him I think I'd go crazy.

I haven't read the "turned on" symptom/side effect anywhere in my research to do with vulvodynia, and the fact that I don't seem to have any external symptoms makes me worry that maybe I don't have vulvodynia at all?

I've just tried so many times to get diagnosed and I am 100% sure it's not a UTI anymore because I've taken so many antibiotics. I'm so sick of wasting my money and valuable time on doctor's appointments and medicines only to get nothing in return.

I've been considering going to see this doctor at my local practice who specialises in women's health, but I'm not sure if I should, whether it would get me anywhere? It's hard for me to get any time off due to my job and my study, so I don't want it to be a waste of time.

So I guess I'm asking for advice in the sense that... where do I go from here? Any suggestions on what I could do? Do I have vulvodynia or not?

Sorry for the long post. I just really needed to vent. It's so hard to tell people anything because it's such a sensitive/embarrassing topic. My boyfriend is very understanding but he can't sympathise fully... and I'm just not getting anywhere with the doctors. I just want to be able to focus on working and studying and enjoying being with my boyfriend without constantly feeling like this.

Thanks again. I'm so thankful this forum exists.

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Re: In need of some advice..

Post  Sarah001 on Sun Feb 26, 2012 1:30 pm

Hi and welcome. Due to time reasons I rarely stray out of the physiotherapy and biofeedback area at the moment but I just happened to read your story and I think that's exactly where you need to be. A UTI is a classic way to set the pelvic floor off, not only does the irritated bladder and urethra irritate the muscles but also because you're forcing small bits of urine out over and over again that puts even more pressure on the PF (pelvic floor). Feeling horny is possibly the muscles squeezing a nerve or it may just be because your mind is always on that part of your body, it's not typical of V but I have seen it mentioned in other places online by women with V. Wetting the bed is another PF issue, when I first started down the road of pinpointing what was going on I had urinary urgency and frequency and sometimes it would hit me so quickly I literally couldn't make it to the bathroom in time and I'd leak a little or at other times alot. As your PF is all clenched up and spasmed it can't do its job correctly and one job is to perform continence so don't feel bad, it's not your fault and it doesn't mean it will happen again. Pee last thing before bed (no forcing out urine though) and don't drink much before you go to bed until you've made some headway with the PF. You'll be relieved to know that even though my PF is still very tight just reducing the tightness a bit has stopped the urinary urgency/frequency and I never leak now.

As you know you have a problem with the PF definitely start there, you need a Women's Health Physio to see what your resting tone is, which fibres aren't working properly (usually slow twitch ones) and teach you how to relax the pelvic floor followed by trigger point removal and strengthening. You also need pelvic alignment and your posture checking to see what's going on from a full body perspective. As for the Women's Health Doctor, you won't know unless you go so I'd say go but go armed with the knowledge you want and need to sort out your PF first. Keep us posted.
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A few ideas

Post  LizLemonny on Sun Apr 15, 2012 7:33 am

If sex brings on the pain in the hours after.

Try getting lidocaine from GP (max percentage you can) to use after sex as you will numb out and relax and then the tenseness won't bring on the pain. Often they won't prescribe it right away and want to try other things first so try to be insistent.

Use lube and condoms to minimise friction.

I've posted sex tips on this forum (more for pain during intercourse) click here if interested.

For the guilt thing you describe can you just use masturbation when you think you aren't genuinely wanting sex and just want the feeling to go away - you can then mentally compartment it as no big deal...?

Hope, hugs etc. It is worth getting a (insisting on a ) referral from GP to a gynaecologist maybe book one for after your exams?

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some advice

Post  chanel825 on Wed Apr 25, 2012 7:59 am

I am not a dr but u seem to have the exact thing as me. I was diagnosed w. vulvodynia after seeing more than 20 docs and being treated for yeast and UTI I did not have. All those meds made my symotoms worse. I dont know you but before I could not even have sex because I had so much pain I was given Marcaine a nerve blocker injection inside the vagina every 2 weeks and that seemed to help me a lot. One thing that has never gone away is burning and discharge do you also experience this? Its so bothersome I wisj I could know how to take it away.

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Re: In need of some advice..

Post  mary jane on Tue Nov 19, 2013 11:49 pm

this girl had symptoms of PGAD and no one told her that !!
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Re: In need of some advice..

Post  tinkerbelle2 on Wed Nov 20, 2013 9:55 am

What is PGAD maryjane? Just saw this post pop up, everclear do you still post on here because our symptoms sound so similar! If you do please get in touch x
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Re: In need of some advice..

Post  mary jane on Wed Nov 20, 2013 1:35 pm

PGAD= persistent genital arousal syndrome.
there was a recent article about it in dailymail:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2508456/Sexual-healing-Botox-solves-problem-womens-uncontrollable-arousal-disorder.html
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