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Tue Jun 05, 2018 4:13 am by anikita

Hi lovely gals!

I'm honestly hoping to get any bit of advice anyone might have to offer. I go from bouts of sobbing hysterically in my boyfriend's arms to feeling confident that I can beat this.

I haven't been actually diagnosed with vulvodynia but EVERYTHING under the sun has come back negative. I started having sex 4 years ago after starting Lo Loestrin, with my first and current boyfriend …

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I'M NEW - Do I listen to my gyno who I feel has it wrong?

Fri Mar 09, 2018 6:17 pm by Tunes25

Hello!

I am a 25 year old woman and wanted to share my story here as I feel frustrated by the suggestions of my gyno and am hoping for some advice.

To give the context for this: in September 2016 I moved in with my long term boyfriend after living abroad a year and (nearly) abstaining from sex. Within a few weeks I had got a yeast infection which I treated myself successfully, but then 2 weeks …

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Gabapentin Gel. or other topical creams

Thu May 10, 2018 9:43 am by Rosie21

Hi I have been suffering for some years with this abominable pain. I have tried most of the systemic drugs , I asked specialists and Doctors if I could at least try a topical treatment but because this requires a special prescription have been refused Has anybody had a chance of trying these? Thank you I will try to put a link on to some of the research into Gabapentin Gel. Thanks.

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What has been helping ME (much less pain over time!!)

Wed May 16, 2018 3:43 am by leoscc

Hello everyone! I vanished for quite some time as my life became consumed by not only this but other daily responsibilities as well. Shortly after my diagnosis, my boyfriend f 3 years left me as he did not want to deal with this. It left me broken for a while but also gave me time to figure out what the heck was going on. So, I will write out a quick list of my symptoms and what helped me.

1. I …

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I cured myself 100% of vulvodynia twenty years ago--I hope this helps someone

Mon Mar 12, 2018 4:33 pm by totallycured

Hi,

Every so often I'm reminded of the constant, persistent, horrible pain I was in two decades ago, and I reach out to try to help others who are suffering. If someone had offered me a solution during that terrible time, I'd have jumped at it. I hope this helps someone.

Yes, I did have terrible vulvodynia. It felt like someone poured acid all over my vulva. My doctor confirmed it and was …

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Condoms Less Painful?

Mon May 07, 2018 3:35 am by stillinpain

I'm just curious, has anyone found using condoms to be less abrasive to the skin than without? I just got off birth control and haven't stretched myself out enough post surgery to try sex yet, but when I do I am wondering how trying it with condoms with affect the sensation. I feel like for me the skin to skin sensation creates pain, not just at my entrance but internally, too, since I also have …

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Will there be an end?

Fri Apr 27, 2018 12:06 am by Krista2828

I go in and out of being okay and not being okay with this condition. I question often why me? I am a problem solver by nature and I feel so defeated that after tons of research and trial and error and doctors and tears that there still is no answer.

I am in my 20's.. it shouldn't be this way.

Id love to know what all has worked! I am willing to try anything to get my life back. I am curious …

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you can be healed so easy and quite fast.

Thu Apr 26, 2018 11:46 pm by pussycat

Hello everyone,
i am new to this forum. I wanted to share my personal "journey" with V with you and to give you a real hope you can be totally healed/recovered from V. Many years ago i was struck with V, it was painful and got worst and worst, eventually i could not sit, could not stand, could not walk, could not swim in a swimming pool anymore. I was becoming bedridden, it frightened …

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Hi Im from Australia :)

Sat Jan 08, 2011 1:08 am by emma

Hi girls... I live in Australia.
I am currently undergoing a new treatment for vulvodynia. Just wondering if anyone else here has tried it. It's Endep in the form of cream to apply directly on the area. I dont know if anyone else has tried this but so far evidently it has had a 50% success rate.
Anyway i feel at a loss. This new treatment is exciting but at the same time i just dont feel like …

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BOOKS! NON-VAGINA RELATED!!!

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Post  naomi on Mon Jul 26, 2010 1:39 pm

Can anyone suggest some good books (not science fiction) that are a good, interesting read? BUT......(that's a big BUT!)

...ones with minimal references to SEX! With everything that's going on I just want some escapism and I'm fed up with getting into a book, only to read about how many "orgasms Ben had given Kate last night" and how she was "gagging for it".....grrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!

Thanking you in advance


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Post  Sarah001 on Mon Jul 26, 2010 1:50 pm

Depends what you like, I'm a thriller fan so I read lots of Harlan Coben and Dean Koontz and stuff like that. Neither of those authors are big on sex scenes!
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Post  naomi on Mon Jul 26, 2010 1:59 pm

I like the easy to read, unconfusing (lifes confusing enough!), inspiring, funny, heart warming ones, ones that you finish and go "ahhhhhhhh" Very Happy

I'm going to get my bum down to the library in a bit and have a look. Thanks for the recommendations! I think my dads reading a Dean Koontz one at the mo, might steal that from him after!

I've been reading some easy going ones by Marian Keyes (chick lit) but theres way too much sex sex sex. I end up starting to resent the characters!!!

oh life!
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Post  julia on Mon Jul 26, 2010 4:56 pm

just been reading a brilliant bit of escapism by jojo moyes called 'the peacock emporium'. only 1 very brief sex scene and no description!


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Post  naomi on Mon Jul 26, 2010 5:59 pm

oh ace ta 4 the recommendation!

I ended up getting some books from the library...

dean koontz odd hours

a book on greece (one can dream about holidays!)

marian keyes book -click lit i know but i thought id give her another chance, she is funny! I'll do the usual and try to skim read over the sex stuff!!

The war on pain - it has suggestions on how to deal /get through life with it, so will let you guys know if its any good.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy for Dummies...I may be bouncing off the walls with positivity but the end of the week!...or maybe not!

So these will keep me busy for a while. I suppose thats one benefit of this condition...if you lose your job like I have and on benefits at least you have time to read Very Happy clouds and silver linings spring to mind there Laughing
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Post  Sarah001 on Mon Jul 26, 2010 6:08 pm

I love the Odd Thomas books by Dean Koontz, be warned though they can get a bit sad in places!
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Post  Sebby (Admin) on Mon Jul 26, 2010 9:41 pm


Dean Koontz is fantastic! I love his books.

Also I love Magaret Atwood but she is a heavy read.

Sum more books I recommed:

The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Nighttime by Mark Haddon - about a boy with asbergers written from his perspective

Anyfing by George Orwell - 1984, Animal Farm, Down and Out in Paris and London

And try sum Dorothy Parker poems for a good bit of love cynicism!

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Post  naomi on Mon Jul 26, 2010 10:04 pm

Ah yeh Mark Haddon books are wicked! read the curious Incident', and 'A spot of Bother' That's really good!

I forgot about Animal Farm . I'm sure I've still got the book upstairs from my GCSEs!

Right, I best get to bed and try that sleeping thing. Early start in the morning, alarm is set at 5am, ready to leave to oxford hospital at half past. urggggghhhhhh wayyyyyy to early.

Night all! xxx

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Post  Julie on Wed Jul 28, 2010 11:21 pm

If you like 1984, I would suggest "Brave New World" by Aldous Huxley...I loved it 27,000 times more =)

I read a ton so let me know if there are any specific types/genres & I'd love to give suggestions!

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Post  Sarah001 on Thu Jul 29, 2010 12:54 pm

I've just read a fantastic thriller called The Neighbour by Lisa Gardner, I was so impressed I've ordered another of her books! By the way very little in the way of sex scenes!
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Post  Mouse on Sun Sep 26, 2010 3:07 am

I don't have the concentration for reading anymore even magazines are a challenge BUT wanted to share my Dad's latest discovery.

OK to my great shame he is devouring Danielle Steele books, he's printed a list from the internet and is marking them off as he goes. Surviving a cancer scare, subsequent op and chemotherapy has clearly done something to his brain. We didn't know he could read until now. It's turned into our private shame. My niece gave him a boxed set of movies for his birthday. He couldn't be more pleased! Crikey!

I did really enjoy The Tea Rose by Jennifer Donnolley, it looks like one of those naf romantic loads of BS but is surprisingly good. I did enjoy some of Marian Keyes, Rachel's Holiday was a great laugh and would have made a way better movie than 28 days (with Sandra Bullock) that had similar content.

Oops husband tooting - bless!

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Post  naomi on Sun Oct 03, 2010 9:21 pm

hiya!

def agree with you on that one! 28days later was good but Rachels Hol would have been feb...i love the irish accent too so that adds to it!!

I keep picking books with sex in buy mistake so i just miss afew pages and usually they have got it out of their systems Very Happy

hope everyone is ok! Keep listing the authors and books, im writing them in my diary so when im in charity shops i can pick them out...anything to pass the time til i find some answers to this shit of a condition!!!
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