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Constant pain, I want to die.

Fri Jun 02, 2017 4:29 am by Meggiemay

I posted on here a few years ago but my symptoms went away with the inflammation. I didn't get so lucky this time.

For over three months, i've had terrible rawness, burning, soreness in the urethral/vestibule area and pressure/hypersensitivity in the clitoral area. I've also had some lower abdominal pressure and burning on my butt. I can barely walk! My gyno hasn't been much help. I'm on …

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Clitoris Issues

Tue Apr 28, 2015 8:17 pm by January

I am going crazyyy trying to figure out what's wrong. Please does anyone else have an issue similar to mine? I'm only 22. So, basically when my clit is lightly rubbed, there is no feeling. However, when rubbed vigorously and directly, the burning and tingling sensations shoot down my legs and feet as if coming to the end of an orgasm but with no good feeling leading up. It's so strange. What …

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New member

Sat Mar 18, 2017 7:37 pm by Lisa1627

Hi ladies. I am new to the forum. I have had what I think is vulvodynia caused from hsv 2. So not only do I have the burning vag but the constant feeling of being contagious. I can honestly say that I hate my life and myself right now. There are days when I think I would rather be dead. I tried the amitryptline and it helped but if it's only making my brain think I don't have pain then it's …

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Post Full Vestibulectomy - 5 Years Later - Please Read

Tue May 02, 2017 6:18 pm by jen007

Hi All,

It's been awhile since I've written a new topic on the forum. Wondering if any of the same ladies are still here. I've come back to update you all on my post vestibulectomy results. I can't remember if I've done an update on my current state, so forgive me if this is repeated information... I can't remember how to view my old posts! Anyway, let me get on with my update.

For 4 years post …

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Recovered from Vulvodynia

Thu May 04, 2017 9:42 pm by chancesunny

Hey everyone,

Im a new member on this forum and wanted to share my story so I can help anyone who is feeling helpless. Maybe what worked for me can work for you. I'll try to make this short so you can go get better!

I had vulvodynia for about 3-4 years. In the beginning, it started with pain that I thought was just a yeast infection and then I thought it was a urinary tract infection or …

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New here, my story and looking for advice

Wed Apr 26, 2017 9:02 am by rachiecakes

Hi All!

I was really hoping to get some feedback from everyone here - it's very hard dealing with an issue like this because no one really understands what I'm going through!

Im 28 years old I've had interstitial cystitis for 3 years - but never an vaginal issues. About 6 months ago I got a yeast infection following a course of antibiotics - similarly I developed IC after a bad UTI. The itching …

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New w/ Secondary Provoked Vestibuldynia

Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:46 pm by Birdy

Hi everyone,

I'm here because I'm pretty sure I have secondary provoked vestibuldynia, even though my gyno is still "optimistic" it is not.  My problem started six months ago when I got my second UTI in as many months (after going 25 years of life without one) and then ended up with a bad yeast infection (also my first one ever) thanks to the antibiotics.  Ever since the yeast …

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Male visitor

Wed Jan 18, 2017 11:19 pm by outsider

Hello!

I am a 25 year old guy who has erectile dysfunction following an injury a few years ago. I am here because I think that men and women with sexual dysfunction could benefit from dating each other. My experience has been that women have lost interest when they found out that penetrative sex was not possible with me.
So I am interested in learning more about female sexual disorders. Do young …

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New Here: Question/My Story

Mon Apr 03, 2017 2:00 am by overit14

Hi everyone. I came across this site by Googling "vulvar pain support". I feel like my case is different than most I read about so I was wondering if anyone else here experiences this in the way that I do.

This started in 2012 and has happened off and on since. I get really, really red and it's very painful, swollen and burns. Sometimes it may be a little itchy, but mostly it just …

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I'm back - advice on treatment and biofeedback

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I'm back - advice on treatment and biofeedback

Post  Tyger on Thu May 03, 2012 4:13 am

I just wanted to jump back on these forums, because finally I'll be pursuing treatment (again!) and I need some advice and reassurance.  

I wrote my history so far in this thread: http://www.vulvodyniasupportforum.com/t362-my-story-my-experiences-my-life-with-vulvar-vestibulitis, but in a nutshell, I'm almost 28, I live in Melbourne, I have provoked, localised vulvar vestibulitis.  Basically, it hurts when I have sex, the whole way through the act and I am tender for a day afterwards, and it stings slightly when I pee.  I have suffered from this since I was 18, and had pain-free sex for 6 months before it began from a yeast infection.

I should say that I'm really good at ignoring this condition, and being in denial about it.  When I was seeking treatment after first diagnosis, it made me so depressed focusing on it, so after some failed attempts, I stopped.  I grit my teeth through sex and get on with it, and then don't think about it the rest of the time.  This has gone on far too long now, and what used to be a healthy sex-life is now turning into a boring, painful mess as I get older and more fed-up, and my libido slows down.  I can't just keep ignoring it.  The days where I could enjoy sex and embrace the pain are gone - this is not normal.

Treatments tried (and failed) in the past: long-term anti-fungal called Nizoral I think, and Amitryptiline anti-depressant, for months slowly increasing dosage.  No response to either.

I have been reading a lot about biofeedback.  I always assumed there was some kind of medication I could take that would fix it, if I tried enough avenues, and I thought biofeedback was such a wishy-washy treatment. But now that I look into it, it seems there's something to it.  I didn't think I had problems with my vaginal/pelvic muscles, but my partner has told me over the past few years that I'm extremely tight down there. I should have assumed, from common sense, that I'd be experiencing reflexive muscle tightening because of the sex pain, and I don't know why I thought this wasn't an issue.


So I suppose my questions are these.

Have you had success with biofeedback and dilators, especially with localized provoked?

Have you heard of/had treatment with Marek Jantos, and are his methods effective?

How long does it take to start experiencing progress?

What exactly IS it? What do they do to you?

Is biofeedback/dilators a good fit for somebody with vestibulitis, or should I seek more medication-based treatments first and foremost?

My biggest issue by far is financially... these treatments are all extremely costly in Melbourne and probably all over the world.  I'm going to go back to full-time study next year, and I don't have a lot of savings, plus I already asked and a lot of the specialists aren't covered by any form of private insurance.  I wish there was some kind of guarantee that this stuff is going to work!

But I'm desperate now, and I have been extremely upset the past few months.  I can't ignore it any more.  Any advice would be greatly appreciated! I'm so glad there's support like this out there... I don't know where I'd be without it in the past.

Tyger.
 

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Re: I'm back - advice on treatment and biofeedback

Post  Sarah001 on Thu May 03, 2012 12:08 pm

I've done some biofeedback, basically they insert a vaginal probe (or you insert it yourself if you prefer) then wait a minute or two to see what your resting tone is followed by testing how well your slow twitch and fast twitch fibres work by giving you quick and slow contractions to do with the emphasis on the relaxation part to teach you how it feels to have the pelvic floor relaxed. Once you can relax it better they progress to exercises to suit the individual and go from there. That should also be followed by trigger point work of the pelvic floor to increase relaxation. I can't say how well it works because I have severe pelvic instability so have to stabilise my pelvic before I can fully relax these muscles but I did manage to lower my resting tone by quite a bit and it took my generalised unprovoked V towards being provoked at the time so there's something to be said for it.

I know Aussie (Claire) went to Marek Jantos and made progress with him but I'm not sure if she's still around or not. There's no reason why you can't pursue medical options at the same time either.

Dilators are to gradually stretch the superficial pelvic floor and if I use mine religiously I do feel improvement but again I can't go mad because of my pelvic instability. I leave mine in place for about 15 minutes before I go to sleep at night and I'm currently on the 3rd dilator but with no movement. They can also be used to stretch the pelvic floor and press into trigger points but again gently and gradually.

Let us know how you get on!
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