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Just Diagnosed with Vulvadynia

Tue Aug 02, 2016 9:11 pm by CherryTree23

Well, I was just diagnosed today, yay...my symptoms are just burning pain in vaginal opening. This all came about after taking Bactrim, Monistat, Clindomycin and Diflucan. This doctor was extremely confident I have Vulvadynia. Also told me my vaginal skin isn't red. Yes, it is, mine isn't typically electric red. He prescribed Ampytripline (sp) said, I have a very mild case, and worse case …

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Vulvadynia

Fri Jul 21, 2017 11:53 pm by Linda Williams

I am 68 years old and a year ago was diagnosed with vestibulitis, then vulvadynia. I have a history of chinchilla bladder infections, have had major bladder repair, hysterectomy, mid 30's, an auto immune disease. I take a daily antibiotic to keep UTI's at bay. My doctor has done the Quip test which was uncomfortable but did not test anything. I use Premarin vaginal cream 2 times a week. These …

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Constant pain, I want to die.

Fri Jun 02, 2017 4:29 am by Meggiemay

I posted on here a few years ago but my symptoms went away with the inflammation. I didn't get so lucky this time.

For over three months, i've had terrible rawness, burning, soreness in the urethral/vestibule area and pressure/hypersensitivity in the clitoral area. I've also had some lower abdominal pressure and burning on my butt. I can barely walk! My gyno hasn't been much help. I'm on …

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Looking for a friend IRL; LA/OC

Tue Jul 18, 2017 2:51 am by crypticcalico

Hello!

I am hoping to find a friend in the LA/OC area that I can meet up with in person. I live in Long Beach, California and I am willing to drive a bit to meet. The only person that I've told about this is my doctor(s) and someone who couldn't wrap their brain around it. It would be nice to be able to talk to someone else who understands.

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Owner of vulvodyniSuppoet.com

Wed Jul 19, 2017 10:28 pm by LaurenVV

Hi, I started vulvodyniasupport.com at the age of 28.
I was a leader when there was no help, no forums etc.

As I went on my path, I found acupuncture, herbs and time helped me recover.
Most never do.

I met a wonderful woman named Hanna. She was a patient and became a support leader. She lived in FLoroda.

I have moved on from the support world and found a career that allowed
Me to bring my …

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anyone from southern california in here?

Tue Jul 12, 2011 6:43 pm by Melissa777

Hi Im just wondering if anyone here is from so cal- USA
I am in san diego- but from LA!!!

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Anyone else try Cold Laser therapy/ Low Level Laser Therapy for their vestibulodynia?

Tue Jul 04, 2017 9:01 am by Tired89

Hello everyone. It's been quite a long time since I've posted. I've been extremely depressed and bottling it all up. I've been seeing a pelvic floor therapist (it's only been 4 visits) for my provoked vestibulodynia and the only reason she can get inside of me to do myofascial release and to use the dilators is because I use BLT (benzocaine, lidocaine, tetracaine) ointment on my vestibule prior …

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Clitoris Issues

Tue Apr 28, 2015 8:17 pm by January

I am going crazyyy trying to figure out what's wrong. Please does anyone else have an issue similar to mine? I'm only 22. So, basically when my clit is lightly rubbed, there is no feeling. However, when rubbed vigorously and directly, the burning and tingling sensations shoot down my legs and feet as if coming to the end of an orgasm but with no good feeling leading up. It's so strange. What …

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New member

Sat Mar 18, 2017 7:37 pm by Lisa1627

Hi ladies. I am new to the forum. I have had what I think is vulvodynia caused from hsv 2. So not only do I have the burning vag but the constant feeling of being contagious. I can honestly say that I hate my life and myself right now. There are days when I think I would rather be dead. I tried the amitryptline and it helped but if it's only making my brain think I don't have pain then it's …

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Struggling with motivation

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Struggling with motivation

Post  Shuriken on Sat Jun 30, 2012 3:13 am

Hi,
I"m 20 and I first started having pain with sex when I was 19, about 10 months ago. It wasn't my first time, although it was a new boyfriend and he was maybe a little larger than my previous 2 boyfriends. Looking back, I think the problem was not new, as I had never used a tampon as i could always feel it, and having sex more than once a night was a no-go due to no lubrication = ouchies. To be honest, even sex that lasted too long made me rub a little raw. funnily enough, getting a guy to finish quickly is never an issue. So I went to see my GP who sent me, after several standard tests, to a specialist who diagnosed me and sent me to the physiotherapist. This took time, and if I didn't have health insurance would've been way more expensive than I could afford. But the physio lady is so nice, and so helpful and we pinpointed what the problem may be. I spent 6 weeks on an excavation in Italy where I was squatting in the dirt for 10 hours a day, drinking litres of water and avoiding going to the horribly smelly and hot portaloos - I appear to have overtrained my pelvic muscles and when the sex hurt I fell into a cycle of pain and tension. I also have guttate psoriasis which may have contributed a little. I understand this, but its so hard to switch all that apprehension off, even when its just me and tiny tampon (much cheaper than a dilator). By relationship with that initial boyfriend eventually ended (he was an asshole) and I'm seeing a much more understanding guy who seems ok with the no-sex aspect - although we do a fair number of other things. I'm not uncomfortable with intimacy and I don't have a problem with arousal anymore and on a good day he can use his hands. I know that some women are in far worse situations and I know I've come a long way from where I was, but I'm not satisfied with this result, I like sex and I want to be able to have when I want without having to worry about it not working out. Yet, at the same time, with my full-time post-graduate study and all the crazy stress in my life, the motivation to actually do my exercises every night is lacking. I just want to sleep, or read my book. Not to mention, that trying to use a dilator when you are not in the mood just makes it harder and I get discouraged. I know its silly to expect things to just get better without doing much about it, but the good days and the bad days don't seem to have any rythme or reason. In fact, doing my exercises seems to make it harder to do the same thing later that day (or the next) with my man, especially if it didn't go too well, so I do my exercises even less.
Does anyone have any advice? How did you keep up the work for so long and stay positive?
Also, is there a support group in Auckland, New Zealand? It would be nice to talk with people in person, the internet always seems so far away and impersonal.

Shuriken

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Re struggling with motivation

Post  Sunflower82 on Sat Jun 30, 2012 8:58 am

Hi,
Just read your message, think it is very normal for you to feel they way u are feeling, I have physio exercises and should be using my dilators every other night and doing perinal massage, which to be honest has helped I have made my way through the dialators and have made it up to the scary largest one. They are great for stretching and trying to get me to relax, however it's very different to sex as there is no movement. I go through periods of extreme motivation and I will do it all the time but then I end up with urine infection and I'm make to where I started. It helped me to use the dilators in the bath as this will help you to relax, use an oil based lube check out this lube it's called yes, it doesn't have any nasty chemicals. Hope this helps


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Interesting

Post  jmcmil on Sat Jul 07, 2012 4:07 am

Hello,
I am from the US and am curious about the dilators you are talking about. I would be interested in exercises and trying anything down there to help the pain. Please explain. Thanks!

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