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Constant pain, I want to die.

Fri Jun 02, 2017 4:29 am by Meggiemay

I posted on here a few years ago but my symptoms went away with the inflammation. I didn't get so lucky this time.

For over three months, i've had terrible rawness, burning, soreness in the urethral/vestibule area and pressure/hypersensitivity in the clitoral area. I've also had some lower abdominal pressure and burning on my butt. I can barely walk! My gyno hasn't been much help. I'm on …

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Clitoris Issues

Tue Apr 28, 2015 8:17 pm by January

I am going crazyyy trying to figure out what's wrong. Please does anyone else have an issue similar to mine? I'm only 22. So, basically when my clit is lightly rubbed, there is no feeling. However, when rubbed vigorously and directly, the burning and tingling sensations shoot down my legs and feet as if coming to the end of an orgasm but with no good feeling leading up. It's so strange. What …

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New member

Sat Mar 18, 2017 7:37 pm by Lisa1627

Hi ladies. I am new to the forum. I have had what I think is vulvodynia caused from hsv 2. So not only do I have the burning vag but the constant feeling of being contagious. I can honestly say that I hate my life and myself right now. There are days when I think I would rather be dead. I tried the amitryptline and it helped but if it's only making my brain think I don't have pain then it's …

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Post Full Vestibulectomy - 5 Years Later - Please Read

Tue May 02, 2017 6:18 pm by jen007

Hi All,

It's been awhile since I've written a new topic on the forum. Wondering if any of the same ladies are still here. I've come back to update you all on my post vestibulectomy results. I can't remember if I've done an update on my current state, so forgive me if this is repeated information... I can't remember how to view my old posts! Anyway, let me get on with my update.

For 4 years post …

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Recovered from Vulvodynia

Thu May 04, 2017 9:42 pm by chancesunny

Hey everyone,

Im a new member on this forum and wanted to share my story so I can help anyone who is feeling helpless. Maybe what worked for me can work for you. I'll try to make this short so you can go get better!

I had vulvodynia for about 3-4 years. In the beginning, it started with pain that I thought was just a yeast infection and then I thought it was a urinary tract infection or …

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New here, my story and looking for advice

Wed Apr 26, 2017 9:02 am by rachiecakes

Hi All!

I was really hoping to get some feedback from everyone here - it's very hard dealing with an issue like this because no one really understands what I'm going through!

Im 28 years old I've had interstitial cystitis for 3 years - but never an vaginal issues. About 6 months ago I got a yeast infection following a course of antibiotics - similarly I developed IC after a bad UTI. The itching …

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New w/ Secondary Provoked Vestibuldynia

Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:46 pm by Birdy

Hi everyone,

I'm here because I'm pretty sure I have secondary provoked vestibuldynia, even though my gyno is still "optimistic" it is not.  My problem started six months ago when I got my second UTI in as many months (after going 25 years of life without one) and then ended up with a bad yeast infection (also my first one ever) thanks to the antibiotics.  Ever since the yeast …

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Male visitor

Wed Jan 18, 2017 11:19 pm by outsider


I am a 25 year old guy who has erectile dysfunction following an injury a few years ago. I am here because I think that men and women with sexual dysfunction could benefit from dating each other. My experience has been that women have lost interest when they found out that penetrative sex was not possible with me.
So I am interested in learning more about female sexual disorders. Do young …

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New Here: Question/My Story

Mon Apr 03, 2017 2:00 am by overit14

Hi everyone. I came across this site by Googling "vulvar pain support". I feel like my case is different than most I read about so I was wondering if anyone else here experiences this in the way that I do.

This started in 2012 and has happened off and on since. I get really, really red and it's very painful, swollen and burns. Sometimes it may be a little itchy, but mostly it just …

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Post  Rainy Day on Sat Sep 08, 2012 10:03 pm

I saw a commercial for how you can wax it all off yourself and it won't ever grow back. I am so desparate I almost ordered a case of it Smile. Isn't there a pill to take that will get rid of it forever? Can't I pluck it out piece by piece? Smile UGH UGH UGH UGH. Where it hits my thighs sends me through the roof. I would prefer to walk super bull-legged so the legs don't touch. Sorry, had to get that off my chest.

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Shaved Kitty

Post  lavrose on Sun Sep 09, 2012 8:54 pm

Well I dont shave my kitty, (heck no!!!) as it causes me to be even more prone to yeast and vaginal infections, I just trim it down, and shave the sides so I look good in a bathing suit. Ive gone as far as a landing strip but a wide one (lol!!).

Guys criticize me over this but who cares!!! NOBODY shaved back in the olden days and no one cares, if someone is really into you, they wont really care, right??

Dont get me wrong, a shaved kitty is Hot, and I dont know how other women do it (then again, I dunno how a women can have sex 3 times a day, everyday, as my kitty would be so sore Embarassed Sad ),
but I just cant do it. Ive got too many problems, plus Im half Jewish and I have really thick hair, so its a pain, when I DID shave, and it was tryin to grow back, it would like chafe me, and it was very uncomfortable and I was aware of it all the time.

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Chemical hair removal

Post  lavrose on Sun Sep 09, 2012 8:56 pm

Dont do that!! My daughters father put nair on his public area, and it didnt grow back for 2 years, and it was red and sore for 6 months, he gave himself a chemical burn!!!

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Post  JemimaSurrender on Mon Sep 10, 2012 1:13 pm

I always hated mine. I have olive coloured skin and the blackest of black hair which always seemed massively thick!

I used to shave it all off, or sometimes leave a strip, but it would start to grow back the very next day so it was only smooth for one night, and it was so painful and sore when it came back through. Why on Earth there isn't a shaving relief cream for women is beyond me.

Anyway, I went from that to waxing. It was quite expensive but lasted a lot longer and was sooo smooooooth afterwards.

I got fed up of that eventually too though. The idea of having to go through all that hassle for the rest of my life drove me insane. I wanted to look nice in cute knickers and not worry about if there's any hair there or not.

So... Now I've had laser hair removal. I'd looked at it and researched it for months but knew I'd never be able to afford it. It was £190 per session, and you have to have 6-8 sessions 6 weeks apart. How crazy!

Fortunately they had an offer on so now I've been able to afford it. I'm two sessions in and I've hardly got any hair growth at all already. I'd definitely recommend it in an instant. And if you're going to go down the permanent route then I'd got for that instead of anything you can get in the shops. It's a sensitive area and you don't want to mess up your hair for life. You could end up all patchy!

I hope this is of use, and gooood luck!


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Pubic hair

Post  Rainy Day on Mon Sep 10, 2012 8:47 pm

I just did a horrible thing...I ended up shaving it since it was driving me so nuts. Ugh...the pain with it growing back is excruciating. Has anyone else done something this stupid? And, how long of a flare did it create? I slept about 20 min last night. And, I have red bumps down there now. This crap never ends.

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I need a head count! How many girls hate their pubic hair

Post  Sunflower82 on Tue Sep 11, 2012 6:30 am

Yep, I am one of those people! Not really discussed with anyone before. I have always tried to keep it nice a tidy, I use trimmers to keep it short. Which I have been doing for years with v and was never a problem untill the last year as my v symptoms got worse this became a nightmare. Problem is as it no longer looks tidy I always end up by doing it again, then I regret it as it itches like mad, walking down the street with the urge to scratch of all my skin. So would love to get rid of it all.



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Post  kylrzz on Wed Oct 31, 2012 7:01 am

Laser hair removal treatment is the best thing if you want a hair less and smooth skin. it works by acting inside the dermis layer of skin so the results are very long-lasting. Its also safe and very comfortable.


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