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» Please tell me this can get better
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» By no means cured, but doing much better!
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» How I cured my Vulvodynia!
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» 7 months since the diagnosis
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» Gabapentin Gel. or other topical creams
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» IMPORTANT FOR UK SUFFERERS
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» Help New Diagnosis
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» 6 days post Vestibulectomy - Is this normal?? please tell me about your postop healing process!
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Gabapentin Gel. or other topical creams

Thu May 10, 2018 9:43 am by Rosie21

Hi I have been suffering for some years with this abominable pain. I have tried most of the systemic drugs , I asked specialists and Doctors if I could at least try a topical treatment but because this requires a special prescription have been refused Has anybody had a chance of trying these? Thank you I will try to put a link on to some of the research into Gabapentin Gel. Thanks.

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Putnams 'bony parts' cushion or Putnams 'Dr Huff' cushion - which is best?

Sat Aug 01, 2015 4:17 pm by Fielder

Hi everyone,

I'm a newbie.  I live in the UK.  

I'm trying to work out the best cushion to get for my vulvodynia.  I suspect that I could have pudendal nerve involvement (the aching and burning pain is from vagina to clitoris) and I have rectocele and some tailbone pain too.

I have seen some good reports on older threads regarding the Putnams pressure relief cushions....with some ladies …

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An absolute success story- please read!

Fri Mar 08, 2019 10:57 pm by Persevere1990

Dear All,

I posted on here back in March 2017 having just got a diagnosis of vulvodynia after a few months of relentless and acute pain. I was desperate, I was hurting, I was scared I would never know life without pain there again.

I tried creams, acupuncture, numbing gels, frozen pads, baths with various internet recommended concoctions- convinced myself I had lichen sclerosus, herpes, thrush- …

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I'm sorry im rambling

Thu Feb 21, 2019 5:49 am by Jet227

hey, im 19, ive been struggling with this almost a year. The first week I became itchy I went in to check about a yeast infection another week later. I have been to 10 different doctors a total of about 15 appointments for this problem for the past 11 months. I have been tested for everything including having a biopsy. I was first told basically to just go home and use hydrocortazone, then I went …

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New member need advice please

Thu Feb 28, 2019 11:33 pm by PANDORA123

Hello, I have just been diagnosed with unprovoked vulvodynia. Im really scared and worried. It burns a lot and it hurts to sit down. I have been prescribed amitriptyle 10mg. Can anyone give me some hope that I can get better from this condition. Feeling low and depressed.

Thanks

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MonaLisa Touch

Fri Feb 08, 2019 7:35 pm by rl2091

Hi All,

I'm wondering if anyone has any experience with the MonaLisa Touch treatment for Vulvodynia? My pain started when I went on HRT(pill) for anxiety mainly and my pain abruntly stopped when I stopped HRT. However, when I started on the HRT patch (at my dr's suggestion), the pain returned and has never left. That was 7 years ago. I found MonaLisa Touch on the internet purely by accident …

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Diagnosed Recently

Tue Jan 08, 2019 3:55 pm by flissyg

Hi All,

I’m so glad I’ve found a place where there are others who understand how I feel!

So this is my story:-

I’m 36,  and 4 months ago, whilst innocently sitting in bed reading I experienced a very sharp stabbing pain in my clitoris. It last only a few minutes and then subsided as quickly as it came on. It put it down to “one of those things”.  The following morning I woke up …

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New and need advice and help

Wed Dec 05, 2018 3:26 pm by Cin124

Hi everyone,

About three months ago, I started having vaginal and vulval itching. Then, about two months ago, my vulva started to feel painful and look swollen, so I went to the doctor. I was tested for herpes, chlamydia, and gonorrhea which all came back negative. I also had to do a vaginal swab test and the only thing that came back positive was yeast infection. I was prescribed hydrozole …

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New here would very much appreciate advice at the end of my rope

Wed Jan 09, 2019 9:09 pm by Jma990o

This might be a little long but it's been such a long time I've even been able to talk about my problems openly thank you in advance for any helpful advice.
So ok I'm 24 I've been having this problem for over two years seen quite a few doctors and obgyns alike and nobody will take me seriously I have had a few utis and yeast infections and even bv once and this all started after one of the utis …

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Post  Sebby (Admin) Sat Feb 26, 2011 10:53 pm


Ok here are the links to the stuff Dr Glazer recommended

http://www.vulvodynia.com/Store/Store%20Main.htm - scroll down to the bottom to see the scorpio rising dildo, it comes in different sizes - to use instead of hard plastic dilators, silicone is recommded material for all dildos

http://evesgarden.com/adult_sex_toys/Dildos/ - again scroll down the scorpio rising is cheaper on this site


http://evesgarden.com/Magic-Wand.html - this is the Magic Wand yes expensive but is recommended as the frequencies do not irritate the clitoras

http://www.amazon.com/Let-Count-Ways-Discovering-Intercourse/dp/0874779561 - the book recommeded for great sex without intercourse

Right Im blowing this months wages on sex toys... hehe


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Post  Sebby (Admin) Sat Feb 26, 2011 11:36 pm


Note: for girls in the uk you can get the Magic Wand on Amazom.co.uk as Eves garden only ships to us or canada

It is advertised as a massager and I think originally was made for this but its become quite famous for its use as a sex toy that is comfortable and not so intense as the average vibrators
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Post  Mouse Sat Feb 26, 2011 11:48 pm

I'm loving your new hobby!!!

Can I also add that once you get comfortable with yourself SEX will change forever! WHY sex is still a male dominated pass time I don't know, they could have sex with a hole in the ground. Learning to love yourself is the greatest gift of all! Hahhaaa I wonder if that was the true intention of that song???


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Post  Sebby (Admin) Sat Feb 26, 2011 11:56 pm


Laughing Im looking forward to receiving my ordered Magic Wand! oh and I have orderd the book 'Let me Count the Ways' (typed count at first missing out the o!!) Cor dear lol
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Post  Mouse Sun Feb 27, 2011 12:16 am

Hahhahaaaa I don't usually use LOL but I actually did laugh out loud! Your morning tea breaks at work are going to interesting love!

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Post  naomi Sun Feb 27, 2011 11:07 am

'they could have sex with a hole in the ground'

hahaaaaaaaaaa! my housemates asked me why i was giggling to myself in my room!!! hilarious!!

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Post  toosore Mon Jul 23, 2012 8:06 pm

No silicone for me! It's way too much friction against tissues that are already sore. My toys are hard plastic, as smooth as possible, and lots of lubrication, as little rubbing and pulling on the skin as possible. I can't imagine how anyone with vulvar pain would want to use silicone products. I wanted to buy a glass vibrator, but alas, the only one in the shop was way too big for sore me! I use one called "my first anal toy" - it's very thin (about 1/2 inch diameter) and hard plastic, so not too much painful stretching or pulling on the skin with penetration. This is for pleasure, not pain, and not physio! A woman without pain would probably find such a small toy to be quite inadequate, but it works for me....

Thanks for the book title - my local public library actually has a copy! I can't wait to read it!


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Post  Qu_789 Sat Apr 30, 2016 11:04 pm

Hi,

Just wondered whether people found the book- lets count the ways- useful as a guide for sexual intimacy without penetration?

Thanks

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Post  Sebby (Admin) Sat Jun 04, 2016 8:02 pm

Hey,

I am about to delve into 'Lets Count the Ways' with my hubby. I have read the first part which is about how sex is not just about penetration. It's aiming to reframe the way people think about sex which I think is a really positive.

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Post  Suzie Wed Jul 27, 2016 12:30 am

@toosore, where did u purchase your toy? I'm sure l need the smallest toy possible!

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Post  emtx Thu Jul 28, 2016 11:03 pm

Thanks for posting! Will have to look at these and get some. Smile

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