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Partial Vestibulectomy

Mon Jul 31, 2017 6:44 pm by JGD13

Hi all i am new here.
I had a partial vestibulectomy 21/7 for my provoked vulvodynia.
After a painful few days and feeling quite uncomfortable it seemed to get better. 1 week after i noticed some white stuff and gloopy discharge, it wasnt smelly or itchy but i got a check up at the gp surgery and the doctor said the stitches looked fine and i could just have a touch of thrush. He said this is …

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New w/ Secondary Provoked Vestibuldynia

Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:46 pm by Birdy

Hi everyone,

I'm here because I'm pretty sure I have secondary provoked vestibuldynia, even though my gyno is still "optimistic" it is not.  My problem started six months ago when I got my second UTI in as many months (after going 25 years of life without one) and then ended up with a bad yeast infection (also my first one ever) thanks to the antibiotics.  Ever since the yeast …

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Anyone from the PNW?

Sat Aug 05, 2017 7:54 am by jungleclover

I'm located near Portland and I would be really cool to actually meet someone with this issue. I think my roommate in college technically had this problem. She had an overgrown hymen removed and can't deal with penetration as a result. But she is gay so it seems like it hasn't been a huge problem for her (although we didn't talk about it much so there was possibly more to it than she let on). …

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Constant pain, I want to die.

Fri Jun 02, 2017 4:29 am by Meggiemay

I posted on here a few years ago but my symptoms went away with the inflammation. I didn't get so lucky this time.

For over three months, i've had terrible rawness, burning, soreness in the urethral/vestibule area and pressure/hypersensitivity in the clitoral area. I've also had some lower abdominal pressure and burning on my butt. I can barely walk! My gyno hasn't been much help. I'm on …

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Newbie to the site

Sun Jul 30, 2017 12:16 am by Ksa

Hello. Thank you for this wonderful site. I'm currently under the care of a dr in Phoenix that specializes in vaginal disorders. I will probably be on a suppository of estridol the rest of my life and I am currently on medications for a rare form of vaginitis that's pretty unheard of for my age. My vagina literally hates me. I've struggled with vulvadynia for 20 years, the duration of my …

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New to the site and just had a vestibulectomy

Fri Aug 04, 2017 12:19 am by Hopeitworks

Hello Everyone,

I have been suffering from vulvodynia for years! So I decided to go ahead and have vestibulectomy on July 28, 2017. I really wished I would of found this site before I went through with the surgery. Maybe I would have been more prepared to deal with recovering. I just need someone to talk and I dont mind hearing your story.

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Post Vestibulectomy

Thu Aug 03, 2017 6:15 pm by infinitelywondering

Heya,

I had my vestibulectomy (full) about a day and a half ago. I was very sick and poorly just after the op and experienced intense pain down there Sad

However, today I came home and have done the following things:

-washed with warm water
-applied manuka honey to the area
-ensured I wash at least 3 times a day and dab the area dry gently
-use frozen peas to stop the swelling

As of now I am …

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can anyone recommend a good dermatologist in LA?

Thu Jul 27, 2017 4:17 pm by saffron

Hi, I am wondering if anyone knows a vulvar dermatologist in Los Angeles? My problems seem to be external, but I'm having trouble finding a knowledgable doctor. My current dermatologist is pretty cosmetic based and I'm afraid all the products he prescribed actually made my situation so much worse!

I know there a few drs in Orange County/San Diego, but was hoping to stay local as even …

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Vulvodynia and IVF? Anyone done this? What does it do to the vulvadynia?

Sun Jul 30, 2017 1:03 am by Carolyn4

Hi everyone,

I have had vulvodynia since age 27--I am now 43 and it has been in pretty good remission.  I control it with acupuncture and herbs, and some cranial sacral therapy.  I have a 5 year old, had a pretty uneventful pregnancy which ended in a c-section.  My VV worsened after that, and I have worked hard to get it back under control (it took over a year to get it back into pretty good …

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Have we all something in common other than "V" ofcourse???

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Post  zarli on Tue Oct 08, 2013 11:32 pm

Hello Girls
A friend of mine asked me yesterday if there is anything all of the women who have 'V' might have in common ? I have thought of this at times, I did read initially about 7 years ago that Doctors thought 'V' only occurred in women who had dark hair and fair skin but that theory didn't last long. I'm wondering if we do all have something in common ???
I know I'm sounding crazy but my life living with 'V' and medication at times does make me... well and truly CRAZY.....
HERE IS SOME THINGS ABOUT ME-
I have sciatica, fibromyalgia, high blood pressure, I have fair skin dark hair, always had trouble with fine hair but hair on other parts of body such as chin and neck where it shouldn't be, anxiety, healthy weight range, active.. um I think that's pretty much it. OH AND OF COURSE BLUDDY 'V'.
If any one else has similar????
Oh and I have coloured my hair for years (my husband thinks the chemicals have got into my nervous system) only because I started going grey at 18.

Any way just an idea:) 

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Post  Delilah1 on Wed Oct 09, 2013 12:26 am

Hello Zarli!

I also have dark hair, fair skin and blue eyes.
I have IBS, migraines, restless leg and had Bells Palsy (paralysis of the facial nerve when I was a teenager)
I sometimes get strange "phantom" feelings that are hard to describe. Sometimes when I am driving a car I feel like there is somebody in the back seat pushing on my back with their feet! NO I'm not crazy:D  haha. I sometimes feel like something poking me in the bottom of my feet.
This all just leads me to believe it is something neurologic and muscular for me.
I have several relatives who have multiple sclerosis.
I also think it's musculoskeletal related because I have a misaligned pelvis, slight scoliosis and leg length discrepancy.
I guess it is a combination of things that create a "perfect storm" for V.
I was also very active before V. Weight lifting, bicycling, power walking. In a healthy weight range.
I was going through a very difficult emotional time in my life when it started also.
I have also colored my hair for years.
I've had ovarian cysts, endometriosis, ectopic pregnancy

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Post  tinkerbelle2 on Wed Oct 09, 2013 7:24 am

Hi girls,

I have dark hair, brown eyes and fair skin.
Oh, and in my teens I dyed my hair lots, blondes, black and different browns.

I don't have any other health conditions except anxiety,  I do get very overly stressed and obsessive about things. I've also always been very sensitive and emotional,  people can hurt my feelings easily.

The only other things I can think of is that as a baby I had a tiny hole in the heart but it closed up. I was fortunately always very healthy.

Could it be to do with nervousness and pain nerves?  Or maybe people with sensitive skin are more prone to it. But my skin isn't that sensitive,  I am prone to spots though.

Who knows? !

Weird if this turned out to only affect brunettes lol.
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Post  zarli on Wed Oct 09, 2013 9:53 am

thanks girls I related to both of you!!!

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Post  tinkerbelle2 on Wed Oct 09, 2013 10:08 am

zarli wrote:thanks girls I related to both of you!!!
Xxxxx I love you 
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Post  burningturning on Wed Oct 09, 2013 2:48 pm

zarli hi!
Recently I've red a medical study about women with V and it was saying that 60% of women with V have lower back problems.
There're some chiropractors working on this condition and they believe this's a trapped nerve or misaligned pelvic problem.
Of course this study was only a hypothesis, not proved yet. I tried to find the article on the internet but couldn't find it.

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Post  zarli on Thu Oct 10, 2013 7:30 am

Thank you. I have told every health professional I've ever been to ( and that's lots) that I have a trapped nerve on my left side of back, but they all tell me that if that was the case I wouldn't be able to stand up. I disagree with them and I truly believe we women can handle a lot of pain so there fore we can stand up !! I am now considering going to a neurologist I want to find out more about nerves. I suffer weird feelings on the left side of my body like numbness although its not numb and a feeling like ants are under my skin at times............sooooooooooooo frustrating isn't it!!!!!!!!!

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Post  burningturning on Thu Oct 10, 2013 8:22 am

zarli, the way you describe the pain on your leg is the same as mine. I have 2 bulged discs on my lombar spine. These discs pressed on the nerve so I had that feeling.

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Post  Sarah001 on Thu Oct 10, 2013 11:49 am

I think there's a very early thread about trying to find things in common if you search for it, hate to burst the brunette bubble but I'm a redhead so it definitely isn't the colour of our hair! I also have only in the last few months started colouring my hair to cover grey so it's not hair dye either. As there are a number of causes of V we will have things in common with women who have the same cause so it is worth knowing but we're not all going to have things in common except we're all female and all have V! I know my physio has rarely had a case that didn't involve pelvic misalignment so most women with V having low back pain would fit that.
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Post  EviE°Bee on Sat Oct 12, 2013 7:17 am

I think it may be hormone related. I never had a normal period. I would get it every 7-8 months. My VV started after a bad UTI 5 yrs ago but it wasn't painful enough to seek treatment.
My body regulated itself 1 year ago and I have had a year long flare. Ever since i have been getting my period regularly I HAVE BEEN IN PAIN. its on and off but it gets 10x worse a week before and during my period. I also get yeast infections after every period. Hormones can do so much damage, i wouldnt doubt it.

That or UTI related. Yeast related.

Im fair skinned, black hair, brown eyes, 5'2, kinda thick, plain eater, sensitive to perfumes, prone to Uti's, shave my V (not so much now), dyed my hair since I was 18 (im now 30), had polycystic ovarian syndrome but it corrected itself, uhhh....no kids, quit smoking 5 months ago.

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Post  EviE°Bee on Sat Oct 12, 2013 7:20 am

I also have low back pain that i acquired from a fall when I was a teen.

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Post  tinkerbelle2 on Sat Oct 12, 2013 6:52 pm

How old was every body when they first had this? Alot of people seem to have been in their late teens/early twenties. I was 17.
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Post  EviE°Bee on Sat Oct 12, 2013 9:14 pm

I was 26

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Post  zarli on Sun Oct 13, 2013 9:39 am

I was 35, I had my four beautiful children in my twenties. I always felt a kind of pressure' down there' during my pregnancies and also during periods from my teens. I was going through the most stressful and emotional time of my life when 'V' reared its ugly head. It started with a kind of tingling feeling on the left side of my vagina and continued to be the most painful thing I have ever felt in my life. Lots of Doctors later I was distraught and felt like not being here any more ( and that's saying something because my children are my life) I drove up to my local hospital at 2am in the morning in shear terror and exhaustion from the pain. I was very fortunate to see a female Doctor from Melbourne doing a relief stint at our local hospital. She had been to a seminar a month prior all about Vulvodynia, her enthusiasm at having her first patient with 'V' and her determination to help me I will never forget. Five days after with the medication at the right dose was my first pain free day in 10 months. Sorry but Im feeling quite emotional about 'V' today..........

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Post  Alana3 on Sun Oct 13, 2013 10:41 am

I seriously doubt youre going to find a link its like any other disease it just happens

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Post  tinkerbelle2 on Sun Oct 13, 2013 11:12 am

Zarli, bless you what a tough time! Are you on meds now still and is the pain still bad? I get emotional too, I think I am only at the beginning of an up and down journey with me and my vagina! Lol. :/ x
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Post  aajoycex on Thu Nov 21, 2013 5:25 pm

Hi ladies i noticied lower back pain was mentioned I personally have suffered with lower back pain for years as long as Ive had 'v'! I was given a survey to fill out by a specialist and there was questions on lower bk pain! It could be a link there! I also believe nerve damage could be a link!

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Post  mary jane on Thu Nov 21, 2013 6:59 pm

maybe it has something to do with the pudendal nerve or the fact that when you have painful private parts you walk around funny and sit in strange positions, putting pressure on ligaments, etc
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Post  Fingerscrossed on Fri Nov 22, 2013 3:12 am

I had surgery on my back for kyphosis (I also have scoliosis) when I was 12. I have wondered for a while if it is related to my vulvodynia. I have considered going to a chiropractor, but haven't done it yet. Next month, I'm set to have a vestibulectomy, but if that doesn't work, I'm going to go do chiropractics. Of course, right now I have even bigger concerns. I've had what appears to be a UTI for a week and the antibiotics didn't work. I'm going to the doctor for that tomorrow. I'm so scared that it's going to be IC (Interstitial Cystitis). I scored high on everything for that except for the potassium test back in March.

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Post  Kathy100 on Fri Nov 22, 2013 3:14 pm

I was told that the muscles in my lower back were weak and that could be causing the v by irritating the nerves, also found out my pelvis was mis-aligned too. Since I've had physio and had my pelvis re-aligned both my back pain and my v pain levels have dropped. So for me, there was definitely a link.

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Post  Livinginpain on Mon Oct 06, 2014 10:28 pm

Others have commented on low back pain, one of my doctors has mentioned Pudendal Nerve Entrapment. i do have low back pain and diagnosed with neuropathy. I have dark brown hair, brown eyes and olive skin. It's worth a look. Plus another doctor mentioned "fibromyalgia" as a precursor or related some how. I get the crazy pains like my muscles are twisting away from my bones especially in my shin area now my bone is protruding, I remember being in agony when this happens, unable to relax or sleep. Now this is happening again in my arms but testing is negative. I was diagnosed with "chronic pain" not fibromyalgia because I didn't have pain in the trigger points that day.

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Post  leitheij on Wed Oct 08, 2014 1:28 pm

I have facial pain, severe anxiety and migraines in addition to the vulvar burning. I go to a head pain Neurologist and I have also consulted with a Neurosurgeon. Both the Neurologist and Neurosurgeon both agree that I have an overactive and highly sensitive Central Nervous System and that whatever was the original stimulus that caused the pain has just continued long after it should have. So, if you have another pain condition like migraines, IBS, fibromyalgia, it's not unusual that you would develop a condition like V. I think that we just feel pain more so than somebody who doesn't have a condition like this.

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Post  mirror on Sat Oct 25, 2014 5:41 am

I have type two diabetes, occasional high blood pressure, depression, anxiety, constant fatigue, and acne around my mouth and jawline. I am also fair-skinned with dark hair and eyes, if that even matters. I was sexually abused and bullied during my childhood. And I've been suffering with this problem as long as I can remember.

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Post  Mariek on Tue Mar 10, 2015 4:30 pm

I'm almost 59 years old, weight about 165, dark brown hair, blue eyes, no back pain ever, arthritis in both knees and left hip, along with bercitus which I have been going to physical therapy for. I had a vaginal hysterectomy in 2011, left ovaries in, and high colorestol which in my case hereditary, taking meds for that. Never totally died my hair, highlights yes!

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