New here would very much appreciate advice at the end of my rope

This might be a little long but it's been such a long time I've even been able to talk about my problems openly thank you in advance for any helpful advice.
So ok I'm 24 I've been having this problem for over two years seen quite a few doctors and obgyns alike and nobody will take me seriously I have had a few utis and yeast infections and even bv once and this all started after one of the utis actually.
I'm experiencing a burning pain it itches sometimes but mostly burns feels like hot acid being poured on my intimate parts it burns when I urinate all the time and when I look down there it's red like super red and I had a doctor even tell me it was red and irritated all the way up past my cervix.
I have been tested for stds all came back clean.
I have researched on my own and tried everything could this possibly be vulvodynia? I've been reading forums and blogs and medical sites but none seem to mention the redness and irritation is this not a symptom it's just hard yo believe this has been going on for two years and nothing is wrong I just can't take this anymore it consumes me I'm depressed I just don't even know how to function my relationship is failing due to this it's taking my attention from my kids I'm just lost and scared that I'll never be able to figure this out and be like this forever I don't know if I can stand it.

Hi,

Have you been to a dermatologist already? The redness and inflammation can be caused by an allergic reaction.
I've been with this condition more than one year and i know how awful and frustrating it is.

The important thing is not giving up and keep looking for the right doctor.

The best of luck!!

Thank you best of luck to you too I haven't been to a dermatologist but I'll look into it now

I replied elsewhere to someone recommending this which may give you some relief.
I've had this condition for 18 months and been prescribed numerous creams, all of which produced horrendous burning and discomfort. Eventually I discovered that they all contain parabens, variations of liquid paraffin and/or alcohol and produce an extreme allergic reaction. The only topical thing I've found which I can tolerate and which provides some relief is called YES vaginal moisturiser. It is organic and water based, available on the NHS and a tube lasts ages.Google it to see variations of the same product. It won't cure anything but it sure helps with the red, burning soreness.