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Constant pain, I want to die.

Fri Jun 02, 2017 4:29 am by Meggiemay

I posted on here a few years ago but my symptoms went away with the inflammation. I didn't get so lucky this time.

For over three months, i've had terrible rawness, burning, soreness in the urethral/vestibule area and pressure/hypersensitivity in the clitoral area. I've also had some lower abdominal pressure and burning on my butt. I can barely walk! My gyno hasn't been much help. I'm on …

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I'M NEW - Do I listen to my gyno who I feel has it wrong?

Fri Mar 09, 2018 6:17 pm by Tunes25


I am a 25 year old woman and wanted to share my story here as I feel frustrated by the suggestions of my gyno and am hoping for some advice.

To give the context for this: in September 2016 I moved in with my long term boyfriend after living abroad a year and (nearly) abstaining from sex. Within a few weeks I had got a yeast infection which I treated myself successfully, but then 2 weeks …

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I cured myself 100% of vulvodynia twenty years ago--I hope this helps someone

Mon Mar 12, 2018 4:33 pm by totallycured


Every so often I'm reminded of the constant, persistent, horrible pain I was in two decades ago, and I reach out to try to help others who are suffering. If someone had offered me a solution during that terrible time, I'd have jumped at it. I hope this helps someone.

Yes, I did have terrible vulvodynia. It felt like someone poured acid all over my vulva. My doctor confirmed it and was …

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Recently Diagnosed which has motivated my research study

Tue Mar 06, 2018 4:54 pm by ebclose2free

Hi everyone,

My name is Eliza Barach and I was diagnosed with vulvodynia in October of 2017. I'm also PhD student at the State University of New York at Albany. I work several professors at SUNY, but one in particular, Dr. Mitch Earleywine researches marijuana and its possible efficacy as an alternative treatment. Our previous examined cannabis and symptoms of PMS/PMDD and found that women …

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Thu Feb 15, 2018 10:04 pm by infinitelywondering

Dear all,

Today has been the day I've been waiting for. The day something FINALLY makes sense.
I've been told countless times that I've got nerve damage or a muscular condition, yet none of the specific treatments have helped me. My GP suggested attacking this from a different angle so referred me to a dermatologist specialist

after having a vestibulectomy with no success, I decided to visit …

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New and desperate for advice

Sat Mar 03, 2018 2:37 pm by srbry

Hi everyone,

I'm new here and was told to find a support group because this is all getting a bit much really...

I lost my virginity when I was 18 and it hurt - that was normal. Loads of women had told me that it hurt so that was fine I didn't question that. I was with the same guy for a couple of months and each time after that it was uncomfortable and not great. I didn't tell him because I …

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New and need some help

Wed Feb 21, 2018 4:30 pm by LindafromNJ

New to this site ad trying to figure out how it works.  I am trying to post as a new member so I am hoping this goes thru.  I am a senior adult and have just been diagnosed by the Drexil Vaginitis Center to have vulvodynia along with Vestibulitis (not sure if spelled correctly).  My symptoms are vaginal burning, itching, soreness around the vaginal opening with one spot in particular.  Some …

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Amitriptyline given for vulvodyina pain

Tue Oct 24, 2017 2:46 pm by katycrawford

Hi there,

After years of being misdiagnosed etc as most women have on this forum I have finally been diagnosed with vulvodynia (yay) and have been given the lowest dose of an antidepressant called Amitriptyline. Has anyone been on this before and has any positive (or negative) news to give me? Im feeling down already and I've only been taking it for a few days, I don't have much hope of it …

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Can A Cut In Vestibule cause Vulvodynia?

Thu Mar 01, 2018 1:07 am by rockylife

Can a cut in the vestibule area cause vulvodynia? Is it possible that some nerve a were damaged that’s why I feel this pain in my area without visible lesions?

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china pain sucks

Post  coloradolady on Tue May 05, 2015 12:32 am

I have always done things differently. I had breast when all the other little girls didn’t, that was middle school for you. When all my friends where becoming women I wanted to have my period, I already had breast. Yes, went to doctor and I was told that being mother would be hard without a doctors help. That there was a larger chance that I would hit earlier onset menopause, and that I would mostly have very painful periods. I start my period when I was 18 years old, it was the night of my senior prom. By the way THAT FUCKING SUCKED! The doctor didn’t lie, my periods where not normal and lasted for ever and painful or so I thought. I was cocky and had unprotected sex and didn’t get pregnant. I was kind of a wild child around the age of 18 to 21. I had gotten myself on probation.
Towards the end of 2005 I found out that I was pregnant and no help from any doctors. Short after I started have a consent pain. A PAIN IN MY CHINA. I went to clinic that Medicaid was paid for. They were not helpful, things that I was told were that I have a UTI, and put me on some meds to help with the infection. No change, still the pain was there. I was just after my first trimester when my mother took me to the ER. I was taken directly to the birth center, I was put on a morphine drip and a catheter (I hate catheters!!! I wish that they were never thought up) I was in the hospital for a week. I went through procedure after procedure. One of them dilated my urethra and burn pulps off my Blatter. I can tell you that I know where my Blatter sit inside of my body and I can feel all the way down to opening of my urethra.  I went through doctor after doctor looking at my china, poking, biopsies, and different creams and meds. I tried crystal therapy, and herbal treatment that my parents started paying out of pocket. Nothing was working. I was seeing no improvement.  I even had one doctor say that I was a junkie trying to get pill and I was slow killing my baby.
I received a call from one of the many doctors that I had seen and he referred me to a doctor. Okay is all that I could comment. I show up ready for me to be asked can I take a look. He came in and said “Vulvodynia”. Okay, it’s a nerve issues. There was something that we can try. There was hope, at least a little hope. I was put on a low dose of an antidepressants, there was a bit of relief. After the birth of my son the pain just disappeared like nothing ever happened. I would have a flare up here and there but I was able to get through
I moved on with my life. I was a single mother of a baby, three years after my son was born I had everything, even a man that wanted to marry me. I thought maybe it was just a phase. I married him. He is a wonderful man, he has two daughters of his own. I found my little fairy tale.
I have been married for four years and yes it is a great marriage. A health one, he is wonderful. At the beginning of March 2015 I started having flares of pain. I have tried to make it through the  pain, it just started to get worst. It is impacting my life in so many ways. And in the lives of my family.
I am wondering if anyone else have had a break from pain and it came back?


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