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Sun Sep 02, 2018 12:51 am by Cloudberry

Hi everyone,

I'm so glad I found this forum! I was diagnosed with vulvodynia/vulvar vestibulitis (still not sure about the difference between all the different terms) a couple of months ago and I could do with some advice. This is probably going to be a lot of text because I just want to get everything off my chest, so please bear with me.

I’m a woman in my late 20s. Before getting diagnosed …

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Hurting, Burning, Itching, and Worn Out

Thu Aug 09, 2018 10:55 pm by donnambr

This vulvodynia that I'm currently suffering with is so cruel. I hurt, I burn, I itch. When I first got this several years ago, before the internet, I though I was the only one with this awful disorder. Doctors couldn't figure it out. I felt so alone and devastated. Somehow it disappeared for a few years and now I'm suffering again. This dreaded V misery is back and I feel like I will be with …

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Hi girls! New in this forum

Fri Jul 13, 2018 2:31 pm by Gaby

Hi everyone!

Also joining the V club, Here my story:

It all started last year in september with a very bad throat infection for which i had to take antibiotics for about a month. This cause several yeast infections (candidia albicans).... one after the other!. I had them every month from october 2017 till march 2018. During this period i use an incredible amount of anti-fungal creams and …

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Newbie and feeling helpless

Wed Jul 11, 2018 1:52 pm by Taylor1

Hi, I found out a few weeks ago that I have this condition, started off at the end of April as a uti took strong antibiotics then got a thrush infection and now this.. My doctor has tried me on amitriptyline and gabipentin and both made me so poorly I couldn't take it plus I have seen what long use of these drugs has done to my mom for pain and its not good. I am using coconut oil which does …

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I'm new to this forum and would love some advice! :)

Tue Jun 05, 2018 4:13 am by anikita

Hi lovely gals!

I'm honestly hoping to get any bit of advice anyone might have to offer. I go from bouts of sobbing hysterically in my boyfriend's arms to feeling confident that I can beat this.

I haven't been actually diagnosed with vulvodynia but EVERYTHING under the sun has come back negative. I started having sex 4 years ago after starting Lo Loestrin, with my first and current boyfriend …

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From a concerned husband

Thu Jul 12, 2018 10:45 pm by ConcernedYorkieHubby

Hello everyone,

This is probably a little unconventional, but I’m a man who is here because his wife has been diagnosed with vulvodynia. The poor girl has been suffering with vulva pain for around 10 years now, and I’ve been by her side through the pain and tears and doctors misunderstandings the whole way, and we’re both exhausted and terrified by the whole experience.

I’m sure a lot …

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I'M NEW - Do I listen to my gyno who I feel has it wrong?

Fri Mar 09, 2018 6:17 pm by Tunes25

Hello!

I am a 25 year old woman and wanted to share my story here as I feel frustrated by the suggestions of my gyno and am hoping for some advice.

To give the context for this: in September 2016 I moved in with my long term boyfriend after living abroad a year and (nearly) abstaining from sex. Within a few weeks I had got a yeast infection which I treated myself successfully, but then 2 weeks …

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Gabapentin Gel. or other topical creams

Thu May 10, 2018 9:43 am by Rosie21

Hi I have been suffering for some years with this abominable pain. I have tried most of the systemic drugs , I asked specialists and Doctors if I could at least try a topical treatment but because this requires a special prescription have been refused Has anybody had a chance of trying these? Thank you I will try to put a link on to some of the research into Gabapentin Gel. Thanks.

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What has been helping ME (much less pain over time!!)

Wed May 16, 2018 3:43 am by leoscc

Hello everyone! I vanished for quite some time as my life became consumed by not only this but other daily responsibilities as well. Shortly after my diagnosis, my boyfriend f 3 years left me as he did not want to deal with this. It left me broken for a while but also gave me time to figure out what the heck was going on. So, I will write out a quick list of my symptoms and what helped me.

1. I …

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Possible Recurring Tear??

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Possible Recurring Tear??

Post  emalita on Thu Jun 02, 2016 1:44 pm

So far this month my right inner labia/vestibule pain feels like a cut or tear. A few nights ago I think I actually felt the tear occur. It is deep in the fold of my inner labia, possibly my vestibule, and I can't actually see a tear. However, I used to get tears often back when I was still using those darn flushable wipes, and they were hard to see when they weren't buried deep in a fold; so just because I can't see it, I'm not ruling out that it may be there (plus I don't want to go digging so much that I hurt myself further).

Every month, a few days to a week before my period, this tear/pain happens in the same exact spot, and it won't go away until about a week and a half AFTER my period is over.

Has anyone ever had anything like this? Any advice would be great!

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RE: Possible recurring tear?

Post  Antaea on Fri Jun 03, 2016 11:49 am

Could there be a connection between this tear and your hormones? It appears at the same time in your cycle.... I had tears like paper cuts last autumn, and they healed and did not return after i used local hormone-cream.
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Re: Possible Recurring Tear??

Post  emalita on Fri Jun 03, 2016 3:09 pm

The pain does only seem to flare the week before, during, and after my period. I've been on a bioidentical estrogen suppository for about 2.5 months now (Estradiol 100mcg and Estrone 60mcg), but the only thing I've noticed is that my cycle has changed from averaging 30 days to now being closer to 34-35 (I still haven't gotten my period this month yet, but it's on its way). I'm not sure if the estrogen suppository is causing this, but I am completely fine with having a longer cycle Wink

Prior to feeling like this was a tear, I had mentioned to my doctor that the pain seemed to go away for maybe 2 weeks out of a month, and he said the pain was due to the drop in estrogen before my period. I just find that so hard to wrap my head around because this tear/pain is so deep in my vestibule (deep in the space between my urethra and inner labia). I used to get tears all the time, and they would heal within about 3 days.

*sigh* I just wish I knew what was causing it... Crying or Very sad

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