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    Wed Dec 05, 2018 3:26 pm by Cin124

    Hi everyone,

    About three months ago, I started having vaginal and vulval itching. Then, about two months ago, my vulva started to feel painful and look swollen, so I went to the doctor. I was tested for herpes, chlamydia, and gonorrhea which all came back negative. I also had to do a vaginal swab test and the only thing that came back positive was yeast infection. I was prescribed hydrozole …

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    I'm new to this forum and would love some advice! :)

    Tue Jun 05, 2018 4:13 am by anikita

    Hi lovely gals!

    I'm honestly hoping to get any bit of advice anyone might have to offer. I go from bouts of sobbing hysterically in my boyfriend's arms to feeling confident that I can beat this.

    I haven't been actually diagnosed with vulvodynia but EVERYTHING under the sun has come back negative. I started having sex 4 years ago after starting Lo Loestrin, with my first and current boyfriend …

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    Hello. Happy to have found this group.

    Fri Dec 07, 2018 9:01 pm by foxysugarpants

    I am new here and hope to gain some insight into my vulva pain. I suffered for a long time not realizing that there are ways to feel better. I saw the Dr. yesterday and I am starting P/T pelvic and valium suppositories. queen

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    Had this for 5 years, looking for people who understand

    Sat Oct 06, 2018 9:46 pm by blackberrie

    Hey all. I'm really struggling to find anyone in real life who can really understand what I'm going through. I've had vestibulodynia for 5 years now and I'm single. Obviously it has completely affected how I approach dating and sex and the fact that I can't really talk to people irl about it has made me feel very lonely. I've found that a lot of the women who have this problem are married and …

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    Anyone have pain with urination?

    Tue Oct 16, 2018 2:35 pm by mertzwl

    Hi everyone - I can't believe I've been dealing with this for almost 10 years and an appointment scheduler at a urogyn office is the one to suggest I look into vulvodynia. Honestly, I don't care, I just thankful I might have an answer.

    I have pain in one specific spot right around the urethral opening so it always coincides with urinating (it's not a uti). Does anyone else deal with pain …

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    Diagnosed recently, looking for advice

    Sun Sep 02, 2018 12:51 am by Cloudberry

    Hi everyone,

    I'm so glad I found this forum! I was diagnosed with vulvodynia/vulvar vestibulitis (still not sure about the difference between all the different terms) a couple of months ago and I could do with some advice. This is probably going to be a lot of text because I just want to get everything off my chest, so please bear with me.

    I’m a woman in my late 20s. Before getting diagnosed …

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    From a concerned husband

    Thu Jul 12, 2018 10:45 pm by ConcernedYorkieHubby

    Hello everyone,

    This is probably a little unconventional, but I’m a man who is here because his wife has been diagnosed with vulvodynia. The poor girl has been suffering with vulva pain for around 10 years now, and I’ve been by her side through the pain and tears and doctors misunderstandings the whole way, and we’re both exhausted and terrified by the whole experience.

    I’m sure a lot …

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    6 year sufferer but I’ve found some hope

    Wed Oct 10, 2018 1:33 am by Npage14

    Hey, ladies! I’m new to this support group, I’ve thought about doing something like this for a while so I wanted to try this out! I’ve had vulvodynia for 6 years now, I am self diagnosed. I’m 20 now and the pain started when I had my first encounter with sexual contact when I was 14(I still remained a virgin though it was fingering). For a couple years the pain was so bad I could hardly …

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    Hurting, Burning, Itching, and Worn Out

    Thu Aug 09, 2018 10:55 pm by donnambr

    This vulvodynia that I'm currently suffering with is so cruel. I hurt, I burn, I itch. When I first got this several years ago, before the internet, I though I was the only one with this awful disorder. Doctors couldn't figure it out. I felt so alone and devastated. Somehow it disappeared for a few years and now I'm suffering again. This dreaded V misery is back and I feel like I will be with …

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    Post  Sebby (Admin) on Sat Feb 26, 2011 10:53 pm


    Ok here are the links to the stuff Dr Glazer recommended

    http://www.vulvodynia.com/Store/Store%20Main.htm - scroll down to the bottom to see the scorpio rising dildo, it comes in different sizes - to use instead of hard plastic dilators, silicone is recommded material for all dildos

    http://evesgarden.com/adult_sex_toys/Dildos/ - again scroll down the scorpio rising is cheaper on this site


    http://evesgarden.com/Magic-Wand.html - this is the Magic Wand yes expensive but is recommended as the frequencies do not irritate the clitoras

    http://www.amazon.com/Let-Count-Ways-Discovering-Intercourse/dp/0874779561 - the book recommeded for great sex without intercourse

    Right Im blowing this months wages on sex toys... hehe



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    Re: Sex toys etc ;)

    Post  Sebby (Admin) on Sat Feb 26, 2011 11:36 pm


    Note: for girls in the uk you can get the Magic Wand on Amazom.co.uk as Eves garden only ships to us or canada

    It is advertised as a massager and I think originally was made for this but its become quite famous for its use as a sex toy that is comfortable and not so intense as the average vibrators

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    Re: Sex toys etc ;)

    Post  Mouse on Sat Feb 26, 2011 11:48 pm

    I'm loving your new hobby!!!

    Can I also add that once you get comfortable with yourself SEX will change forever! WHY sex is still a male dominated pass time I don't know, they could have sex with a hole in the ground. Learning to love yourself is the greatest gift of all! Hahhaaa I wonder if that was the true intention of that song???


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    Post  Sebby (Admin) on Sat Feb 26, 2011 11:56 pm


    Laughing Im looking forward to receiving my ordered Magic Wand! oh and I have orderd the book 'Let me Count the Ways' (typed count at first missing out the o!!) Cor dear lol

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    Post  Mouse on Sun Feb 27, 2011 12:16 am

    Hahhahaaaa I don't usually use LOL but I actually did laugh out loud! Your morning tea breaks at work are going to interesting love!

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    Post  naomi on Sun Feb 27, 2011 11:07 am

    'they could have sex with a hole in the ground'

    hahaaaaaaaaaa! my housemates asked me why i was giggling to myself in my room!!! hilarious!!

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    Prefer hard plastic

    Post  toosore on Mon Jul 23, 2012 8:06 pm

    No silicone for me! It's way too much friction against tissues that are already sore. My toys are hard plastic, as smooth as possible, and lots of lubrication, as little rubbing and pulling on the skin as possible. I can't imagine how anyone with vulvar pain would want to use silicone products. I wanted to buy a glass vibrator, but alas, the only one in the shop was way too big for sore me! I use one called "my first anal toy" - it's very thin (about 1/2 inch diameter) and hard plastic, so not too much painful stretching or pulling on the skin with penetration. This is for pleasure, not pain, and not physio! A woman without pain would probably find such a small toy to be quite inadequate, but it works for me....

    Thanks for the book title - my local public library actually has a copy! I can't wait to read it!


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    Post  Qu_789 on Sat Apr 30, 2016 11:04 pm

    Hi,

    Just wondered whether people found the book- lets count the ways- useful as a guide for sexual intimacy without penetration?

    Thanks

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    Post  Sebby (Admin) on Sat Jun 04, 2016 8:02 pm

    Hey,

    I am about to delve into 'Lets Count the Ways' with my hubby. I have read the first part which is about how sex is not just about penetration. It's aiming to reframe the way people think about sex which I think is a really positive.

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    Post  Suzie on Wed Jul 27, 2016 12:30 am

    @toosore, where did u purchase your toy? I'm sure l need the smallest toy possible!

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    Post  emtx on Thu Jul 28, 2016 11:03 pm

    Thanks for posting! Will have to look at these and get some. Smile

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