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Constant pain, I want to die.

Fri Jun 02, 2017 4:29 am by Meggiemay

I posted on here a few years ago but my symptoms went away with the inflammation. I didn't get so lucky this time.

For over three months, i've had terrible rawness, burning, soreness in the urethral/vestibule area and pressure/hypersensitivity in the clitoral area. I've also had some lower abdominal pressure and burning on my butt. I can barely walk! My gyno hasn't been much help. I'm on …

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Clitoris Issues

Tue Apr 28, 2015 8:17 pm by January

I am going crazyyy trying to figure out what's wrong. Please does anyone else have an issue similar to mine? I'm only 22. So, basically when my clit is lightly rubbed, there is no feeling. However, when rubbed vigorously and directly, the burning and tingling sensations shoot down my legs and feet as if coming to the end of an orgasm but with no good feeling leading up. It's so strange. What …

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New member

Sat Mar 18, 2017 7:37 pm by Lisa1627

Hi ladies. I am new to the forum. I have had what I think is vulvodynia caused from hsv 2. So not only do I have the burning vag but the constant feeling of being contagious. I can honestly say that I hate my life and myself right now. There are days when I think I would rather be dead. I tried the amitryptline and it helped but if it's only making my brain think I don't have pain then it's …

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Post Full Vestibulectomy - 5 Years Later - Please Read

Tue May 02, 2017 6:18 pm by jen007

Hi All,

It's been awhile since I've written a new topic on the forum. Wondering if any of the same ladies are still here. I've come back to update you all on my post vestibulectomy results. I can't remember if I've done an update on my current state, so forgive me if this is repeated information... I can't remember how to view my old posts! Anyway, let me get on with my update.

For 4 years post …

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Recovered from Vulvodynia

Thu May 04, 2017 9:42 pm by chancesunny

Hey everyone,

Im a new member on this forum and wanted to share my story so I can help anyone who is feeling helpless. Maybe what worked for me can work for you. I'll try to make this short so you can go get better!

I had vulvodynia for about 3-4 years. In the beginning, it started with pain that I thought was just a yeast infection and then I thought it was a urinary tract infection or …

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New here, my story and looking for advice

Wed Apr 26, 2017 9:02 am by rachiecakes

Hi All!

I was really hoping to get some feedback from everyone here - it's very hard dealing with an issue like this because no one really understands what I'm going through!

Im 28 years old I've had interstitial cystitis for 3 years - but never an vaginal issues. About 6 months ago I got a yeast infection following a course of antibiotics - similarly I developed IC after a bad UTI. The itching …

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New w/ Secondary Provoked Vestibuldynia

Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:46 pm by Birdy

Hi everyone,

I'm here because I'm pretty sure I have secondary provoked vestibuldynia, even though my gyno is still "optimistic" it is not.  My problem started six months ago when I got my second UTI in as many months (after going 25 years of life without one) and then ended up with a bad yeast infection (also my first one ever) thanks to the antibiotics.  Ever since the yeast …

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Male visitor

Wed Jan 18, 2017 11:19 pm by outsider

Hello!

I am a 25 year old guy who has erectile dysfunction following an injury a few years ago. I am here because I think that men and women with sexual dysfunction could benefit from dating each other. My experience has been that women have lost interest when they found out that penetrative sex was not possible with me.
So I am interested in learning more about female sexual disorders. Do young …

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New Here: Question/My Story

Mon Apr 03, 2017 2:00 am by overit14

Hi everyone. I came across this site by Googling "vulvar pain support". I feel like my case is different than most I read about so I was wondering if anyone else here experiences this in the way that I do.

This started in 2012 and has happened off and on since. I get really, really red and it's very painful, swollen and burns. Sometimes it may be a little itchy, but mostly it just …

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If this will help anyone...My triggers

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If this will help anyone...My triggers

Post  Rainy Day on Mon May 06, 2013 9:00 pm

I developed vulvodynia in Feb 2012 after 1) a massive kidney infection 2) Then, I got a bacterial/yeast infection from the antiobiotics, 3) I fell on my pelvis the same month. After a year of this garbage, I finally figured out what my trigger is. It's totally STRESS related. Anytime I have an anxiety attack, or if I get extremely angry, I flare. For some reason, sadness doesn't flare me though. When it first started, I had a flare that lasted 6 straight months- hardly considered a flare since it was constant 24 hrs a day. My symptoms caused me not to be able to wear undies or pants AT ALL. Only skirts. When it started, I had just lost my dad to cancer and mom got diagnosed with cancer shortly after he died. They were 59, so it was all unexpected and happened fast. I was so bad that I even couldn't sit over a few minutes. My legs were the worst symtom. The backs of the legs just burned and burned. My vagina area was very sensitive too, but the legs bothered me more.

I tried Gabapentin for a while...and it worked great until my mom was diagnosed with cancer. I didn't completely understand it was triggered by stress at that point. Upped my Rx of Gaba, and it didn't help...mom was going through surgery, radiation, etc...was still VERY stressed. Changed my Rx to Desapramine 75 mg and 300 mg of Gaba too. Slowly I started to improve, but my biggest improvement was when I took a leave of absense from work for about 4 months. My mom helped me/hubby during those 4 months by holding my daycare spot (paying for it) and paying for Pelvic Floor Therapy (not covered insurance--out of network). Slowly got better. I still have flares, but they are only caused by stress. Am now taking anxiety meds to prevent anxiety. Works pretty good, but my life is still pretty stressful with other stuff.

I have got to the point where I can gradually lower my dosages and still not flare. I am down to 75 mg of Desapramine only. Will try going down a dose in a month.

Other things that help my symptoms:

Yoga

Meditation

Counselling (I went through counselling on my dad's death for about 5 months)

Anxiety Medications

Moisturizer for vagina (Slippery Stuff) when I feel dry (I get dry at the start of a flare)

When I feel like ants are crawling around my vagina or butt--Rub the area with a rag to desensitize, then, ice cubes on area for 1 minute, I rub with a rag for 1 minute, then do ice cubes on area, then hot rag on area. I read this in Amy Stein's pelvic book...and my phsyio recommended it too. It helps a LOT when you feel the ant crawling thing.

When I have the symptom around 'butt' area, that is totally related to a muscle on top of my sit bones. Physio can fix that in about 24 hours by massaging it...then I do the rub with rag, then ice, then hot rag. Also, I do a lot of stretches to help this.

Tens unit- This is helpful with the 'ant crawling' feeling. Not as helpful for the burning feeling.

RIght when I start flaring, stop wearing undies/pants.

I don't put 'anything' down there...besides moisturizer. Everything else makes me worst.

I am still not recovered, but I am much closer to figuring out this beast. I have times where I feel perfect. I think I could wear jeans sometime in the future if I could control my stress.

I hope this helps someone....





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Ice/Heat

Post  Rainy Day on Mon May 06, 2013 9:02 pm

Realized I wrote that wrong. I use rag for a minute on area. Then, ice cube on area for a minute, then hot rag on area for a minute. This helps desensitize areas for me.

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Forgot Physical Therapy too!

Post  Rainy Day on Mon May 06, 2013 9:12 pm

Physio was a must for me! I still go once every 3 weeks to maintain my healing. I get sacro-iliac joint dysfunction during a flare, and therapy helps TONS with that. When I first started going, all my muscles were in a state of constant spasm. I would think most people with V would have that problem...since one problem causes many other problems with the pelvic area.

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Ants crawling

Post  noelle2530 on Mon Jul 14, 2014 1:46 pm

Hi I am new to this site and everything else and I get that feeling like bugs are crawling around down there too... Is this a common symptom?

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