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Post Full Vestibulectomy - 5 Years Later - Please Read

Tue May 02, 2017 6:18 pm by jen007

Hi All,

It's been awhile since I've written a new topic on the forum. Wondering if any of the same ladies are still here. I've come back to update you all on my post vestibulectomy results. I can't remember if I've done an update on my current state, so forgive me if this is repeated information... I can't remember how to view my old posts! Anyway, let me get on with my update.

For 4 years post …

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Recovered from Vulvodynia

Thu May 04, 2017 9:42 pm by chancesunny

Hey everyone,

Im a new member on this forum and wanted to share my story so I can help anyone who is feeling helpless. Maybe what worked for me can work for you. I'll try to make this short so you can go get better!

I had vulvodynia for about 3-4 years. In the beginning, it started with pain that I thought was just a yeast infection and then I thought it was a urinary tract infection or …

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New here, my story and looking for advice

Wed Apr 26, 2017 9:02 am by rachiecakes

Hi All!

I was really hoping to get some feedback from everyone here - it's very hard dealing with an issue like this because no one really understands what I'm going through!

Im 28 years old I've had interstitial cystitis for 3 years - but never an vaginal issues. About 6 months ago I got a yeast infection following a course of antibiotics - similarly I developed IC after a bad UTI. The itching …

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New member

Sat Mar 18, 2017 7:37 pm by Lisa1627

Hi ladies. I am new to the forum. I have had what I think is vulvodynia caused from hsv 2. So not only do I have the burning vag but the constant feeling of being contagious. I can honestly say that I hate my life and myself right now. There are days when I think I would rather be dead. I tried the amitryptline and it helped but if it's only making my brain think I don't have pain then it's …

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New w/ Secondary Provoked Vestibuldynia

Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:46 pm by Birdy

Hi everyone,

I'm here because I'm pretty sure I have secondary provoked vestibuldynia, even though my gyno is still "optimistic" it is not.  My problem started six months ago when I got my second UTI in as many months (after going 25 years of life without one) and then ended up with a bad yeast infection (also my first one ever) thanks to the antibiotics.  Ever since the yeast …

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Male visitor

Wed Jan 18, 2017 11:19 pm by outsider

Hello!

I am a 25 year old guy who has erectile dysfunction following an injury a few years ago. I am here because I think that men and women with sexual dysfunction could benefit from dating each other. My experience has been that women have lost interest when they found out that penetrative sex was not possible with me.
So I am interested in learning more about female sexual disorders. Do young …

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New Here: Question/My Story

Mon Apr 03, 2017 2:00 am by overit14

Hi everyone. I came across this site by Googling "vulvar pain support". I feel like my case is different than most I read about so I was wondering if anyone else here experiences this in the way that I do.

This started in 2012 and has happened off and on since. I get really, really red and it's very painful, swollen and burns. Sometimes it may be a little itchy, but mostly it just …

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New to the group

Fri Mar 17, 2017 9:52 pm by canuck girl

Hi Everyone
I found the site tonight, and am so pleased I did, I hadn't realised it was such  a problem, and I for one am grateful that the group exists. I recently had a really awful , well the worst one I had ever had UTI, after 4 days of antibiotics it should have cleared though. i now had this awful feeling, and sensations, very sore, burning, some strange sensations I have  that  are hard …

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How do you live with this?

Wed Feb 22, 2017 12:15 am by Persevere1990

Hi everyone,

It's great to see there is a support network here... I was diagnosed a few weeks ago and have started nightly treatment with lidocaine cream one week ago. Not noticing any difference yet.

I notice I get flare ups throughout the day, typically after peeing, showering, walking and when I'm stressed. I'm pretty sure my vulvodynia was caused by nerve damage due to a bad case of thrush …

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Will I ever be able to wear jeans?

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Will I ever be able to wear jeans?

Post  Celticrose on Thu Jun 05, 2014 10:52 pm

As this pain has increased, I now find that I can't wear jeans, trousers or even leggings! I love skirts but this is ridiculous! Does anyone else have the same problem? I could wear leggings last year but there is no way I can tolerate the pain they are now causing. Does this condition get steadily worse? I even find underwear to be uncomfortable of late, and have bought cotton no seams knickers. I just wondered if anyone has found that their condition got worse and if they have been able to return to wearing jeans etc?

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Post  ringostarr26 on Fri Jun 06, 2014 3:14 pm

I will be honest with you. My pain did get worse, and i was constantly wearing long skirts without underwear. But I can say i have periods where I am pain free for months at a time and i can wear thongs, jeans, you name it! I think the best thing is to stay positive and trust me i know how hard that is because I am a huge ball of anxiety. I am currently flaring up and its been a month of a lot of tears, but i know there is a light at the end of the tunnel and there will be more pain free days. You have to find a doctor that is specialized in this type of pain or you will be going in circles for years like many of the women on this site, including myself. I'm not cured by any means and there are MANY days when i feel hopeless but there are also many good days. You will wear jeans again! I wish you well and I hope you start feeling better very soon.

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Post  Celticrose on Sat Jun 07, 2014 11:43 pm

Thank you ringostar, for the encouragement! My symptoms got worse after a procedure to burn the nerves that were impinged by bulging disc in my back. It seems like an unlikely coincidence that the nerves began to fire in the vulva region and I have one particular spot on my outer labia that causes intense pain if irritated by tight clothes or clothes with seams. I often feel an intense sense of 'itchiness' inside and out which the urologist said is the nerves firing off. I have bought loose trousers (baggy around the crutch which seem to be in vogue at moment) and they seem okay at moment but god forbid that I sit for long periods. Today is a bad day/night with IC and Vulvodynia pain at same time. Can't sleep and I have begun to think I should start living in toilet  Crying or Very sad I have no idea what has set this off except stress over final assignments going in to finish postgrad.

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Re: Will I ever be able to wear jeans?

Post  zarli on Sun Jun 08, 2014 10:25 am

I buy harem pants on ebay from india. You can find cool design patterns and I have created my own style !! I have only paid $20 Au at the most extremely affordable. Also a good barrier cream can do wonders. Good luck Smile

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Re: Will I ever be able to wear jeans?

Post  Mark on Wed Jun 11, 2014 12:14 pm

My wife can't wear jeans, trousers, leggings, tights etc without it bringing on an episode of acute v lasting maybe 3 days. If she's not near her period and wearing a suitable style of skirt or dress she avoids underwear and if she wears any it's cotton and washed in organic hypoallergenic soap. When we first got together I was worried she'd get cold legs and a cold bum but she says she got used to it years ago and actually feeling a bit cold down there is a good antidote to the burning feeling that comes from having v.

She says wearing trousers or even tights can cause other problems too, such as cystitis, thrush and I think something else as well. Is this true? If so I can't help thinking it's probably not natural. If you look at films or old TV programmes, newsreels etc before about the 1960s it was pretty much unheard of for women to wear trousers. I get the feeling it's something feminists pushed for. Most of the things they achieved were really good, but maybe not this one.

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Re: Will I ever be able to wear jeans?

Post  Alana3 on Wed Jun 11, 2014 1:09 pm

Oh please most women can get by wearing jeans with no problems.  Unfortunately there are women like us who do have problems and cant get by wearing certain clothes.   Try wearing looser fitting pants and you should be OK.

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Post  Mark on Wed Jun 11, 2014 3:30 pm

Alana3 wrote:Oh please most women can get by wearing jeans with no problems.  Unfortunately there are women like us who do have problems and cant get by wearing certain clothes.   Try wearing looser fitting pants and you should be OK.

I know, but I wonder if that's only because of getting used to them because they're a part of modern life. Here's another example. Did you know that if a baby is not given milk once it is weaned off his or her mother's, then you give it cow's milk as an adult, he or she is 100% guaranteed to be allergic to it, because human beings are naturally lactose intolerant. It's only because we're given milk all through our childhoods that we can stand it. But it is thought a lot of people's allergy problems, breathing difficulties etc could be down to mild lactose reactions.

I'm not saying it's necessarily the case but I wonder whether vulvodynia, cystitis, thrush and maybe some other women's problems could all be related to wearing trousers etc. It was pretty much unheard of until the 1960s. If it had been a good idea, surely people in the Middle Ages, Victorian era, Stone Age and other periods of history would have adopted it.

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Re: Will I ever be able to wear jeans?

Post  Alana3 on Wed Jun 11, 2014 5:58 pm

It was unheard of because women were deemed "hysterical".  Most women would NEVER bring up problems such as sex or vaginas back then (or now!) because it wasn't something that was brought up.  Women were and still are taught that their bodies are something to be ashamed about and not to discuss something so "dirty".  Think about it though really do you talk about your penis to other men?  Probably not.  I don't talk about my vagina to other women either so it took a long time to figure out SOMETHING was wrong.  Actually these diseases started appearing in the 1800's.  The symptoms and this disease were first acknowledged in the 1800s and it was finally classified as a disease in the 1980s.  Women's diseases aren't something that doctors really love to hear about.  Or admit there is something wrong.  I can't tell you how many doctors brushed me off and said "use lube and switch positions".  As if I hadn't thought about that myself. 

I seriously doubt any of this has anything to do with the clothing we wear.  Not every woman wears pants.  And to say something like that is actually placing blame on the woman.  As if you're saying YOU are the cause of your problems.  Which I'm sorry, but I am not.

http://www.savvy-women-magazine.com/Health/vulvodynia.php

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Post  Mark on Wed Jun 11, 2014 7:28 pm

I definitely don't think women are t blame for vulvodynia. Sometimes my wife is literally curled up in a ball with pain. What has she done to deserve that? Absolutely nothing. She has tried everything to get rid of it too, except surgery as they've said it wouldn't work for her.

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Re: Will I ever be able to wear jeans?

Post  Alana3 on Thu Jun 12, 2014 1:48 pm

I wasn't saying you said it directly.  But by saying by changing your clothing so women can wear jeans, pants, whatever is saying to a woman you don't know how to dress appropriately for your vagina indirectly.  Trust me, I know what I can and cannot get away with now.  If something doesn't feel right it doesn't go on.  But I don't need someone saying "oh hey before feminists when you were put in your place..." Sorry but no.  I'm getting rid of my period in 2 weeks so I don't have to use pads (which causes irritation and NO I cannot use tampons) and internal pain.  Back in the 1960's they would have NO idea why I was getting the pain or irritation and quite frankly they would have deemed me a head case.  Sensitive skin, adenomyosis, and endometriosis all play a part in my diagnosis which before was seen as hysteria.   

I wouldn't say how someone dresses is a pre-condition to any disease.  Shitty things just happen.  I was prone to UTI's when I was younger.  That certainly wasn't my fault, but could def have been a factor that played into vulvodynia, because of all the antibiotics.  Thankfully, mine was provoked and hopefully I never get it again.  But my doctor certainly didn't say "because you wear jeans and horseback ride is why you get vulvodynia, please wear a skirt that dates back to Laura Ingalls Wilder." He said something along the lines of, this sucks lets fix it.  Smile

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Post  Penny prickles on Sat Mar 18, 2017 3:48 pm

I used to think that I would never be able to wear jeans again when I was at my worst.  I would only wear skirts, even in the winter I would wear long skirts with boots and alot of times no undies since those would hurt to wear also. I can say after finally finding a medication that worked for me (elival) and a supportive family doctor willing to work with me, I am feeling alot better and now wear pants and even jeans again (those stretchy kind with spandex).   I hope that you find some relief, just keep trying don't give up, I wish you the best, hugs and prayers to you.

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