SEX!! For the first time in 13 months!

My, oh my! After 13 months of celebacy, my boyfriend and I finally managed to have sex over the weekend!

I am SO excited!! We've always done everything else we can (in the bedroom) so have always got by, but nothing beats the real thing, does it?

I've no idea how it was possible either. Sex has been completely off limits (mostly inforced by him!) until I was better, but it just kind of happened this time round.

Usually even with oral sex it can sometimes burn a bit, but never too much, and certainly not to the point where it's unbearable, nowhere near infact, so sex was completely out of the question as it's nothing short of agony. Sometimes I'm near to tears it hurts so much and it's just not worth it.

But amazingly it just seemed to be okay, even without me using the Instillagel which I don't understand at all. I'm sure the symptoms are no better, and I've no doubt it was still hurting somewhat, but I think the adrenaline took over and I didn't feel it. It was utterly fantastic and I'm still on such a high from it!

I am sooooooo happy. I'm a bit nervous that it was just a one off, and that now the excitement of being able to do it will wear thin and that next time I'll just be thinking the whole time "Oo is it going to hurt this time" and thus it will hurt as a result of me thinking and worrying. But even if it was a one off, one in 13 months is nothing to scoff at!

Absolute elation!

That is wonderful news, it truly is. I know how you feel cause I was just able to have sex again also. I had this amazing high afterwards. I was so happy. It kinda happened like yours did, just out of the blue. I used a boat load of lube and I was the one in control. I figured if it started to hurt then we could stop. It did burn a little but not much and there was a very slight slicing pain but nothing major. I was brave enough to try it again this weekend and once again I was able to do it. Its like a miracle huh?

Try not to worry about it hurting the next time. You be the one in control, go slow and explain to your b/f that if it hurts then you will have to stop. You may want to get a syringe/plunger type thingy, the kind you use when your inserting YI cream and put KY in that and insert a bunch of it inside, that may help also.

Im very happy for you and I know that its a big deal. *Cookie jumps up and down, cheers, shoots off fire works*. Good luck next time. hugs

Ahhh, it's all so exciting! Even if it's a one off (which will be annoying) I'm still so pleased to have had one shot at it. You forget how much of it you've missed!

I'll keep my fingers crossed for the both of us, and all you others who are missing it at the minute too!

Hey, I just noticed that your in the UK. My husband is from Coventry England, do you know it? We met on line in a chat room when he was living in England and I was living in the states.

Yeah it's not far from me! It's about a 40 minute drive actually. Did he move over to the States for you? Fairy tale!

yup, he moved over here for me. We fell in love over the internet before we had even seen each other. When he flew over to see me for the first time, we went on a little vacation and he asked me to marry him three days later. Unfortunately he had to fly back to England and stay there for quite a long time. But eventually he was able to move here and we married and have been married now for 12 yrs. Very fairy tale story-ish

Aww, that's lovely! It's so rare to find too, you're so lucky.