Trying to be intimate with my boyfriend!!

Hey ladies! sorry if this is inaproriate or tmi, I just dont know who else to talk to about this. Since I can't have vaginal sex anymore cause it's to painful, I want to try anal sex. I never tried this before but im desperate to be intimate with my boyfriend. I guess my question is; does any one have any tips or concerns about anal sex? Will this mess with my vulvodynia? Again sorry if this is tmi.....

Yea, anal sex feels great, and can be just as satisfying as vaginal. Up until my late 20's, I was completely and utterly against it, thinking, its dirty, and causes cancer, and other health problems, and I could not understand how anyone could derive SEXUAL pleasure from that area, as there are no sexual organs around there, it will feel just like taking a dump!! How sexy is that??
anyway, my boyfriend(who does not have an overly large member) and I tried it, and the first time, it was kind of traumatic, but surprisingly not that painful(I didnt even bleed), and we did it a few more times after that, and I gradually started to really like it, and if you stimulate your clit during and orgasm, its the best ever!! The orgasms are stronger, and it can feel amazing, there are so many nerves around there, and its all connected, and actually it seems to stimulate your other sexual organs aswell, it still feels very sexual, and I was surprised, I never imagined that,, its like a whole new world.

My current Husband rite now, is very well endowed, and actually doesnt like anal, at all (thank God, sort of), and I even miss it, (lol!) he prefers vaginal sex, and so ofcourse, its been really painful and difficult these days, since I have so many issues with my vag, and cant satisfy him, its really frustrating, but some guys LOVE ANAL, and prefer it, hopefully your man will be one of those guys..lol!
But yea, anal is wonderful, really,, its like a dark secret. Just dont do it too much, maybe once or twice a week, or once every few weeks, It can be painful, a ripping tearing pain, he has to ease it in, and you guys have to go slow at first, but after awhile, you can go crazy rough and it feels great )
Another interesting thing about anal is, your body literally gets used to it, so the first few dozen times or so you do it, it takes about a day to recover, the next day, and you may have gas and Leakage, (sorry for the TMI but just being real), and may have to visit the bathroom several times all the next day,and the night of, but after awhile, you dont do that at all, your recovery time is hardly at all after a "session".
Also, be clean. Never under any circumstance, go anywhere near the vag after it has been in your butt, you can get a very bad infection. Be clean, take a shower after EVERYTIME.

another tip:: Missionary anal feels the best, I dont know why this is, but it just feels so sexual and awesome, there are more nerves there or something..plus its hot looking into the eyes of your partner, etc, but you have to ease into it. Do dpggy first than missionary

Thanks Lavrose, I will definetly try out those tips.