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Gabapentin Gel. or other topical creams
Thu May 10, 2018 9:43 am by Rosie21
Hi I have been suffering for some years with this abominable pain. I have tried most of the systemic drugs , I asked specialists and Doctors if I could at least try a topical treatment but because this requires a special prescription have been refused Has anybody had a chance of trying these? Thank you I will try to put a link on to some of the research into Gabapentin Gel. Thanks.
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Putnams 'bony parts' cushion or Putnams 'Dr Huff' cushion - which is best?
Sat Aug 01, 2015 4:17 pm by Fielder
Hi everyone,
I'm a newbie. I live in the UK.
I'm trying to work out the best cushion to get for my vulvodynia. I suspect that I could have pudendal nerve involvement (the aching and burning pain is from vagina to clitoris) and I have rectocele and some tailbone pain too.
I have seen some good reports on older threads regarding the Putnams pressure relief cushions....with some ladies …
I'm a newbie. I live in the UK.
I'm trying to work out the best cushion to get for my vulvodynia. I suspect that I could have pudendal nerve involvement (the aching and burning pain is from vagina to clitoris) and I have rectocele and some tailbone pain too.
I have seen some good reports on older threads regarding the Putnams pressure relief cushions....with some ladies …
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An absolute success story- please read!
Fri Mar 08, 2019 10:57 pm by Persevere1990
Dear All,
I posted on here back in March 2017 having just got a diagnosis of vulvodynia after a few months of relentless and acute pain. I was desperate, I was hurting, I was scared I would never know life without pain there again.
I tried creams, acupuncture, numbing gels, frozen pads, baths with various internet recommended concoctions- convinced myself I had lichen sclerosus, herpes, thrush- …
I posted on here back in March 2017 having just got a diagnosis of vulvodynia after a few months of relentless and acute pain. I was desperate, I was hurting, I was scared I would never know life without pain there again.
I tried creams, acupuncture, numbing gels, frozen pads, baths with various internet recommended concoctions- convinced myself I had lichen sclerosus, herpes, thrush- …
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I'm sorry im rambling
Thu Feb 21, 2019 5:49 am by Jet227
hey, im 19, ive been struggling with this almost a year. The first week I became itchy I went in to check about a yeast infection another week later. I have been to 10 different doctors a total of about 15 appointments for this problem for the past 11 months. I have been tested for everything including having a biopsy. I was first told basically to just go home and use hydrocortazone, then I went …
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New member need advice please
Thu Feb 28, 2019 11:33 pm by PANDORA123
Hello, I have just been diagnosed with unprovoked vulvodynia. Im really scared and worried. It burns a lot and it hurts to sit down. I have been prescribed amitriptyle 10mg. Can anyone give me some hope that I can get better from this condition. Feeling low and depressed.
Thanks
Thanks
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MonaLisa Touch
Fri Feb 08, 2019 7:35 pm by rl2091
Hi All,
I'm wondering if anyone has any experience with the MonaLisa Touch treatment for Vulvodynia? My pain started when I went on HRT(pill) for anxiety mainly and my pain abruntly stopped when I stopped HRT. However, when I started on the HRT patch (at my dr's suggestion), the pain returned and has never left. That was 7 years ago. I found MonaLisa Touch on the internet purely by accident …
I'm wondering if anyone has any experience with the MonaLisa Touch treatment for Vulvodynia? My pain started when I went on HRT(pill) for anxiety mainly and my pain abruntly stopped when I stopped HRT. However, when I started on the HRT patch (at my dr's suggestion), the pain returned and has never left. That was 7 years ago. I found MonaLisa Touch on the internet purely by accident …
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Diagnosed Recently
Tue Jan 08, 2019 3:55 pm by flissyg
Hi All,
I’m so glad I’ve found a place where there are others who understand how I feel!
So this is my story:-
I’m 36, and 4 months ago, whilst innocently sitting in bed reading I experienced a very sharp stabbing pain in my clitoris. It last only a few minutes and then subsided as quickly as it came on. It put it down to “one of those things”. The following morning I woke up …
I’m so glad I’ve found a place where there are others who understand how I feel!
So this is my story:-
I’m 36, and 4 months ago, whilst innocently sitting in bed reading I experienced a very sharp stabbing pain in my clitoris. It last only a few minutes and then subsided as quickly as it came on. It put it down to “one of those things”. The following morning I woke up …
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New and need advice and help
Wed Dec 05, 2018 3:26 pm by Cin124
Hi everyone,
About three months ago, I started having vaginal and vulval itching. Then, about two months ago, my vulva started to feel painful and look swollen, so I went to the doctor. I was tested for herpes, chlamydia, and gonorrhea which all came back negative. I also had to do a vaginal swab test and the only thing that came back positive was yeast infection. I was prescribed hydrozole …
About three months ago, I started having vaginal and vulval itching. Then, about two months ago, my vulva started to feel painful and look swollen, so I went to the doctor. I was tested for herpes, chlamydia, and gonorrhea which all came back negative. I also had to do a vaginal swab test and the only thing that came back positive was yeast infection. I was prescribed hydrozole …
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New here would very much appreciate advice at the end of my rope
Wed Jan 09, 2019 9:09 pm by Jma990o
This might be a little long but it's been such a long time I've even been able to talk about my problems openly thank you in advance for any helpful advice.
So ok I'm 24 I've been having this problem for over two years seen quite a few doctors and obgyns alike and nobody will take me seriously I have had a few utis and yeast infections and even bv once and this all started after one of the utis …
So ok I'm 24 I've been having this problem for over two years seen quite a few doctors and obgyns alike and nobody will take me seriously I have had a few utis and yeast infections and even bv once and this all started after one of the utis …
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Feeling suicidal and at an all time low
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Feeling suicidal and at an all time low
Hi,
I reaching out for a bit of help really, i'm 27 soon to be 28 and have been aware that I have Vulvodynia since i was 15/16.
Currently im taking 30mg (about to go up to 40mg) of Nortripline which is making me feel like a zombie. I was previously taking Citalopram 40mg for Depression and Anxiety which I have weened off of and replaced slowly with the Nortripline to treat the V.
My syptoms are around the opening to my vagina and are an intense pain on touch. Cant use tampons, have intercourse etc.
I was given the dialators, but found them useless really. Can use the biggest no problem with the lidocaine, but the lidocaine only lasts about 5 mins and then I really suffer for having used the dialator. My Dr has recommended deep tissue massage every day to the area with lindocaine, again really hurts after and tackling the problem seems to bring all the emotional stuff to the fore.
I'm married. Got married last July. I havent had sex or any sexual intimacy at all for 3 yrs+. I have no one I can talk to about this except my husband, who is fantastic, but just not enough.
I'd love to be able to have someone to talk to, but admitting im in a complettly sexless marraige would be to hard i think. I wouldnt want anyone to judge, me, my husband or our relationship on this, because with the exception on the lack of any sort of sex, we have a fantastic realtionship.
I feel lonely, isolated, bitter and above all in pain today. I'm having a "Bad day for sitting down". I really dont think i can go on this way for much longer. Im regulary thinking about suicide.
Have others been low like this?
I reaching out for a bit of help really, i'm 27 soon to be 28 and have been aware that I have Vulvodynia since i was 15/16.
Currently im taking 30mg (about to go up to 40mg) of Nortripline which is making me feel like a zombie. I was previously taking Citalopram 40mg for Depression and Anxiety which I have weened off of and replaced slowly with the Nortripline to treat the V.
My syptoms are around the opening to my vagina and are an intense pain on touch. Cant use tampons, have intercourse etc.
I was given the dialators, but found them useless really. Can use the biggest no problem with the lidocaine, but the lidocaine only lasts about 5 mins and then I really suffer for having used the dialator. My Dr has recommended deep tissue massage every day to the area with lindocaine, again really hurts after and tackling the problem seems to bring all the emotional stuff to the fore.
I'm married. Got married last July. I havent had sex or any sexual intimacy at all for 3 yrs+. I have no one I can talk to about this except my husband, who is fantastic, but just not enough.
I'd love to be able to have someone to talk to, but admitting im in a complettly sexless marraige would be to hard i think. I wouldnt want anyone to judge, me, my husband or our relationship on this, because with the exception on the lack of any sort of sex, we have a fantastic realtionship.
I feel lonely, isolated, bitter and above all in pain today. I'm having a "Bad day for sitting down". I really dont think i can go on this way for much longer. Im regulary thinking about suicide.
Have others been low like this?
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Re: Feeling suicidal and at an all time low
Hi and welcome. I doubt I'm the only one who will come forward and admit suicide has crossed my mind regularly since the V began. It's an all consuming pain that ruins lives and relationships and I already had a very restricting condition but this pain bothers me far more for some reason. Perhaps it's because it's in an area we can't openly discuss with anyone or maybe it's because it makes us feel less like women but it really is life changing and not in a good way. I don't think I'll have managed to cheer you up at all there but at least you know you have others who feel the same pain, physical and emotional, that you do.
I have to say though it might be an idea for you to try more physio at a slower rate, the dilators need to be worked on slowly to gradually and gently stretch the muscles and an internal massage for sore areas and tight muscles shouldn't be done so it makes matters alot worse it should be done gradually too. That's not to say it won't hurt a bit but you have to take it easy on such a sensitive area especially as it's painful already.
You could switch your meds to anti-convulsants instead if the anti-depressants aren't helping, I take 50mg of Amitryptiline and 450mg of Lyrica daily and have to say my system is now used to it and I rarely feel spaced out or dizzy. I don't get total relief at those dosages but it helps the diffuse burning I feel externally. I'm also doing the physio route but it's taking me a very long time because I have a very unstable pelvis to stabilise before I can have the pelvic floor released but I definitely have sore tight muscles and an incredibly high resting tone. It would probably be a good idea for you to see a Women's Health Physio so they can take a look, asess your posture and alignment and show you how to gently help yourself at home in between appointments, it's not easy to flounder around in the dark with dilators and tight muscles and does help to know what to do with them. If you don't want to or can't see anybody I'd recommend 3 books, Heal Pelvic Pain, Ending Female Pain and When Sex Hurts. The last one is brilliant for running through all causes of V and the treatment plans for all of them.
Try to be glad you have a wonderful supportive husband and keep communicating is the best advice I can give, I lost my 13 year relationship because of my health issues and V was the final nail in the coffin for us so be happy about your great husband. I found talking to a couple of friends actually found me someone who has suffered from V and recovered which I didn't know until I told her about my lady bits problem, there are women out there who recover but just don't post online about it because they're busy getting on with their lives and finding out the cause is a good place to start which is where that book will help. Don't give up, there's still lots of things you haven't tried as far as I can see and my motto is as long as I keep trying things I've got a shot at beating this but if I don't try anything I know I won't recover so brace yourself and get busy learning. We're all here to talk to, it's a lovely relaxed friendly forum and I hope you find some interesting threads to read.
I have to say though it might be an idea for you to try more physio at a slower rate, the dilators need to be worked on slowly to gradually and gently stretch the muscles and an internal massage for sore areas and tight muscles shouldn't be done so it makes matters alot worse it should be done gradually too. That's not to say it won't hurt a bit but you have to take it easy on such a sensitive area especially as it's painful already.
You could switch your meds to anti-convulsants instead if the anti-depressants aren't helping, I take 50mg of Amitryptiline and 450mg of Lyrica daily and have to say my system is now used to it and I rarely feel spaced out or dizzy. I don't get total relief at those dosages but it helps the diffuse burning I feel externally. I'm also doing the physio route but it's taking me a very long time because I have a very unstable pelvis to stabilise before I can have the pelvic floor released but I definitely have sore tight muscles and an incredibly high resting tone. It would probably be a good idea for you to see a Women's Health Physio so they can take a look, asess your posture and alignment and show you how to gently help yourself at home in between appointments, it's not easy to flounder around in the dark with dilators and tight muscles and does help to know what to do with them. If you don't want to or can't see anybody I'd recommend 3 books, Heal Pelvic Pain, Ending Female Pain and When Sex Hurts. The last one is brilliant for running through all causes of V and the treatment plans for all of them.
Try to be glad you have a wonderful supportive husband and keep communicating is the best advice I can give, I lost my 13 year relationship because of my health issues and V was the final nail in the coffin for us so be happy about your great husband. I found talking to a couple of friends actually found me someone who has suffered from V and recovered which I didn't know until I told her about my lady bits problem, there are women out there who recover but just don't post online about it because they're busy getting on with their lives and finding out the cause is a good place to start which is where that book will help. Don't give up, there's still lots of things you haven't tried as far as I can see and my motto is as long as I keep trying things I've got a shot at beating this but if I don't try anything I know I won't recover so brace yourself and get busy learning. We're all here to talk to, it's a lovely relaxed friendly forum and I hope you find some interesting threads to read.
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Thank you
Hi, i'm short of time today (got a 4 tier wedding cake to create) and will reply properly shortly. But just wanted to say thanks so much for reading and taking the time to reply. Really helped.
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