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Constant pain, I want to die.

Fri Jun 02, 2017 4:29 am by Meggiemay

I posted on here a few years ago but my symptoms went away with the inflammation. I didn't get so lucky this time.

For over three months, i've had terrible rawness, burning, soreness in the urethral/vestibule area and pressure/hypersensitivity in the clitoral area. I've also had some lower abdominal pressure and burning on my butt. I can barely walk! My gyno hasn't been much help. I'm on …

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Clitoris Issues

Tue Apr 28, 2015 8:17 pm by January

I am going crazyyy trying to figure out what's wrong. Please does anyone else have an issue similar to mine? I'm only 22. So, basically when my clit is lightly rubbed, there is no feeling. However, when rubbed vigorously and directly, the burning and tingling sensations shoot down my legs and feet as if coming to the end of an orgasm but with no good feeling leading up. It's so strange. What …

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New member

Sat Mar 18, 2017 7:37 pm by Lisa1627

Hi ladies. I am new to the forum. I have had what I think is vulvodynia caused from hsv 2. So not only do I have the burning vag but the constant feeling of being contagious. I can honestly say that I hate my life and myself right now. There are days when I think I would rather be dead. I tried the amitryptline and it helped but if it's only making my brain think I don't have pain then it's …

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Post Full Vestibulectomy - 5 Years Later - Please Read

Tue May 02, 2017 6:18 pm by jen007

Hi All,

It's been awhile since I've written a new topic on the forum. Wondering if any of the same ladies are still here. I've come back to update you all on my post vestibulectomy results. I can't remember if I've done an update on my current state, so forgive me if this is repeated information... I can't remember how to view my old posts! Anyway, let me get on with my update.

For 4 years post …

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Recovered from Vulvodynia

Thu May 04, 2017 9:42 pm by chancesunny

Hey everyone,

Im a new member on this forum and wanted to share my story so I can help anyone who is feeling helpless. Maybe what worked for me can work for you. I'll try to make this short so you can go get better!

I had vulvodynia for about 3-4 years. In the beginning, it started with pain that I thought was just a yeast infection and then I thought it was a urinary tract infection or …

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New here, my story and looking for advice

Wed Apr 26, 2017 9:02 am by rachiecakes

Hi All!

I was really hoping to get some feedback from everyone here - it's very hard dealing with an issue like this because no one really understands what I'm going through!

Im 28 years old I've had interstitial cystitis for 3 years - but never an vaginal issues. About 6 months ago I got a yeast infection following a course of antibiotics - similarly I developed IC after a bad UTI. The itching …

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New w/ Secondary Provoked Vestibuldynia

Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:46 pm by Birdy

Hi everyone,

I'm here because I'm pretty sure I have secondary provoked vestibuldynia, even though my gyno is still "optimistic" it is not.  My problem started six months ago when I got my second UTI in as many months (after going 25 years of life without one) and then ended up with a bad yeast infection (also my first one ever) thanks to the antibiotics.  Ever since the yeast …

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Male visitor

Wed Jan 18, 2017 11:19 pm by outsider

Hello!

I am a 25 year old guy who has erectile dysfunction following an injury a few years ago. I am here because I think that men and women with sexual dysfunction could benefit from dating each other. My experience has been that women have lost interest when they found out that penetrative sex was not possible with me.
So I am interested in learning more about female sexual disorders. Do young …

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New Here: Question/My Story

Mon Apr 03, 2017 2:00 am by overit14

Hi everyone. I came across this site by Googling "vulvar pain support". I feel like my case is different than most I read about so I was wondering if anyone else here experiences this in the way that I do.

This started in 2012 and has happened off and on since. I get really, really red and it's very painful, swollen and burns. Sometimes it may be a little itchy, but mostly it just …

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Relief !!!! Finally - I can help you

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Post  Ar77070 on Fri Sep 27, 2013 6:36 pm

I'm 19 years old and have gone through hell for the last year and a half. It started last summer with a urinary tract infection, and the doctors also noticed a dangerously high count of protein in my urine. A few weeks later I got yet another UTI and took antibiotics to treat it again. Then in September I had a mirena put in which is a form of birth control that blocks semen from going to your Fallopian tubes and traveling to your ovaries. This caused many problems for me: decreased sex drive, terrible mood swings, painful sex, etc so I had it removed a few months later. Prior to having it removed, I had yet another urinary tract infection. I started to get really worried that I had kidney problems but every doctor I went to told me everything looked fine. Then in march I had my most recent urinary tract infection which was so severe I had to go to an emergency room at 1 am and they said I had so many things including blood and minerals in my urine that I probably had a kidney problem. My protein count in my urine was also high still, and at this point I was experiencing the burning of vulvodynia every day, which began around the time I had my mirena put in. After blood work and more doctors they still couldn't tell me what was going on. At this point I had stopped having sex all together because the pain was so unbearable. I had so much trauma occurring to my poor lady areas that I could find no relief. I also had switched to the pill for birth control so I was taking hormones again. For the past four years I also was prescribed minocycline for acne which I took daily and only now realize how damaging that was to my immune system and body. So fast forward a few months and I have no more UTIS but still consistent vulvodynia burning and pain. I was suggested anti depressants but I knew that was a path I didn't want to go down. So here's where my story can help you. I decided that all the chemicals (antibiotics for years, hormones) were actually hurting and destroying my immune system, throwing off my pH balance, and causing hell for my sex life.

My holistic approach that I carefully compiled together from various websites that has finally given me seven days and counting of complete pain free living is as follows:

1) go without sex for two months. Your nerves are sensitive and damaged, they need to recover in peace
2) stretching!! I belief this had this biggest help by far. Stretch everyday!!!!!Regular work out stretches , especially that work your upper legs, glutes, and abdominal area help strengthen your muscles which most likely are weakened and having spasms your are unaware of that cause pain
3) eat a decently healthy diet, love your body!! It will do wonderful things and help regenerate and heal
4) when you feel the burning , tighten your vaginal muscles and release , repeat many times.. It ended up actually reducing burning quickly for me
5) extremely hot baths with oatmeal powder or baking soda give relief for flare ups
6) completely stopping all medication (birth control , anti depressants , antibiotics)
7) buy cotton tampons - available at heb in organic section
Cool sleep without underwear- this tremendously reduced my burning at night
9) once a month put baking soda suppositories up your vagina before bed for pH balance
10) avoid anything bumping against or hitting vaginal nerves
11) on weekend nights when I was drinking a few beers I noticed the pain was less intensified -- do not recommend relying on alcohol to ease pain
12) do this simple routine for atleast three months and I hope you can experience relief like I have. I have suffered and now your pain, I hope to help as many of you out as I can. Please try this holistic approach before further damaging your bodies with more medicine and treatments.

Stay strong, in time your body will heal itself if you let it!












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Re: Relief !!!! Finally - I can help you

Post  tinkerbelle2 on Thu Oct 03, 2013 1:24 pm


Are you still pain-free? I will definitely try out the things you mentioned such as the baking soda and oatmeal baths.
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Re: Relief !!!! Finally - I can help you

Post  Takver on Wed Oct 09, 2013 7:59 am

I'm so glad you found things that work for you. I'm taking notes of the ones I hadn't heard of. I'd never have thought of the technique for tightening and releasing muscles during a pain flare, for instance.

I wouldn't recommend tampons! Washable cloth menstrual pads are the way to go. You don't mention contraception: what are you using? I have a copper IUD. They're wonderful things, 99.6% effective and no hormones at all, but if you have heavy/painful periods they usually make them a bit worse, so they're not for everyone. Although an Omega 3 supplement really helped reduce the heavier periods for me.

Also please don't give out blanket suggestions to strangers to go off their medication. They probably need it, and you have no idea what other medical conditions they have.
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Re: Relief !!!! Finally - I can help you

Post  mary jane on Thu Oct 10, 2013 10:12 pm

go without sex for two months. Your nerves are sensitive and damaged, they need to recover in peace
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And do you have less painful intercourse afterwards if you respect this rule ?
I'd wait 6 months for them to heal, anything !
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Re: Relief !!!! Finally - I can help you

Post  Alana3 on Fri Oct 11, 2013 2:54 pm

Haha or you could just get surgery and be cured. I cannot get off birth control that's bad advice and not the reason I got vulvodynia. And for a lot of women tightening vagina muscles is a horrible idea. I'm glad it worked for you but don't say you can fix everyone half the stuff you listed I wad told never to try...

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Post  mary jane on Fri Oct 11, 2013 3:02 pm

@ alana 3,
surgery does work but not always, it might leave you with even more nerve damage.
Alas, it depends on the doctor you have
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Post  Alana3 on Fri Oct 11, 2013 3:28 pm

My point was just because going off all thqt stuff helped her my surgery helped me. Everyone's different I'm cured but I cant do half that stuff and recommendations of going off medication is maddening because I can't.

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