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Gabapentin Gel. or other topical creams
Thu May 10, 2018 9:43 am by Rosie21
Hi I have been suffering for some years with this abominable pain. I have tried most of the systemic drugs , I asked specialists and Doctors if I could at least try a topical treatment but because this requires a special prescription have been refused Has anybody had a chance of trying these? Thank you I will try to put a link on to some of the research into Gabapentin Gel. Thanks.
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Putnams 'bony parts' cushion or Putnams 'Dr Huff' cushion - which is best?
Sat Aug 01, 2015 4:17 pm by Fielder
Hi everyone,
I'm a newbie. I live in the UK.
I'm trying to work out the best cushion to get for my vulvodynia. I suspect that I could have pudendal nerve involvement (the aching and burning pain is from vagina to clitoris) and I have rectocele and some tailbone pain too.
I have seen some good reports on older threads regarding the Putnams pressure relief cushions....with some ladies …
I'm a newbie. I live in the UK.
I'm trying to work out the best cushion to get for my vulvodynia. I suspect that I could have pudendal nerve involvement (the aching and burning pain is from vagina to clitoris) and I have rectocele and some tailbone pain too.
I have seen some good reports on older threads regarding the Putnams pressure relief cushions....with some ladies …
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An absolute success story- please read!
Fri Mar 08, 2019 10:57 pm by Persevere1990
Dear All,
I posted on here back in March 2017 having just got a diagnosis of vulvodynia after a few months of relentless and acute pain. I was desperate, I was hurting, I was scared I would never know life without pain there again.
I tried creams, acupuncture, numbing gels, frozen pads, baths with various internet recommended concoctions- convinced myself I had lichen sclerosus, herpes, thrush- …
I posted on here back in March 2017 having just got a diagnosis of vulvodynia after a few months of relentless and acute pain. I was desperate, I was hurting, I was scared I would never know life without pain there again.
I tried creams, acupuncture, numbing gels, frozen pads, baths with various internet recommended concoctions- convinced myself I had lichen sclerosus, herpes, thrush- …
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I'm sorry im rambling
Thu Feb 21, 2019 5:49 am by Jet227
hey, im 19, ive been struggling with this almost a year. The first week I became itchy I went in to check about a yeast infection another week later. I have been to 10 different doctors a total of about 15 appointments for this problem for the past 11 months. I have been tested for everything including having a biopsy. I was first told basically to just go home and use hydrocortazone, then I went …
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New member need advice please
Thu Feb 28, 2019 11:33 pm by PANDORA123
Hello, I have just been diagnosed with unprovoked vulvodynia. Im really scared and worried. It burns a lot and it hurts to sit down. I have been prescribed amitriptyle 10mg. Can anyone give me some hope that I can get better from this condition. Feeling low and depressed.
Thanks
Thanks
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MonaLisa Touch
Fri Feb 08, 2019 7:35 pm by rl2091
Hi All,
I'm wondering if anyone has any experience with the MonaLisa Touch treatment for Vulvodynia? My pain started when I went on HRT(pill) for anxiety mainly and my pain abruntly stopped when I stopped HRT. However, when I started on the HRT patch (at my dr's suggestion), the pain returned and has never left. That was 7 years ago. I found MonaLisa Touch on the internet purely by accident …
I'm wondering if anyone has any experience with the MonaLisa Touch treatment for Vulvodynia? My pain started when I went on HRT(pill) for anxiety mainly and my pain abruntly stopped when I stopped HRT. However, when I started on the HRT patch (at my dr's suggestion), the pain returned and has never left. That was 7 years ago. I found MonaLisa Touch on the internet purely by accident …
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Diagnosed Recently
Tue Jan 08, 2019 3:55 pm by flissyg
Hi All,
I’m so glad I’ve found a place where there are others who understand how I feel!
So this is my story:-
I’m 36, and 4 months ago, whilst innocently sitting in bed reading I experienced a very sharp stabbing pain in my clitoris. It last only a few minutes and then subsided as quickly as it came on. It put it down to “one of those things”. The following morning I woke up …
I’m so glad I’ve found a place where there are others who understand how I feel!
So this is my story:-
I’m 36, and 4 months ago, whilst innocently sitting in bed reading I experienced a very sharp stabbing pain in my clitoris. It last only a few minutes and then subsided as quickly as it came on. It put it down to “one of those things”. The following morning I woke up …
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New and need advice and help
Wed Dec 05, 2018 3:26 pm by Cin124
Hi everyone,
About three months ago, I started having vaginal and vulval itching. Then, about two months ago, my vulva started to feel painful and look swollen, so I went to the doctor. I was tested for herpes, chlamydia, and gonorrhea which all came back negative. I also had to do a vaginal swab test and the only thing that came back positive was yeast infection. I was prescribed hydrozole …
About three months ago, I started having vaginal and vulval itching. Then, about two months ago, my vulva started to feel painful and look swollen, so I went to the doctor. I was tested for herpes, chlamydia, and gonorrhea which all came back negative. I also had to do a vaginal swab test and the only thing that came back positive was yeast infection. I was prescribed hydrozole …
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New here would very much appreciate advice at the end of my rope
Wed Jan 09, 2019 9:09 pm by Jma990o
This might be a little long but it's been such a long time I've even been able to talk about my problems openly thank you in advance for any helpful advice.
So ok I'm 24 I've been having this problem for over two years seen quite a few doctors and obgyns alike and nobody will take me seriously I have had a few utis and yeast infections and even bv once and this all started after one of the utis …
So ok I'm 24 I've been having this problem for over two years seen quite a few doctors and obgyns alike and nobody will take me seriously I have had a few utis and yeast infections and even bv once and this all started after one of the utis …
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SO SICK OF IT ALL
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SO SICK OF IT ALL
Today I am in pieces, I keep having to fight off the tears. My first wedding anniversary is coming up and although I can now have sex without pain. It won’t be the same.
I think maybe I am just having one of those “feel sorry for myself” days but I am starting to notice when ever anyone complains about something “normal” eg a stomach bug, cold, sore toe, whatever…I feel like shouting in their face “at least you know that will go away, I don’t know If I will be stuck with this pain for the rest of my life” but I have to keep it secret, because they wouldn’t understand anyway.
I just feel like a huge bomb has been set off in my perfect life. I was so blissfully happy perfectly healthy just got a new job, just got married and then BANG someone decided to make me hurt, in the worst possible place.
I know it’s just because I am having a bad pain day but I am sick of the rollercoaster of “it’s not so bad – it could be much much worse” and “why has this happened to me, I don’t want my life to be like this, my relationship will go down the pan etc etc”
I just want to get off.
I feel like I am perhaps, wasting my time with doctors and treatments as I do not know anyone that has gained full relief from any treatment. The doctors don’t know enough and keep trying things but we all get caught up in the pain in the middle of it all. I actually feel like a lab rat sometimes.
Sorry to put a dampener on everyone’s day but I am hoping someone will have encouraging words for me today… I really need people that understand and don’t just pretend to. How do I get out of this frame of mind.? I am trying to fight the negative feelings today but just want to cry and give up and sleep. I am so tired of it all.
Claire
I think maybe I am just having one of those “feel sorry for myself” days but I am starting to notice when ever anyone complains about something “normal” eg a stomach bug, cold, sore toe, whatever…I feel like shouting in their face “at least you know that will go away, I don’t know If I will be stuck with this pain for the rest of my life” but I have to keep it secret, because they wouldn’t understand anyway.
I just feel like a huge bomb has been set off in my perfect life. I was so blissfully happy perfectly healthy just got a new job, just got married and then BANG someone decided to make me hurt, in the worst possible place.
I know it’s just because I am having a bad pain day but I am sick of the rollercoaster of “it’s not so bad – it could be much much worse” and “why has this happened to me, I don’t want my life to be like this, my relationship will go down the pan etc etc”
I just want to get off.
I feel like I am perhaps, wasting my time with doctors and treatments as I do not know anyone that has gained full relief from any treatment. The doctors don’t know enough and keep trying things but we all get caught up in the pain in the middle of it all. I actually feel like a lab rat sometimes.
Sorry to put a dampener on everyone’s day but I am hoping someone will have encouraging words for me today… I really need people that understand and don’t just pretend to. How do I get out of this frame of mind.? I am trying to fight the negative feelings today but just want to cry and give up and sleep. I am so tired of it all.
Claire
Aussie- Posts : 230
Join date : 2011-03-15
Age : 35
Location : Queensland, Australia
Re: SO SICK OF IT ALL
Firstly *Hugz*
This is exactly how we get on a bad pain day, it is as if the pain penetrates into every part of the mind and every part of your life.
Sometimes If im having a bad day I just think "stuff it, i'll have a bad day" in other words I dont fight the feelings with endless positive thoughts I just have a good cry, wrap myself up in a blanket and curl up. Easier done if you dont have anything to do that day or any work but if you can do it then do it! Put on a dvd or listen to music and just rest!
Also if you do have to go out today try and focus on what is going on around you, to distract from what is going on within you. Notice the flowers, the people, focus on a converstaion etc have something wonderful to eat and drink and take one moment at a time.
Also what do you mean that you can have sex without pain but it wont be the same? Is it that you feel you have lost the sexual part of you? that it is always going to be shadowed by the thought "but what if it hurts today?"
You can work on getting your sexuality back but it will take some time. We are here for you every step of the way hun. Im off to work now but will check in when I get home
Thank you
Thank you Sebby, for your kind words, you made me smile.
I had to work today which meant I couldn't curl up in bed as much as I wanted to. I don't have bad days on weekends because although it's still there. I don't have to sit down....so I don't
Really nice words and advice here, just reading through your message again. I think I will print it off to remind myself I am not the only one who has poo days.
You hit the nail on the head with the sex part. It won't be the same as this time last year because of everything we have been through this year. I just got angry that this had to happen and disrupt my perfect little blissfull bubble of a life where everything was wonderful. I have had a bad year in all though, lost two grandparents and a friend in the space of a few months. Ontop of the v. Sitting on that plane back to England for my Grandpa's funeral was a nightmare - at least I got to see him before he died though some people are not so lucky.
With the sex the anticipation of pain ruins it really and the fact I have to concentrate so hard on relaxing sometimes takes the enjoyment out of it, other times it's like I don't even have v and it's great. I am happy that I can finally do it now though at least for relationships sake if not my own pleasure (lol)
Poor Hubby, the countless tears he has had to put up with this year. I don't think he signed up for this, I was fine untill I got a yeast infection 2 months after we got married.
Meh, I guess people have it worse than me.
Claire
I had to work today which meant I couldn't curl up in bed as much as I wanted to. I don't have bad days on weekends because although it's still there. I don't have to sit down....so I don't
Really nice words and advice here, just reading through your message again. I think I will print it off to remind myself I am not the only one who has poo days.
You hit the nail on the head with the sex part. It won't be the same as this time last year because of everything we have been through this year. I just got angry that this had to happen and disrupt my perfect little blissfull bubble of a life where everything was wonderful. I have had a bad year in all though, lost two grandparents and a friend in the space of a few months. Ontop of the v. Sitting on that plane back to England for my Grandpa's funeral was a nightmare - at least I got to see him before he died though some people are not so lucky.
With the sex the anticipation of pain ruins it really and the fact I have to concentrate so hard on relaxing sometimes takes the enjoyment out of it, other times it's like I don't even have v and it's great. I am happy that I can finally do it now though at least for relationships sake if not my own pleasure (lol)
Poor Hubby, the countless tears he has had to put up with this year. I don't think he signed up for this, I was fine untill I got a yeast infection 2 months after we got married.
Meh, I guess people have it worse than me.
Claire
Aussie- Posts : 230
Join date : 2011-03-15
Age : 35
Location : Queensland, Australia
Re: SO SICK OF IT ALL
Bless you Claire, we all have days like that so don't feel bad for letting off some steam. And don't think you're not going to get better either, remember Isa Herrera said it's all part of the battle to believe you will recover and be positive. Also there are people who get complete relief and as you've come so far and can now have painfree sex most of the time I see no reason why you couldn't achieve that all the time. It's a temporary glitch in your marriage and what you should be celebrating is how well you've chosen and the fact your husband has stood by you through it and your marriage has to have reached a much deeper level than the physical for that to happen. We change over the years and good relationships are about so much more than just sex and you are one of the lucky ones to have found a partner who stands by you through thick and thin. So celebrate that and keep going with your treatment, soon enough you'll find relaxing that pesky pelvic floor is second nature! Practice makes permanent!
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Join date : 2010-06-11
Age : 50
Location : UK
Thanks Sarah
I emailed you but you didn't reply, hope everything is ok with you. Doing much better today. Thank you for making me feel positive about my relationship he isn't half bad really. I am just wondering if it is relaxing I need because when I do my stretches it burns/stings. I have only actually started feeling almost pain free since I STOPPED stretching so much. It seems that the skin gets irritated when I stretch it. I was wondering why I was not making so much progress untill I stopped doing it as often. On the days I do do it I have more pain than on the days I don't. wierd.
Thanks again for support x
Thanks again for support x
Aussie- Posts : 230
Join date : 2011-03-15
Age : 35
Location : Queensland, Australia
Re: SO SICK OF IT ALL
Hey Aussie,
Dont fret, we have all been there. I get into my moods/low points at really bad pain days. And Sebby is right, the pain infiltrates all aspects of your mind and just takes over!
Hang in there, we care about you on here. So be good to yourself!
Love,
Noni
Dont fret, we have all been there. I get into my moods/low points at really bad pain days. And Sebby is right, the pain infiltrates all aspects of your mind and just takes over!
Hang in there, we care about you on here. So be good to yourself!
Love,
Noni
noni- Posts : 242
Join date : 2011-01-10
Age : 36
Location : Ontario
Re: SO SICK OF IT ALL
I've just rechecked and I haven't got an email from you Claire or I'd definitely have answered it, the last one I've got in my inbox is from March 24th. Are you sure it sent ok?
Sarah001- Posts : 1164
Join date : 2010-06-11
Age : 50
Location : UK
Re: SO SICK OF IT ALL
yeah it sent fine. Oh well we will start again. I will email you with updates of my physio next Thursday x
Aussie- Posts : 230
Join date : 2011-03-15
Age : 35
Location : Queensland, Australia
Re: SO SICK OF IT ALL
Look forward to it, hopefully the email will reach me this time!
Sarah001- Posts : 1164
Join date : 2010-06-11
Age : 50
Location : UK
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